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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271

01 Dec 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.StoryWor...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271

01 Dec 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.StoryWorth.c...

Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270

29 Nov 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found t...

Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270

29 Nov 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you fou...

Will We Ruin A Good Thing By Moving In Too Soon? Help! - Ep 269

22 Nov 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers. It may be very early in their relationship but "C" and her boyfriend are madly in love—wo...

Will We Ruin A Good Thing By Moving In Too Soon? Help! - Ep 269

22 Nov 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers. It may be very early in their relationship but "C" and her boyfriend are madly in love—wo...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Fantasy Suites | Two Women, One Restaurateur - Ep 268

20 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Fantasy Suite Week! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Fantasy Suites | Two Women, One Restaurateur - Ep 268

20 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEA...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Katie Thurston Hosts A Roast - Ep 267

17 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 8! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.jennikay...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Katie Thurston Hosts A Roast - Ep 267

17 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 8!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.jennikayne.c...

Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266

15 Nov 2023

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It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, ...

Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266

15 Nov 2023

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It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, ...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | A Tell All For The Ages - Ep 265

13 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHAN...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | A Tell All For The Ages - Ep 265

13 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY ...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | The King & The Kat Burglar - Ep 264

10 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenacl...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | The King & The Kat Burglar - Ep 264

10 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.c...

Q&A! When A Good Guy's A Bad Kisser, "No Eggshells" Vs Shared Humor, & Having A Hot Dad - Ep 263

08 Nov 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is...

Q&A! When A Good Guy's A Bad Kisser, "No Eggshells" Vs Shared Humor, & Having A Hot Dad - Ep 263

08 Nov 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your gu...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | When Hometowns Hit Different - Ep 262

03 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FR...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | When Hometowns Hit Different - Ep 262

03 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://drinkAG1.com/SHANDY for a FREE ...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | The Scandal You Never Saw Coming - Ep 261

03 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenacl...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | The Scandal You Never Saw Coming - Ep 261

03 Nov 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.c...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Rollercoaster To Hometowns - Ep 260

27 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use pr...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Rollercoaster To Hometowns - Ep 260

27 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Another Cake Bites The Dust - Ep 259

27 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.co...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Another Cake Bites The Dust - Ep 259

27 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.skims.com an...

Women Without Kids With Ruby Warrington - Ep 258

25 Oct 2023

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to cover the topic of childlessness for quite some time, and when Sharleen read Ruby Warrington's newest...

Women Without Kids With Ruby Warrington - Ep 258

25 Oct 2023

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to cover the topic of childlessness for quite some time, and when Sharleen read Ruby Warrington's newest...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Pickle Me Pink - Ep 257

20 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use c...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Pickle Me Pink - Ep 257

20 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256

20 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.shopbeam....

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256

20 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255

16 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY a...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255

16 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and u...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254

13 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.hellotush...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254

13 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.hellotushy.c...

Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253

11 Oct 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by th...

Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253

11 Oct 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering b...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252

06 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free ...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252

06 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free ship...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251

06 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.shopbeam....

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251

06 Oct 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.shopbeam.com...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250

29 Sep 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://...

Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250

29 Sep 2023

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249

29 Sep 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249

29 Sep 2023

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to...

LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248

27 Sep 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! I...

LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248

27 Sep 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! I...

I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247

21 Sep 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's ...

I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247

21 Sep 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's ...

3 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246

14 Sep 2023

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you o...

3 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246

14 Sep 2023

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you o...

Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245

07 Sep 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Sh...

Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245

07 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What ar...

LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244

31 Aug 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witnes...

LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244

31 Aug 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witnes...

I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243

24 Aug 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared frie...

I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243

24 Aug 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared frie...

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242

23 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.drink...

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242

23 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.drinkAG1...

Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241

17 Aug 2023

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on w...

Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241

17 Aug 2023

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on w...

Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240

15 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factorm...

Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240

15 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All!Thanks to our sponsors!- Head to https://www.factormeal...

Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239

10 Aug 2023

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If y...

Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239

10 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? ...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238

08 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to ...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238

08 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to htt...

LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237

03 Aug 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! W...

LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237

03 Aug 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! W...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236

01 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.c...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236

01 Aug 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/...

My Parents Are Beefing—Am I Wrong To Pick A Side? - Ep 235

27 Jul 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displayi...

My Parents Are Beefing—Am I Wrong To Pick A Side? - Ep 235

27 Jul 2023

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displayi...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family... - Ep 234

25 Jul 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.fabfitfun.co...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family... - Ep 234

25 Jul 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.fabfitfun.com/D...

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 2! - Ep 233

20 Jul 2023

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Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE B...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Big Stick Energy - Ep 232

18 Jul 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.nutrafol.co...

Q&A! Too Much Perfume, Feeling Shallow, & The Lost Art Of Going Slow - Ep 231

13 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for ...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Will The Real AI Bachelorette Contestant Please Stand Up - Ep 230

11 Jul 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf....

He Won't Forgive Me For My Debt—Are We Doomed? - Ep 229

06 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Riley who is calling about her 6 year relationship. Riley made some poor financial decisions in t...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Worst Spring Break Ever - Ep 228

04 Jul 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.hellotushy....

LOVE FEST! Joe Amabile & Serena Pitt From Paradise To City Hall - Ep 227

29 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today is our second ever in-person Love Fest and an absolutely epic one! You watched them meet and get engaged on Paradise S...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Undercover Brother & Operation Kiss & Tell - Ep 226

27 Jun 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big Premiere! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to h...

How To Be Your Own Therapist With Owen O'Kane - Ep 225

22 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic conversation is great for just about anybody, but *especially* those who have considered therapy but haven't pulled the trigger for ...

Q&A! Can "In Sight, Out Of Mind" Work, Differing Beliefs, & A Fetid Fetish - Ep 224

15 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance relationship is at a standstill because he doesn't have a passport,...

LOVE FEST! When Love Lands In Your Inbox With Bennett Jordan & Emily Chen - Ep 223

08 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bennett Jordan (Bachelorette S16) and his lovely fiancée, renowned yoga instructor Emily Chen. This L...

Do My Dating Requirements Make Me A Gold Digger? - Ep 222

01 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day and today we're joined by not one but TWO lovely callers! First we're joined by Megan, who has been wrestling with her dating requirem...

Q&A! Engagement Envy, Torn Between Two Weddings, & Emotional Cheating, But... - Ep 221

25 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you know you have no future with a person, is it still worth a potentially great hooku...

We Plan To Elope But Fear His Parents Will Freak Out—Help!

18 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly ...

The Psychology Of Reality TV Dating With Dr. Kirk Honda

11 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joi...

Q&A! Forced Hugs, When Generosity Goes Too Far, and Who Should Have Paid?

04 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there an age where never having been married or engaged is a red flag? If your car is ...

Love Is Blind Recap: Finale + Reunion | Three Weddings & An Entertainment Funeral

02 May 2023

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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down the Finale and Reunion! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https:...

How To Get Rich With Ramit Sethi

27 Apr 2023

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Today's Hot Topic tackles a recurring theme among our Shandies' questions: MONEY, BABY!! 💵💵💵 We're joined by superstar Ramit Sethi, who not o...

Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 2 | Countdown To Marriage-ageddon

25 Apr 2023

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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 9-11, aka Seattle Part 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Hea...

Q&A! When Is It *Really* Over, Romance MIA, & Pickleball Fights

20 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a history of staying in relationships longer than you should, what are Shandy...

Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 1 | Bliss Is Back... But Not For Everyone

18 Apr 2023

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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 6-8, aka Seattle Part 1. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go t...

LOVE FEST! Ivan Hall & Tailour Roberson On Parting Ways To Grow Together (Oh, And Booking Brand Deals)

13 Apr 2023

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engineer Ivan Hall (Bachelorette S16 & Bachelor in Paradise S7) and his fiancée, anesthesiologist Tai...

Love Is Blind Recap: Mexico | Love Less Blind Than Previously Thought

11 Apr 2023

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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5, aka MEXICO. Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to ...

Goodbye Perfect: Overcoming Perfectionism With Homaira Kabir

06 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic will likely resonate with many a Shandy. If you struggle with perfectionism, your inner critic, feeling the need to prove yourself, ...