How Being Right Could Destroy Your Relationship is great(134)

The discussion in this episode is about the dynamics of conflict in marriage, exploring how trying to "win" an argument can lead to emotional disconnection. Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill unpack the idea of the "courtroom" in relationships, where couples focus on proving who's right instead of understanding each other's emotions. They discuss how this leads to loneliness, especially in areas like sex, and share tools to shift from battling over facts to building deeper emotional connection. Whether it's about resolving conflict or dealing with sexual loneliness, you’ll be offered a path to transforming your relationship. Links and Resources: Book a discovery call for Overwhelm Overhaul: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/tera-wages/30min⁠⁠⁠⁠ To download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/rnyne5jf⁠⁠⁠⁠ To enroll in Foundations use the code PODCAST for 20% off: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/rnyne5jf⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about becoming a Certified Connection Codes Coach: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.connectioncodes.co/certified-coach⁠ Chapters: 00:00:00 - Opening the Courtroom: How Conflicts Become Trials in Marriage 00:01:21 - Marriage as a Battlefield: The Story Behind the Courtroom Mentality 00:03:05 - The Burden of Being Right: When Winning Means Losing 00:04:21 - Logistics vs. Emotions: The Trap of Disconnected Arguments 00:09:45 - The High Cost of Winning: How Arguments Lead to Disconnection 00:14:36 - Exhaustion and Innocence: Why Proving Your Case Drains You 00:21:36 - The Unseen Toll: Navigating Emotional Chaos 00:22:20 - Sexual Loneliness Unveiled: A Pain Often Ignored 00:23:05 - Connection Through Conversation: How Words Heal 00:24:54 - Validation’s Power: The Key to Emotional Harmony 00:26:37 - Conflict as Connection: Transformative Approaches 00:27:40 - Practical Tools for Lasting Emotional Intimacy 00:29:32 - Reflecting on Past Wounds: Why Emotional Tools Matter 00:33:19 - Emotional Mastery: Building the Right Relationship Toolkit 00:37:15 - Healing Old Wounds: How Emotional Tools Transform Relationships 00:41:48 - Encouragement & Wrap-Up: Moving Forward with Connection

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