Dear Shandy

Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Loose Lips Sink Ships, High Thigh, and The Same Ol’ Playbook

25 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY t...

LOVE FEST! Jacqueline Trumbull & Paul Seli On Overcoming Jealousy & The Art Of Making A Move

20 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's closest Bachelor Nation friends, Jacqueline Trumbull, and her fiancé Paul Seli! You...

The Hunt For Red Flags

13 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Our first caller, Lisa, is in the very early stages of dating a guy who seems accompanied b...

Bachelor Recap : Ep 2 | Hilary Duff, Kissing Fatigue, & Shanae-nah

11 Jan 2022

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use...

Q&A! Annoyance Mitigation, Guys Who Don't Ask You Out, & Sh*tting Where You Eat

06 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there such a thing as the "right" number of dates in the early stages? What does it me...

Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Likeliest of Bachelors and Unlikeliest of Exits

04 Jan 2022

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHAND...

Our Wedding Story

30 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In keeping with tradition, we're doing something a little different to ring in the New Year. This topic has been requested for awhile now, so today, i...

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Foregone Conclusion Wrapped With A Christmas Bow

23 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down the finale. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/S...

LOVE FEST! Shawn Johnson & Andrew East On Holding Kites & Persistence Paying Off

16 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're thrilled to be joined by the power couple behind The East Family Youtube and media empire, Shawn Johnson East an...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Official ILYs, Ziplining, and Fantasy Suites

15 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.magicspoon.com...

My Boyfriend Just Broke Up With Me But Wants Shared Custody Of My Dog—Help!

09 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Anna, was broken up with exactly one week before this call. However, instead of being able to sever ties with her ex,...

Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | Apologies And Missed Opportunities Galore

07 Dec 2021

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHA...

Navigating Enmeshment and Setting Boundaries with Alyssa Mancao

02 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're diving deep into a topic you've been requesting since Dear Shandy's earliest days: Enmeshment. We're joined by psychotherapist Alyssa Manc...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometowns, Emotional Breakthroughs, & Punctual Professions Of Love

01 Dec 2021

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and...

Q&A! Changing Names, Revealing FWB History, Sharing Secrets, & "Timing" Truths

25 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your FWB relationship is firmly in the past, should you still tell your current partne...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | No Tears? No Problem! A Bachelor Edit To The Rescue

24 Nov 2021

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.magicspoon.com/SH...

LOVE FEST! Sarah Herron & Dylan Brown's Real Life Meet Cute & IVF Journey

18 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Sarah Herron (who you may remember from Sean Lowe's season of The Bachelor, as well as the 1st and 3rd...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Minneapolis Is For Lovers But Especially Joe & Nayte

17 Nov 2021

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and ...

My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?

11 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today's caller, Claire, is in a happy relationship. However, her boyfriend's sister is rude in small ways. Are these slights a matter...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Feeling Unseen, Teddy Bros, and D-List Villainy

10 Nov 2021

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.postmates.com (or...

Truths Bombs About Egg Freezing & Fertility with Whitney Bischoff Angel

04 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Today's topic came hotly requested and we're thrilled to be joined by a familiar face: Whitney Bischoff Angel, winner of The Bachelor Season 19! As an...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Petulance, Poetry, and Justice

03 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Please note this episode contains spoilers about the next Bach...

Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?

28 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why might a guy disappear after sex? If you want to rekindle with an ex, or "double dip",...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Basketball Bonding, Bad Spelling, and Rumors Swirling

27 Oct 2021

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.rothys.com/SHANDY...

LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett and Nicole McNamara on "Knowing" and Never Settling

21 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 You may notice today's Love Fest is a little bit different! In honor of Andy's obsession with big waves, we're welcoming the...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | If You Want To Make ABC Laugh, Tell Them About Your Plans

20 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com...

Should I Hold Out For Long Distance To End, Or Let Go And Enjoy Singledom? Help!

14 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Marcela. Marcela struggles between waiting for the light at the end of the long distance relationship tu...

Breakup Bootcamp: Rewiring Your Heart with Amy Chan

07 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

For anyone going through a breakup, or just anyone whose patterns around love and dating need rewiring, this episode is for you. Today's guest is the ...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | Breakups, Offscreen Makeups, and Proposals—Oh My!

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down the finale of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! Go to ...

Q&A! Everyday Annoyances, Early Stage Doubts, and Whether Or Not White Lies Equal Red Flags

30 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How soon is too soon to doubt a relationship you just entered into? If your longtime frie...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 10 | Ivan-Gate, Conspiracy Theories, and Memory Lanes

29 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor...

LOVE FEST! Jasmine Lorimer & Eric Johnson on Italian Accents and Love Languages

23 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's best friends from the franchise, Jasmine Lorimer, the one and only Bachelorette Cana...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Couples Get Serious As A *Literal* Storm Brews

22 Sep 2021

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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9 of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to...

My Boyfriend Just Can't Get It Right With Gifts—Help!

16 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Vivian, who is in a happy relationship but with one caveat: she doesn't feel understood when it comes to...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Comeuppance, Universal Hypocrisy, and Palate Cleanser Dr. Joe

15 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor ...

It's Our 1-Year Anniversary! A Special Q&A For Our Listeners, The Shandies!

09 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Shandy is officially 1 year old! We wanted to do something a little different to celebrate this milestone, so we asked you over on Instagram to s...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | A VIP Party, Chris, & The Betrayals Continue

08 Sep 2021

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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! Go to h...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | Brendan & Pieper, Paradise's Bonnie & Clyde

07 Sep 2021

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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor ...

Q&A! Fairytale Fantasies, Going Backwards, and How Many Friends With Exes Is Too Many?

02 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you hold out for your fairytale? How many friendships with exes is TOO ma...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Becca Kufrin, Jewelry, and A "Strongest Couple" No More

01 Sep 2021

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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor ...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Strawberry Kisses, Betrayal, and Paradise "Implodes"

31 Aug 2021

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By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of season 7. Thanks to our sponsor! Visit ht...

LOVE FEST! Chatty Broads' Jess and Evan Ambrose on Growing Together and Adapting To Parenthood

26 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 We have YOU, dear Shandies, to thank for this Love Fest as you passionately requested this wonderful couple. Today we are jo...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Lance Bass, Thomas, and The Police Department

25 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3, season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor re...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Cat 4 Demi, Pot Meet Kettle, and The Value Of A Rose

24 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2, season 7. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor re...

Our Meeting Story Feels Serendipitous—But Am I Forcing This? Help!

19 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO callers, both of whom have meet-cute stories with guys at friends' weddings. With Nicole, we decipher a tex...

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | David Spade, Kissing Galore, and "Grocery Store" Joe's Anti-Game

17 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

By popular request, Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere of season 7. Thanks to our sponsors! Visi...

How To Attract The Relationship You Want with Tracy McMillan

12 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been seeking marriage or a longterm relationship but find it eludes you? Have you ever wished someone would just give you the honest truth ab...

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Terse Well Wishes, Aunt Lindsay, & A New Bachelor Nation Couple

10 Aug 2021

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Shandy is back with your recap of the finale of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsor! Visit http://www.manscaped.com ...

Q&A! Relationship Nostalgia, Decoding FWB Situations, and Coulda Woulda Shoulda

05 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Should you tell your partner if you find yourself reminiscing about a past relationship? ...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Greg, Greg, and More Greg (Plus Our Predictions!)

03 Aug 2021

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Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 9 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsors! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/...

LOVE FEST! Nick Viall & Natalie Joy on How They Met and Building Trust

29 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's is a particularly momentous Love Fest and a Dear Shandy exclusive! Fittingly for our 1-year anniversary month and ou...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 | Michael, Tear Analysis, and Men Tell All

27 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 8 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recappe...

My Boyfriend's Close Girl Friend Doesn't Like Me! Help!

22 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Have you ever dated someone whose platonic friend(s) didn't exactly welcome you with open arms? Today's caller, Dayna, has a predicam...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Katie’s an Empath, Mike P & His Mom, a Heartfelt Farewell

20 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 7 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette!  Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recap...

Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Compatibility & Tarot Reading

15 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You have asked for months for us to bring on an Astrologer and Tarot card reader, and the day has finally come! We're admittedly not big on Astrology,...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Lose-Lose Situations

13 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 6 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to chat about Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and...

Q&A! First Love Lasting, Friends or More, & Money Insecurity in Dating

08 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. In a straight yet platonic male-female friendship, how much stock should one put in flirt...

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Party Crasher Blake, Andrew S. 1-on-1, & Hunter

06 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 5 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to chat about newcomer Blake, Andrew S' lon...

LOVE FEST! Katie Morton & James Rowe On Making Long-Distance Work

01 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Katie Morton (who you may remember from Colton's season of The Bachelor, as well as the 6th season of ...

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 4 | Blake Moynes & Bachelor Thomas

29 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 4 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Tre vs Andrew S, new arrival Bla...

In Spite Of Multiple "Wrongs", Can He Still Be Mr. Right?

24 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Just how many unchecked boxes are *too* many? Today's conversation is a doozy and covers just about everything: different religions a...

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 3 | Right Reasons™ Drama, Nick Viall's Group Date, & Instagram Thomas

22 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 3 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Karl's behavior, the least fun G...

Demystifying Your Pelvic Health & Secret Tips For More Pleasure ft. Dr. Uchenna Ossai

17 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Today's Hot Topic episode is one of Sharleen's personal favorites. We're joined by the brilliant Dr. Uchenna Ossai, one of a handful of pelvic floor p...

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 2 | Mike's Poem, Aaron vs. Cody, & "Right Reasons" Karl

15 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 2 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Mike’s poem, Aaron versus Cody...

Q&A! Texting Chemistry, He's Just Not That Into You, & The One That Got Away

10 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Does texting style affect our perception of a person, and how good an indicator is t...

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 1 | First Impressions, Kayshia, & Our Predictions

08 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ask and you shall receive! You've asked us for ages to recap The Bachelor and its spinoffs, and we're finally obliging. Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor...

LOVE FEST! Ben Higgins & Jess Clarke Reveal Why Their Relationship Works & Ben's Secret Zookeeper Past

03 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple is bonafide Bachelor royalty: Ben Higgins and his stunning fiancée, Jess Clarke! These two join us fro...

My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?

27 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Our caller, Maya, may be in a happy, healthy relationship, but she's at a crossroads. If you've ever been in a longterm relationship ...

Nikki Glaser Confesses Crush on Nick Viall, Sliding Into Matt James's DMs & Secrets of Celebrity Dating

20 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered what dating and relationships are like when you're a celebrity? How do famous folks meet these days, and when they do, what's d...

Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone

13 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 If you have a crush on someone in their workplace, is it OK to ask them out? And if ...

LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Heart

06 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Sydney Lotuaco (who you may remember from Colton's season of The Bachelor) and her sweet boyfriend, Ni...

Did I Miss My Proposal?!

29 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Our caller, Kate, has a unique predicament that veers into discussions about mismatched Love Languages and our cultural expectations ...

Confessions of a Reality TV Dating Show Host ft. Mark L. Walberg (Temptation Island)

22 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever watched a reality TV dating show and wondered what that poker-faced host is REALLY thinking? As Temptation Island fans and general admir...

Q&A! Relationship Disillusionment

15 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 How normal are growing pains when you and your partner first live together, and is i...

LOVE FEST! Desiree & Chris Siegfried On How Kids Have Impacted Their Relationship

08 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple is downright iconic in Bachelor Nation: Desiree and Chris Siegfried! We recorded this after they were a...

I'm Secretly In Love With My Best Friend And Roommate—Help!

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Our caller, Elise, has a predicament that might resonate if you've ever lusted after a close friend. If you found yourself in love wi...

Confessions of a Family and Marriage Therapist ft. LizListens

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're joined by licensed family and marriage therapist, Elizabeth Earnshaw! There's something for everyone in this episode: If you're either sin...

Q&A! He's Everything I Want, But We Don't Share the Same Sense of Humor—Help!

18 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it really a MUST that you and your partner live together before getting married? ...

LOVE FEST! Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick Discuss Starting in the Friendzone

11 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple requires no introduction: Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jason Tartick! We had high expectations for this "double...

I Don't Yearn For My Partner When We're Apart—Is This A Bad Sign?!

04 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! Our first caller, Mel, was dumped for not being vulnerable enough. Is there a "vulnerability" timeline? Our second caller, Kate, is i...

Confessions of a Sex Therapist ft. Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy

25 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We brought the big guns to tackle your sex and intimacy questions: Sex Therapist Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy! There's something for everyone in this episod...

Q&A! Staying Connected with Exes on Social Media & Second Chances

18 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it wise to stay connected with your ex via Instagram? Is it a dealbreaker if a gu...

LOVE FEST! Ashley Iaconetti & Jared Haibon Reveal How Their Love Story Is the Exception to the Rule

11 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's happiest (and most iconic!) couples, Ashley Iaconetti and Jared Haibon! These...

My Boyfriend and I View COVID Differently—Is This A Deal Breaker?!

04 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! If you've been in a relationship throughout this pandemic, our first caller's predicament just might resonate: How do you reason with...

Navigating Jealousy in Relationships & Exploring Non-Monogamy ft. Janet W. Hardy

28 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Jealousy is a beast of a topic, so we thought long and hard about who to help us tackle it. Shandy brought the big guns: who better to talk jealousy t...

Q&A! Keeping the Chemistry Alive & Navigating Unhappy Marriages

21 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, ready to answer more of YOUR burning questions. 🔥 What are Shandy's tips to help to keep the spark al...

LOVE FEST! Derek Peth & Saffron Vadher Talk Love At First Sight

14 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by newly engaged lovebirds Derek Peth and Saffron Vadher! These two are on the private side, so we're thr...

Did My Date Fake Sickness to Abruptly Leave Our Date?!

07 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's Caller Day! If you were at dinner and your date left abruptly, claiming illness, would you read into it? At what point is showing concern too gen...

Our Proposal Story

31 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We wanted to do something a little different to celebrate New Year's Eve (and the end of 2020!). So today, inspired by Episode 1 (How We Met), we're d...

Q&A! Compromising for Relationships & Leaving Lost Causes

24 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, ready to answer more of YOUR burning questions. 🔥 How necessary is compromise in relationships, and w...

LOVE FEST! Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo Address Marriage Rumors and Cat Plates

17 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by married lovebirds Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo! These two met and got engaged on Rachel's season o...

We're at an Emotional Stalemate—Should We Break Up?

10 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Thanks to our sponsor - HELLO TUSHY! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! Today's call is a...

The Do's and Don'ts of Managing Finances As A Couple

03 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Thanks to our sponsor - HELLO TUSHY! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! Ask and you shall...

Q&A! Dating Leagues & Yellow Flags

26 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, ready to answer a whole slew of YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it a bad sign if a guy isn't "obsessed" ...

LOVE FEST! Lesley Anne Murphy & Alex Kavanagh Talk Moving, Pregnancy, and Their Drone Love Story

19 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by the hotly requested Lesley Ann Murphy and her fiancé Alex Kavanagh! Lesley is a travel blogger and yo...

Should I Tell My Ex Lover's Girlfriend About Our Secret Affair?

12 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Today's call touches on an interesting moral dilemma that many have likely considered, but far fewer have acted on. As "the other woman", which is mor...

Confessions of a Divorced Man in His 40's ft. Comedian Dov Davidoff

05 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Today's episode is the first in our new "Confessions" series! If you could ask a recently divorced man ANYTHING, what would it be? We polled you over ...

Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!

29 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it sketchy if your boyfriend follows his ex's erotic accounts,...

LOVE FEST! Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt Talk Meeting on Bachelor in Paradise & Dominos Love

22 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engaged lovebirds Astrid Loch and Kevin Wendt! These two met on Bachelor in Paradise (Season 5) and go...

I've Never Been in a Meaningful Relationship—Help!

15 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Just how honest should you be in your dating profile? If you never drink, would it hurt your dating chances to share that? And if you're in your mid-2...