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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Corbin Middlemass here. The Ashes were awesome, but they are over. The good news is the cricket keeps rolling as the focus shifts to the T20 World Cup. Australia is trying to climb back to the top. India is looking all-powerful. And England is trying to turn Ashes' shame into T20 glory. And did we mention the backroom power struggles?
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Lane Beachley discovered surfing as a grommet growing up in Manly and to say she took to it is something of an understatement. Lane went on to win seven world championships, becoming the first woman to do so and the only surfer, male or female, to win six consecutive world titles. But Lane's love of surfing was not the only thing driving her remarkable success.
When Lane was a little girl, her dad Neil told her she was adopted. And from that moment, Lane questioned where she really belonged. She fought hard to prove to others and to herself that she was worthy of taking her place, developing a tough facade both on the water and off it, pushing through self-doubt, chronic fatigue and debilitating injuries to just keep winning.
But at this stage of her life, Lane has found how to slow down and really enjoy her place in the world. Hi, Lane. Hello, Sarah. Can you remember the first wave you ever caught all the way to the beach?
Uh, look, my earliest memories of surfing actually started on the harbour side at Manly. So my dad put me on a foamy when I was around three or four years of age and I stood up on it and waited for the ferries to come in to create that boat wake. We all owned our skill somewhere. And I just fell in love with what I can only explain it as a sense of freedom.
when I'm on a board or when I'm in the water. Actually, it's my happy place. So I don't recall the first wave I caught or the first wave I rode all the way to the beach. I just know that the feeling that I experienced when I was on a surfboard as a four-year-old is still exactly the same feeling I have on the surfboard in my 50s. So was your dad a big surfer? Yes, dad was.
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Chapter 2: How did Layne Beachley discover her passion for surfing?
Well, he's an integral part of the surf lifesaving movement in Manly and actually around the world. He actually travelled around the world as a teenager teaching our lifesaving techniques to Canadians, English people, Americans, Germans. And my older brother, Jason, is a surfer. And so I just, you know, as a young girl growing up, wants to be doing what her older brother does.
I do it a whole lot better than he does.
It's going to be a special pleasure in that fact. Yes. So it was you and Jason and your dad, pretty much the three of you for a long time there at Manly. What sort of dad was Neil? What do you remember about him as being a dad to you?
A tough dad, but a loving dad. There's no handbook or playbook to being a parent. And if there was, then someone would make a gazillion dollars from it. But everyone's just navigating their way and working it out. And we're all products of our environment. So I know my dad grew up in a tough love environment. So therefore, my brother and I grew up in a tough love environment. And
Dad was very loving, very supportive, but not in an encouragement of words kind of way. It was more of a freedom of expression, clear boundaries, clear disciplinary action in the the environment that he was crafting for us. You know, when Valerie died, which was my mother that adopted me, so Jason's biological mother, she died when I was about seven. And Dad really...
took the time to create a safe space for us to make us feel like we were all at home. So, you know, put a pool in the backyard and took us on holidays and just brought us together as a family unit after that devastating loss. So he was a very loving, supportive, nurturing father that gave me a lot of freedom to roam, a lot of freedom to explore the world.
I don't know how many dads in the, you know, in the 90s or even late 80s would have said, you know... I said to Dad, I'm going to go to America to compete in the tour next year. He's like, okay, good luck.
Losing your mum at seven or so, it's such a tender age, Lane. Like when you look back, what kind of impact did that loss have on the young girl that you were, do you think?
Well, yeah, I often say that I had the benefit of youth, so I didn't truly understand the concept of forever at that moment in time. But when I reflect back on, like if I look at any seven-year-old kid that I know and have the the sadness of losing their mother, I would wrap my arms around them and just go, you're going to be okay, but it's going to hurt. It's going to hurt for a while.
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Chapter 3: What impact did losing her adoptive mother have on Layne?
I set the goal to win my first world title in five years. I've now been on tour for seven. It's never going to happen for me. And then I went to Hawaii, which is kind of like a A home away from home for me. I love Hawaii, but I always felt really lonely in Hawaii because it was a month away from home and I just felt like I had no one to share it with.
And that particular year in 1997, I happened to just have a sliding doors moment with a man who's a renowned big wave surfer, a guy called Ken Bradshaw, looks and acts a lot like Buzz Lightyear. Yeah. thinks he can fly around this room with his eyes closed, does have an impressive wingspan and does come in peace. It's an intergalactical emergency.
But Buzz or Ken saw in me more than I saw in myself. And we just had this moment where we were surfing together out at sunset and the sun was setting and we happened to just meet on the beach and we just had a just like a peck on the cheek, kind of kiss to say, hi, it's so good to see you. And we just felt a spark. We felt something was there.
And that was the beginning of a love story that also culminated in five consecutive world titles. I needed someone in my corner. That's what I realized I needed. So I fell in love with a man which helped me fall in love with surfing and fall in love with winning. I fell in love with life all over again.
I feel you just took me into a Hollywood movie there, Elaine, and I'm just coming out the other side. So with that love and with that reinvigorated goal, you have this achievement, let's begin with the first of your seven world titles. So what was the biggest feeling in that, that goal that you'd worked so hard towards and had imagined ever since you were, what, 14?
How did it feel once you got it?
Relief. Relief. Yes. Not elation or... No, relief and satisfaction. Relieved because I had been stating to the world and to myself that I was going to be a world champion since I was eight years of age. And I'm now 26.
Relief because since I was 14, I was going to become a world champion surfer and relief to fulfill that goal and achieve that dream and feel that true sense of accomplishment and satisfaction in that particular moment. I believe my peers were as relieved as I was because I would shut up about it now. Did it leave you hungry for more? Yeah, I became addicted to witting, obviously.
Ken actually inspired that too. He literally said to me, obviously you're the best surfer in the world, but you are the best surfer in the water. There's no one that can beat you. So what's your goal now? And so I originally set the goal to beat Lisa Anderson's record of four consecutive and then Kelly Slater's record of five consecutive. And I thought, I need to become the best of the best.
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Chapter 4: How did Layne cope with the loss of her stepmother?
And did that, we played that, well, we danced like that together for a very long time.
Whose idea was it then to first meet in person?
Yeah, I did want him. I don't know who we give that credit to. I just know we both wanted to meet in person. I know it was my idea to meet somewhere neutral. She lived in Santa Rosa, so outside of San Francisco. I was in Los Angeles at the time on my way home from Brazil. So I suggested that we just meet at the airport.
And there was no question she was my mother when I laid eyes on her for the first time. It was like looking in the mirror in 17 years.
What about the emotional language between the two of you? What was that like in that first meeting? Did it feel easy or tricky?
It felt like we both had our defences up. We both felt hurt, perhaps, based on our initial interaction with each other. And maybe we both felt rejected by each other. We never really conversed too much about that. But we sat down and talked and as Mum reflected, she said it was like two girlfriends catching up. There was a lot to catch up on and I only gave it a couple of hours.
Like I didn't really give her much time. Like I'm flying in and flying out. I'm a FIFO for this date. And she was very gracious and giving. The challenge that I had was that she overshared in her first conversation and from that moment on I just had this element of distrust because I didn't want to believe the story she told me. I didn't want to believe that I was conceived through date rape.
I didn't want to believe that I wasn't allowed to be kept. I didn't want to believe that she wanted to keep me. There were so many things I didn't want to believe. So I just maintained my distance from her to keep myself safe and to keep myself right. And it took me a long time to realize that the separation that we always felt in our relationship was caused by judgment.
And it was caused by my judgment of her story. And it wasn't until I just accepted that her story is her story and my story is my story. And then let's just let that go, shall we? And see if we can reconnect. And over the years, we reconnected. It's kind of like the ocean. We flew in together and then we disappeared and separated again. So there was a lot to...
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Chapter 5: How did Layne's competitive drive relate to her experiences of loss?
What were your first impressions of this rock star? How did he look to you?
Yeah, not like the rock star of old, that's for sure. So when I refer to Buzz Lightyear, also known as Ken Bradshaw, I'm glad I got my wits about me and married Woody. That's Kirk. Kirk is Woody. He's very sensible. He's very pragmatic. He's very organised and structured. He loves to plan. He loves to make sure everything's okay. He's very handy. He's very equipped.
He's just, and he laughs and loves to make people laugh. So John Stevens became a good friend after I did the Celebrity Grand Prix down at the Formula One race. And at the time, he was performing for InXS. And John thought Kirk and I would make a great match. No idea why, because there's nothing that Kirk and I have in common other than Rosé.
Now, Ken and I had recently broken up and Kirk had recently broken up with his long-term relationship as well. So when we met, it was at a private show in Sydney, an event down in Pitt Street, and And I stood front of centre at the stage watching John sing and Kirk perform. And Kirk performed barefoot and I liked to perform and speak barefoot. So I thought, oh, that's cute.
There's something we have in common. But I literally kept looking at Kirk and looking at John going, Kirk, John, John, you're hot. Kirk, you're so not. Can I go home with a married guy? Because I'm just not feeling this, John. But I had made a promise to John that I would take Kirk on a date. So... I reluctantly walked up to Kirk after the show and it was Kirk's night.
It was all of his mates, all of his friends, and I just kept rudely interrupting him to try and get his attention and he kept rudely dissing me. Like, I have no interest in you. Hi, yeah, good to see you, but can't you see I'm in the middle of a conversation? Like, no, just give me your number, damn it. He's like, later. Like... Who are you, you know?
You're the lady who complains about other people's boundaries here, Lane.
I disrespected his, that's for sure. It's all my fault. Anyway, at the end of the night, I went up to say goodnight to John and he said, have you met Kirk? And John actually was speaking with Kirk when I went up and introduced myself back to Kirk for the fourth time that night. And John got all excited, Lane, Kirk, Kirk, Lane. I'm like, yeah, we've met.
And he's like, well, do you have his number yet? I went, no. He's like, you two, go to the bar, have a drink, have a chat. Long story short, I do get his number from him. I call him a week later and the week after that I take him out on a date. I took him 10-bin bowling at DYRSL.
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