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Brooke and Jeffrey

Am I The Jerk? Save The Announcement

25 Jun 2026

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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?

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126.341 - 128.944 Albert Breer

That is not the look of an innocent man.

Chapter 2: What situation is causing conflict for the bride-to-be?

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Have you gotten any positive feedback from people in your life that have gotten a non-invite to your wedding? So, like, I haven't... seen any of that yet. I'm hoping that they're going to be like, oh, this is amazing. They're saving me having to spend all this money on their wedding. So how do you feel about the people that get your non invite and then don't send you a gift?

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How do you feel about that? Okay, so if they don't want to buy me gifts, that's fine. If they want to, they can. I strongly encourage them to do that if they want to and support us in spirit, but it's totally up to them. But if it was me, I would 100% be sending gifts. So is it okay if they send you a spirit gift?

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If they're only going to be there in spirit, maybe they could send you a new car in spirit. I see. That's the equal balance of it. It's not tangible, but it's an idea. Yes. And that's my gift to you is the thought of sending you something nice. I know you guys are joking, but honestly, it sounds tacky if you don't give a gift, right?

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Honestly, my first reaction was I cringed at this, but then the more I think about it, I do get graduation invites to cousins of cousins of cousins that I've never met in my life, and they're just asking for stuff.

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519.46 - 520.141 Albert Breer

Totally.

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It's the same with baby showers. You know the underlying thing is you're just giving somebody stuff. And how do you even know that's going to be a good baby in there? It might be a bad kid. I don't want to give a gift to a bad kid. That's true. And if you're just tuning in, what the non-invite means is basically an announcement saying, we're getting married in a private ceremony.

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You can't come, but go to our website and check out our registry and follow along. And pictures. It's like, we want you to know we're getting married and we're celebrating. Unfortunately, we can't afford to have everybody. It's a new trend, apparently, that's happening on Instagram. And Ashley tried it. It's backfired for her. But anyway, I mean, so you know how this works, Ashley.

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You're asking us to ask our listeners, are you the jerk? So text in 78592, jerk or no jerk, about Ashley's private wedding non-invitations that she already sent out. Is she the jerk? Text it in. We're going to find out the answer when we continue Am I the Jerk? Right after this.

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We're in the middle of doing Am I the Jerk, where one of our listeners, Ashley, was on and told us that she's getting married in a few months here. She had to send out invites to her wedding, but also non-invites to the friends and family members who didn't make her top 20 cut since they're trying to rein in the costs.

Chapter 3: How does the bride justify sending out non-invites?

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Wow, she really took it into account. 28 on two hands. That should be rewarded. We do have someone else who called in with their own wedding situation that they wanted us to weigh in on. His name is Leo. So we have a little extra time here. Leo, welcome to the show. Hey, thanks for having me. We really want to talk to you. He got a non-invite. What's going on?

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You had some sort of wedding situation come up with you? Yeah, so I got an invite to a wedding, and it was a couple months ago. A bride's just a co-worker of mine. They had a nice event. You know, they did dinner buffet style, which is fine, which is cool. There were 18 tables. I'm at table 17. And, of course, table 16 goes, and then they ran out of food. Oh, no.

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They ran out of food before the last two tables went up? They ran out of food. All they had left was like a half a tray of beans. Oh, my God. What a fail from the caterer. Or a hungry guest. Overtaking, you know, filling their plate a lot. Oh, you're going to blame them. That's the ultimate wedding nightmare is running out of food. Yeah, what'd they do?

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Did they run out and get burgers for you guys or something? That would have been nice. I mean, people at my table, you know, we're just watching everyone eat.

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And nobody was doing anything about it. It's like they just didn't care.

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Oh, no. Yikes. We did have the beans, though. So I was like, okay, I'll handle this. I called for pizza delivery. Yeah. Yeah, they show up to the venue.

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They bring in the pizzas. Our two tables start cheering. Okay. The bride, she got so angry. What?

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She said that we turned her big day into a white trash wedding. Oh. I can kind of see that. Because of pizza delivery? Well, especially with like everybody cheering for the pizza when it came in. That may have been a bad one. Who would have cheered for pizza? The bride. No, no. Who didn't want to get the wedding. What's wrong with a white trash wedding is the real question.

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Brooke got pizza delivered after her wedding. That's why she's triggered. I did. Yeah. Well, the bride is the one who was upset with you. What? Oh, yeah, yeah. She was furious. Well, nobody asked her either. I would ask the bride right away. Wait, maybe she didn't know what was going on. That's what I mean.

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