Your Husband Or Son Is Watching Porn — Now What? | Emeal “E.Z.” Zwayne
episodePreviously titled “Your Husband Or Son Is Watching Porn — Now What? | EZ Zwayne” — renamed by the publisher on Aug 3, 2026
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What percentage of kids have seen porn before middle school?
94% of 11 year olds have seen porn. What is happening to their brains before they even get to middle school?
Destruction, depression, isolation, inability to make decisions. Porn isn't always the issue. Men have pornographic machines in their brains. We've got memory.
How does porn affect the brains of children and adults?
We've got imagination. This is really the tragedy is that there are a lot of men who have this deception in their minds that masturbation is okay. I can't tell you how many parents I've talked to and I've said, hey, you know, what kind of filters do you have on your computers? What kind of filters do you have on your kids' phones? And they're just kind of like, what do you mean filters?
What are you supposed to do when you catch your little boy watching porn or find it on your husband's phone? Pretend it's normal, blame hormones, or finally confront the digital drug that's rewiring your family? Today, we're exposing how porn is hijacking kids' brains before middle school and killing real intimacy in marriages. I'm joined by Ezs Wayne, pastor, speaker, and cultural commentator who helps men break free from sexual bondage and rebuild their lives, their relationships, and spiritual health. We talk about why the porn industry is bigger than Netflix, Disney, and the NFL combined, how it targets children and married men, what isolation is doing to families, and what parents and spouses can actually do to protect their homes and restore trust.
This conversation is uncomfortable, but ignoring it will cost your family everything. If you want to watch this episode, you can by subscribing to Real Alex Clark on YouTube or Culture Apothecary on Spotify. If you're new here, we release two episodes a week where we bring on experts doing their best to heal a sick culture physically, emotionally, or spiritually. If you're a first-time listener or a long-time listener, please pause, leave a five-star review before we get started. Let us know why you love the show. Please welcome pastor and author EZ's Wayne to Culture Apothecary. 94% of 11 year olds have seen porn. What is happening to their brains before they even get to middle school?
Destruction. A lot of people don't realize the effects on the neuroplasticity in the brain from looking at porn. You know, we're living in an age alex where people because of how prevalent pornography is they have this mindset and understanding that it's not that harmful so it creates this deception but when you look at what happens especially with young kids in terms of depression isolation inability to make decisions pornography wreaks havoc on the brain it gets them hooked from very early age and leads to all sorts of destructive behaviors
Is it true that porn can literally shrink your capacity to have a sexual desire for your future spouse?
Oh, absolutely. In fact, you know, when you look at what's happened in Japan, people in Japan don't even want to get married anymore. They don't want to have relations with an actual partner because they are so entrenched in pornography, so impacted by it that they don't find pleasure and actual real intimacy anymore.
One thing that I see on social media a lot, and it's usually other men kind of dogging on other men. Like when people talk about being addicted to porn, they'll be like, what's wrong with you, brother? Just walk away from the computer. Like you're not an addict. Like you can't be addicted to porn. What's your response to that?
It's a lie. And I mean, you know, look, common sense, first of all, makes it clear that anything that you give yourself over to. for hours and hours and days and weeks and months is going to get a hold on you. But pornography, because it's related to the human function of sexuality, it takes you in an even deeper way. I can't tell you how many men I've talked to who have gone to lengths that are unimaginable. I remember one man in particular. This guy's at work. He knows that he's being monitored. His bosses talk to him. He knows that it's gonna cost him his job, and he's still looking at pornography at work.
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Chapters
7 chapters
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What percentage of kids have seen porn before middle school?
0:00–0:19
2
How does porn affect the brains of children and adults?
0:19–4:59
3
What should parents do when they discover their child is watching porn?
4:59–8:51
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How can couples address porn addiction in a marriage?
8:51–26:41
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What are the sneaky ways the porn industry targets children?
26:41–29:45
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How can parents effectively protect their kids from porn?
29:45–33:59
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What questions should women ask about porn when dating?
33:59–1:03:56
Speakers
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