#89 - Negative Friendship Patterns; Breaking an Unhealthy Cycle (encore with Christie Tate)

Episode #89: Do you ever feel like you or someone you know is just not “good at” friendship? It's never too late to address negative patterns in our friendships or any relationship. Today's guest, author Christie Tate, author of B.F.F.: A Memoir of Friendship Lost and Found, set out to break decades of unhealthy cycles in her friendships. Do you think you "suck at friendship" as Christie thought before she started this process? There is hope! Christie is here to prove it.We covered: Abolishing a school cafeteria mentality from our adult friendshipsAiming for friendship circles (expansive ) vs. triangles (hard edges)Recognizing how jealousy and envy alters our behavior towards othersKnowing when we're asking friends for too much assuranceChanging from a scarcity mindset to one of abundanceDeveloping compassion for the "it" person (child or adult)Ghosting and being ghostedOwning our ambitions and desires in order to combat competition with friendsMeet Christie Tate:Christie’s latest memoir is, B.F.F.: A Memoir of Friendship Lost and Found. Her previous memoir, Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life, was a New York Times bestseller and a Reese Witherspoon book club pick. You can find links to her many published essays and her writing workshops on her website. Find Christie's Substack newsletter here, and find her on Instagram @Christieotate.ALL THE DEAR NINA LINKS + CONTACT INFO📢 This week’s fabulous sponsor + how to purchase ad space on Dear Nina📱 Subscribe to my newsletter “Conversations About Friendship” on Substack❤️ Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, the Dear Nina Facebook group📪 Ask an anonymous friendship question🔎 Want to work with me or need another link? That’s probably here.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

There are no comments yet.

Please log in to write the first comment.