017- How to Let Them Be Who They Want to Be

Send us a textWhen you’re so used to overexplaining, overgiving, and overextending yourself — choosing silence can feel impossible. But what if silence is where your real power begins?In this episode, Najwa explores what it means to stop trying to change people, to stop rescuing them from who they’ve chosen to be, and to finally let your peace speak louder than your pain.Through powerful storytelling, gentle truth, and poetic reflection, Najwa helps you understand:Why you struggle to accept the truth about othersHow overexplaining becomes a form of self-betrayalWhy fawning and people-pleasing are trauma responsesThe difference between compassion and self-abandonmentHow to stand in quiet integrity and let others face their own consequencesIf you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive,” or if you’ve loved people who constantly hurt you, this episode will remind you: You never have to explain to someone what they already know they did.Timestamps00:00 — When you stop overexerting yourself and choose silence 01:28 — Letting go of control and seeing people for who they really are 04:26 — Why we excuse others’ hurtful behavior 05:31 — The guilt and consequences of setting boundaries 07:51 — Recognizing intentional harm and emotional maturity 10:23 — On jealousy, comparison, and emotional growth 15:53 — “Great minds think alike, but fools seldom differ” — the company you keep 20:49 — When helping turns into self-sacrifice 26:02 — Healthy vs. unhealthy responses to mistreatment 30:13 — Stop trying to change people; let them reveal themselves 31:18 — The scorpion and the frog: understanding character 35:02 — Staying kind without betraying yourself 36:11 — “Let Them F*** Around and Find Out” — strength in self-respect 40:34 — Integrity, boundaries, and the quiet storm of peace 41:41 — Final reflections: let them be who they are, and protect who you are

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