Enneagram and Marriage
Episodes
The Enneagram Seven in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
16 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Seven in marriage and relationships. They talk about the ...
Solving Conflict with Marriage Helper's CEO Kimberly Holmes, Enneagram 3
14 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Many couples think that conflict is bad or unhealthy but our most recent studies and experts on the show, including Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of the wo...
Special Episode on Netfix & The Love is Blind Social Experiment
11 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when real love is actually on tap at Netflix? Tune in to hear our fun tea and convo on the social experiment of Season 2: Love is Blind a...
The Enneagram Six in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
09 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Six in marriage and relationships. They talk about the or...
Instincts in Marriage with Beatrice Chestnut
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How can we shift our knee-jerk instinctual responses in marriage? How can we offer more compassion and growth opportunities where we may have written ...
The Enneagram Five In Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
02 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Five in marriage and relationships. They talk about the o...
Walking Together Through Darkness with author Kim Eddy, Enneagram 1
28 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s podcast is a special show that aims to both inspire and balance you as we talk about walking through the season of darkness and divorce with...
The Enneagram Four in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
23 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Four in marriage and relationships. They talk about origi...
The Seven Love Styles Assessment with Truity Founder & CEO Molly Owens, Enneagram 4ew
21 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Although the love languages were created several decades ago, the Truity Psychometric Assessment team recently studied 500,000 modern individuals to f...
The Enneagram Three in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
16 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Three in marriage and relationships. They talk about orig...
Bringing Intimacy Into Your Marriage with Coach Alicia Larkey, 2w3
14 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all desire romance but making it happen is an intentional process, one that takes both motivation and effort after the honeymoon period of a relati...
Special Episode: Love & Typology in The Notebook & Encanto
13 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Love takes many shapes in families and in this special episode, Christa and her daughter Hannah take you on a journey to delve deep into The Notebook ...
The Enneagram Two in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
09 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Two in marriage and relationships. They talk about origi...
A Romance Recharge with Amy Wicks, 7-9 Pairing
07 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As couples, we tend to fall into relationship patterns that make us both comfortable and friendly together. This is great but you don't want to leave ...
The Enneagram One in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series
02 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type One in marriage and relationships. They talk about origin...
The Biology of Love with Cassandra and Dylan Boom, Enneagram Types 7-5
31 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We're entering the terrain of bringing the brain into romance today and there's no one better to help guide us there than two head types, Cassandra an...
Taking Care of Your Mind in Marriage with Marriage Puzzle Thomas and Juli Hobby
24 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa and guests Juli and Thomas Hobby from Marriage Puzzle as we break down both individual and couple strategies for making sure your mental ...
Nature and Body Self Care with Biologist Katy Beckham, Enneagram 6-1 Glow
17 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Doing your bodywork is so much more than just fitness and nutrition, it's about engaging on a microlevel both at your own body and hormones, as well a...
Handling Our Emotions in Life & Marriage with Elisabeth Bennett, Enneagram Life, 4w5
10 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Over time in our relationships, we absolutely must be able to go deep into the recesses of both joy and grief in life and marriage. As we talk about e...
Bringing Your Best Head, Heart, and Body to 2022 & Your Marriage
03 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You know that last-minute resolutions aren't going to get you on your way in your marriage for 2022 as well as we do. Instead it will be grace-filled ...
Healthy Instinctual Order & Sequencing in Life & Marriage
27 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
With all of the Enneagram tools out there, sometimes it's hard to know what order we do our work in. Though there will be nuances for each person and ...
The Enneagram and Typing Your Kids with Hannah and Melody Hardin, 4 & 9
20 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join this fun episode of Christa interviewing her teens Hannah and Melody about using the Enneagram as they talk casually and candidly about how the E...
A Deep Dive Into Enneagram Arrows in Life and Marriage
13 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa for an episode packed with hands-on tips for re-energizing your Enneagram route to healing by living with intention as you grow in your l...
A Christmas Movie Enneagram Typing Rom-Com Special with Christa and Olivia
10 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa and Olivia for the annual E + M Christmas movie typing special in analyzing the rom-com "Serendipity." Set in Christmas in New York City ...
A Deep Dive on Balancing Your Enneagram Wings in Marriage
06 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We're always talking about which wing we "are" in our Enneagram types versus deeper diving into how we can use both wings to grow in our lives and mar...
Making the Most of the Time in Your Marriage with Connor Swenson and Claire Dinan, Enneagram 7 & 3
29 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Keeping your marriage and family goals aligned with your big dreams for shaping your corner of the world is an intentional process and there's no one ...
Special Episode: All Things Enneagram & Preparing for the Holidays
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Holidays are a time for families to come together but often with the extra time comes the noticing of our disparities in marriage as well. Take time t...
Building Long-Lasting Passion in Marriage with the Enneagram with Kirsten and Jeshua Barker
15 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When two expressive types come together, there's pure passion no matter the result. It's truly a journey to find balance with all the big love and fee...
Marriage & Sensory Issues with Beth Johnson, OT, 1-1 Glow + Glow Planner Launch!
08 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We've got a power-packed episode for you today as we discuss not only the E + M Glow Relationship Planner launch but also the all-important topic and...
Getting Your Marriage On with the Intimately Us App & Dan Purcell, 7
01 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Great, pleasurable sex life isn’t something a lot of people even in premarital counseling are taught since intimacy is such a private space. After ...
Special Episode: Creating Together in Marriage with Moriah Smallbone
29 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa for a special conversation with Mexican-American recording artist Moriah Smallbone the day she releases "Worth," a song she produced with...
A Deeper Dive Into Love Languages and the Enneagram w/Lisa Carter, 7-8 Glow
25 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Christa is joined by Enneagram and Marriage Certified Coach Lisa Carter of the 7-8 Love in Motion Glow pairing for a deeper dive into love languages. ...
The 6 Enneagram Glow Stages of a Relationship
18 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
The Enneagram Glow is a concept to describe how you and your partner’s combined relationship gifts shine brightly together in the world. On the flip...
The Enneagram, Fitness, & Marriage with Fit Enneagram's Hallie Ringhand, MFT & Type 2 (2-6 Glow)
11 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you're a heart, head, or body type, your body is important and the ways you move and don't move affect your relationship quite a lot. Because ...
The Enneagram from a Grace Filled Christian Perspective with Matt & Tammy Brown, 3-6 Glow
04 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like you're loved by everyone else but your own spouse doesn't appreciate you? Do you want to get both deep and practical in your growth j...
How to Get Out of Survival Mode with Aundi Kolber, Enneagram 4
27 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you're hitting trauma triggers in your relationships, you need to restore your body's sense of safety and survival to progress. Therapist and aut...
Being Authentic in the 3-5 Glow Pairing with Des Schnell, Enneagram 3
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Christa is joined by Des Schnell, Enneagram 3 of the 3-5 "Master Minds" Glow Pairing as we learn about working with both 3s and 5s in marriage as well...
All About Tritypes in Relationships with Katherine Fauvre, Creator of Tritype, 874
13 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you looking for new ways to move in your relationship? Wondering what motivates certain behaviors and instincts in your partnership outside of you...
The Thinking Fixations of Each Enneagram Type in Relationship
06 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We all have certain routes we believe will help us in our life and relationships. However, they are actually the well-trodden but dysfunctional paths ...
Working Through Financial Issues with Daniel and Kay of Centsei, 3-3 Glow
30 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We all need refreshment and tips on how to get on the same page with a spouse or partner. In this episode, Christa is joined by financial experts, the...
The Enneagram & Getting Organized with Laurie Palau, Enneagram 8
23 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you struggling with staying focused and organized in this crazy moment of culture? Today's show covers mentally and physically energizing ways for...
The Enneagram and Relationship Research with Truity CEO Molly Owens
16 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today's show covers the fascinating topic of how you can use the newest Enneagram Truity research to deepen your bond, to help you discover missing pi...
The Enneagram and Faith with Beth McCord
09 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today Christa and Beth McCord explore the Enneagram and relationships together as well as the deeper implications of the Enneagram. How does the Enne...
Slowing Down with Sarajane Case, 7-4 Glow: Finding Healthy Rhythms in Marriage
02 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you have a relationship rhythm where one partner has an entirely different way of moving through the world than you do, you have to learn to bala...
Radical Generosity and the 80/80 Marriage with Authors Nate and Kaley Klemp
26 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When marriage research combines with the determination and strength of the awesome 1-9 Glow pairing, watch out for an honest-to-goodness explosion of ...
How Your Harmony Triad Affects Your Marriage: Idealists, Pragmatists, and Relationalists
19 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your worldview greatly affects how you move in relationships and in life, and it especially influences how you get stuck, too. Depending on whether yo...
Sex Therapy 101 with Dr. Camden Morgante, 9-6 Glow Pairing
12 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Camden Morgante of the 9-6 Glow Pairing joins Christa to talk about both her pairing as well as her specialty of sex therapy. Many couples struggl...
Bringing Play & Story Back to Marriage with Dr. Steve and Lisa Call, 3-4
05 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We're often so quick to grab our phones, work the extra hours, and totally forget about the best reasons for marriage, healing and play together. Some...
A Beautiful Adventure + Mission! A 4-7 Glow Love Story with Caroline and Parker Thurman
28 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's so much fun to get inside of a couple's brain and heart and find out what makes them tick - together! Caroline, a full out heart type 4 and Parke...
Pregnancy in Marriage by Enneagram Type
21 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder what the personality trends are during pregnancy? How your marriage will shift with a baby? This listener-requested episode was fun and fa...
Finding Your Big Dreams Together with Business Coach Liza Carden of the Enneagram 8-9 Glow
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Although it may seem a bit like a paradox, the 8-9 dyad is a very popular Enneagram Glow pairing and for good reason. Today's podcast is an interview ...
Jay Stringer on Healing Sexual Brokenness in Marriage
07 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week's interview with Jay Stringer, author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, may be a truly life-changing episode f...
Special Episode: Guess Our Enneagram Types: A Marriage Mystery
31 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been told you’re good at guessing the types of others? Do you like hearing stories about couples who have gone the distance together? ...
Balancing Heart and Head with the 3-7 Glow Brytin and Evan Ayers, Jet Set
24 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When big dreams meet parent life, assertive personalities must shift in stride, as best as they can. Join Christa in talking to the assertive 3-7 hear...
Understanding Addictions in Marriage by Enneagram Type
17 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Approaching addiction recovery in a family without grace can place an already vulnerable spouse and family right in the shame cycle when what they nee...
The 3-9 Glow with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD and Drama-Free Marriage
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Want both a drama-free marriage and the opportunity to work on conflict? Join the posh peacemaker Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD of the world renowned @mylove...
Managing Couples Conflict Through the Lens of Harmonic Groups with the 1-5 Glow, Brittany of Enneagram Explained
26 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dealing with conflict in marriage takes a certain amount of wisdom, patience, and love. Enneagram coach Brittany Thomas of one of the biggest Enneagra...
Finding Your Marriage Balance Together with Robby, Enneagram 7 and Morgan, 1 of The Maxey Co
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this coffee and chat episode with the Maxey Co, Christa chats with Robby, 7sp and Morgan 1sp, to see how subtypes and gender cast a somewhat cultur...
Coping with Pregnancy & Child Loss in Marriage with 2-9 Enneagram Pairing Dave and Laura Diehl
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Child loss is something no one can prepare for fully nor can we full recover. However, support is not only possible but vital and this episode is full...
Using the So, Sx, and Sp Instincts for Personal & Relationship Growth
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you're stressed, you either go within, find a friend or spouse to chat with, or you aim to get social support with your favorite crew! In relatio...
Healing Trauma in Marriage with Glenda Reagan, MA, LMHC, Enneagram 2 (2-5 Marriage)
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Often in marriage, we bring our childhood wounds to the table in a way that carries on cycles, hurts our partners, and us too. Many times however, esp...
Creating Healthy Sexual Intimacy Together with Sheila Wray Gregoire, Enneagram 8
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you wondered why sex is so often out of sync? Why it's often only pleasurable for one, or why there's so much emotional and physical pain in th...
Cutting into Real Marriage Issues with Seth and Melanie Studley of Anatomy of Marriage, 9-7w8 Glow
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage issues cut deep to the heart and yet often it's uncomfortable to reveal ourselves at our vulnerable levels. Seth Studley, MA, LMFT and Melani...
Raising a Strong and Joyful Family With Daniel and Christina Im, 3-3 Glow
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you're raising a family, how do you bring your personality type and subtypes in for the best form in family? Perhaps just as importantly, how do ...
The Enneagram and Newlywed Tips Type by Type
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you engaged, planning a wedding, or in the first few years of marriage? Have you been married for awhile but you're struggling to remember the "mu...
Integrating the Enneagram with the Gottman Method with Therapist & Researcher, Mac Cazeau, Enneagram 5
22 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your Enneagram work on your relationships is so important to your ongoing relationship success but did you know that before the world of Enneagram was...
Best-Selling Enneagram Author Suzanne Stabile and Relationship Tips For Every Type
15 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We are so honored to have the best-selling author of "The Road Back to You" and "The Path Between Us," Enneagram teacher Suzanne Stabile as our guest ...
Finding Protective Passion in Your Marriage with Jared and Kate, 8 & 3
08 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This Valentine's week, we have our first official Enneagram Glow story for you with Jared and Kate Shaughnessy, an Enneagram 8-3, "Unstoppable" couple...
Enneagram & Relationship Research w/Truity Founder and CEO Molly Owens
01 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Among the most frequent questions around the Enneagram world are those that revolve around relationship pairings. Though there’s no such thing as th...
Soul Care & Hearing God Speak with 7 & 8 Jackie Brewster and Eve Annunziato
25 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You hear about the holy idea of the Enneagram but how do we practically find soul care as we journey toward healthier life and relationship work? Join...
Surviving and Thriving in the Body Center
18 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today's families in our current cultural climate need to balance our hearts, minds, and body instincts more than ever. As anger brews in the world oft...
Overcoming Stress in Life & Marriage By Type
11 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
As you begin a new journey of 2021, how can you manage the massive levels of stress that we're dealing with right now as a culture, now including not ...
The Enneagram Passions and Virtues in Marriage
04 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We know the our Enneagram passions all too well, they are the ego fixations and parts of our personality that we get stuck with all the time. Sometime...
Special Bonus Episode: New Year's Glow Challenge
03 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We said goodbye to 2020 and now we're saying a big healthy hello to 2021! Let's do it together with a challenge that helps us to create a healthy flow...
Surviving and Thriving in the Thinking Center
28 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The thinkers among us are equipped to shape the world with their innovating dreams that often become inspiring realities, sometimes even shaping the w...
Ten Ways to Embrace the 2020 Holidays in Your Marriage & Family
21 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Whatever your Enneagram type, 2020 is throwing all of us for a loop this holiday. The ups and the downs can bring out grief, loneliness, and a lack of...
Surviving and Thriving in the Heart Center
14 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Heart types of the Enneagram have unique gifts in understanding others emotionally. As we open up our own hearts for learning from the feelings center...
The Enneagram & Holiday Movie Typing
11 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This special fun episode takes a long look at love and the Enneagram on the big screen this time with some holiday fun added in! Join Christa and Oliv...
Enneagram Types and Gender Differences
07 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Did you ever wonder what the differences are between males and females in personality? How about the types that are considered more masculine while ot...
Discovering Your Enneagram Couple Glow Part 2: Introducing Michael Shahan, LMFT, Enneagram 9 & 1 Glow
30 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
On part 2 of the Enneagram Glow series, Christa and Alaina listen to marriage and family therapist Michael Shahan, MA, LMFT, an Enneagram 9, talk not ...
Discovering Your Enneagram Couple Glow
23 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast covers the fascinating way that in marriage we create a union that is something more than either of us was before. The glow is our fun wa...
Anger in Marriage with Each Type
16 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Every single type in marriage struggles with conflict. When is anger right? When should we curb it? What do we do in marriage with our anger and what ...
Surviving the Holidays in Your Relationship With the Enneagram
09 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's no secret that the holidays will be a bit different this year - and this on top of the fact that despite Hallmark movies, holidays in relationshi...
The 9 Enneagram Countertypes in Marriage
02 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
You've probably heard of the counterphobic 6 but did you know that each of the Enneagram types has a countertype? Christa goes through each of the 9 t...
Bringing Fun Into Your Marriage by Enneagram Type
26 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
During this festive Halloween week, join Christa for fun tips for every type! This episode also covers tips directly from the R & R Marriage Method su...
Special Episode: Infertility, Adoption, and Foster Care
23 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Over a quarter of American families are affected by miscarriage and infant loss and almost as many have struggled with infertility yet it's a topic th...
In-Laws and the Enneagram, Top Tips & Type by Type
19 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In-law tensions in marriage are nothing new but when we butt heads or in this case, butt Enneagram types and subtypes, there are specific routes we ca...
The Enneagram and Corresponding Mental Health Diagnoses
12 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in as Christa helps you to understand mental health struggles paralleling each Enneagram type at their most stressful levels. When you're tryin...
Bonus Episode: Mental Health, the Church, and the Enneagram
12 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The Enneagram is infiltrating the church and that's no doubt a gift, since it offers a framework for connection across personalities. However, amidst ...
Sex Therapy, the Enneagram, and Purity Culture
05 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
As much as we want sexual intimacy to be amazing, sometimes we come into marriage with unintentional baggage in this area. Whether you're dealing with...
The Enneagram & Finding Your 3 Part Tritype (Head, Heart, and Body Centers of Intelligence)
28 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in as Christa discusses one of the most highly requested topics of Enneagram tritypes. Understand the importance of balancing the three intelli...
Falling in Love and the Enneagram
21 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Do you believe in love at first sight? Perhaps you locked eyes with your spouse and the rest is history. Others of you had more of a calculated, caref...
BONUS 9 EPISODE: Interview with 9 therapist Craig Stratton, LMHC
16 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We need to come to marriage knowledge from many different personality perspectives, and today's episode will give you such depths from a new direction...
All About Enneagram 9's In Relationship
14 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to go deep with our peaceful and powerful Enneagram 9s! Join Christa in going through Type 9 tendencies, misconceptions, and paths to grow...
All About Enneagram 8's in Relationship
07 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have you always wondered what makes an Enneagram 8 tick? Feeling like you want to avoid making an 8 feel ticked off? Learn all about the often underst...
Special Episode: Marriage with Blended Family Issues with Enneagram 3, Abbie Perry, MA
02 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa for a chat on this special bonus listener request show on blended family issues. Christa is joined by her sister Abbie, an Enneagram 3, w...
All About Enneagram 7s in Relationships
31 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to talk deep about our light and refreshing Enneagram 7s and this episode goes down to the nitty-gritty depths indeed! Join Christa in going...
BONUS EPISODE: Exploring Fear with Enneagram 6, Lindsey Palmer
28 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have you been experiencing more fear during COVID? Have you been wanting to figure out how to master your stress as an Enneagram Six? Perhaps you're s...
All About Enneagram 6s in Relationship
24 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Join Christa for a full on analysis of arguably the most analytical of all of the types, the Loyal and Skeptical Enneagram 6. Typically heralded as th...
The Importance of Mentoring and Friendships in Marriage
14 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Whether it's a friendship like therapy or a professional helper, research tells us that whatever your Enneagram type, your relationship thrives with h...