In this episode, Gregory explores trust issues after trauma with depth and compassion, breaking down why your brain built those protective walls and what you can actually do about it. Moving beyond surface-level advice, you'll discover the neurobiology of trauma and trust, learn why your nervous system is doing exactly what it was designed to do, and gain practical, research-backed tools for rebuilding trust in others and yourself. Through somatic practices, real-life scenarios, and actionable frameworks, this conversation equips you to move forward on your own terms—because healing trust means working with your body, not just your mind. Key Takeaways • Trauma rewires your brain's trust capacity as a survival mechanism, not a character flaw • Trust rebuilds through small, incremental nervous system recalibration, not linear progression • Self-trust is equally important as trusting others when healing from relational trauma • Your body holds memories and patterns that need somatic work, not just intellectual understanding • Discernment and healthy boundaries are wisdom, not signs you're too guarded or broken What You'll Discover • The neurobiology behind why your nervous system shut down trust after trauma • How hypervigilance and somatic responses sabotage trust even in safe relationships • The Trust Audit practice to create space between triggers and conscious responses • Three essential questions to distinguish instinct from projection in relationships • Integration techniques for building a trustworthy relationship with yourself first Resources Mentioned • Somatic experiencing and vagal nerve regulation practices for nervous system safety • The Trust Audit framework for identifying trauma responses versus accurate instincts • Body-based awareness practices for recognizing hypervigilance patterns • Relational trauma recovery through incremental nervous system recalibration • Integration work combining somatic practice with cognitive understanding Next Episode Preview We're diving deeper into the relationship between self-trust and boundary-setting in your next episode—exploring how protecting yourself doesn't have to mean isolating. Stick around as we unpack the nuance between healthy caution and trauma-driven walls. 📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at [email protected]. 💛 Join Our Supporters Club 💛 Go ad-free and help keep these vital conversations alive—Click Here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/c-ptsd-let-s-make-sense-of-this-sh-t--6331440/support

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