"I don't want to make a selfish decision" is something I hear a lot. "Here's exactly what I mean by that..." is not! This is why it's so easy to default to decisions you don't really want to make. If you're afraid a choice might be selfish — but you don't have a clear definition of "selfish" — of course the safest option is to avoid that choice, and thereby avoid the possibility of being selfish! In this episode, I'm going to help you know what you're really afraid of, when this "selfish" concern comes up. We explore 5 common fears (from thoughts people might think about you to negative consequences, and more!) And we break down how to truly identify if a choice is selfish (according to your definition), or if it's actually self-honoring. Because you don't just deserve to make decisions you stand behind, that serve you — you deserve to not feel GUILTY about them! This will set the record straight. Links! What's your DECISION STYLE? Take the Quiz! Need to say NO? Here's your 11-minute Crash Course on Saying NO Guilt-Free. Want to work together? Book your free consultation!

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