Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Episodes
Praying Through the Tougher Times
28 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Prayer is one of the key ingredients to helping you experience a deeper relationship with your mate. Kathi Lipp joins Jim Daly to discuss the differen...
If You Aren’t Doing Well Spiritually
23 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most couples go through a season where you're not connecting like you want. Erin Smalley addresses how spiritual connection matters, and that a lot of...
Keeping Attraction Alive
21 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When you fell in love, was it love at first sight, or did attraction grow with time? Jim Daly and Debra Fileta address how a person can fall in love w...
Are You Facing Spiritual Warfare?
16 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if you're facing spiritual warfare? Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and his wife Noreen joined Jim Daly to discuss 5 real signs that you're actually...
Financial Unity Honors God
14 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you're not on the same page financially, please know, you aren't the only couple facing that tension. Greg Smalley shares how many couples actually...
You’re Not Your Spouse’s Holy Spirit
09 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if you took a second to pray for your spouse before criticizing him or her? Jim Daly joins Ron and Deb DeArmond on why you cannot be your spouse'...
Starting with Prayer
07 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How do you and your spouse pray together? Greg and Erin Smalley open up about what Bible verses they pray over each other. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with ...
4 Big Decisions
02 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What if a small choice could have a tremendous impact on your marriage? Jim Daly has a conversation with Arlene Pellicane on 4 choices you can make to...
Take Time to Talk
31 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Is there a certain amount of time that you have to spend with your spouse on a daily basis? Greg Smalley gives some research-backed information on the...
Don’t Settle for Control or Manipulation
26 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We all have times of conflict, but what if it feels like your spouse is being controlling or manipulative? Jim Daly talks with Dr. Ron Welch and his w...
Don’t Pretend, Move Forward
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Does it feel hard to forgive your spouse when he or she has hurt you? Jim Daly joins Dr. Randy Schroeder to explain why forgiving your mate is necessa...
“What I’m Hearing You Say Is …”
19 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We've all had moments where we misunderstood our spouse. Greg opens up about some of the ways he's not understood things Erin has said. Then, Jim Daly...
3 Questions to Make Your Marriage Better
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy to play blame-games in your marriage, but it's better to ask yourself some hard questions. Greg Smalley opens up about some times where he g...
When a Wife Encourages Her Man
12 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most powerful things a wife can do is encourage her husband. Ann Wilson and her husband Dave talk to Jim Daly about a time where she chose ...
Laugh When Things Go Wrong
10 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
When was the last time you and your spouse laughed at something? Ted Cunningham sits down with Jim Daly to share a few times he and his wife Amy have ...
“What Happened to the Person I Married?”
05 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most couples go through a tough season where you wonder, "What happened to the honeymoon phase?" Greg Smalley shares some statistics on how many coupl...
Overcome Loneliness by Talking
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We're living in a lonely generation today. Dr. Heather Holleman and her husband Ashley join Jim Daly to address the dangers of isolation and how to fo...
Let Go of Control, Open Your Heart
26 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Being successful in marriage sometimes looks like letting go of unrealistic expectations and striving for real connection. Rebecca St. James and Cubbi...
When He Popped the Question
24 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What was the moment like when you got engaged? Greg and Erin Smalley tell the story of when he asked Erin to marry him. Then, Jim Daly talks to Rebecc...
“Let’s Not Talk Now”
19 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
One of the best lessons in marriage is that you don't have to solve everything this very moment. Sometimes, it's best to take a deep breath. Jim Daly ...
“I Won’t Spend a Dime, Greg”
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever misunderstood something your spouse said? We've all done it at some point. Jim Daly chats with Greg and Erin about a time they worked th...
Think Legacy, Not Just this Moment
12 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
You want your marriage to bless future generations to come. Greg opens up about the marriage legacy he comes from, and how that inspires him today. Th...
Run to Love, Run from Porn
10 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
The culture tells us that porn isn't a big deal. But the truth is, it's catastrophic to a relationship. Erin and Greg Smalley share why porn is bad fo...
First Progress, Then Regress, Now What?
05 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Does it feel like you're making progress as a couple, only to take a few steps back? Krista and David Dunham talk to Jim Daly on how they faced this v...
Eating Disorders & Mental Illness
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you or your spouse are dealing with a serious struggle, how can you be honest and get help? David and Krista Dunham share with Jim Daly about how K...
When Falling in Love Becomes Intentional
29 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Do you remember when you were dating and you wanted to marry your special someone? Greg Smalley tells about the moment he knew he wanted to marry Erin...
Marriage Won’t Solve Discontentment
27 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Your spouse may be wonderful, but it's not wise to find all of your happiness from them. Erin Smalley shares why couples need to look for satisfaction...
When You Walk Through a Mourning Season
22 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Every couple goes through loss sometimes. John and Greg open up about times they went through loss in their marriages, and how God showed up during th...
Dealing with Unmet Expectations and Offenses
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Have you or your spouse ever had an unexpected outburst? It might be that there are unrealistic expectations underneath the surface. Greg and Erin tal...
You’ll Want More Time with Your Family
15 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
So many people regret not spending enough time with their family. How do you avoid making that very mistake? Erin Smalley addresses how she's seen tha...
Flirting and Wedding Vows
13 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Flirting might seem harmless. But, it's dangerous to flirt with someone who isn't your spouse. Jerry Jenkins tells Jim Daly a poignant story of how fl...
When an Underlying Issue Becomes a Big Problem
08 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How are you dealing with the baggage you've brought into your marriage? We all bring some, but the key is taking appropriate action to address it. Dav...
Why Perfectionism is Dangerous for a Marriage
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Perfectionism is something many people struggle with. It's also very bad for your marriage. Jim Daly talks to David & Krista Dunham on how her str...
God Was Working Before You Got Married
01 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
How was God working in your heart before you met your spouse? Jim Daly talks to Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie Fink on lessons God taught th...
Live for God, Not the Crowd
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
As Christians, we're called to please God. So, how do you balance that with trying to make your spouse happy? Dr. Greg Smalley will help you discern i...
When Your Love Changes
25 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
One of the beauties and challenges of marriage is that your spouse is always changing. Greg and Erin join Jim Daly and his wife Jean to explain how yo...
Say "Good Morning" Before Giving Your To-Do List
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you told your spouse how much you appreciate him or her recently? It can be easy to get caught up in the to-do lists of life, and miss telling th...
Safe Boundaries, Strong Love
18 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Focus on the Family When you set a boundary, it can lead to deeper intimacy with your spouse. John and Erin will encourage you to be intentional about...
Protecting What Matters Most
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's important to recognize where you're tempted so you can guard your marriage. Jim Daly and Jerry Jenkins address how sex, money and pride are the t...
Finding Your Way Back to Each Other
11 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you embrace the ways you and your spouse are so different? Greg Smalley gives a helpful perspective for appreciating your mate's uniqueness. Al...
Reigniting Romance in Your Marriage
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Has the romance run dry in your marriage? Most couples go through a season where that happens. Erin Smalley gives a few tips for small things you can ...
Your Stories Before You Were Married
04 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's wonderful to recount your story before you and your spouse fell in love. Jim Daly talks with Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie on what the...
Embracing God’s Redemption
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Focus on the Family In Christ, you can experience redemption, even after you've made poor choices in your marriage. Jim Daly talks with Jim Turner on ...
Be Focused and Have Fun
27 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you like to bless your mate and ask him or her, "how are you doing?" It's good to make that a regular part of your relationship. The Smalley's ...
Fine China, and Simple Blessings
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does the Bible mean when it calls wives a "weaker vessel?" Jay and Laura Laffoon join Jim Daly to offer a beautiful perspective on what that term...
Be Careful with Physical Touch
20 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most affairs can be traced back to small compromises. Erin Smalley addresses how she's seen that very truth in her counseling practice, and why there'...
Practical Ways to Guard Against Temptation
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
All of us need boundaries to protect ourselves from sexual temptation. Greg and Erin open up about something that helps them fight tempting thoughts. ...
Talking at the Heart Level
13 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What helps you and your spouse connect emotionally? Jim Daly speaks to Tara Lalonde and Dr. Bob Paul about a concept they refer to as Heart Talk, and ...
She Climbed Out a Window
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's common for you and your spouse to have different styles for trying to resolve conflict. Jim Daly joins Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde, who both op...
“I Messed Up! Can My Story Be Redeemed?”
06 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy to believe the lie that things won't get better. But, we serve a God who's in the business of redemption. Jim Turner sits down with Jim Daly...
Going for a Heart Walk
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When was the last time you and your spouse went for a walk together? Erin Smalley discusses how the simple activity of going for a walk can help you a...
The Words You Say to Your Mate
30 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do your words encourage or tear down your spouse? Jim Daly speaks to Jay and Laura Laffoon on how they've learned to be more encouraging to each other...
Getting Rid of Hurry-Syndrome
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Saying "yes," to too many things is really bad for your marriage. Greg opens up about how he's learning to try and pull back from too many commitments...
Run from Pornography!
23 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Jesus tells us in the New Testament that looking lustfully at someone is equivalent to committing adultery in your heart. Greg Smalley explains why wa...
When Temptation is Still Around
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When you got married, it was easy to believe sexual temptation might disappear. John and Erin explain why temptation still needs to be dealt with even...
Stay Curious About Your Spouse
16 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you stay curious about your spouse, even if you've been married for a long time? Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde speak to Jim Daly about why ther...
Why Codependency is so Toxic
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you're focused too much on your spouse's issues, that might be a sign of codependency. Jim Daly talks with Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde, on how yo...
The Dangers of Not Engaging Emotionally
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
To not try to understand your wife's emotions can do great damage in your marriage. John asks Erin Smalley about how it makes a wife feel if her husba...
When Your Husband is Emotionally Distant
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do if your husband is not connecting with you emotionally? Jim Daly interviews Jim Turner about how he struggled with being emotionally di...
Too Busy to Date Your Spouse?
02 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You want fun dates with your spouse, but what if you simply don't have much time on your plate? Jay and Laura Laffoon speak with Jim Daly about how yo...
Don't Skip Date Night
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Date nights should be a part of every couple's schedule no matter how long you've been married. Jay and Laura Laffoon, who've been together for four d...
Sexual Issues & Erasing Shame
25 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The statistics on how many Christian men are viewing porn regularly are very sad. Jim Daly talks with Sherri Mueller and Erin Smalley on how sexual si...
Enjoying Physical Intimacy Regularly
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul encourages couples to not go too long without physical intimacy. Jim Daly talks to Erin Smalley and Sherri Muel...
Don’t Play the Blame Game
18 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When you're upset, one of the worst things you can do is fixate too much on blaming your spouse. Dr. Greg Smalley shares a story about a time he snapp...
When a Button is Pushed, and Self Care
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you respond well when one of your buttons gets pushed in marriage? Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde talk with Jim Daly about examining the reasons...
When a Friend Calls You Out
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Having supportive friends is one of the best ways to keep your marriage strong. Jim Turner tells Jim Daly a story about a time a friend called him out...
Emotional Distance in Marriage
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Allowing your spouse to share their feelings is one of the best ways to make your marriage safe. Jim Turner and Jim Daly talk about how men tend to co...
A Few Minutes of Intentionality
04 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if a small change in your marriage made the biggest difference? Jay and Laura Laffoon talk about how 15 minutes of uninterrupted conversation has...
Simple Celebrations with Big Implications
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When was the last time you and your spouse laughed together? Erin Smalley explains why laughter is a sign of a healthy relationship. Then, Jim Daly jo...
Good Sex is the Result of Commitment
28 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The best sex is many times the end result of staying committed to your spouse. Jim Daly talks to Sherri Mueller about why sex can get better with time...
When Sex Isn’t Happening as Often as You Want
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
There are times where physical intimacy is a regular part of your marriage. But how do you navigate the seasons where it's not? Jim Daly speaks to Eri...
When the Reactive Cycle Goes Negative
21 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How are you and your spouse responding to conflict? Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Bob Paul and Tara Lalonde about something called, The Reactive Cycle, and...
Reactions that Make Your Spouse Feel Safe
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Every marriage needs to feel safe before both spouses can be open with each other. Erin shares about some ways her husband Greg makes her feel safe. P...
Roadblocks to Effective Communication
14 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you think you have your spouse all figured out? The truth is, there's always something new to learn. Ryan Frederick and Jim Daly encourage husbands...
The Difference 3 Seconds Can Make
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you're ever mad with your spouse, it's good to pause before saying something you regret later. Greg and Erin Smalley talk about the value of pausin...
Lean into Your Spouse’s Strengths
07 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How have your spouse's strengths been useful to you? John Fuller opens up a way his wife has helped him be a better man. Also, Dr. Kevin Leman talks w...
The Value of Your Spouse’s Birth-Order
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You and your spouse likely have different strengths. God designed it that way. But are you telling your spouse you appreciate their gifts? Dr. Kevin L...
When Sex Isn’t Frequent
31 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you handle seasons where you're not enjoying physical intimacy as much as you want in marriage? Jim Daly speaks to Erin Smalley and Sherri Muel...
Leaving a Marriage Legacy
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What will your kids say about your marriage in the future? Greg and Erin Smalley share how they stay inspired to remember they're building a legacy no...
What You Control, What You Don’t
24 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy to fixate on what your spouse is doing wrong. But real courage many times is focusing on what you need to work on. Erin Smalley addresses ho...
Can God Work a Miracle in Your Relationship?
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever reached a point in marriage where you didn't think you'd make it? John asks Greg Smalley about how he and Erin persevered through a chal...
When Two Strong Personalities Clash
17 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When you and your spouse are in an argument, it can be pretty intense. Ryan Frederick talks with Jim Daly about how he's learned to be more gentle whe...
Your Temperament as a Husband
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's not just about what you say to your spouse, but it's also about how you say it. Ryan Frederick and Jim Daly address why it's important to watch y...
Birth-Order and Biblical Examples
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Every person, based on your birth-order, has strengths and weaknesses. Dr. Kevin Leman and Jim Daly address some of the biblical examples of how birth...
When You and Your Spouse Are the Same Birth-Order
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many couples tend to marry someone outside of their birth-order. But what about the scenario where people of the same birth-order get married? Dr. Kev...
Sticking it Out in Your Marriage
03 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In the moments you feel frustrated, how do you look past the annoyances in your marriage? Sean and Lanette Reed speak to Jim Daly about how they've le...
When You Need Grit in Your Marriage
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Every marriage needs a bit of toughness to help weather the difficult times. Jim Daly talks to Sean and Lanette Reed about why your marriage needs gri...
God Can Turn It Around So Quickly
26 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
No matter how hopeless things might feel in your marriage, God can still restore you. Jim Daly speaks to Josh and Katie Walters about how a trip to th...
Regaining Purpose After a Traumatic Event
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How does a marriage recover from trauma? If you or a couple you're close to is experiencing a major challenge, you'll be encouraged by John, Greg and ...
The High Calling of a Husband
19 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The Bible tells men to love your wives as Christ loved His church. Greg talks with John about some of the sacrifices he's learned to make as a husband...
The Way You Communicate Matters
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For husbands, the ways you communicate to your wife is very different than how you talk to other men. Jim Daly and Ryan Frederick open up about how th...
Seeing Life Through Your Spouse’s Temperament
12 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Anyone who's been married for a while will tell you that you and your spouse will have different perspectives sometimes. Dr. Kevin Leman and Jim Daly ...
The Influence of Your Spouse’s Birth Order
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The old adage "opposites attract," is very common for a lot of couples. Jim Daly and Dr. Kevin Leman explain how marrying someone who's of a different...
Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Deserve Grace
05 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you show your mate kindness when you don't feel like it? Sean and Lanette Reed speak with Jim Daly about how all of us need grace and a chance ...
Why a 3 – 5 Year Plan Matters
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When was the last time you and your spouse discussed where you want to be in 3 - 5 years? Erin Smalley addresses how a lot of couples are struggling w...
Recovering Vision After Trauma
29 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you've gone through something traumatic, it can take months or even years to regain your sense of direction. Erin Smalley talks with John and Greg ...
When Another Couple Steps In
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If your marriage is in trouble, one of the best solutions is getting help from a couple who will support you. Josh and Katie Walters speak with Jim Da...
Take the Plank Out of Your Eye First
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you look beyond the ways your spouse has hurt you? Ashley Willis and her husband Dave open up to Jim Daly about how they had to work through fe...
When Porn Addiction is Discovered
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What can you do if you discover your spouse has a problem with pornography? Jim Daly talks with Dave and Ashley Willis, who faced that very question i...
The Influence of Your Birth Order
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Your birth order might influence your marriage more than you think. John, Greg and Erin share where each of them are in their respective birth orders....