Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast
Episodes
Do You Want Great Sex or a Great Life That Includes Sex?
17 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why men can't have a passionate sex life without first accepting responsibility for creating a passionate life. How do get "turn...
How To Rebuild Your Wife's Trust In You
14 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I wrote an article about how to rebuild your wife's trust in you and I thought I would summarize the key points here in this episode. Here's the artic...
Are You A Good Guy With A Bad Sex Life?
11 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like your sex life is determined by her? As if your wife holds the keys to your sexual power and whether you get to feel like a confident se...
The Key Mindset Change That Makes You Instantly More Masculine
08 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how you can begin to see yourself as the creator of your own reality. Despite negative and unpleasant circumstances, I expla...
Why You Must Stop Trying to Fix Your Marriage
05 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you are trying to avoid divorce, save your marriage, fix your marriage (or even improve it slightly), you must change the way you're thinking about...
Wife Wants A Divorce? How To Save Your Family
02 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife wants a divorce but you don't, you want to save your marriage but you're unsure what to do or how to respond.In this episode I explain the c...
How to Know When She's Really Done...and when she's not
30 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here's one of our top five questions we get every day. How do I know if it's too late...I mean, how do I know if I have a chance to save this marriage...
Wife Is Always Criticising Me Learn The Hidden Cause
27 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like your wife is always criticising you? There's a very well researched reason for her reacting to you in this way and it's important to ...
The Big Mistake Most Of Us Make With Our Throbbing Libido
24 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Most of us think our relationship would greatly improve if our sex life improved. But being a slave to your sex drive is EXACTLY how men sabotage thei...
The 3 Crucial Questions Most Men Can't Clearly Answer
21 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The first thing we talk about with men in our courses, retreats and personal coaching programs is VALUES. Call them values, operating principles, comm...
Being Married Shouldn't Be This Hard!!
18 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"I'm married and am a good provider, listener, romantic, funny, attentive, lover, patient, good dad...etc. I’m a good catch. But my wife is distant,...
Handle Challenge and Confrontation (Like a Man)
15 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel disrespected or like you can't do anything right? Does your partner challenge your plans often? How do you react? Do you get defensiv...
The Secret to Getting What You Really Want in Your Marriage
12 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You know that you're not happy in your marriage. You know that your wife isn't happy either. So why can't you just have those difficult conversations ...
Two Ways Women Test Men (and why she does it)
09 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I introduce TWO WAYS WOMEN TEST MEN which you may experience and how to pass them with flying colors. Wives subconsciously test husban...
How to Be a Passionate Hummingbird and Re-Energize Your Relationship
06 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to re-energize your relationship and create more passion, connection, desire, fun, playfulness, and intimacy, it's a by product of becomin...
How to Recapture Your Mojo and Overcome Your Secret Fear (you know which one I mean)
03 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A man's deepest fear is usually not being seen as "strong enough". It's a fear of being seen as a "pussy" or "weak" compared to other men. This fear c...
The Mistake All Unhappy Husbands Make
30 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Is your relationship or marriage feeling dull, boring or stuck? Do you feel like you're becoming room mates? Are you looking for practical advice to r...
18 Inches To More Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife
27 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I know you want Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife, this video challenges you to spend ONE WEEK operating from your HEART instead of your HEAD when...
Save Your Marriage? This is How to First Save Yourself!
24 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode tells you how to become more secure and confident in the face of divorce or separation. We explain why you're THINKING is the key and how...
How Not To Build Attraction With Your Wife
21 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to build attraction with your wife again, then there's an important area of men's development that you may need to pay attention to. In th...
My Wife Always Turns Me Down For Sex
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does Your Wife Always turn you down when you initiate?? Do you get frustrated and hurt by her lack of interest? In this episode I talk about the core ...
How To Respond When You Re-attract Your Wife
15 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When guys contact me I ask them what they need and whether you want to re-attract your wife. We go through an intense 6 month program where you learn ...
What To Do With The Scary Divorce Thoughts That Wake You Up at 3_00am
12 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you're faced with a marriage that is growing further and further apart, or a wife who has said she wants space, wants to separate or wants a divorc...
Dirty Talk For A Sexual & Affectionate Marriage
09 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Would you love to learn how to use dirty talk with your wife or long-term partner? Do you love it when someone talks dirty to you? In this episode I t...
Emotional Affair - What to Say When She is Emotionally Attached to Another Man
03 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you concerned that your wife may be involved in an Emotional Affair?When you're dealing with a possible infidelity or emotional disconnection in t...
Why You're Still Stuck In An Unhappy Marriage
31 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How will you change your unhappy marriage? The quote I mention in this episode is by Brendon Burchard:“There are two things that change your life: e...
Should You Buy Your Runaway Wife a Gift?
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How to know what to buy your crazy, estanged, separated or runaway wife for the holidays. Do you want to know how to buy gifts for your wife when your...
How to Never Lose a Fight Again
25 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you finding yourself frustrated and at a loss for what to do in your relationship? Do you keep going around and around treading on eggshells, then...
My Wife Said She’s Unhappy, Help!
22 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you constantly anxious and worrying about your relationship? In this episode I talk about a very common coaching tool we use to help men radically...
Sick of Waiting For Your Marriage To Get Better?
19 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Waiting for your marriage to get better can feel like a never ending slow drawn out death. Almost everywhere you look you'll see examples of OUTCOMES ...
The Cause of Your Sexless Marriage
11 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What is the cause of your sexless marriage? If you are dependent on your wife being happy - you can't be trusted to take care of her and slowly the po...
How to Fix Anger, Disrespect and Procrastination with One Simple Mantra
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain my meme "I don't think so cupcake!" and how you can use it step up, own your values and meet your own standards.In our coach...
When You're Going Through Hell...How Do You Keep Going?
05 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes doing anything feels like pushing a 2 ton truck up a hill with your bare hands...why is that? And how do you deal with it? Whether you're st...
The 5 Signs Your Marriage is Stuck in Limbo Land
02 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here's the link to the Goodguys2Greatmen Live Coaching Roundtable. It's a special group of men and we'd love to have you join us:http://goodguys2great...
She Can't Trust You When You Criticize Her
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel criticized in your relationship all the time? Are you being overly critical to her? In this video I discuss different types of criticism, ...
What a Horse Can Teach You About Women, Intimacy and You!
24 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that with...
Why Doctors, Lawyers and Engineers Suck at Arguing With Their Wife
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you one of the many successful men who find themselves arguing with their wife about the same things over and over again?Are you ready for the cyc...
Why Being Vulnerable with Your Wife is Sexy (and How it Can also Turn Her Off)
18 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why does your wife get mad at you or frustrated or shut down when you open up to her and tell her your problems or fears? Aren't we supposed to be vul...
The Case Against Men and Marriage Counseling
15 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Should men and marriage counselling mix? Is there a better way to resolve your relationship issues?Yes!! There’s a common pitfall many men plunge in...
Don’t Wait Until The Spark is Gone Forever
06 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What is the number one cause of problems in relationships? - Commitment. Either a broken commitment or the lack of asking for a commitment. In fact mo...
Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
03 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife doesn't want sex anymore and you're trying to work out why. One of the most common ways that a wife gets turned off wanting sex with you is...
How You Use Your Confidence Matters
31 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In my coaching programs I help men re-find their masculine strength, mojo and confidence.What I wanted to talk about today is the way in which you can...
Marriage Spinning Out of Control? You Gotta Turn Into the Skid!
28 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does your marriage feel like it's going downhill fast? Is your wife distant and needing space from you? This episode tells you how to handle yourself ...
Being a Confident Man Nothing Changes If You Don’t Change
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you feeling anything BUT a confident man? Does the start of this year feel just like the previous one? Or maybe it's worse? Have you already given...
Is Fear Keeping Your Marriage Stuck in Limbo?
22 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the face of a struggling marriage, looming divorce or with a woman who needs space,a man needs CLARITY. When you're hit with "I love you but I'm...
How to Build Confidence by Getting S#!t Done...Even When You're Sick
19 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains how to become more confident and feel better about yourself by making commitments to getting things done. In our coaching, we he...
How To Handle An Angry Wife
16 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you regularly deal with an angry wife? How do you handle her anger? Do you get triggered and find yourself angry too? Do you feel insulted or attac...
The KEY To Improving Intimacy in Your Marriage
13 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you're watching this then you're probably one of the huge number of men who want to learn how to improve the connection and intimacy in their relat...
I Don't Feel Confident Around Her Anymore
10 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is an excerpt from one of our Group coaching calls where we answer the question - how do I stop my emotional reactions when my wife doesn't seem ...
Regain Your Wife's Feelings of Attraction
07 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife has said she's not feeling attracted to you and it's sent you scrambling, googling, reading, watching anything and everything, asking questi...
Wife Said I Think We Need To Separate What Now?
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Has your wife said I think we need to separate or I want to spend some time apart or maybe we should separate and see how it goes...I know...those wor...
How to Have More Good Male Friends
01 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to have more good male friends? So many men are isolated and alone when they hit difficult times in their life and relationships and it's...
How To Lead When Your Wife Won't Let You
29 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a marriage that is distant, cold and tense? Have you been trying really freaking hard to do everything she asks of you to make her happy? ...
Why Modern Day Marriages Are Even More Sexless
26 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You can't have more affection and sex without more confidence. Yeah I know that's not very original is it. But I have a slightly different take on th...
How to Stop Being an Angry Husband (the fun way)
23 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Here's the article with the list of FIFTY TRAITS OF A HAPPILY DIVORCED MAN.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-acting-like-a-happily-divorced-man-can-sa...
How to Fix a Passionless Marriage (and Life)
20 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you struggling with a lack of motivation and fulfilment?Is your relationship dull, boring, disconnected and miserable?In this episode I talk about...
Turn Arguing Into Attraction
17 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself getting into arguments about the intimacy and connection in your relationship?In this episode I explain how you can turn an argum...
I Know What You’re Thinking..and I know what SHE's thinking!
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a relationship that is lacking in closeness, affection, fun, laughter, and yes, sex? Are you searching around all over the internet to fin...
Marriage Problems Regain Your Wife's Admiration & Respect
11 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you experiencing marriage problems? Are you feeling the strain in your marriage or relationship? Is the affection and connection between you chang...
Wife Needs Space What Now?
08 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When your wife needs space the hardest thing to do is to stay in your calm, masculine energy and offer your wife the kind of space that she really nee...
Stuck In A Miserable Marriage?
05 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you feeling stuck in a miserable marriage? Does the state of your relationship make you anxious and unhappy?I thought for years that my marriage w...
My Wife Isn't Affectionate Anymore
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If your wife isn't affectionate anymore you may be doing one of the most common mistakes I see husbands making all the time with their non-affectionat...
Why Great Men Love Feminine Affection
29 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Yes, great men love feminine affection WAY more than sex...don't believe me? Ask any man who's been in a really long term relationship and you'll be s...
What To Do If Your Wife Is Not Attracted To You
26 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you worry that the reason your marriage is less passionate is because your wife is not attracted to you? Or maybe she's actually told you that she...
How To Find Peace When You're In Pain
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There is some deep wisdom in the notion that we actually have the ability to STOP thinking ourselves into fearful stories, fearful thoughts and fearfu...
The ONE THING Men Need More Than a Woman
20 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do men need more than a woman? Let me explain that title a little more. I'm not saying you need this one thing more than a woman needs this one ...
How to Stop Fearful Thinking (and get your Mojo back!)
17 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you struggling with fearful thinking or stuck in constant anxiety? Is your life feeling out of control? Are you frustrated and resentful about y...
3 Traits of an Attractive Confident Man
14 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to be a more attractive confident man? What is attractive in a man? Why do women need to feel these traits of an attractive confident man ...
Does I need space! Mean She's Sleeping Around?
11 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Has your wife said I need space? What does that mean? Has it sent you into a tailspin of panic and anxiety? Are you worried that she is sleeping aroun...
How to Make the Hardest Decision of Your Life
08 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you're feeling frustrated, stuck, unsure or unfulfilled in your relationship, marriage, job or just life in general, we can often get bogged down...
How to Reignite the Attraction When Your Wife Says its Gone
05 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you restore attraction when your wife says it's completely gone?There are many ways that we inadvertently create the distance and lack of intim...
My Wife is Distant, What Can I Do?
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a relationship with a woman who is distant and unable to engage in anything but short surface or logistical conversations? Does she keep le...
How to Give Her Space Without Giving Up
30 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is titled how to give her space without giving up because so many of us struggle to know how to deal with those three little words...thos...
The One Thing a Man Must Not Do Without
27 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This video talks about the value of male friendship and why we must learn to pursue friendships and learn to ask for help.Why?Because it will revoluti...
Why You Need to Stop Chasing Women
24 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The video is about how "chasing" and "pursuing" what you want from women will never work. Getting affection, love and sex all starts with you knowing...
How to Be More Secure, Confident and Attractive in Your Relationship
21 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this video I describe the most common "attachment style" problems keeping you from having the relationship you really want. If you want to save yo...
Why Chasing Sex Always Gets LESS Sex
18 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
All you want is for her to return your affection. So you show her how much you care.You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper ...
Your Wife Is Always Unhappy, What Should You Do?
15 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you living in a marriage and relationship where your Wife Is Always Unhappy? In this episode I talk about the mistake we make when trying to deal ...
What is a High Value Man? & Why is it Important?
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Here's the link to the April 2020 UK Retreat I mention in the video:https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-uk-mens-retreat-2020/"Every deci...
Why Your Wife Isn’t “Abusing” You
09 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Warning, this video may piss you off! But I don't care - you need to hear this.In this video I discuss: What's really happening when someone treats y...
What Would You Do if You Felt Fearless?
06 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today's message is simple.Confidence. Pure, unedited, open-hearted, easy going and unapologetic manly confidence! It’s what separates those who “...
I think we should divorce..., she said with the emotion of a corpse
03 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife wants a divorce and you only just found out? Did it send you into a painful spin of emotional turmoil and uncertainty? Just hearing that one...
How to Create More Connection & Trust
30 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you're experiencing volatile emotions coming in your direction, or a volatile work place, or volatile markets - whatever the source of the anxiet...
How to Handle Her Anger Without Sabotaging Your Sex Life
27 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you get angry or frustrated when your wife or partner is upset and you can't fix it for her?Maybe you've asked her what you can do to help and that...
Why Hummingbird Husbands Get No Lovin'
24 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There is a guaranteed libido killer that us men don't realize we're doing especially in a long term romantic relationship when our partner is being le...
There's No Connection In My Marriage
21 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like there's no intimate connection in your marriage anymore? Are you tired of feeling awkward and lonely in your relationship? Do you f...
How to Make a Woman an Irresistible Offer
18 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you make a woman an irresistible offer? How do you STOP chasing affection, attention and approval and become a man who invites women into his ...
How IT Workers (and other techies) Unknowingly Piss Off Their Women
15 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you're a tech guy and work in IT or are in some other very logical, rational, process driven professional career like being a engineer, lawyer, doc...
Why You Need to Stop Chasing Your Runaway Wife
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode gives specific advice about reducing pressure and backing away enough to give yourself time to respond like a man. This can slow things ...
More Sex & Affection: How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy Again
09 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder why your wife doesn't seem interested in you sexually anymore?Have you ever initiated sex and heard, "Maybe later, I don't know, we'll see...
How to Stop Arguing About Sex and Create More Attraction
06 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
LINK to How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb Online Coaching Course:https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/Attention: Men Who Are Desperate To Stop The Downw...
The Perfect Time to Ask a Woman for Sex
03 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode gives you tips and insight to becoming more rejection proof and confident in asking for what you want. If you are having trouble getting...
Who REALLY Dies First? Married or Single Men?
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about what you need to know about being "happy". The most important thing you can do before making any decision about your unhappy, ...
How Defending Yourself Kills Her Affection For You
28 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Does it feel like she only sees the mistakes you make and ignores the other stuff you do for her?Do you often argue, explaining and defending your act...
How to Tell if She Just Wants Space...or Divorce
25 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you tell the difference between a normal request to get some downtime alone and something more serious?How can you know if she is just tired or...
How to Help Her Feel More Emotionally Safe
22 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode graphically describes how EMOTIONAL SAFETY is one of the most important relationship insights you need with your woman. A secure, confid...
How to Be More Confident and Happy by Stopping This One Habit
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain why TRYING TO BE RIGHT is your biggest source of unrest and unhappiness. Why do we need to convince others they are wrong? ...
How to Get Instant Relief from Horniness
16 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how to deal with your feelings of disappointment, anger, frustration, resentment and, yes, horniness. The secret is in lear...
What the Mountain Lion KNOWS...but maybe you don't quite yet
13 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you calm and confident that you can CREATE all the love, affection and connection you want in your life and relationship? Or are you nervous and u...
Why Arguing About Stupid Stuff Kills Confidence (and attraction!)
10 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Want to create more emotional connection and intimacy with your woman? Then you must learn how to handle stupid arguments about stupid things.In this ...