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Christina Aguilera: Getting Dirty & Talking Sex (FBF)
Fri, 15 Nov
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Christina Aguilera joins Call Her Daddy for her first ever podcast interview. We all know her from her countless hit songs and music videos, but Christina shares what was actually going on in her life behind the scenes as she gained international fame. She speaks about growing up in an abusive household and becoming the caretaker of her family at a young age. Christina opens up and discusses insecurities, comparison and feelings of not being good enough. Let’s get dirty and talk about sex because Xtina isn’t here to hold back. Christina reveals her best skill in the bedroom, favorite sex position, tells a wild story of nearly getting caught on a plane and more. This episode discusses adult subject matter, including descriptions of domestic violence, and is intended for adult consumption only. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence in any form, help is available. The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides free, confidential support 24/7. Call 1-800-799-SAFE, or visit TheHotline.org.
Chapter 1: What challenges did Christina Aguilera face growing up?
Yeah. Yeah.
Five minutes. But I'm like, holy fuck. Like, was that when you were still, your mom hadn't left your dad yet, but you were like, or had they left?
There There's some back and forth. There was some back and forth. There's always the tug of like, I'm never going to do it again. There's sweet talking involved. There's a lot of shame also in like, well, why don't you just leave? It is so much more complicated than that. And it's a mental breakdown of self-esteem. And you start to believe that
someone else's narrative and verbal abuse to you and it self-esteem is something that can break down so easily even to the most powerful woman executive um it doesn't matter what you do this you know we can go on stage and have these larger than life personas but all it takes is for you to believe someone's negative narrative about you.
Once it's in there and it's working its way in, that's why I'm so adamant with my daughter. I'm just like, first time somebody ever hits you, the first time somebody makes you feel not right about yourself,
oh girl i'm so protective mama bear and as but as you should be because like you said like you have that trauma in you that like you're like i watch a fucking movie and i can feel it and i love what you said about the concept of when someone says why don't you just leave when people say that it's such an ignorant statement that like pisses me off i had a loved one that was in an abusive relationship and you're like it's so much more fucking complex yeah
But to leave, do you remember the moment that was like your mom was like, we're out?
Yes. Officially, when the abuse started to really turn onto me, you know, we were living in Japan for like three years. So we were super isolated, which is where I started singing. And looking back, that's where I started to kind of like sing out of this window. I have like a thing about like windows and like they just when you're feeling just, you
I don't know there's something about the representation of a window and just like there's hope on the other side you know and so that's where I started you know singing these songs from like the sound of music and just to myself and just that image I'll always remember it's like a core memory of just like there's like something on the other side there's like a bigger world there's a bigger purpose I felt it as at a really young age but yes it was like a matter of things and like you're in a foreign country where my dad was in the army so we're on an army base I mean
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Chapter 2: How did Christina Aguilera's career begin?
Yeah. So many things popping through my mind. Yeah. Yeah. Let's go. Like 10 answers that I could think of. But yes, I was actually surprised because like I was so in my zone of just like expressing and creating this album and and just truly trying to make every facet of it speak of myself as as a woman. And I didn't and I didn't want to fit a box of like
I'm sweet and vulnerable and demure and I'm gonna you know do the programmed you know pop format but I'm not any particular one thing or one brand and that's what I did not like about the business is the fact that they immediately try to box you and label it so that it's easier for them to understand
But it was hard, you know, being a kid and being like, oh, my God, I'm just trying to live my life. I'm 21. I'm having fun. Like these were my college years. You know, this was my moment, except everybody could see it. But I was happy. You know, I'm an artist at the end of the day. I you know how this is how I express myself, you know.
And I wasn't just coming with dirty, you know, then we came with beautiful and then we came with fighter, which was a representation kind of of, you know, my past and going against the grain of people that I felt really wronged me. Because that's another thing you, you know, people steal from you, people that are so close to you.
I remember being so devastated about people that I, that really disappointed me to my core that I was like, I feel really alone. You know, like it was, it really like, and then you want to retreat and then you want to get defense mechanisms up and then you don't trust anyone. Like as if I didn't already have trust issues, you know, from my childhood. I was about to say. Layers on layers on layers.
But, but in any case, you know, it's part of my journey. It's, it's what I was meant to go through. And honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way because it's, Had I not gone through all these things, I wouldn't sing the way I do. I wouldn't create the way I do. I wouldn't write the way I do. I was like a sponge. I just took it all in. And when I was ready to just be like, no more, I don't care.
And I remember being quoted saying, I don't care this next record if I sell one record or one million.
all the the cool like accolades and stuff that's amazing i'm grateful but at the end of the day i have to like sit with myself and feel like i'm contributing a bigger thing to the world than just a pop song and a chart and an award like it's deeper than that to me and that's what i always and that's what i set out to do with stripped and i was able to do it thank god you know after getting my foot in the door but i was gonna then play by my own rules and represent the kind of woman that i wanted to be
I'm just like sitting here a little, not in shock, but I will say like, you truly never know what you're gonna get when someone walks in a door and I'm picturing Christina Aguilera, like grew up obsessing over you, had posters, like you're so fucking normal.
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Chapter 3: What was the inspiration behind Christina's iconic 'Dirty' music video?
comparing me with another artist and was like, it's like Roe versus Wade, pick a side, you know? And I was like, oh my God, you're so dramatic. You're like, it's not that serious. And I was too young to even really understand what that meant. So I was like, you could just understand the level of like how young I was being thrust into this world that was like, wait, what are you saying?
What are you saying?
Dude, the pettiness to compare... People to Roe v. Wade? Like, let's tone it down a notch. TMZ or whoever the fuck, you know what I mean?
I know, I know. It was like a newspaper. It wasn't even like a, yeah, it was too much. It was too much. Girl.
Girl.
What is my biggest insecurity? Oh, my God. I really wasn't prepared for that question. I don't know. I could think of, I mean, every, I don't know, every day it's something different. It's a part of you. Like, what is my biggest insecurity? Yeah.
biggest insecurity um i think we all have this where we just don't feel good enough i don't know in every in every sense you know i think we can all pick different parts of ourselves and pick ourselves apart for forever but i really it's it's a it's something you have to train yourself against when you say you're not good enough
Take a sip.
She's coming back.
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Chapter 4: How did Christina Aguilera navigate the pressures of fame?
Chapter 5: What does Christina Aguilera say about her sexuality?
You're like, oh, when did you start masturbating? When was the first time you masturbated?
Oh, my God. When was? Oh, well, I think we all kind of like start as little girls. Like when you rub up against things and it feels good. And, you know, like, you know, I think that's also whenever it's just like you have to be like, it's OK. Like that's for, you know, have your private time. So you're not doing it in front of like company. Yeah. You just you have to learn these things.
And sometimes we don't have good teachers and that make us feel safe. So. That came early on. So it was like, you know, some people I think have more sensitive areas and I just, I've always been engaged with understanding there's things happening down there.
Christina is masturbating on planes. She's getting off. She's having the best time of her life. What is your best skill in the bedroom?
Oh, wow. Oh, my God. Yeah.
Like, where do I begin?
I mean, hands down, I mean, it's got to be blowjobs. I mean, I love a blowjob, you know? And I, you know, I enjoy it. Like, I had a lot of also, like, male friends who I was always like, and what do you do here? Like, I was literally – I grew up around them, so it's like – I know every different part and the sensitive areas. And I like, I literally, I do enjoy it. I hear some women don't like it.
But I don't know, man. It's a turn on, you know?
It is because, and I love that you're saying that too. Because we're like, we can enjoy ourselves. Get off. There's nothing better than if a guy actually knows how to eat you out. But there's something so hot about pleasuring your partner. Because that gets me off. I don't want him to not be enjoying it. Because I know I'm going to be enjoying myself. Mm-hmm. Do you have any little tips?
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