You planned the trip. Packed the bags. Hoped for rest.But somehow, you’re still managing tantrums, tracking snacks, and wondering why your partner is chilling while you're losing it in the hotel bathroom.Sound familiar?In this episode, I’m breaking down why so many family vacations leave one parent drained (usually you), and how to shift the dynamic before, during, and after the trip — so both of you get a break, feel seen, and actually enjoy your time away.We’ll talk about:The pre-vacation convo every couple needs (and why it’s not about the itinerary)Real-life rhythms that help you tag-team instead of keeping scorePhrases to use when things get tense — so you reset instead of explodeHow to stop feeling like the vacation manager and start feeling like a team againBecause vacation should be a break for both of you.Let’s make it happen.💬 Want to go deeper? Learn more about Relationship Blueprint Mapping — my private session for couples ready to ditch autopilot and build a rhythm that actually works.Catch the blog post (with the questions you need to be asking before your trip) here: www.postpartumtogether.com/blog/why-your-vacation-feels-like-more-work-and-how-to-fix-it-as-a-team

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