Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Self Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson

05 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you self-sabotage in dating and relationships? Are you quick to judge others? This week, Kimmy interviews Brandon Wilson, a communications and exec...

Combat Dating Burnout: Reinvent Yourself

29 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating?  With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect tim...

How To Be A Better Picker: Coaching with Kimmy

22 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like you're dating the same person over and over again? You try to vet potential dates as best you can but somehow you always end up attra...

Self-Empowerment Hacks For A Fantastic Love Life: Interview With Dr. Allen Lycka

15 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel a sense of self-empowerment?  It is a buzzword that is thrown out all of the time but what does it really mean? When you are empowered, y...

Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justine Sloan

08 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you've been a listener of this show, you know that Kimmy's philosophy is all about working on yourself from the outside in. It's the fastest gatewa...

Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy

01 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you have dated or been in relationships before, you know that getting hurt or rejected is part of the deal. We've all been there! It's scary to get...

ICYMI: An Extra Dose Of Gratitude Attitude To Attract Love

24 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel stressed and negative around this time of year?  Being single can be really hard as holidays approach and it’s easy to be sucked into ...

Being Worthy Of Love: Interview With Daniel Gomez

17 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel that you are worthy of love?  Maybe on the surface, you want that but deep down you are not sure.  The first step to achieving anything ...

How To Navigate Modern Dating World

10 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Expectations and norms around dating have shifted drastically over the years. Now, technology has a massive impact on the culture of dating. If you're...

Finding Your Voice: Coaching with Kimmy

03 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is your voice not as strong as you would like it to be? Do you find yourself bending over backward to please others, while pushing your own needs and ...

Toxic Dating Decoding: Interview With Hafeez Bakou

27 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you keep dating the same person? No matter what you do, you keep ending up attracting the same type of guy or gal and you're...

Trusting Your Intuition: Interview with Actress Noel Elie

20 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you follow your intuition? As you move through your love journey, trusting your gut can be a huge advantage, but how do you know how to interpret w...

Building Relationships For Dating Success: Interview With Michael Roderick

13 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you know how to network to increase your chances of meeting potential dates?  Your ability to build strong relationships is essential to your suc...

Attracting The Unavailable: Coaching with Kimmy

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potentia...

Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes

29 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you dating later in life?  Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! Especially if you're jumping back into the dating world after a divorc...

Creating Love, Not Finding It: Interview With Adam Gilad

22 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song?  Do you ever ask yourself, “Why can’t I find love?" The truth is...

How Trauma Prevents You From Finding Love: Coaching with Kimmy

15 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you've experienced trauma, physical, v...

Navigating Virtual Dating: Interview With Coffee Meets Bagel Dating Expert

08 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dating in today's landscape can be intimidating. Gone are the days of being introduced to your person through family or friends as nowadays people are...

Discovering Yourself After A Breakup: Where Are They Now With Maricus

01 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with curren...

Mother Yourself To Attract Love: Interview with Dr. Gertrude Lyons

25 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How do you care for yourself? Nurturing yourself and taking care of your needs is an essential part of being the best version of yourself. This week,...

5 Things That Block You From Love

18 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you were just dating the same person over and over again? Even though you've been working on yourself and listening to podcast...

How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They Now With Meredith

11 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In these episodes, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations w...

Tough Conversations To Improve Your Love Life: Interview With David Wood

04 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Does the idea of confronting conflict in a relationship make you cringe? Would you rather avoid sharing your true feelings because you're afraid that ...

Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok

28 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When was the last time you truly leveled up? Are you comfortable where you are right now or are you ready for the next level in your love life? This w...

Using Feminine Flow To Attract The One: Interview With Petia Kolibova

21 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What does it mean to embrace your feminine power? Are you open to receiving, letting men earn you, and learning to flow in your feminine energy? This ...

Flirting With Intention: Coaching with Kimmy

14 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone’s eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confiden...

From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode

07 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Charisma Quotient, we’re celebrating 200 episodes! Over the years, we’ve heard stories from women and men all over the world aro...

Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner

30 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you know if you are marketing yourself so that you attract the right partner? It's not about changing who you are, it's about marketing yourself ...

Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching with Kimmy

23 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a tendency to attract narcissists? Have you noticed that your dates aren't genuinely curious about who you are? Do your relationships feel...

Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears

16 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Most of us recognize that networking is an essential part of advancing in business or a career. But, have you considered using networking to create op...

Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet

09 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever met someone and immediately jumped on an emotional roller coaster together? You had great chemistry and super high highs, but the lows w...

Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson

02 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you hiding your body because you’re embarrassed about how you look? As summer approaches and your world might be opening up, you might be start...

First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson

26 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's no surprise to hear that making a good first impression is essential, especially when dating.  In fact, it only takes 7 seconds now to make a fi...

Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis

19 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with curren...

Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer

12 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When you walk into a room for a social event or date, do you feel anxious and get in your head?  You want to feel and come across as magnetic, confid...

Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching with Kimmy

05 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How much do you rely on physical or sexual chemistry to create connections with dates? If you answered, "All the time!" then this episode is for you. ...

Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite

28 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What does it mean to be your authentic self? You've heard the buzzwords, but do you really know how to put all these theories into action? This week...

Up Your 2021 Dating Game

21 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Let's face it: dating is tough to navigate! No matter who you are, where you live, how old you are or your previous experience, dating during a global...

Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with former c...

Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience

07 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How do you come back from a setback? How do you stay resilient after a series of bad dates, no dates, or failed relationships? This week on the show, ...

Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy

31 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We all have walls. No matter who you are or where you come from, you might have experiences in your past that you'd rather not repeat. We build up emo...

Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World

23 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The dating world is changing, and that's due in part to shifting gender roles in our society. If you're a woman who's a high-achiever and knows how to...

Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly

17 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations wi...

Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien

10 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Over the past year, the virtual dating scene has exploded. With people all over the world on lockdown due to the pandemic, we've all had to get creati...

Letting go to attract the one: Interview With Hale Dwoskin

03 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Letting go of what's holding you back often seems easier said than done. Even though the process of letting go of things that don't serve your best in...

Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy

24 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Raise your hand if you're feeling stuck, frustrated or like you're missing the internal motivation to put yourself out there in the dating scene. Are ...

Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Dr. Heidi Brocke

17 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some relationships - whether romantic, familial, or otherwise - are toxic. If you've been in a toxic relationship before, or if you're in one right no...

Dating From A Place Of Self-Love

10 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love! This week, Kimmy invites you to take a moment to...

Gamifying Your Love Life: Interview With Dre Baldwin

03 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you are trying to improve or learn a new skill set, whether that be in love, in business or something else, you will increase your chance of succes...

Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching w/ Kimmy

27 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Caring for and giving to others selflessly is an incredibly powerful quality. It's a beautiful gift to support and uplift others, but when it comes t...

How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw

20 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A good sense of humor is one of the top attributes single women and men are seeking in their partners. If you're not endowed with the gift of comedy, ...

Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix

13 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When you take on a major challenge in your work, your best shot at success is to create an action plan and tackle each step intentionally. The same pr...

Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now with Harpreet

06 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with ...

Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020

30 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

2020 will go down in history as one of the toughest of our lives. We were thrown endless curveballs -- and dating and relationships were not exempt! A...

Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell

23 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The first and most essential piece of finding lasting love is to love yourself. Maybe it sounds cliche, but it's true! True self-love is not selfISH -...

Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy

16 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Now more than ever, dating is a challenge! If you're venturing back into the dating world for the first time in a long time or swiping through potenti...

Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood

09 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a fact: ALL successful relationships achieve a balance between masculine and feminine energy. Now, that doesn't mean that men should be aggre...

Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla

02 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to fin...

A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable

25 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy offers a lesson on how to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Studies show time and time again that people w...

Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins

18 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- ...

Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy

11 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

When you look at your body, what do you see? Do you think of yourself as sexy and confident or do you find faults when you look in the mirror? In thi...

Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John

04 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel weighed down by all the negative thoughts, emotions, and feelings swirling around in your head? Whatever your circumstances are, sometimes...

Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers

28 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Spirituality is an integral part of the human experience, and for many of us, our spiritual selves are tied to our desires to find a lasting, loving r...

Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy

21 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you an “overcaretaker” and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself?  You might find yours...

Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable

14 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disapp...

Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane

07 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations w...

Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi

30 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic?  Well, then you’ll definitely want to listen to this episode where you’ll learn how...

How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan

23 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled ...

Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy

16 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Ki...

Working On Yourself While Dating

09 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever thought that you should press pause when it comes to working on your dating life in order to work on yourself? This week on the Charisma...

What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely

02 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you really know what you want...especially when it comes to your dating life and relationships? Getting clarity on what you want is one of the mo...

Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette

26 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another success story episode of Where Are They Now? This segment features Kimmy's direct, honest conversations with former clients ab...

Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman

19 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever experienced true emotional intimacy in your previous relationships? This week on Charisma Quotient, Kimmy invites world-renowned author,...

Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy

12 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point t...

Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic

05 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have che...

The Power Of Focus In Attracting Love: Interview With Debra Kasowski

29 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you allow distractions to get in the way of your goals? Have you noticed that your ability to focus on achieving the things you want in your love l...

How To Stop Hiding: Where Are They Now With Lisa

22 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you wonder if it’s ever possible to find someone who actually cares for YOU for a change?  Are you done with hiding and dimming your light in fe...

Managing Gender Roles And Communication During Stress: Interview With John Gray

15 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Before shelter-in-place orders were enacted, you may have been a little pickier about who you were willing to date. But now, after months of relative ...

Ditch The Dating “List”: Coaching With Kimmy

08 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long li...

Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends

01 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you...

Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy

24 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. ...

Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook

17 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Right now, you're probably longing for real, human contact and you might be feeling stressed out and lonely. Moving to socialize online as you're obse...

Modern Dating Trends: Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

10 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating...

A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena

03 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This episode proves that there is still potential for dating success despite the obstacles felt during this pandemic.   Kimmy's back with another ins...

Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to Moving Past Grief

26 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps Moving Past Grief   How do you move past loss to find love again?   Grieving and loss are inevitable parts of life...

Reopening your dating life again. A three phased approach

20 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How do you proceed to reopen your dating life and find love even in this new world where we continue to practice social distancing? ⁣ ⁣ As we all...

Interview With Christy Whitman: Managing Expectations And Detaching From Outcomes

13 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Our ideas about how the world works are based on how the world meets our own expectations.  Those expectations affect our experience - for good or ba...

Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going

06 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How to move conversations off of apps and dating sites and into actual dates.   Coaching With Kimmy:  Keeping Conversations And Dates Going is the t...

Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses

29 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How to get a great handle on the right mindset for your dating life in the middle of uncertain times.   Uncertainty While Dating:  The Benefits And ...

Interview with Doug Sandler: How To Move Conversations & Strengthen Connections

22 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a hard time knowing what to say when you meet someone?  Are conversations boring and disconnected? Making meaningful conversations are k...

Interview With Adam Schaeuble: Your Health, Body Confidence & Attraction

15 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you truly feel confident in your body?  Do you lack self-confidence in how sexy you are?  There is a connection and symbiotic relationship betwe...

Coaching With Kimmy: Where Are They Now With Heather

08 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy:  Where Are They Now?  In this segment, Kimmy speaks directly with former clients to find o...

Interview With Ken Lauher: Feng Shui For Love

01 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that clutter can affect your love life?  If you're like us, you've been staying safe and healthy by sheltering in place to slow down the...

Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During the Coronavirus

25 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have questions about dating during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer has surprising answers to your love questions on this special segment whe...

Dating & Staying Connected To Others During the Coronavirus

18 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Is it even possible with all that is going on in the media and across the world to be dating and staying connected to others during the Coronavirus? K...

Interview with Nikki Barua: How To Go From Barriers To Breakthroughs FAST

11 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don’t? Do you allow the constant...

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Julie

04 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life af...

Interview With Evan Marc Katz: How Smart, Strong & Successful Women Can Find Love

26 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You're a smart, strong, successful woman. In nearly every area of your life, you're operating on the highest level. But when it comes to your love lif...

Interview With Corey Poirier: Helping You Know Your WHY

19 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating...

Raise Your Charisma Quotient To Find Love

12 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Love is in the air this week and you deserve to soak it all up! With Valentine's Day on the way, now is your opportunity to invest in you by buil...