Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast
Episodes
58. The Dating After Divorce One ft. Desiree Simone
28 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark are joined by Desiree Simone this week to talk about dating after divorce and dating a partner who has kids. As is par for the course,...
57. The Sixth Grab Bag One
21 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It has been a minute since Ali & Roark did a Grab Bag episode and they are excited to bring it back! In this round of Grab Bag questions, they tac...
56. The Lovebombing One ft. Meghan Wainwright
14 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark have Meghan Wainwright on the podcast to share her experience being lovebombed. She talks about what it felt like to experi...
55. The Chronic Illness One ft. Gigi Robinson
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark welcome Gigi Robinson to the pod. Gigi uses social media to talk about mental health, body image, chronic illness – and t...
54. The Gaslighting One
28 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The Topic Talk is a little more serious this week as Ali & Roark discuss gaslighting. They analyze how the term has become vastly overused in a wa...
53. The Timeline One ft. Laura Behnke
21 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s official – Ali & Roark celebrate one year of podcasting! And funnily enough, their guest this week joins the podcast to talk all about ti...
52. The First Love Language One
14 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark dive into the five love languages this week! Although this isn’t a series, this is a big topic and they will definitely revisit it, ...
51. The Widowed Mom One ft. Krista St. Germain
07 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The subject matter of this weeks episode is a bit heavier than usual, but it’s a truly moving conversation between Ali and guest Krista St. Germain,...
50. The Therapy Jeff One ft. Jeff Guenther
31 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark have WAY too much fun with Jeff Guenther (aka Therapy Jeff). So much fun that a fair amount was deemed NSFP (not safe for p...
49. The Second Hot Topics One
24 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark cover listener questions in a Hot Topics episode. They start with a question about dating burn out from solid first dates t...
48. The Third Breakup One ft. Amy Chan
17 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s the final episode of the breakup trilogy and Ali & Roark have the perfect guest – Amy Chan, founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp. Amy used h...
47. The Second Breakup One
10 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s part two of Ali & Roark’s breakup series. This time they’re discussing what it’s like to be the one initiating the breakup. They star...
46. The First Breakup One ft. Dara Pollak
03 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark’s three-part breakup series begins with special guest Dara Pollak – author of a viral post about a blindside breakup. Dara is a wo...
45. The Second Anxious One
27 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark start off this week’s episode with some huge personal updates – buckle up! Then, they continue their discussion of anxiety in dati...
44. The First Anxious One
20 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark start to tackle a big topic this week: feeling anxious. Dating can (and does) frequently cause anxious thoughts and feelings, so Ali &...
43. The Stylish One ft. Alyssa Dineen
13 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark welcome Alyssa Dineen, stylist and author of the book The Art of Online Dating, onto the podcast this week to discuss discovering your...
42. The First Hot Topics One
06 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark introduce a new episode format this week – Hot Topics. Rather than focusing on only one topic or covering a whole bunch like a Grab ...
41. The Couples Therapy One ft. Charisse Cooke
29 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is filled with lightbulb moments as Ali & Roark are joined by relationship therapist Charisse Cooke. And they promise they don’t *t...
40. The Family One
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
With Thanksgiving right around the corner, Ali & Roark are here this week to discuss a very timely topic: meeting the family. When’s the “righ...
39. The Multiple One
15 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How can you navigate dating multiple people before becoming exclusive with someone? Ali & Roark talk through the logistics and emotions of that ea...
38. The Fifth Grab Bag One ft. Shaun Galanos
08 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It’s another Grab Bag episode as Ali & Roark are joined by Shaun Galanos aka @thelovedrive to answer all sorts of questions about direct communi...
37. The Second Attachment One ft. Kirstie Taylor
01 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark are joined by special guest Kirstie Taylor this week to dive more deeply into attachment theory and answer listener questions. Kirstie...
36. The First Attachment One
25 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
After being asked many times to discuss this topic, Ali & Roark are finally talking about attachment styles. This is the first of two dedicated ep...
35. The Aligned One
18 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How much in common do you have to have with the person you’re dating? Do opposites attract, or do birds of a feather flock together? Ali & Roark...
34. The Defining One
11 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We hope you’re ready to go steady with this podcast, but whether you are or aren’t, Ali & Roark are here to talk all about defining the relati...
33. The Second Social One
04 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It’s the social media sequel! This time around, Ali & Roark talk about how to navigate social media pitfalls while in a relationship and after a...
32. The Social One
27 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark tackle how social media affects early dating. Is it weird if someone doesn’t have social media? How do you handle someone...
31. The Fourth Grab Bag One
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It’s another Grab Bag week where Ali & Roark take your questions submitted to @findingmrheight on Instagram. This round, topics include: how to ...
30. The Swiping One
13 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It is another jam-packed episode this week where Ali & Roark dissect how to build the most right-swipeable (yes, that is a word now) dating app pr...
29. The Dating & New York One ft. Jonah Feingold
06 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark are thrilled to welcome Jonah Feingold (@jonahfeingold) back on the pod! They had the pleasure of watching Dating & New...
28. The Opening One
30 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Hey Listener, big question for you… Did you know this is Ali & Roark’s tried-and-true Bumble conversation opener? Filled with practical advice...
27. The Searching One ft. Jenna Langbaum
23 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark have a big one for you this week! First and foremost, they have launched a Patreon (cue the confetti)! If you want to become a Patron ...
26. The Negging One
16 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark think you’ll enjoy this podcast only if you’re smart, cool, and can hold a conversation. Did that statement make alarm bells go of...
25. The Confusing One
09 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever asked yourself: do they like me? If so, it may because you’re receiving mixed signals. Ali & Roark are here to discuss what it fee...
24. The Group Chat One ft. Ilana Dunn
02 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali welcomes on Ilana Dunn of Seeing Other People (@seeingotherpeople) to co-host while Roark takes the bar. Ali has about a million person...
23. The Third Grab Bag One
26 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark are back to answer as many of your questions as possible in another Grab Bag Episode! But first, both share personal updates and disco...
22. The Exploding One
19 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been lovebombed? Would you like us to describe it to you? Well, Ali & Roark are here to do just that. Before Topic Talk, both Ali &a...
21. The Undefined One
12 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I think we got a situation, here! Well, a situationship that is. Ali & Roark delve into the messy topic of relationships that aren’t quite relat...
20. The After The First One
05 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark finally finish the first date trilogy and address after the first date. How do you tell if you’re into someone enough for a second d...
19. The Queer One ft. Queer Dating Coach Ariella Serur
28 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark have wanted to do an episode focused on LGBTQIA+ dating for a while now, and Pride Month felt like the perfect time! As always, they s...
18. The Grieving One
21 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark have an emotional discussion this week as they tackle grief in dating. As always, they start the episode with their own dating updates...
17. The During The First One
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark thought discussing the first date would be two episodes, but turns out it is a trilogy! In Episode 14 they covered everything before t...
16. The Not Dying Alone One ft. Logan Ury
07 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark could not be more excited to have Logan Ury on the podcast this week. Logan is a behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author of How...
15. The Second Grab Bag One
31 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark are together this week for a second grab bag episode. You read that right - Ali & Roark are literally together! They had a blast r...
14. The Before The First One
24 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark are back this week for part one of two episodes on a very important topic: the first date. In this episode, they discuss everything le...
13. The Just Friends One ft. Seeing Other People
17 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's Ali & Roark's longest episode yet - and for good reason! They welcome on Ilana & Jonah, the duo behind the Seeing Other People po...
12. The Motherly One ft. Our Moms
10 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It is a Mother's Day extravaganza as Ali & Roark welcome their moms to the podcast! As always, Ali & Roark start the episode with their ow...
11. The Alarming One
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali & Roark are seeing red! Flags, that is. They start by defining a red flag: how is it different from a dealbreaker, and is a yellow ...
10. The Friendly One ft. Matt and Darcy
26 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali & Roark welcome their first guests to the podcast: their best guy friends Matt & Darcy! But first, Ali & Roark update listeners on the...
9. The First Grab Bag One
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ali and Roark are switching it up and trying all the new things! But first, they have a rather long list of updates to share. Then, they introduce a s...
8. The Inviting One
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
As great philosophers once said, "If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends." The Spice Girls were right! Which is why Ali &...
7. The Boomerang One
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Should you get back together with your ex? The bad news: Ali & Roark don’t know. The good news: what they DO know are some questions you can ask...
6. The Corresponding One
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like you're having a great back and forth with a match over text, but it just never seems to end with a date? Sounds like you're in ...
5. The Needy One
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
"If he wanted to, he would" - sound familiar? Spoiler alert: Ali & Roark do not approve this message. They debunk this dating myth and rew...
4. The Disappearing One
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Boo! Don't worry, this podcast isn't disappearing, but Ali and Roark are talking about men who did! Ghosting. One of the most common problems ...
3. The Skeptical One
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Ali and Roark discuss how to talk to people who are skeptical about online dating: parents, friends, and even people ON the apps (we are ta...
2. The Unsolicited One
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's only episode two and Ali & Roark are already tackling *that* topic...that's right, dick pics, requests for nudes, and when a match ge...
1. The Actual First One
22 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's here! The *real* premiere episode of FMH: The Podcast. Get to know your co-hosts as Ali & Roark share both their friendship origin story ...
The First One
17 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast - a teaser! Meet dating coach Ali from her @findingmrheight TikTok and Instagram and her good friend Roark as they emb...