Digital Social Hour
Inside an Exclusive $200K Membership Experience | Father Damon DSH #852
Sat, 02 Nov 2024
Step into the fascinating world of exclusivity with us as we explore the "Inside an Exclusive $200K Membership Experience" on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎉 In this riveting episode, Father Damon shares his journey from the vibrant culture of the 70s to creating a unique club experience that intertwines love, connection, and art. Discover the transformation of a party into a place where people connect on a deeper level without judgment. 🌟 Don't miss out on Father Damon's candid insights into the evolving dynamics of his membership, the allure of Miami, and the art of meaningful connections. 🎭 Join the conversation as we delve into the intersection of sexuality, spirituality, and community without superficialities. Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 Tune in now to explore a world where connection transcends the ordinary. #connectivesexualityevents #eckharttolle #spiritualgrowth #openrelationship #losangelesnightclubs CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Why Damon’s Moving to Miami 05:00 - Damon's Event Goals and Achievements 17:40 - Spiritual Teachers and Drug Experimentation 19:29 - Growing Up in a Spiritual Household 20:23 - Discovering the Meaning of Life 22:16 - Recent Sex Party Experience Insights 29:33 - Exploring Fetishes at Parties 31:20 - The Intersection of Sex and Cannabis 32:36 - Final Thoughts on Life and Events 35:01 - Alysium VIP: Miami's Premier Experience APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Father Damon https://www.fatherdamon.com/ https://www.instagram.com/fatherdamon/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Chapter 1: Why is Father Damon moving to Miami?
Well, I was not literally raised by wolves. I was raised in the 70s. It was a different time. My parents were hippies. Everyone around was doing drugs. There was a lot of musicians. It was a different world. People just were free. They just did what they wanted to do.
Because if you think about the art and the music that came out of the 60s and the 70s, I mean, it was just like, it was some of the best music that will ever be made.
All right, guys. Father Damon here all the way from L.A. Thanks for driving in today, man.
Absolutely.
Yeah, it means a lot. And I know you're moving to Miami soon.
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Chapter 2: What are the goals of Father Damon's events?
I am in September.
What prompted that move?
That's a good question. I had to stop and think about it for a second because I started a club called Elysian, which is my new club. And I had this real clear thing in mind about love and connection and sexuality kind of being combined into an event. And I really felt like I achieved what I was trying to achieve.
But what happened was very interesting, which was that it attracted the porn community. I mean, our events would have 60, 70 girls. 80% were porn stars. and they were coming to the parties to have the kind of sex they like to have in real life. There's no cameras there. There's nothing being filmed. There's no exchange of money.
So it was a place where they started to come to enjoy their own sexuality. And as word got out, that really grew. And so what ended up happening is I think that some of the people that were coming to the parties...
you know, when you have couples coming and let's say it's a couple in their forties and it's a woman, you know, a wife or whatever it might be being in a room full of 20 year old porn stars, maybe was make, it wasn't the most comfortable thing for them, you know? And, and I was so like, um, open arms to the community. Cause I, I hadn't really had a lot of experience with the porn community at all.
You know, I hadn't met a lot of porn stars. I hadn't talked about, it's not really something that I was interested in or, or pursuing, but, um, But it became this thing of these parties where they were coming to enjoy themselves and enjoy their sexuality. And I think that actually some of my members felt intimidated by the environment.
And I saw that because sex parties for me in the past, the guests were not from porn. It was just real people hanging out, wanting to meet other people. And it became a little confusing. The clientele that I'm used to, like I said, they felt a little intimidated. And the tickets are really expensive, and the memberships are really expensive. I thought it was kind of heaven.
I thought it was paradise. If you have 60 girls that are all cool and beautiful and enjoying themselves, very sexual, that environment, I thought a man would love that environment. but we also had some porn stars there, you know, and like the males. And I think it was an intimidating environment for people, you know? And so, you know, as I started to kind of,
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Chapter 3: How did the porn community influence Father Damon's parties?
I think just what I was experiencing was guys constantly trying to get in under the prize. Can I give you some cash? And it was not something I was used to. And most of my friends and most of the people that were... the guys that really have money have moved to Miami or New York. And I think there's been kind of an exodus from Los Angeles. The nightclubs aren't really doing what they used to do.
Bottle service isn't doing what it used to do. So in a way for me, I feel like... I need to be where my clients are. And they're there now. And also, I've lived in LA for a long time. And I've never lived in Miami. I've been there. I really like it. I'm curious what it's going to be like. So I'm going to get a place for a year. We have a dock. We have a yacht. I have a Rolls Royce in the driveway.
I like the whole thing. It's going to be wild. Nice. And yeah, and experience that. And then I love New York City. I love the energy there. And so I'll be able to do, I'm going to be doing events in Miami and New York. So yeah, the LA experiment went really well as far as I'm concerned.
I delivered what I wanted to, and I really did make a party, even though it's a sex party, really about connecting with people, about having the kind of sex that I think is good, which is more connective, not just performative or just the motion of sex. Sex can be either something that I feel is
a spiritual experience literally or it can just be a physical experience and I'm going I'm trying to tap into the more spiritual aspects of it for whatever reason I don't think the LA audience was really there for it other than all of the girls in the porn community.
And I got to know them really well, and I got to understand their sexuality, the kind of sex they were having on set, how disconnected it was. And a lot of them don't even have sex for their own pleasure. They don't even have relationships. They just fuck on camera. Am I allowed to say that? Okay. And it's pretty empty. And so...
Because of my ethos and what I was trying to accomplish, that energy did kind of happen there, and they really loved it. So, you know, it helped me to sort of start something I didn't think I was going to start, which is a content house and starting to film explicit content that is very connective, you know, where I'm asking the girls, like, what do you actually like?
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Chapter 4: What challenges did Father Damon face in LA?
I interview them, talk to them about their sexuality, what they're genuinely into. Generally, they'll show up on set and it's like, OK, you know, this is your this is a stepfather, stepdaughter scene. And, you know, these are the positions. And then, you know, you're going to get, you know, come all over your face.
And it's like, you know, whatever people watching porn may think, you know, most of these girls aren't aren't really into that. They're not even actually orgasming. You know, it's not. And that's not everyone. There are girls that absolutely love what they do. But a lot of times it's the girls that have really established careers and they can dictate things more so.
They can talk about what they want. They can say no to things. The younger girls coming in, I mean, they just get like train rolled through. I mean, there's no one there to look after them or really care about them. At least that's what I'm experiencing and hearing. And, you know, I could be wrong. I don't know everything. But that's been my experience with these girls.
And I got to know them as friends, you know, and they told me their truth. So, yeah, you know, I definitely think that I can – I definitely think that I can make content that is more along the lines of what they want, their real sexuality and what they're really into. And so I'm starting to get into that.
And yeah, I mean, the events and the relationships I formed there kind of led me into this thing now where I'm doing content and I'm creating things that I didn't think I was going to because I... I do parties, I do events, I love doing that. There was a loss because I know that I wanted to achieve something in LA that I wasn't able to.
But I feel like I did it the way I wanted to, and I'm proud of that. And I'm hoping that the East Coast will be more into this, will be into the idea of this and what this is about. So yeah, so we'll see.
I think you'll do well in Miami. A lot of crypto money there, and crypto's doing well, so.
Yeah, and really, I... Although it's hard for people to talk about or admit it or whatever sometimes, we all want love. We all want to be connected to somebody. I think the ultimate experience with anybody is a feeling that you're desired, you're wanted, you're loved, you're feeling a connection.
A lot of men pay for sex, and that's not the kind of sex that I like because it's just not very satisfying. It's pretty empty. Um, I like really deeply connective sex, you know? And so because I'm back in this business again, and I, I've been doing this for a long time, I'm hoping that I can guide people to that place because it's just better. It's better sex.
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Chapter 5: How does Father Damon define connective sex?
That's part of my little mission here is to do that.
I can definitely see that. There's a lot of shame and guilt with talking about sex openly, publicly. If that wasn't the case, your club would be popping because everyone would just be word of mouth marketing for you.
Yeah. That, you know, it's interesting because I've always had to operate as a bit of like a secretive society type vibe. Right. Because I can't because it's got to be secretive. I've got to protect my members. I can't talk about it publicly. You know. Yeah.
And you got some of the biggest clientele.
So I do. I have amazing people, you know, and I forge friendships with them and and they genuinely love what this is. You know, and it's amazing that they come. It's I. I love having them. It makes for great parties when you're looking around and you see these people that you recognize or that you look up to and things like that.
Shit, I'd pay 5K to be in that room.
You know what I mean? Are you ever in Miami?
Yeah, but I got a fiance.
Oh, well, you know, couples come all the time.
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Chapter 6: What makes Elysian different from typical sex parties?
Yeah. But before that, you're talking to people. It's like a cocktail party. You're meeting amazing people. You're meeting the kinds of people you'd want to meet, having real conversations. Everything's curated. They'll get ladies' guesses. Everyone's really beautiful. It's a great environment.
And then you're watching shows and we do all kinds of things that are really, really fun and experience. And we have art everywhere, like amazing erotic art that's multi-million dollar art. So it's like a cocktail party for the kinds of people you'd want to be at a party with.
And then when the lights turn red, that lets people know that if they want to start to engage and make love and fuck, whatever, that they can't. And at that point, you and your fiance could watch or walk around or hang out or leave. There's an opening to this thing where you get to experience what it is. And then when the sexuality starts...
you might find that you're so comfortable in that environment, and your fiance is too, that you guys are like, wow, this isn't what I thought it was going to be. This is super cool. That's what everyone says.
That makes sense.
It's like the same thing. This is not what I thought it was going to be. But if you guys are maybe uncomfortable around sexuality or the idea of seeing other people have sex would make you uncomfortable or being in an environment where that was so kind of open, then I can understand someone being uncomfortable with it. It's become so second nature to me. You're used to it. I don't even notice it.
And when it's a really cool party, it can be some of the most amazing things you've ever seen in your life. Really? Yeah, to see people in groups making love and having sex. It's funny, I don't know whether to say making love or having sex because they are different.
Right.
you know, set like to me, having sex is like the act, the physical act of sex, making love is like actually being connected to your partner so that when you're together, there's love, you know, and you're sharing in that probably what you have with your fiance. When you bring that to, to a party, um, Yeah, I don't know. You guys might want to just check it out.
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Chapter 7: What is the vision for Father Damon's events in Miami?
Okay, cool. And so that culture... you know, born me and, and I learned so much in it, but it was also as a child, um, a scary place, you know, it wasn't a place of safety. It wasn't a place of like, you know, I mean, I don't know how you were raised, but I have, I have kids now I have two kids and like, I would never expose them to any of that.
I would never do drugs or even drink in front of them. My parents did, it was second nature to them and, and everyone around them. So, So yeah, I mean, it was raised by wolves. What else did I say? I wrote that a long time ago.
Raised by wolves, spiritual teachers, and drug experimenters.
Yeah, right. So that pretty much covers it all. Spirituality was very strong in my family, but not religion, but spirituality. And I think a lot of people were searching at that time. Also, spirituality was a lot of LSD and mushrooms and finding your way there through those channels. So, you know, it was an intense childhood, but I think that, you know, I wouldn't want it any other way.
I learned so much, and it brought me to this place now where I am a very free-thinking, very creative person. I would never be doing this if I listened to what society told me was okay. And I love what I do, and I love what I give to my guests and to the people that come. So, yeah, it all worked out pretty well.
Beautiful. And also mentioned on your site, you were finding the meaning of life. It sounds like you've really found your purpose though.
Yeah, I mean, I wrote that a long time ago, and my life has been really like a constant evolution, and I'm constantly learning more. And I may say something to someone two months ago or three months ago and feel differently now, and I may say something now, and I might change my mind, and I allow myself to do that.
You know, right now, I just spent six months, seven months up at this house, this estate in the Hollywood Hills, and I... dove into a community that I'd never been a part of. And I was having a lot of sex and a lot like threesomes and foursomes and just a lot of stuff that was...
new for me on that level, where these girls in the community are so free and open with their sexuality, and they love sex.
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Chapter 8: How can one overcome shame around sexuality?
And I really had a lot of that experience. But sitting here now at this moment, I'm glad I had the last five or six months of my life, but that is not actually what I'm seeking. And it reminded me that I like to have my person and I like to have a deep connection. And I was in a 20-year monogamous relationship before I started Sanctum.
Dang.
Yeah. And I have two kids with my ex-wife and she's just an absolute, I mean, she's an incredible, incredible person. And then I started my club. And then when I, about two years before I sold my club, I got into another relationship that was six years. And I've only been single like maybe, you know, nine months or so. So I'm back in this stage of like wild experimentation and learning new things.
I mean, These girls have taught me a lot, quite honestly. I thought I knew everything and I was already there, but I was learning things from these girls because they are like, their sexuality is advanced. How so?
What does that look like?
I mean, part of it is just like, you know, this is not about spirituality at all, but part of it is just like technique. I mean, like, like these girls know how to suck dick in a way that civilians don't, you know, and, and they know how to like, yeah, it's just like, I mean, my bed would be soaked with so much squirting.
I mean, I, I, the last time I had sex, I was like, I was like, you know, I'm telling you like, like, Because I just changed the sheets. I mean, we just fucking ruined the sheets the night before. And this has been happening with me. I'm like, don't fucking squirt. Just don't do it. It's kind of fun, but then it happens. So they're different.
In all of the years that I've had sex, before this last seven, eight months, I'd maybe experienced that like one time.
Squirting? Yeah. Yeah, same.
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