Enneagram and Marriage
Episodes
Life & Marriage with an Enneagram 8, Laurie Palau, This Organized Life
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with a person of each person...
An E + M Mini: The Four Types of Love You Need in Marriage from CS Lewis & The Four Loves
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This Ash Wednesday, as we consider our fallibility in loving perfectly and yet our strong need for community and connection as humans, we're talking a...
Life & Marriage with an Enneagram 9, Emily Wingfield, Enneagram with Emily
20 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing an Enneagram Type 9 speake...
An Enneagram Valentine's Day Mystery Mini-Episode
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this fun shortie episode, Christa invites listeners to join her in a personality-type excavation to find the Enneagram types of a couple in a brief...
Loving Each of the Enneagram Types in Marriage w/Dani Cooper of Deep Waters Enneagram
13 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
As we explore the heart of romance together, one of the most important ways we can connect hearts together is by really understanding the deepest need...
The Heart of True Marriage Connection with Elizabeth Overstreet
08 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
February can be a tough month of disillusionment and regret because of a lack of expected romance, a break of connection due to stress, or even findin...
Revving Up Your Romance with Relationship Coach Dana Che, Enneagram 3 (3-9 Pairing)
06 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We begin a month of romance with our fresh and fun first February guest relationship coach Dana Che, Enneagram 3! Dana is witty, articulate, hilarious...
An E + M Short: Celebrating & Reflecting on One Million Podcast Downloads With You!
01 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When we started the podcast just around the time of the pandemic, we had no idea what was in store; so many systems for healthy relationships have dev...
How Christ Relates to Each Type w/Jesse Eubanks, 3w4 of Love Thy Neighborhood & The Enneacast
30 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this darkest time of the year, it's so important we have good ways to wrestle with the things keeping us from hope, from faith, and from light. In ...
E + M Shorts: Why & How Anger Must Be Addressed in Marriage for a Healthier You
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this short but essential episode, Christa talks about how critical anger processing is for your marital and physical health for individuals of ever...
In Sickness & In Health: Immunity-Boosting For Your Marriage w/Coach Jenn Johnson
23 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When we agree to vows to support one another in sickness and in health, we want to be able to provide one another a safe space to heal as well as a sa...
A Mini-Episode: #RelationshipGoals for Each Enneagram Type
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We interviewed each type to find out what would be the most popular goals of each Enneagram type in marriage this year. In this mini-episode, we have ...
Trauma and Polyvagal Processing with E + M Coach Jessica Vangsnes, 4-8 Pairing
16 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join E + M Certified Coach and trauma-informed polyvagal specialist and marriage helper Jessica Vangsnes, of the 4-8 pairing on today's E + M Pod. Jes...
Activating Your Repressed Instincts in Life & Marriage
11 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Often our instincts lead the way in marriage, sometimes even more than type. However, they can also be our biggest stumbling block. In this E + M Mini...
Five Love Languages of Your Sex Life
09 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Our second week of the New Year brings your brightest and best in the bedroom together as we discuss the 5 main sexual love languages in your marriage...
An E + M Mini: Finding Your Best Goal Rhythms w/Your Spouse
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Christa briefly walks you through five essential goal practices that have not only been life-changing and that are going to help you clarify and step ...
Five Goal Practices That Will Change Your Life This New Year
02 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We open Season Five of the E + M Podcast as Christa walks you through five habits that have been life-giving and life-changing for her and invites you...
REPLAY: Christmas Movie Fun with Amy Wicks of Simply Wholehearted, Enneagram 7
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When the holiday stress arises and you need to just relax, there’s nothing more fun than hanging out together and talking about Christmas movies and...
Resentments of Each Enneagram Type and How to Heal Your Marriage
26 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Resentments are one of the main issues in a marriage, and we've got the reasons why for both marriages in general as well as Enneagram users. E + M di...
The Gifts Each Enneagram Type Brings to Marriage
19 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
During a season of dysregulation, it's easy to forget the good of our spouse. Studies also remind us that the holiday vibes create a wishful desire fo...
E + M Shorts Series: Compatibility Across Head, Heart, and Body Triads
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Though each member in a couple can balance one another out as we give to one another, there are also certain ways we crash together in terms of our he...
Finding Your Flow & Joy in Marriage w/Neal Samudre, Enneagram 3w4 of EnjoyCo
12 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you been going through the motions lately, scared to look under the surface for fear you may not be able to get back up again? Today's episode ha...
Working Through Parental Enneagram Overlays This Holiday
07 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So many times, we don’t realize that the parental overlays from our first few years of development have laid a foundation that runs deeper than we c...
Music Therapy & Marriage with Destiny Boyum, MT-BC, Enneagram 2w3
05 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Destiny Boyum, MT-BC, Enneagram 2w3 joins Christa on the podcast today to help our community to process how music therapy can heal and soothe and even...
An E + M Mini: Building Out Your Marriage Mission
30 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When the holidays get busy, it can be so easy to get lost in the shuffle of the tyranny of the urgent. However, without intention, you not only won't ...
The Nitty Gritty of Non-Verbal Communication in Marriage
28 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we head into the topic of marriage communication, Christa takes us on a journey of nonverbal communication research and why the tiny nuances in mic...
An E + M Mini: Processing Grief This Season
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you feeling alone in your grief or even just stuck this season? Join Christa for a therapeutic journey of discovering ways of processing grief, le...
Building Marriage Allure Versus Affairs
21 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The dangers of a complacent marriage are many, ranging from stagnancy to infidelity, the latter of which makes trauma imminent. During the holidays, a...
Finding Your Holiday Glow with Every Enneagram Type
16 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How can you best shine together this holiday? This episode is not only a safeguard against stress and struggle over the holiday maritally, but it's an...
The 9 Enneagram Types & Communication w/Steph Barron Hall of @NineTypesCo
14 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We're digging into the nuances of how each of the nine Enneagram type communicates in terms of their communication style strengths and stressors in ma...
E + M Shorts: Harmonic Groups in Love - Enneagram Types 2, 7, and 9
09 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Types Two, Seven, and Nine stay as positive as possible and as such there are some extremely important reminders as you learn to walk through your lov...
3 Essential Communication Practices for Your Marriage w/Steph Barron Hall, Enneagram 3
07 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all need good tools for marriage communication as we try to stay warm together this holiday season ahead. Christa is joined for this important 2 pa...
E + M Shorts: Harmonic Groups in Love - Enneagram Types 4, 6, and 8
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Types Four, Six, and Eight are quite passionate and as such there are some extremely important lessons to find - and keep - love with them! In this mi...
Bringing Brain-Based Solutions to Your Marriage with Dr. Jerome Lubbe
31 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Jerome helps us to understand how we develop provocative differences in marriage over time, differences that can cause conflict but that are essen...
E + M Shorts: Harmonic Groups in Love - Types 1, 3, and 5
26 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Types One, Three, and Five are quite logical and as such there are some extremely important straightforward ways to finding love with them! In this mi...
Your Internal Enneagram Narratives & An Exercise from the E + M Membership
24 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You bring your internal narratives to everything you do, and as such, the stories and scripts inside of you not only matter but affect your life more ...
E + M Shorts: The Heaven/Idealist Triad - Enneagram 1, 4, and 7
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 1, 4, and 7, create patterns of idealistic expectations that potentially hinder their quali...
Setting Boundaries with Extended Family w/Dr. Alison Cook, Enneagram 3
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we do all the right steps and we still don't get the desired results with family and friends around us. Dr. Alison Cook joins us with some p...
E + M Shorts: The Attachment Triad 3, 6, and 9 in Marriage
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 3, 6, and 9, create patterns of comforting behavior that potentially hinder their quality o...
Working Through Family Ties & In Law Issues w/Hailey Brown, LCMHC, Enneagram 9
10 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In-law issues and extended family are enormous contributors to marital discord. Because of the exorbitant stress, one of the best ways to look both in...
E + M Shorts: The Rejection Triad - Enneagram 2, 5, and 8
05 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 2, 5, and 8, create patterns of rejecting behavior that potentially hinder their quality of...
Beyond the Enneagram with Marilyn Vancil, 9, Spiritual Processing in Marriage and Family Issues
03 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When we're considering how to glow or even relate with a spouse from a different family pattern than us, we are often called to not only marital or pe...
An E + M Hurricane Ian Crisis & Update
02 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today's mini-episode with Christa, we share an extension of gratitude for the kindness and love shown in this time of Hurricane Ian crisis and our ...
Couples and Addictions with Dr. Deborah Russo, Psy.D
28 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
For many, a marriage or close relationship with addiction is the norm, and yet life with an addicted partner is not only not the ideal, but is often a...
Healing in the Shadows & Seasons of Change w/Abram, Drew, and Creek of Fathoms Enneagram Podcast
26 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we talk about seasons of change, today we are focusing on how to walk through the shadows that often accompany us while remembering we are more tha...
The Three Subtypes of Enneagram Nine
21 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Nine in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type...
Emerging from the Shadows of Marriage w/Evan and Tiffany Doyle, Enneagram 5 & 2
19 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When we begin relationships, we often have no idea how past trauma from the past will affect us in the future, nor do we often know how to address it ...
The Three Subtypes of Enneagram 8 in Marriage
14 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Eight in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the typ...
Seasons of Love, Friendship, & Family w/ Stacey Day, Enneagram 2
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we not only brief you on the stages of marriage across seasons, but we share seasons of a friendship "glow" also so you can make sure your frien...
The Three Types of Enneagram Seven in Marriage
07 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Seven in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the typ...
Finding Personal & Family Rhythms in Seasons of Busyness w/Melissa Thompson, Enneagram 2
05 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we roll into a new season this Labor Day episode, we aim to find rhythms and balance amidst work and family life, especially since the days are lon...
Special Episode: The LOTR & The Rings of Power w/Natalie Hooper, 2-8, The Lettering Wife
01 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As Amazon Prime releases the new Lord of the Rings prequel, The Rings of Power, it's time for the merging of the worlds and a trek into Middle Earth f...
The Three Types of Enneagram Six in Marriage
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Six in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive int...
Burn Fat & Feast with Sarah Thomas, Enneagram 1 (1-8) Glow
29 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today's podcast offer both a personal and a collective experience for empowered healthy fitness lifestyle habits. Christa is joined by Sarah Thomas of...
The Subtypes of the Enneagram Type 5 in Marriage
24 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Five in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive in...
Bringing Healthier Hormones & Body Practices to Your Marriage with Health Coach Jenn Johnson, Enneagram 1
22 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you're struggling with healthy eating or extra weight, we know the last thing you need is to be shamed. However, your life and relationship is ev...
The Subtypes of the Enneagram Type 4 in Marriage
17 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Four in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive in...
Finding Your Way to Enneagram & Health w/Coach Myrna Cervetti, Enneagram 1
15 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are indeed better spouses when we're energized and following a healthy fitness and eating routine, but let's face it, sometimes we simply need some...
The Three Subtypes of Enneagram 3 in Marriage
10 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Threes in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive ...
Getting Healthy Together in Marriage with Wes Hardin, PA-C
08 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we lean into our health and fitness focus on the podcast this month, Christa takes an interview-style approach with her husband Wes, a specialist i...
The Three Types of Enneagram Twos in Marriage
03 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Twos in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive in...
Finding Spiritual Growth with the Enneagram w/Author Meredith Boggs
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we pause to reflect on all of the growth of the seasons past, we transition to new spaces with spiritual growth in mind. Christa is joined by autho...
The Three Types of Enneagram Ones in Marriage
27 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Ones in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive in...
Finding the Most Loving Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage with Expedition Marriage
25 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for our final episode in the July sex series with the wonderful Chris and Jamie Bailey of Expedition Marriage. Christa brings the hard but mos...
Enneagram Instincts in Where the Crawdads Sing with Katy
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join us for this just-for-fun episode on Delia Owens' Where the Crawdads Sings. We talk with biologist Katy Beckham, Enneagram 5 about relationships i...
E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 9 Wants in Marriage
20 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as ...
Instincts in Intimacy with Sexpert, Sam E. Greenberg, Enneagram 5
18 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you wondered how your survival instincts affect your sex life or lack of intimacy as a couple? The instincts are undoubtedly relevant as we talk ...
E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 8 Wants in Marriage
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as ...
Bringing Sexual Desire Back to Marriage
11 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So many times couples aren't on the same page about sex and often it's due to one or both lacking desire. Find out four root causes that lead couples ...
E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 7 Wants in Marriage
06 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as ...
Masculine and Feminine Energy in Marriage
04 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Tune in to hear how masculine and feminine energy affect your marriage and your life. This episode kicks off this month talking all about sexual intim...
E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 6 Wants in Marriage
29 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as ...
Building Adventures + Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you not only build but keep intimacy and adventures over the long years of marriage? We talk real marriage tips today, not just during the hone...
E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 5 Wants in Marriage
22 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as ...
Bringing Health into Your Marriage Adventures with Jenn & Rob Johnson
20 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
After the honeymoon period of marriage, it's so important that couples work together to turn their dreams into reality together. Whatever your pairing...
E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 4 Wants in Marriage
15 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as ...
Opposite Temperaments in Love and Adventure with Dr. Sharon Otis, PhD
13 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you've got two opposite temperaments system in your marriage or relationship? One of Christa's favorite mentors, Dr. Sharon Otis, ...
The E + M Shorts Series: What a 3 Wants in Marriage
08 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as w...
Adventures in Marriage with Christa and Wes Hardin
06 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This special anniversary episode with Christa and Wes as they go over the very best and worst of adventuring together in marriage. You'll get tips for...
The E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 2 Wants in Marriage
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as w...
A Marriage Mystery with Dana and Johnny Lawson
30 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let's take the mystery out of what makes for a great couple pairing. Today Christa is joined by Dana and Johnny Lawson who are #goals for so many in t...
E + M Shorts Series: What an Enneagram 1 Wants in Marriage
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, starting right...
Goal Getting Across Enneagram Types in Life and Marriage
23 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Goal-getting differs type by type and stumbling blocks are a very real thing. As we talk about marriage and individual goals in terms of the nuances o...
E + M Shorts Series: Encountering Jealousy in Relationships
18 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Jealousy is often an under-discussed issue in achieving marriage and life goals. Join Christa in a brief convo and exercises in addressing and dischar...
Transitioning to Parenting in Marriage with Dr. Camden Morgante, 6-9 Glow
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Marriages statistically drop in health once babies come and yet your marriage is more than just a statistic. Join Christa as she talked with psycholog...
E + M Shorts Series: The Sp, So, and Sx Instincts in Biblical Storylines
11 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you're stuck in a rut, it's often helpful to hear how someone else worked through something, and the ancient stories in the Bible truly bring the...
Goal-Getting in Marriage with Sean Palmer, Enneagram 3
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The Enneagram stances assist us so well with goal-setting in marriage and life and today, Christa is joined by speaker, Enneagram theorist, author, an...
E + M Shorts Series: Each Enneagram Type in the Collective
04 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this E + M Shorts episode, Christa brings us a visual of each of the types coming together as a collective to make a beautiful event, and in this c...
Goal Getting Across All Seasons of Marriage with Tim & Faith Stevens
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage has many seasons and today, Christa talks to one of her favorite couples, author and executive pastor at Willow Creek Church, Tim Stevens and...
E + M Shorts Series: Sabotaging One Another's Work in Marriage
27 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As spouses grow and shift in marriage, it's going to make the ride a bit bumpy at times, with one of you potentially dragging one another along or uni...
Healthy Attachment in Relationships & Dating with the Date Doctor Christie Kederian, PhD
25 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We look for the missing pieces of ourselves as we’re trying to find a soulmate as well as in our spouse if we're already married. But if we're not h...
A Forgiveness Practice: Introducing the E + M Shorts Series
20 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A Forgiveness Practice: The E + M Shorts Series When hurts blocks you from forgiving someone in your life, whether it be your spouse, family member, f...
Attuning in Marriage for Each Type with Melissa Thompson
18 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Conflict is an important part of a relationship, it's how we learn. But when we turn towards one another and attune, we learn how we can truly grow to...
Marriage Health & Healing After An Affair w/Dr. Alexandra Solomon PhD
13 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Every person within an affair has a story and when a couple decides to heal together, those stories must be told, often again and again so the couple ...
Enneagram Vices and Virtues with Tyler Zach, Type 3, Gospel for Enneagram,
10 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you get to the end of yourself and you realize your deeper personal and emotional vices are hurting you, your marriage, and your c...
Redeeming Sexual Romance Together with Sheila Wray Gregoire
04 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A lot of our sexual issues stem from issues we just aren't talking about, some of them from within the well-intentioned church of the last few deca...
Enneagram Nine in Marriage: The Deeper Dive
30 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Nine in marriage and relationships. They talk about the o...
Finding Forgiveness in Marriage & Relationships
28 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Christa is joined by Lisa Carter of Stonegate Fellowship as they discuss the fascinating forgiveness research surrounding the Enneagram and marriage. ...
The Enneagram Eight in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
23 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Eight in marriage and relationships. They talk about the ...
Leslie Hershberger and Using the Centers Approach to Conflict
21 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There are three distinctive ways of being that are hard-wired into our nervous systems and they are associated with the three centers in the Enneagram...