In this episode, we explore the sudden fatigue and flat mood that often hits on Friday evenings once social demands end. For those with complex trauma, the nervous system has worked overtime to stay regulated around others, leading to a hard drop when safety signals fade. Gregory explains how this depletion stems from ventral vagal effort followed by dorsal vagal protection, not laziness or failure. Listeners learn simple somatic practices like a body scan and a timed pause to support recovery without pushing through or judging the slump. The focus stays on letting the system settle on its own terms after gatherings or meetings.What You'll Learn:• Recognize post-social fatigue as a nervous system response rather than personal failure.• Use body scans to notice tension without needing to fix it immediately.• Apply timed pauses to support natural recovery after social effort.• Grant yourself permission for rest to ease internal pressure.• Track energy patterns to handle depletion more effectively over time.Key Insights:• Social settings can mobilize the vagus nerve and leave the body depleted afterward.• Earlier trauma often trains the system to stay alert around others for longer.• The drop into shutdown serves a biological purpose of conserving resources.• Fighting the rest phase tends to prolong depletion instead of shortening it.• Awareness of these patterns reduces self-judgment during low-energy periods.Recommended Resources:• The Polyvagal Theory by Stephen W. Porges• Huberman Lab podcast episodes on nervous system regulation• Journal of Traumatic Stress research articles on trauma responses• The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkComing Up NextDiscover additional tools for managing daily nervous system fluctuations and building steadier recovery habits after demanding interactions.📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at [email protected].💛 Join Our Supporters Club ($3 a month) 💛 Help keep these vital conversations alive—Click Here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/c-ptsd-let-s-make-sense-of-this-sh-t--6331440/supportIf you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line). In an emergency, call 911. This podcast is not a substitute for professional care.

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