Ever find yourself "winning" an argument in your head while you’re still in the shower? By the time you actually face the person, your heart is racing, your jaw is set, and the fight has started before a single word is spoken. You’ve fallen into the "Mental Movie" trap.In this episode of Calm Under Pressure, we explore how to dismantle that pre-confrontation tension and show up as a steady, regulated presence. We dive into the fascinating science of how your nervous system reacts to perceived threats and, more importantly, how you can "hack" your way back to calm using nothing but your eyes.The "Soda Straw" Effect: Why stress gives us "foveal vision" and how that narrow focus keeps your brain in a state of high alert.The Horizon Scan: A 60-second visual reset tool you can use anywhere (even mid-conversation) to trigger your parasympathetic nervous system and slow your heart rate.The Perspective-Holder: Shifting your identity from a "warrior in a cage match" to the person who sees the whole picture.Whether you’re heading into a performance review, a boundary-setting talk with a partner, or a difficult family dinner, this episode provides the physiological and mental toolkit to move from Tunnel Vision to Total Clarity.

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