Summary:In this episode of the Burn the Rulebook podcast, Rachel Boyle delves into the detrimental effects of purity culture on women's desires and voices. She discusses how societal and religious messages shape women's perceptions of their bodies, sexuality, and self-worth from a young age. The conversation explores the conditioning that leads women to feel obligated to provide sex in relationships, often resulting in pressure, resentment, and disconnection. Boyle emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's sense of self and learning to communicate about intimacy in a mutual and shame-free manner.Chapters:00:00 Understanding Purity Culture's Impact10:23 Sex as a Transaction: The Marketplace Model15:02 BRB outro__ jun 20, 2025 001_audio_only studio.wavTakeaways:• Purity culture shapes women's beliefs about their bodies and desires.• Messages about sexuality often teach women to monitor themselves constantly.• Desire is often treated as risky or sinful in purity culture.• Women may feel obligated to provide sex to maintain relationships.• Sexuality is often viewed as a bargaining chip in relationships.• Purity culture creates pressure and resentment around intimacy.• Healthy boundaries can feel like betrayal for women conditioned to be selfless.• Consent should be viewed as a relationship skill, not just a rule.• Healing involves reclaiming one's sense of self and body.• Women need to learn to express their desires and needs in relationships.Keywords:purity culture, women's desire, intimacy, sexual health, self-worth, relationships, emotional safety, consent, body image, healing

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