Develop confidence. That is the challenge. The desire to develop more confidence and composure under pressure is a common theme we see in our professional graduate students. Even those who seem like they are highly confident will confess one-on-one that they are lacking. A quick look will show that everyone lacks confidence at some level. And all want to develop confidence to a higher level. Yes, even those hard-driving people who look and sound like they eat confidence for breakfast. We are all insecure. So how can you and I become more confident? It is not as hard as we might think.How to Develop Confidence and Composure (Podcast outline) First, recognize that you are not alone Everyone lacks confidence Imposter Syndrome Bill Smith story Control your inner talk Capture your thoughts Use Third Person (refer to Late Bloomers) Take back control in the moment Smile - relaxing for you and others Breathe - In these intense moments, we tend to hold our breath Deep and slow breathes Slow down your talking Lower your voice and your tone Find others insecurity When someone is yelling, think “What is gnawing at them?” Often the real issue is not what they are yelling about. When someone is bragging about all they have done and you feel like you have little to show, look deep into their eyes. They are trying to sell you something. Fake it until you make it Think of it as an adventure you wanted to take Pretend you are confident The notebook The Fresnel zone Grow it over Time Control your thinking and self-talk Download a calm app and practice meditation and breathing Relax knowing tension helps us perform better Click here to listen now.Shout out: Always Relevant and UsefulGabe Thomas★★★★★I've been listening to Dale's podcasts for over a year now and he does a fantastic job of finding, and thoroughly answering questions that are amazingly relevant to entrepreneurs, professionals, and anyone seeking to improve their career. I consistently recommend Dale's presentations, podcasts, and books to my network of friends and contacts. He is a great communicator and sincerely desires to help people succeed. Subscribe & Review in iTunesAre you subscribed to my Company of One? If you’re not, I encourage you to do that today so you don’t miss an episode. Click here to subscribe in iTunes!If you like what you hear, I would be really grateful if you left me a review over on iTunes, too. Those reviews help other people find my podcast. I also love reading them and connecting with you. Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” and let me know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you!Links mentioned in this episode: Late Bloomers: The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement Calm app Master of Engineering Management in Information Engineering and ManagementDale Callahan, Ph.D.Business Coach for Professionals Ready to Take Control Helping you move from stuck to in-demand — or start something of your own. Grab the Idea Engine: 7 prompts to find your next move Book a Next Step Strategy SessionDirector of Engineering Management @ UAB (205) 790-8447 dalecallahan.com LinkedIn

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