Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Interview With Cynthia Clark: The Science of Soulmates

05 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are soul mates real? Is there one special, perfect person out there made especially for you? This week on the show, Kim and her expert guest answer so...

Not Feeling Good Enough? How To Avoid Your Inner Critic From Killing Your Dating Life

29 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you believe that you are capable of everything you want to achieve in your life? Do you believe you deserve a loving, happy, and healthy relationsh...

Interview With David Rosenthal: How To Find Your Voice

22 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you afraid to put yourself out there or are you ready to speak out and be heard?  Did you know that finding and owning your voice is a huge part...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

15 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We're back with the first "What Would Kim Do?" segment of 2020! Write in your dating and love questions to @SeltzerKimberly on Facebook, and your ques...

Interview With Debbi Dachinger: How To Be Comfortable Being Seen

08 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Are you comfortable being seen?  Now that it is a new year, it’s a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great th...

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Cathy

01 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who...

Are You Naughty Or Nice?

25 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving?  On this ...

Interview With Lisa Cherney: How To Get Freaking Real To Attract Love

18 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself?  How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal...

Interview With Rob Actis: The Law Of Action Begets The Law Of Attraction

11 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction which is the ability for you to attract what you're focused on into your life. However, many of yo...

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now with Ivy

04 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's time for another episode of Where Are They Now?, the segment where Kim brings back former coaching clients to share success stories and progress....

Interview With Lou Diamond: How To Thrive In Your Love Life

27 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What does it truly mean to move from surviving to thriving? How do you maintain optimism throughout the challenges that life and love present? This we...

Finding Motivation To Change

20 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a strong desire to change but lack the motivation? When you're trying to change your behavior, your motivation needs to be stronger than y...

Interview with Emerald GreenForest: Achieving A Wealthy Mindset To Be Successful In Love

13 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the Charisma Quotient Kim and her guest, host of the Men on Purpose Podcast Emerald GreenForest are talking two major topics you might be...

Interview With Rich Bontrager: How To Be A Leader In Your Love Life

06 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you a leader in your own love life? Do you have the courage to take control of your love life? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse ...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

30 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? This is the segment where Kim answers your questions by explaining what she would do in your sit...

Interview With Rob Dionne: Building A Healthy Lifestyle To Attract Love

23 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Engaging in a healthy lifestyle and creating balance between your emotional and physical wellbeing is key to helping you find lasting love in your lif...

How To Get Out Of Your Head and Stop Overthinking

16 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

You've read every advice column on romance, endured years of therapy, bought every single book on how to find love...and yet you keep striking out in ...

Interview With John Gray: Differences Between How Men And Women Date

08 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to the initial phases in dating where it often feels like a whirlwind of emotions, romance and crazy-amazing sex, men and women hav...

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Amanda

02 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Kim connects with her recent coaching client, Amanda, for another episode of Where Are They Now?  This is the segment where Kim chats with...

Top 5 Ways You’re Making Yourself Invisible

23 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel invisible? Do you think that people notice everyone else in the room but you? Do you wonder why others don't seem to hear you, or maybe......

Interview With Cayla Craft: How To Market Yourself To Attract Love & Business

18 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When you put yourself out there in the dating world, you're marketing your social capital. That means your interpersonal value, your looks, your incom...

Interview With CrisMarie Campbell & Susan Clarke: The Beauty Of Conflict

11 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Would you describe yourself as someone who hates confrontation? Do you do things simply to please others because you want to be a peacekeeper? Or ma...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

04 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We're back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers to Your Love Questions! On these episodes, Kim answers listener questions dir...

Interview With Tracy O’Malley: How Self Sabotage Is Keeping You Single

28 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

How many times have you been asked, why are you still single? Sure, it's frustrating to hear - but what if you knew you were self-sabotaging and contr...

Top 5 Dating Fears That Prevent You From Finding Love

21 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What are your dating fears? It's easy to say that you haven't met the right person or you're not ready for a relationship. With the potential for grea...

Coaching With Kim: Maintaining Confidence Throughout The Dating Process

14 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

How do you maintain confidence throughout the dating process, even when things don't work out? Online dating has produced so many changes to how we da...

Interview With Silvy Khoucasian: Creating Healthy Dating Boundaries

07 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you're casually dating, or you're in a long-term relationship, setting boundaries is imperative! In order to have a healthy relationship, both...

Special 100th Episode: Life Love Lessons

02 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week, we're doing something special to mark the 100th Episode of the Charisma Quotient! This episode is a conversation between Kim and the never ...

Interview With Scot McKay: What Do Men Really Want?

24 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What do men really want? Are they only looking for physical attractiveness and sexual chemistry, or something more meaningful? On this week's show, ...

Coaching With Kim: Dating Without Attachment

17 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you consider yourself a relationship person and hate dating? Do you find yourself going 0-60 on the first date, interrogating the other person to s...

Interview With Lori Gottlieb: Maybe You Should Talk & Change Your Love Story

10 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever wish you could change the story to your love life?  Have you thought about talking to someone to help you do that?  After today’s spec...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

03 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to the segment called, What Would Kim Do? Kim dedicates these episodes to answering your questions directly. In this episode, you'll hear...

Interview With Robert Kandell: How To Date With Vulnerability & Authenticity

26 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Be vulnerable, be authentic... be yourself! It's a lot easier said than done. This week, Kim interviews Robert Kandell, a speaker, Amazon bestselling ...

How To Create An Emotional Connection When Dating

19 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever heard of emotional attraction? Do you ever wonder how to create more meaningful connections with someone when you first meet?  Most of ...

Interview With Dr. Robert Glover: How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

12 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you that super nice person who has a ton of friends, but not a lot of girlfriends or boyfriends?  Do you find that no matter what you do, the opp...

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Stephen

05 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome back to the second installment of Where Are They Now!  These episodes are a great chance to catch up with people who have previously been co...

Interview With Melanie Benson: Changing Your Mindset With Bold Moves

29 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you believe that you have the power to grow and develop your dating skills, or do you think you get what you get out of pure luck? This week, Kim h...

Coaching With Kim: How To Navigate Cross Cultural Dating

22 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Every week, Kim talks through dating difficulties and how to overcome them. One challenge many people experience is trying to date while straddling ...

Interview With Shira Myrow: Putting The Breaks On Dating Anxiety

15 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had minor heart palpitations trying to decide what to text a guy back? Do you spend more time coming up with a million "what ifs" about ...

Coaching With Kim: How To Attract The Right Partner

08 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone has challenges with dating! Attracting the right kind of person for you is a skill you can build with practice. This week, you'll hear Kim's ...

Interview With Jen Glantz: From Bridezillas to Love Mistakes~Things You Learn From

01 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

It's spring, and wedding season is here! If your mailbox is flooded with save-the-dates or your social calendar is booked solid for the next few month...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

24 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week, we're diving into another episode answering your questions on What Would Kim Do! On this show, Kim fields multiple questions from listeners...

Interview With Koya Webb: Powerful Ways To Put Self-Love Into Action

17 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

You've probably heard the old saying, in order to love someone else, you have to love yourself first. But that is a lot easier said than done. This w...

How To Be Successful, Smart AND Feminine

10 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Are you successful in every part of your life except for finding love? Do you have a hard time turning off your masculine, work energy so that you can...

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now?

03 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're doing something a little different! Last year, Kim coached Anne on the show, who was a master at getting to the first date, but had issues...

Interview with Alexandra Stockwell: Sustaining Emotional Intimacy & Passion

27 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Now that you're in a relationship, how do you keep the spark alive? Find out this week, as Kim interviews Relationship and Sensuality Coach Alexandra ...

Interview With Larry Senn: Reducing Emotional Flare-ups In Relationships

20 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that research says that no one is born with charisma? It's all learned behavior! On this week's episode, Kim dives into how anyone ca...

Coaching With Kim: How To Cope With Bad Dating Experiences

13 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Boring dates... ghosting... narcissists... Sound familiar? In today's dating world, there's no shortage of bad dating experiences. When you embark on ...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

06 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to dating and socializing, how would you characterize yourself? Are you curious, adventurous and open to meeting new people? Or are you ...

Interview With Dr. Diana Kirschner: How To Get Dates & Relationships To Stick

27 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a ton of dates but they never turn into anything more?  Do your relationships tend to fizzle out after a short period?  With the rate of...

5 Simple Steps On Learning How To Date

20 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you hate dating and find it exhausting? If you're like a lot of people, you might prefer to be in a committed relationship and just skip the whole...

Interview With Allana Pratt: How To Feel Sexy After Divorce

13 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Feeling secure when it comes to dating after divorce is easier said than done, especially when it has been a while.  Listen in this week as Kim inter...

Coaching With Kim: How To Create A Sexy Confidence

06 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Women's body confidence has become a global issue. Women around the world, and especially in the US, UK, and Australia have reported that low body-est...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

30 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? It's the segment where Kim answers your questions with concrete advice based on what she would ...

Interview with Brian Howie & Charles Messow: How To Conquer Dating Burnout

23 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

You know the feeling. You're swiping through your dating app of choice and all your options start blending together.  If you keep this up, you're goi...

Coaching With Kim: How To Care For Yourself Without Guilt

16 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself feeling guilty for taking care of yourself instead of others? Are you hesitant to set boundaries or ask for help when you really...

Breaking Bad Dating Habits

09 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Have you set a big goal this year to meet your soulmate? Are you already feeling completely overwhelmed by that lofty promise to yourself?  This week...

Interview With Dr. Lynn Marie Morski: How You Can Win By Quitting

31 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Do you tend to stay in things too long?  How do you know when enough is enough -- when it's better to quit than stick it out? At what point do y...

How to Meet Someone Special During The Holidays

24 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Come out of your shell this holiday season to meet someone special! This week Kim talks about how to add some sparkle to your holiday wardrobe and tur...

Coaching With Kim: How To Push Past Emotional Abuse & Build Your Confidence

19 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

How do you believe in yourself when you’ve been told your whole life that you are not worth believing in?  How do you get rid of those old, pesky m...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

12 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Kim's back with another episode of, What Would Kim Do? On this segment, Kim answers your questions by telling you what you should do in y...

Interview With Paul Brunson: Rebranding Yourself To Attract Abundance & Love

05 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

What is your personal brand when it comes to dating? Do your actions and the clothes you wear align with your mindset in order to attract the kind of ...

Surprising Mistakes Women Make On First Dates

28 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been on a date and you think you did all of the right things yet he still didn’t ask you out again? Are you uncertain to what you m...

Interview with Kendrick Shope: Embracing Your Femininity To Increase Confidence & Success

21 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Do you use your femininity to your advantage? Do you believe it's possible to be feminine and be taken seriously? Or do you worry about how your fe...

Coaching With Kim:  Are You Too Picky?

14 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been told you're too picky when it comes to dating? Do you fear feeling that you're settling? How do you know if having high standard...

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions

07 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week on the show, Kim unveils a new segment, What Would Kim Do? On these episodes, Kim takes your questions and answers them directly. Send us y...

Interview With Nada Lena:  Increase Your Confidence & Attract Love

31 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Would you describe yourself as a confident person? Would others? Kim explains that confidence isn't innate, it’s about having exposure and experienc...

Coaching With Kim: Stop Shutting Down…It's Killing Your Love Life

24 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Are you filling up your fuel tank? No, not in your car... your emotional fuel tank.  Are you expressing how you feel about things or do you shut down...

Interview With Corey Poirier: How To Find Love Even When You Are Shy

17 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Do you identify yourself as shy? Does being an introvert help you feel protected or less pressure to engage socially with others? You're not alone. So...

How To Avoid Losing Yourself In Relationships and Dates

10 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Do you modify your behavior to avoid a loss of love or affection?  Do you find yourself being so consumed in your dates and relationships where you...

How To Get Out Of Your Own Way & Create Change

03 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

When you reflect on who you are, what your goals are and if you're meeting them... are you satisfied? Are you meeting the standards you set for your...

Coaching With Kim: Taking Off The Armor & Putting On The Dress

26 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

How would you characterize your conversations and interactions on dates? Do you talk about your dreams, your feelings, your ambitions and really show ...

Interview With Lauren Zander: How To Get Unstuck & Design The Love Life You Deserve

19 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Kim interviews Lauren Zander, author, life coach, university lecturer, public speaker, and Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group, an in...

What Is Your Dating Archetype?

12 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dating is tough for everyone!  But what if you knew there were common mistakes that you might be making when trying to attract a partner?  There are...

Coaching With Kim: Turning Down The Voices In Your Head

05 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever hear those pesky voices in your head that say, "You're not good enough," "You're not doing it right," or "No one wants to hear what you ha...

Interview with Ryan Moran: How To Have An Abundance Mindset

29 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Kim interviews Ryan Moran, an entrepreneur, founder of Capitalism.com and the host of the Freedom Fast Lane Podcast. This show is all abo...

Letting Go Of Perfectionism

22 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's show, Kim talks all about how perfectionism is holding you back from putting yourself out there in the dating world. Are you reluctant ...

Interview With Steven Maresca: How To Get Past Pain & Adversity

15 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

We all deal with adversity in our lives to varying degrees. But no matter what challenges you face, how you push past your pain makes all the differen...

Coaching With Kim: Breaking Attached Relationship Patterns

08 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

  On this episode, Coaching with Kim, you'll meet Danielle who's noticed a pattern in her relationships and is ready for a big shift. Kim and Daniel...

How To Experience Love Without Toxicity

01 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

You know that exhilarating feeling when you meet someone new who showers you with compliments, makes you feel sexy confident and you can't get enough?...

Interview With Josh Trent: How Emotional & Physical Wellness Impacts Relationships

25 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Kim interviews wellness expert, Josh Trent. Josh hosts the Wellness Force Radio Podcast and has spent 15 years in the health and wellness i...

Coaching With Kim: How To Avoid Being The Rebound

18 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Marion -- all the way from France! Marion is a school teacher, who got divorced 10 years ago, and has dat...

How To Deal With Being Ghosted

11 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

One day you and your guy are texting back and forth and then, suddenly - you never hear from him again. On this week's episode Kim talks all about gh...

Get Your Groove Back With a Vacation Mentality

04 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim di...

Interview With Melanie Curtis: Conquering Your Fears

27 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Fear manifests itself in so many ways in relationships. There's the fear of intimacy, the fear of abandonment, the fear of being alone and countless o...

Coaching With Kim: Learning How To Trust In Relationships

20 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Dena, who's having trouble trusting the men she dates. This episode is all about how to trust others, wit...

Interview With Benjamin Ritter: How To Reprogram Your Mindset & Achieve Happiness

13 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week Kim interviews Benjamin Ritter, host of the Live for Yourself podcast. Ben is a leader in public health and an executive and personal consul...

How To Stop Attracting Narcissists

06 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever dated a narcissist? Well if you have, you're not alone!  This week, Kim discusses how to spot narcissists from a mile away and how to a...

Coaching With Kim: Breaking Up With Your Work & Negative Patterns

30 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Easter, who's struggling to feel recognized and appreciated at work. Although Easter currently has a lo...

Interview with Carol Allen: How To Predict A Lasting Relationship

23 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Kim talks with Vedic Astrologer and Relationship Coach, Carol Allen about what goes into attracting a relationship that will last.  Vedic astrology i...

How To Date After 40

16 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

It's never too late to find love! This week Kim dispells the myth that you can't find love after 40. You can! You know the old tropes, "There are no g...

Interview with Jordan Harbinger: Getting Past The Pain Of Change

09 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Back by popular demand, Kim has an candid conversation with friend of the show, Jordan Harbinger. Jordan opens up to Kim about his experience leaving ...

Coaching With Kim: How To Navigate Anxiety In A New Relationship

02 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

On this week's coaching episode, Kim does a deep dive with Melissa about how ghosts from the past can haunt new relationships. Melissa is in a new rel...

Interview with Adam LoDolce: Rebuilding Your Sexy Confidence After Breakup

25 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week, Kim discusses the emotional and physical responses to breakups that make us feel unsexy, unconfident and totally alone. And who better to d...

What Is Preventing You From Finding Love?

18 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

On this week’s show, Kim talks through all the ways you could be holding yourself back from finding your next relationship. Whether you need a push ...

Interview with Bill Wooditch: How To Supercharge Your Motivation To Change

11 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week Kim interviews the unstoppable Bill Wooditch - a sales expert, speaker and best-selling author. Kim talks to Bill about how he motivated him...

Coaching With Kim: How To Get Beyond The First Date

04 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week a powerful and emotional live coaching episode with Kim's client, Anne.  She's mastered the art of getting guys to the first date, but when...

The Do’s and Don’ts Of Virtual Dating

28 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Does the thought of trying to curate the perfect online dating profile sound worse than a root canal? If so, don’t worry…you are not alone!  This...

Interview With Julie Spira: Secrets To Online Dating Success

21 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This week, every question you've ever had about how to maximize return on your online dating profile answered. Kim interviews Julie Spira, America's t...

Coaching With Kim: How To Pace Yourself When Dating

13 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Are you interested in just having fun, growing into a relationship, or something else? It's up to you!  This week on Coaching with Kim you will le...