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What if the life you actually want requires you to stop trying to be liked?In this episode, Lacy and Jessica break down what we're all getting wrong about authenticity, and why it's one of the most important parts of manifesting a life you love. They talk about the difference between living as your real self vs. performing "realness" to get validation and approval, and how the interests you had before you learned to fit in hold clues to who you really are.They also get candid about the hard parts of being seen: triggering people, being misunderstood, feeling lonely in between who you were and who you're becoming, and letting go of the need to prove you're good enough.This is your sign to reflect and refine. Stop looking outside yourself for your identity. Disconnect from the noise and become the author of your own story. The things you actually want in life aren't found by copying someone else's path—they show up when you have the courage to follow your own.Full show notes → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources:The TBM App Has Upleveled!Our app just got a major upgrade to make your manifestation practice more personalized, guided, and easy to follow. Join today and get a step-by-step roadmap for your first year of transformation. The Be Seen ChallengeQuiet your inner critic, stop playing small, and start manifesting the life you truly want.Now live inside The Pathway. Free Masterclass: Step Into Your F*ck It EnergyIf you missed our live masterclass with Lacy and Jessica — don't worry, you can still watch the replay! Learn how to step into your f*ck it energy and feel genuinely safe being seen. Join the Pathway MembershipUse code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month!The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now! New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Be Seen Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode Is Brought to You By: Nutrafol - Get $10 your first month’s subscription + free shipping with code TBMNutrafol Women Fatty15 - go to fatty15.com/TBM use code TBM at checkout to get an additional 15% off your 90-day subscription Starter Kit In this episode we talk about:The true meaning and etymology of authenticityWhy authenticity means becoming the author of your own essencePerformative authenticity versus genuine self-expressionHow external validation pulls you out of authenticityWhy being authentic can trigger or repel other peopleBecoming comfortable with being misunderstoodThe loneliness that can come with stepping into a new identityHow childhood interests reveal clues about your authentic selfRecognizing recurring symbols, environments, and desires from childhoodUsing expanders as inspiration without copying their expressionWhy oversharing and impulsivity aren’t necessarily authenticityReleasing the need to always be perceived as good or likableHow integration creates freedom around other people’s opinionsWhy manifesting someone else’s version of success can still leave you emptyEntering a deeper era of authenticity, individuality, and being seen Mentioned In the Episode: Learn more about the energetics of 2026 and 2027 and the Refinement Era in The Hidden Fear Blocking Your Manifestations Right NowEp. 318 — Speeding Up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna Zoe Learn more about Signal in Ep. 409 – Why You’re Still Playing Small Without Realizing ItEp. 404 - Why Your Old Ways Aren’t Working Anymore: Staying Authentic in the New ParadigmLacy’s Substack - By Candlelight - Join HereFind our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Inner Child DI, Authentic Self DI, and the Authenticy Challenge)
HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill)Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast