Dear Shandy

Love Is Blind Recap: The Pods | Shandy's First Ever LIB Recap & First Impressions

04 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with something new! By very popular demand, Shandy is testing the waters with recapping the 4th season of the hit show Love Is Blind. T...

My Ex Said He Wanted To Stay Friends—Should We?

30 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Sarah, whose ex broke things off around 6 months ago. While things ended with a lot of question marks on...

Bachelor Recap: Finale | Love Triangle Of Sadness

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://prose.com/SHA...

Q&A! Accidental Orgy, Asking To Be The Plus-One, & The Ethics Of Tickling

23 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you've had a missed connection with someone who no longer seems to check the dating ap...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Love Zachtually (Aka Fantasy Suites)

21 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suite Week! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http...

LOVE FEST! Getting Real (And Real Naked) With Danielle Maltby & Michael Allio

16 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Franchise power couple Danielle Maltby (Bachelor S21) and Michael Allio (Bachelorette S17), w...

Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | BIP Auditions And A "Surprise" Crowning

15 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down Women Tell All! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe....

Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Pass The Syrup, Hold The Hometown Drama

14 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometown Week! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://w...

I'm In A Situationship And Need To Suss Out My Next Move!

09 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Nina who has found herself in the early stages of a situationship and wants to "suss out" her next move....

Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Budapest, Bathhouses, & Why We End Things

07 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com a...

Open Relationships With Emily Gindlesparger

02 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic dives deep into the world of open relationships! We're joined by author and ghostwriter Emily Gindlesparger, who not only opened her...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | The Kat, The Witch & Wardrobe Optional

28 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.moshlife.com/S...

Q&A! Being The Mistress, Ending A Friendship, & A Hallmark Love Story

23 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your romantic proposal was underwhelming at best, is there any way to fix it? Is what ...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Princess And The Tea

21 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/...

Chris Bukowski & Anna Redman On Being Best Friends Who Play Games

16 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor icon Chris Bukowski (Bachelorette S8; Bachelor Pad S3; BIP S1, S2, S6) and Anna Redman (Bache...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Kat’s Out Of The Bag & Fight Flub (ft. Claire & Emma Of Love To See It)

14 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today, for the first time ever, we're joined by guests for a recap: Claire and Emma of the Love To...

My Friends Keep Bringing Their Partners To Girls Night—Help!

09 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by two lovely callers! Our first caller, Michelle, is frustrated with members of her core friend group routinely b...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Bones At The Museum & Man, Oh, Mandrell

07 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.dailyharvest.com...

Confessions Of A Matchmaker With Matchmaker Maria

02 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic delves into the fascinating world of professional matchmaking! We're joined by 4th generation matchmaker Maria Avgitidis—aka the f...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | A Latto Bad B*tches

31 Jan 2023

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.TryFirstleaf.com...

Q&A! Statistical Likelihoods, A 28 Year Age Difference, & Sex Vs Commitment, Which Comes First?

26 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy won't commit until after sex, is that a red flag? When someone cancels a date, w...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Desperate Search For Ver-Zach-Y

24 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https:...

We Broke Up Because Of His ED But Now He's Giving Mixed Signals—Help!

19 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Emily, who has found herself in a platonic friendship with her ex for whom she still harbors roma...

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions!

12 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ask and you shall receive! For literal YEARS you've been asking "where are they now?" when it comes to our Shandies' quandaries, and today's the day w...

BEST OF 2022! Our Favorite Q&As Of The Year

22 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Due to an unexpected change in Sharleen's singing schedule, today's episode contains two Dear Shandy firsts: 1) we're recording remotely, and 2) we're...

Q&A! Considering Your Ex's Feelings, The Opposite Of Hate, And A Shandy Pep Talk

15 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you consider an ex's feelings when dating within the same circles? Is the...

My Boyfriend Wants To Open Up Our Relationship—Help!

08 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Rosemary who has been with her partner for 2.5 years. The two always thought they might be open t...

Q&A! Living With Mom, Mismatched In Dancing & Sending A Bad Text To The Wrong Person

01 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When timing doesn't feel like your friend, should you send a "If you're single in the fut...

Platonic: Navigating Friendships With Dr. Marisa G Franco

24 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic is one that has been a loooong time coming. We're joined by bestselling author, professor, and psychologist Dr. Marisa G Franco. Hav...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 2 | Victoria, Johnny and Greg... Oh My!

23 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 16, aka the finale part 2! Thanks to our sponsors! -Go to...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 1 | First Comes Fantasy Suite, Then Comes Neil Lane

22 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 15, aka the finale part 1! Thanks to our sponsors! Go to ...

LOVE FEST! Ben Zorn & Stacy Santilena On Going From Friends To More And Surviving Stagecoach

17 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Ben Zorn (The Bachelorette Season 11, Bachelor In Paradise Season 4) and his lovely wife Stacy Santile...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap Eps 13 & 14 | Andrew Has 99 Problems And Jessenia Is One

16 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 13 & 14! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.hel...

Q&A! Venting, Mismatched TV Tastes, And Is An Old Flame Worth Revisiting?

10 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to vent to others about your partner? Is it worth revisiting things with an o...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 12 | Rodney, A Tragedy In Three Acts

08 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/...

I Broke My Ex's Heart & Think I Want Him Back—Help!

03 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth who has quite the complicated high school sweetheart story that ended in her breaking t...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 10 & 11 | Red Flag Banquet And Boring In Stereo

02 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 10 and 11! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.t...

How To Manifest Your Best Life With Roxie Nafousi

27 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic theme addresses the relationship you have with yourself—your deepest desires, your beliefs, and what might be getting in the way o...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 8 & 9 | Shanae 1.0 Returns While A Love Triangle Brews

26 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 8 and 9! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.hel...

Q&A! Stealing Baby Names, Vocal Fry, And Refusal To Put Down The Toilet Seat

20 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if you've always dreamed of living elsewhere but your partner has no i...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 6 & 7 | Down Goes Casey While Michael Flies First Class

19 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 6 and 7! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.Try...

Ashley Spivey & Steve Hunsberger On Passing The Baton And Meeting Thanks To The Bachelor

13 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

*** TRIGGER WARNING: this post mentions pregnancy loss. Please listen with care. *** It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by our friends, lon...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Salley Finally Lands And Also... Peter

12 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squ...

When, If Ever, Should I Disclose My "Number" In Dating? Help!

06 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO delightful callers. Our first caller, Ray, has been texting with a guy daily for 6 whopping mo...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 2 & 3 | Suitcase Sagas And Fruit Fly Time

05 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 2 and 3! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.fra...

Navigating Mismatched Libidos With Sexologist Shan Boodram

29 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one pa...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | Logan Drops A Luce

28 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to HelloFresh.com/shan...

Q&A! Rom-Com Scenarios, Cringey Pet Names And Sliding Into His (LinkedIn) DMs

23 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like a guy but not his pet name for you, is it worth saying something? If reconnec...

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Breakup House And A Tino Kebab

22 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12, aka the GRAND FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to htt...

LOVE FEST! Kenny Braasch & Mari Pepin On Homebody Life & Age Difference Upside

16 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Kenny Braasch (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Mari Pepin (The Bachelor, Season 25), who yo...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 11 | A Kafka-Esque Battle Of Semantics

15 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 11, aka the Finale, Part 1! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to h...

Should I Pack Up And Move My Whole Family For My Own Personal Happiness? Help!

08 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Hanna, is happily married with 3 young children. Everything's as it should be in their very small town, but sh...

Bachelorette Recap: Eps 9 & 10 | Fantasy Suites, Hold The Fantasy

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 9 and 10, aka Fantasy Suites Part 1 and 2! Thanks to our spo...

2 Year Anniversary Q&A | Answering Our Shandies' Questions! - Ep 156

01 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 2 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you o...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | A Bewitching Hometown, Villains Gone MIA, & First Impression Rose Head

30 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Aven's Hometown and Men Tell All. Thanks to our sponso...

Q&A! Hot For Teacher, Turning The Other Cheek, & A 25 Year Age Difference

25 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend accidentally sees your fetish in your search history, should you addres...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | A Clown Car Of Hometowns

23 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7. Thanks to our sponsors! -Go to https://www.dailyharvest.co...

LOVE FEST! Blake Horstmann & Giannina Gibelli Talk DJ Life And Misconceptions

18 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1)...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Did You Know Hometowns Are Around The Corner?

16 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com...

My Dad Won't Stop Talking About His Divorce From My Mom—Help! - Ep 150

11 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | The Villain Soundtrack Is On Repeat In Belgium

09 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com...

Parenthood Clarity With #ChildfreeByChoice Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire

04 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's conversation has been a loooong time coming! So many of your questions over the last 2 years have swirled around whether or not to become a pa...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | The Two Camps Set Sail In France

02 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! -Go to https://www.fahertybrand.co...

Q&A! Farting, Skeletons In The Apartment, & Sharleen's True Feelings On Andy's White V-Necks

28 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a woman is open to dating older, what should that actual bracket be on the apps? If a ...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | All Power Struggles Lead To A Fork In The Road

26 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thanks to our sponsors! - Download the free Upside app and...

LOVE FEST! Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb On Misconceptions And Scheduled Walks

21 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who y...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | A Villain Comes And Goes... And Comes Back Again

19 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com...

My Fiancé Won't Write Personalized Wedding Vows For Our Big Day—Help!

14 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's a 2-for-1 Caller Day! Today's first caller, Nicki, is in the thick of wedding planning, and while she and her fiancé agree on just about everyth...

Bachelorette Recap: Two's A Crowd But So Far They're Still Friends

12 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.feals.com/S...

Q&A! A First Date Venmo, Safe Sex = Equal Effort?, & A Shandy's Love Letter

07 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks you to Venmo him for your first date together? Is it re...

My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Ex—Help!

30 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Emily, is at her wit's end. Her boyfriend still lives with his ex, and while he has his reasons, she's wonderi...

Bittersweet: How Sadness Is A Superpower With Susan Cain - Ep 138

23 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This is Sharleen's all-time favorite Hot Topic conversation. You will probably also learn more about Andy's mind and thought process here than in any ...

Q&A! To BJ Or Not To BJ, Changing Your Date's Style, & The Women's Equivalent To Andy's "Men Are Mature At 36" Rule

16 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like the guy but not his style, is it superficial to want to change it? Andy has l...

LOVE FEST! Sarah Nicole & Shane Landry On Harnessing Jealousy & The Romance Of Logistics

09 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a true ambassador for body positivity, Sarah Nicole Landry, and her partner in crime, her husband Shan...

He Wouldn't Quit Following Racy Accounts—Was I Being Too Uptight?

02 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

And just like that... it's Caller Day again! Today's lovely caller, Taylor, was in a passionate romance that felt like The One. But when she confronte...

Unpacking Purity Culture With Blair Of @TalkPurityToMe

26 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today we have the pleasure of speaking with Blair, the “exvangelical” brains behind @TalkPurityToMe, a humorous account dedicated to unlearning th...

Q&A! In Ick We Trust, "If He Wanted To, He Would", and To Kill Or Not To Kill?

19 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does "The Ick" speak to good instincts or just being overly picky? Should we trust that i...

LOVE FEST! Courtney Robertson & Humberto Preciado On Instagram Vetting & Keeping The Peace

12 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a Bachelor Nation icon, Courtney Robertson Preciado, and her husband, Humberto Preciado! You certainly...

Navigating Romance When You Have Anxiety, OCD Or Depression With Allison Raskin

05 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's guest, Allison Raskin, is a New York Times best selling author and mental health advocate. Her 3rd and latest book, “Overthinking About You:...

I Think I'm In Love With My Platonic Life Partner—Help!

28 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Kelsey, introduces us to a popular new term (Platonic Life Partner, or "PLP"), redefining what one's "soulmate...

Q&A! Fantasize On, Being The Other Woman, & When You Can't Find A Great Person Attractive

21 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to fantasize about other people if you're in a committed and happy partnershi...

LOVE FEST! Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney On Grand Gestures & Being Friends First

14 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's couple has been hotly requested for so many months, it's about time we brought them into the Shandy fold for a doubl...

Confessions of a Divorce Attorney ft. Nicole Sodoma

07 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today's lovely guest, Nicole Sodoma, is a seasoned divorce attorney of over two decades and the managing principal at Sodoma Law, based in Charlotte N...

His Words And His Actions Don't Align—Should I Reach Back Out?

31 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's call will likely be very relatable for those dating out there. Today we're joined by Lauren, a young single mom who knows wha...

Q&A! When You're Annoyed By Your Partner's Hobby & How To Slide Into A Celeb's DMs

24 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How should you proceed if you love your partner but not his very frequent, very loud hobb...

Bachelor Recap: Finale | Twists, Controversy, and Empathy... Oh My!

17 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com...

Parasocial Relationships With Josh Peck

17 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Parasocial relationships are defined as one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, th...

My Long Distance Relationship Has Gotten Rocky—Help!

10 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's is Andy's all-time favorite call. We're joined by Fiona, who is in a one year old relationship. As things have become long di...

Bachelor Recap: WTA + Ep 9 | The High-Wire Act That Is Overnights

09 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Overnights. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to ...

Our Wedding Story, Part 2 (aka Wedding Q&A!)

03 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

After Our Wedding Story episode, we were overwhelmed by follow-up questions. We asked if you wanted a Part 2 and you said yes! So, combining your emai...

Bachelor Recap: Episode 8 | Meta Language & Outdoorsy Lessons In Hometown Week

01 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Hometown week. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SH...

Q&A! Returning The Ring, My BF Misses His Ex's Family, And DWI = Dealbreaker?

24 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there *ever* a case to be made for keeping the engagement ring after the relationship ...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Couples "Therapy" And A Villain On The Side

22 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.stance.com and use cod...

LOVE FEST! Krystal Nielson & Miles Bowles On Opposites Attracting & The Fun Of Parenting

17 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's most iconic women, Krystal Nielson and her partner, Miles Bowles! You may rem...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Undesirable "Dates", Simmering Beef, & Marionette Strings

15 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHAND...

Does My Fling Think I Moved For Him? Help!

10 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Anna, newly single and looking to mingle. Her casual fling was great while it lasted, but things have ta...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Art of Comedy And The No-Shame-Ae Show Heads To Toronto

08 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to g...

Finding Purpose—With Or Without A Relationship—With John Kim, "The Angry Therapist"

03 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are you waiting for The One to finally begin living your life? Or are you in a partnership so comfy you've lost sight of your own individuality? Today...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | BBQ Crashers & When Shrimp Cancels Cocktail Parties

01 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY...

Q&A! Whack-A-Mole Of Life, A Sexless Marriage, And Once Bad In Bed, Always Bad In Bed?

27 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're into goes radio silent, is is possible to salvage things? Is it possibl...