Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast
Episodes
The Stupidly Simple Thing a Woman Needs to Feel Happy With You
12 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What does it take to REALLY have a happy marriage, happy life and yes, a happy wife - and why most of us have this backwards...In this episode I talk ...
Why Self Help May Not Save Your Marriage
09 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When your relationship is struggling or you're finding yourself feeling down, stressed, angry or frustrated a lot of the time and you're trying so har...
How to Engineer More Affection
06 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm talking about two key elements in your ability to change the future of your life and relationships.Whether you're wanting more fun and enthu...
How to Know Your Purpose as a Man
03 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If this last year has been a tough year for you...know that you're not alone!! BUT...and this is important...what I want you to know is that making th...
How to Stop Being Triggered by Your Wife
30 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself being triggered by your partner, getting pouty and frustrated almost every day in your marriage? Have you heard things like "Stop...
What Most Men Don't Get About Creating A Happier Marriage
27 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want a happier marriage? There's one thing we see time and time again in the men who successfully create a marriage that's happier, more relaxe...
The Mistake of Treating Her as Your Equal
24 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife is frustrated and upset about something and you're done dealing with this all the time. Why can't she see the simple solution...you've expla...
Sexless Marriage Should I Leave?
21 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or do you feel like you're never going to be met in this unhappy relationship? Do you know what to do next? Or are...
Want Your Wife To Initiate Sex & Affection?
18 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you Wife To Initiate Sex more often? Are you in a relationship or marriage with very little or no sex, affection and intimacy? Do you find yourself...
My Wife Is Moving Away From Our Marriage
15 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Is your wife moving away from your marriage? REJECTION!!!! Arghhh, the word that strikes fear into every married man's heart, especially if you've eve...
What To Do When She's Always Stepping On Your Toes
12 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You know that we often talk about the similarities between horses and women in order to help you navigate your relationships and create a sense of con...
Why Your Wife Silently Pukes When YOU Get Emotional
09 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does your wife get upset or cold with you when you try to create connection with her? You may be just around the corner from separation or divorce. In...
3 Counter Intuitive Ways To Stop Your Marriage Falling Apart
06 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you desperately seeking advice on the internet to help you stop your marriage from falling apart? Most advice says "Show her you love her more" or...
How to Control the Connection and Intimacy in Your Relationship
03 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode is about connection and intimacy, how we think about it and how we can be more deliberate in creating it.Connection is the foundation ...
Feeling Stuck, Rejected and Disconnected? (You might have forgotten this)
31 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you feeling isolated, lonely, disconnected and rejected by your wife? Are you also struggling to get the support you need? I've been exactly where...
Is There a Two-Year Clock Ticking on Your Marriage?
28 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know when your marriage is seriously under threat? In this episode I talk about the unknown clock that's ticking in every married woman's h...
How to Have A Fulfilling Relationship & Life
25 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about truth and honesty...which seems obviously important and easy to understand, but when you're in an intimate relationship i...
Game Changer When a Man Finally Feels SAFE to Tell His Truth
22 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why good, strong men can feel horrible in their marriage and feel unsafe to talk to anyone about it. While I know you want a bet...
What to Do When Your Wife Complains
19 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you often find yourself complaining either in your head or verbally to others about your marriage or relationship? In this episode I talk about the...
Handling An Angry Wife With Confidence
11 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you struggle to know how to deal with your angry wife? Want to know how to handle her anger with confidence and in a way that leaves you feeling mo...
The Number One Cause of a Disconnected Marriage
08 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a relationship where the intimacy and affection has been slowly dwindling for a period of time. It could be a few weeks, maybe a month or t...
How to Handle a Raging 14-Year-Old Like a Ninja Dad
05 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode gives you the secret to effectively handling an angry, raging teenager and get the outcome you really want with him.In our coaching, we h...
6 Steps For A More Affectionate Marriage
02 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want a more affectionate marriage? Is your relationship feeling cold, disconnected and uncaring? Do you find yourself comparing your marriage w...
Does Your Wife Want Space Or A Divorce?
30 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does your wife want space? How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown??? How d...
How to Turnaround a Long Term Sexless Relationship
27 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you dealing with a sexless relationship? It's incredibly common - 10-15% of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year (the definition of a sex...
The Science Behind Her Wanting Sex Again With You
24 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We get asked this question ALL THE TIME!!! "When is my wife going to want sex again?" And what he's really asking is...when can I give her an ultimatu...
This Will Mess Up Your Marriage (In a Good Way)
21 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready for a change in your marriage or long term romantic relationship? Are you feeling stuck and just keeping your head above water avoiding ...
Want Your Wife To Be More Affectionate?
18 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Many of the men I speak to say they want their wife to be more affectionate but things just seem to be getting worse rather than better...so what caus...
Why Women Emasculate Men
15 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a long term relationship or marriage which has frequent arguments, long periods of disconnection and silence, awkwardness and many moments ...
My Wife Never Touches Me Anymore
05 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most common conversations we have with guys is around the question "Why my wife never touches me anymore" and what are the factors that cau...
Why More Confidence Won't Help You Save Your Marriage
02 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There's a common misconception about how to improve your marriage when it's struggling. It's the same misconception when trying to re-attract or incre...
The Key to a Happier Day, Marriage...or Decade
29 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I'm turning 60 this week. And the last 10 years have been the best ever.This video is about how changing the way we THINK is the #1 predictor of happ...
The Cure for a Stagnant Sexless Marriage
26 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you an unhappy husband just existing in a Sexless Marriage?In this episode I talk about the cause of your unhappiness and what you can do to start...
How to Quickly Escape Your Marriage Limbo
23 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a relationship or marriage where your partner or wife is cold and distant? Have you noticed she's spending more and more time with friends ...
How to Let Go of a Shitty Marriage
20 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you living in an unhappy, miserable, crappy marriage with no trust, no connection, no intimacy, and very little care and love? In this episode I e...
Do You Want Great Sex or a Great Life That Includes Sex?
17 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why men can't have a passionate sex life without first accepting responsibility for creating a passionate life. How do get "turn...
How To Rebuild Your Wife's Trust In You
14 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I wrote an article about how to rebuild your wife's trust in you and I thought I would summarize the key points here in this episode. Here's the artic...
Are You A Good Guy With A Bad Sex Life?
11 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like your sex life is determined by her? As if your wife holds the keys to your sexual power and whether you get to feel like a confident se...
The Key Mindset Change That Makes You Instantly More Masculine
08 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how you can begin to see yourself as the creator of your own reality. Despite negative and unpleasant circumstances, I expla...
Why You Must Stop Trying to Fix Your Marriage
05 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you are trying to avoid divorce, save your marriage, fix your marriage (or even improve it slightly), you must change the way you're thinking about...
Wife Wants A Divorce? How To Save Your Family
02 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife wants a divorce but you don't, you want to save your marriage but you're unsure what to do or how to respond.In this episode I explain the c...
How to Know When She's Really Done...and when she's not
30 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here's one of our top five questions we get every day. How do I know if it's too late...I mean, how do I know if I have a chance to save this marriage...
Wife Is Always Criticising Me Learn The Hidden Cause
27 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like your wife is always criticising you? There's a very well researched reason for her reacting to you in this way and it's important to ...
The Big Mistake Most Of Us Make With Our Throbbing Libido
24 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Most of us think our relationship would greatly improve if our sex life improved. But being a slave to your sex drive is EXACTLY how men sabotage thei...
The 3 Crucial Questions Most Men Can't Clearly Answer
21 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The first thing we talk about with men in our courses, retreats and personal coaching programs is VALUES. Call them values, operating principles, comm...
Being Married Shouldn't Be This Hard!!
18 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"I'm married and am a good provider, listener, romantic, funny, attentive, lover, patient, good dad...etc. I’m a good catch. But my wife is distant,...
Handle Challenge and Confrontation (Like a Man)
15 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel disrespected or like you can't do anything right? Does your partner challenge your plans often? How do you react? Do you get defensiv...
The Secret to Getting What You Really Want in Your Marriage
12 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You know that you're not happy in your marriage. You know that your wife isn't happy either. So why can't you just have those difficult conversations ...
Two Ways Women Test Men (and why she does it)
09 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I introduce TWO WAYS WOMEN TEST MEN which you may experience and how to pass them with flying colors. Wives subconsciously test husban...
How to Be a Passionate Hummingbird and Re-Energize Your Relationship
06 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to re-energize your relationship and create more passion, connection, desire, fun, playfulness, and intimacy, it's a by product of becomin...
How to Recapture Your Mojo and Overcome Your Secret Fear (you know which one I mean)
03 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A man's deepest fear is usually not being seen as "strong enough". It's a fear of being seen as a "pussy" or "weak" compared to other men. This fear c...
The Mistake All Unhappy Husbands Make
30 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Is your relationship or marriage feeling dull, boring or stuck? Do you feel like you're becoming room mates? Are you looking for practical advice to r...
18 Inches To More Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife
27 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I know you want Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife, this video challenges you to spend ONE WEEK operating from your HEART instead of your HEAD when...
Save Your Marriage? This is How to First Save Yourself!
24 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode tells you how to become more secure and confident in the face of divorce or separation. We explain why you're THINKING is the key and how...
How Not To Build Attraction With Your Wife
21 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to build attraction with your wife again, then there's an important area of men's development that you may need to pay attention to. In th...
My Wife Always Turns Me Down For Sex
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does Your Wife Always turn you down when you initiate?? Do you get frustrated and hurt by her lack of interest? In this episode I talk about the core ...
How To Respond When You Re-attract Your Wife
15 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When guys contact me I ask them what they need and whether you want to re-attract your wife. We go through an intense 6 month program where you learn ...
What To Do With The Scary Divorce Thoughts That Wake You Up at 3_00am
12 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you're faced with a marriage that is growing further and further apart, or a wife who has said she wants space, wants to separate or wants a divorc...
Dirty Talk For A Sexual & Affectionate Marriage
09 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Would you love to learn how to use dirty talk with your wife or long-term partner? Do you love it when someone talks dirty to you? In this episode I t...
Emotional Affair - What to Say When She is Emotionally Attached to Another Man
03 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you concerned that your wife may be involved in an Emotional Affair?When you're dealing with a possible infidelity or emotional disconnection in t...
Why You're Still Stuck In An Unhappy Marriage
31 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How will you change your unhappy marriage? The quote I mention in this episode is by Brendon Burchard:“There are two things that change your life: e...
Should You Buy Your Runaway Wife a Gift?
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How to know what to buy your crazy, estanged, separated or runaway wife for the holidays. Do you want to know how to buy gifts for your wife when your...
How to Never Lose a Fight Again
25 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you finding yourself frustrated and at a loss for what to do in your relationship? Do you keep going around and around treading on eggshells, then...
My Wife Said She’s Unhappy, Help!
22 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you constantly anxious and worrying about your relationship? In this episode I talk about a very common coaching tool we use to help men radically...
Sick of Waiting For Your Marriage To Get Better?
19 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Waiting for your marriage to get better can feel like a never ending slow drawn out death. Almost everywhere you look you'll see examples of OUTCOMES ...
The Cause of Your Sexless Marriage
11 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What is the cause of your sexless marriage? If you are dependent on your wife being happy - you can't be trusted to take care of her and slowly the po...
How to Fix Anger, Disrespect and Procrastination with One Simple Mantra
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain my meme "I don't think so cupcake!" and how you can use it step up, own your values and meet your own standards.In our coach...
When You're Going Through Hell...How Do You Keep Going?
05 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes doing anything feels like pushing a 2 ton truck up a hill with your bare hands...why is that? And how do you deal with it? Whether you're st...
The 5 Signs Your Marriage is Stuck in Limbo Land
02 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here's the link to the Goodguys2Greatmen Live Coaching Roundtable. It's a special group of men and we'd love to have you join us:http://goodguys2great...
She Can't Trust You When You Criticize Her
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel criticized in your relationship all the time? Are you being overly critical to her? In this video I discuss different types of criticism, ...
What a Horse Can Teach You About Women, Intimacy and You!
24 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that with...
Why Doctors, Lawyers and Engineers Suck at Arguing With Their Wife
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you one of the many successful men who find themselves arguing with their wife about the same things over and over again?Are you ready for the cyc...
Why Being Vulnerable with Your Wife is Sexy (and How it Can also Turn Her Off)
18 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why does your wife get mad at you or frustrated or shut down when you open up to her and tell her your problems or fears? Aren't we supposed to be vul...
The Case Against Men and Marriage Counseling
15 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Should men and marriage counselling mix? Is there a better way to resolve your relationship issues?Yes!! There’s a common pitfall many men plunge in...
Don’t Wait Until The Spark is Gone Forever
06 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What is the number one cause of problems in relationships? - Commitment. Either a broken commitment or the lack of asking for a commitment. In fact mo...
Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
03 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife doesn't want sex anymore and you're trying to work out why. One of the most common ways that a wife gets turned off wanting sex with you is...
How You Use Your Confidence Matters
31 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In my coaching programs I help men re-find their masculine strength, mojo and confidence.What I wanted to talk about today is the way in which you can...
Marriage Spinning Out of Control? You Gotta Turn Into the Skid!
28 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does your marriage feel like it's going downhill fast? Is your wife distant and needing space from you? This episode tells you how to handle yourself ...
Being a Confident Man Nothing Changes If You Don’t Change
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you feeling anything BUT a confident man? Does the start of this year feel just like the previous one? Or maybe it's worse? Have you already given...
Is Fear Keeping Your Marriage Stuck in Limbo?
22 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the face of a struggling marriage, looming divorce or with a woman who needs space,a man needs CLARITY. When you're hit with "I love you but I'm...
How to Build Confidence by Getting S#!t Done...Even When You're Sick
19 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains how to become more confident and feel better about yourself by making commitments to getting things done. In our coaching, we he...
How To Handle An Angry Wife
16 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you regularly deal with an angry wife? How do you handle her anger? Do you get triggered and find yourself angry too? Do you feel insulted or attac...
The KEY To Improving Intimacy in Your Marriage
13 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you're watching this then you're probably one of the huge number of men who want to learn how to improve the connection and intimacy in their relat...
I Don't Feel Confident Around Her Anymore
10 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is an excerpt from one of our Group coaching calls where we answer the question - how do I stop my emotional reactions when my wife doesn't seem ...
Regain Your Wife's Feelings of Attraction
07 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife has said she's not feeling attracted to you and it's sent you scrambling, googling, reading, watching anything and everything, asking questi...
Wife Said I Think We Need To Separate What Now?
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Has your wife said I think we need to separate or I want to spend some time apart or maybe we should separate and see how it goes...I know...those wor...
How to Have More Good Male Friends
01 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to have more good male friends? So many men are isolated and alone when they hit difficult times in their life and relationships and it's...
How To Lead When Your Wife Won't Let You
29 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a marriage that is distant, cold and tense? Have you been trying really freaking hard to do everything she asks of you to make her happy? ...
Why Modern Day Marriages Are Even More Sexless
26 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You can't have more affection and sex without more confidence. Yeah I know that's not very original is it. But I have a slightly different take on th...
How to Stop Being an Angry Husband (the fun way)
23 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Here's the article with the list of FIFTY TRAITS OF A HAPPILY DIVORCED MAN.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-acting-like-a-happily-divorced-man-can-sa...
How to Fix a Passionless Marriage (and Life)
20 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you struggling with a lack of motivation and fulfilment?Is your relationship dull, boring, disconnected and miserable?In this episode I talk about...
Turn Arguing Into Attraction
17 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself getting into arguments about the intimacy and connection in your relationship?In this episode I explain how you can turn an argum...
I Know What You’re Thinking..and I know what SHE's thinking!
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in a relationship that is lacking in closeness, affection, fun, laughter, and yes, sex? Are you searching around all over the internet to fin...
Marriage Problems Regain Your Wife's Admiration & Respect
11 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you experiencing marriage problems? Are you feeling the strain in your marriage or relationship? Is the affection and connection between you chang...
Wife Needs Space What Now?
08 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When your wife needs space the hardest thing to do is to stay in your calm, masculine energy and offer your wife the kind of space that she really nee...
Stuck In A Miserable Marriage?
05 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you feeling stuck in a miserable marriage? Does the state of your relationship make you anxious and unhappy?I thought for years that my marriage w...
My Wife Isn't Affectionate Anymore
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If your wife isn't affectionate anymore you may be doing one of the most common mistakes I see husbands making all the time with their non-affectionat...
Why Great Men Love Feminine Affection
29 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Yes, great men love feminine affection WAY more than sex...don't believe me? Ask any man who's been in a really long term relationship and you'll be s...
What To Do If Your Wife Is Not Attracted To You
26 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you worry that the reason your marriage is less passionate is because your wife is not attracted to you? Or maybe she's actually told you that she...
How To Find Peace When You're In Pain
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There is some deep wisdom in the notion that we actually have the ability to STOP thinking ourselves into fearful stories, fearful thoughts and fearfu...