Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast
Episodes
Nothing Hotter Than a Man Wielding This Tool
07 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When life sucks and your relationship isn't much better, there's one tool that always makes a difference.In this episode I talk about your ability to ...
Will You Die an Unhappy Married Man?
04 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I get asked this question all the time: "Steve, what's your success rate in fixing screwed up marriages and wives?"In this episode, find out how you c...
What do you want? Why You Need to Have a CLEAR Answer
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Often Dan and I are talking to guys who are facing some really tough relationship stuff and experiencing an ongoing, disinterested, icy chill from the...
Why Your Dog Gets More Affection Than You
29 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Want more affection from your wife or partner? Wonder why she seems so cold and distant with you yet with other people AND THE DOG, she's happy, bubb...
How to Re-attract Your Wife (the Truth Behind the Advice You're Looking for)
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There are many reasons why we find ourselves in long-term relationships where passion, intimacy, affection and trust are dwindling or non-existent. Yo...
Kick-Start The Passion in Your Sexless Marriage
23 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There are many reasons why we find ourselves in long-term relationships where intimacy, affection and trust are dwindling or non-existent.In this epis...
My #1 Secret to Becoming a Calm, Confident and Peaceful Man
20 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to...
How to Handle Your Wife’s Threat of Divorce
17 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Has your wife mentioned divorce or made a threat of divorce recently? Maybe she's saying she needs space or is she talking about wanting to separate?T...
If Momma Ain't Happy...So What??
06 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There are some common sayings that have caused a lot of damage in regards to how men show up and lead in their romantic relationships over the recent ...
Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men Do?
03 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Many men feel like they have a higher sex drive than their partner does, but the feedback we get is that women are very sexual, so if that's the case,...
How to Be More Confident With Women - Especially Your Wife
30 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel confident everywhere in your life EXCEPT your romantic relationship?Want to know why you can't bring that confident version of you into yo...
How to Get Your Mojo Back - 3 Crucial Mindset Switches
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When your relationship is struggling or another big life event is bearing down on you and threatening to turn everything upside down, it's easy for us...
When It’s NOT Okay to Just Be Yourself With Women
24 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage is struggling or you want to improve it and create more connection and affection with your wife, knowing who you are and how you se...
Why Stupid Arguments Will Kill You and Your Relationship
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about why getting into stupid arguments make YOU feel bad AND makes your wife less attracted to you. It's hard for a woman to feel ro...
How to Jump Start Your Mojo and Start Creating More Connection
18 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you spent the past 10, 20, 30 years devoted to your wife and family and now, suddenly the relationship is struggling and you're feeling lost at s...
How to Respond to Your Wife Criticising You as a Powerful, Confident Man
15 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you struggle to know how to respond to your Wife Criticising you? Happy Wife Happy Life is a common mantra that could well be ruining the connecti...
How To Be A Naturally Confident Man
12 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode gives you the secret to being more calm, confident and attractive in your own skin. You must believe in your own value and your own natu...
How to Have Fewer Arguments, Less Drama and More Sex
09 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Most men are trying to get more affection and sex the wrong way. Fixing a sexless marriage cannot be done if you're going about it with anger, frustr...
What Do You Do When Your Wife Wants Space??
06 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do when your wife wants space is a tricky question to answer - most people will get defensive and start to attack her as if she's doin...
How to be a Confident, Independent Man...Without Being a Selfish A$$hole
03 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In a marriage or long term relationship, affection and sex will fluctuate so How do you be a Confident Man when that happens ? How do you know if you...
The Vulcan Mind Trick to Make Her Want More Sex With You
31 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you wish there was more sex and intimacy in your relationship? Would you like to know the key to Make Her Want More Sex?Are you nervous or don't fe...
Your Marriage Trouble is Fuel for Your Growth
28 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to...
Why Stupid Arguments Will Kill You and Your Relationship
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to...
When It’s NOT Okay to Just Be Yourself With Women
22 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage is struggling or you want to improve it and create more connection and affection with your wife, knowing who you are and how you se...
Stalled Marriage To The Ride Of Her Life...
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to...
I Did This 100 Times and Guess What Happened?
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode reveals the truth about what it takes to get a something. Being better at marriage or anything else takes a little work. Consistency, d...
The Secret to a Happier & More Sexual Marriage
13 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If your marriage is lacking in sensual, sexual energy and connection then you may be missing a sense of your own masculinity, a sense of your own masc...
What to Do Instead of Arguing About Toxic Masculinity
10 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Toxic masculinity is being debated A LOT right now and yet the divisions between the differing sides of the argument seem to just get deeper.Most of t...
How to Get Better Male Friends
07 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you're in a funk and work, relationship stress or family is getting you down, you NEED to have a group of solid men you can connect with. It make...
The 17-Minute Cure for Overwhelm and Anxiety
04 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week I have two episodes for you. Video #1 is about a 3-step, 17-minute cure I discovered this week for my feelings of OVERWHELM and ANXIETY. It'...
My Wife Is Happy Around Everyone Else But Me
01 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The most common email we receive from men starts like this..."I think my story is probably different from most other guys you talk to. My wife and I ...
From Emasculation to Powerful Man
28 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This is a deep conversation between Alison and I about many subjects affecting men and boys in the current climate of tension and distrust between men...
Disrespect & Dealing With Emotional Triggers - Live Coaching
25 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you struggle dealing with rejection from your wife or romantic partner? Does it feel like she's constantly criticising and complaining about everyt...
The Massive Turn Off Women Feel (and we don't even know it)
22 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Horse hate pressure - and so do women. Learn more about why and what you can do differently.Do you know how to create positive emotional pressure? ...
The ONE Masculine Trait You Can’t Live Without
14 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If being a man means being calm, deliberate and pleased...then HOW do you achieve that? In this episode I explain why CLARITY in the #1 factor in det...
How to Get the Happy, Sexual Relationship You Want
11 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Getting the happy, sexual relation you want is easy...but the decisions needed to create that are not. Most guys try to "fix" their relationship or th...
How Your Attachment Style is Messing Up Your Sex Life
08 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is an interview with couples coach and relationship expert, Bruce Muzik. In this video we talk about:Insecure attachment and how it look...
How to be Confidently Independent Without Being an Ass
05 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why you don't have to be a jerk to be a confident, independent man. Your marriage and all your relationships will be more stabl...
Are You a Pandemic Bear or Mountain Lion?
02 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you finding that you're feeling more anxious, more criticised, more frustrated and wanting to get away from it all lately?In this episode I discus...
How Talking to Other Men Can Make You More Attractive to Your Wife (and Other Women)
25 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode describes how to live longer as a man who is more calm, confident and connected. Why having a mission and sense of purpose makes you hea...
How To Handle The Silent Treatment (And What You're Doing To Cause It)
22 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you get so frustrated with your partner that you avoid speaking or interacting with her? Does she give you the silent treatment?Do you feel like th...
How to Build More Trust and Affection with Your Wife or Long Term Partner
19 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever given a compliment to you wife or partner only for them to become offended or more cold and distant from you?in this episode I discuss t...
Free Marriage Counselling Book For Men
13 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you're under 35 and your marriage sucks and you're unhappy and thinking about why you even bother staying...we have a essential free book for you t...
Men...Anxiety...and Why We Suck at Relaxing!
10 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you're feeling anxious, STOP, take some time for yourself, stop trying so hard to "get" everything done.We often talk about slowing down "Slow dow...
How to Cure Your Pandemic Pissyness (and improve your marriage at the same time!)
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There's trouble in paradise...and it's caused by the problematic pandemic pissyness plaguing many marriages. (pretty cool use of alliteration there, ...
How to Reduce Your Marriage Anxiety
04 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to the acute type of marriage anxiety in men who discover she's not happy or loves you but isn't IN LOVE with you, our problem is often ...
The Simple Question To Get What You Want In Your Marriage
01 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When our relationship is strained we often go into fixing mode but this just pushes her further away. This episode tells you how to reduce your anxiet...
Improve Your Marriage, Get More Confidence, Crush Your Life!
01 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you've been stuck in a relationship that isn't satisfying, isn't serving you, and you spend the majority of your time unhappy - sometimes you hav...
How to Stop Overreacting and Stay in YOUR Lane
26 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains how and why you must learn to stay in your lane and not over react to things outside your control. Success in your life and rel...
Is My Wife Having an Affair? What Should I Do Now??
23 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you concerned that your wife is cheating on you or considering having an affair? Is she becoming more distant from you? Always on her phone textin...
She Won't Tell Me How She's Feeling
20 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why is it that sometimes she's able to share openly with you and other times she's not? What is causing the negative feedback and what causes it to ch...
Miserable Marriage to Best Day Ever...How?
17 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If your relationship is tense and struggling then the natural instinct is to dig in, focus more, put more time effort and attention on it and find the...
The Quickest Way to Being a More Confident Man
14 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There's a bond that is like no other when two men commit to helping each other, without hiding anything, without holding anything back.When a man firs...
What to Do When She Bites, Kicks and Threatens to Leave
11 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Learn How to Become a Calm, Confident Leader in Your Life and Relationship and Create the Connection and Intimacy You Really Want.It’s really hard t...
How to Know if You'll Be Happier if You Divorce
08 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like she's always pissed at you? You're walking on eggshells wondering what mood she's going to be in when you get home.So what should you...
What Kind of Man Can Save His Marriage?
05 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to save your marriage? Or attract your wife back? Or win her heart so she'll love you and have sex again forever? Lots of men want that...
Three Traits of a Sexually Satisfied Man
02 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you sexually satisfied in your relationship? Do you want more sex and intimacy?Sexually Satisfied Men Share These Three Basic Traits: 1. High lev...
How a Man Should Measure His Mojo
26 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Self confidence, self esteem, being a confident man, being a sexy man and husband, these are all types of confidence that we refer to as Mojo. What le...
How to Get Love and Affection Without Having to Pay For It
23 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why men need to be mindful of the mindset and energy when relating with women is because women sense everything - they're constantly feeding this info...
Fix Your Unhappy Marriage - Be The Confident Man She Fell In Love With
20 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Learn how to become unwaveringly confident in yourself and your ability to lead your relationship back to the intimacy and affection you deserve.Do yo...
Why You Should NEVER Use This C Word on Your Woman
13 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever called your wife "crazy"? This episode explains why this is one of the worst words you can use in your marriage. If you're trying to s...
You're not making me happy!...and other marital nonsense
10 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself mulling over in your head all the reasons that your partner makes you unhappy, why they should be different and give you more of ...
The Kind Of Confidence That Your Wife Is Attracted To
07 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we feel full of self confidence and want to take on the world. Things are going right for us at work, with friends, at home - life is great....
What Makes a Woman Go WOW Within 5 Minutes of Being With You
04 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode talks about the "Wow factors" that can make a woman feel comfortable, interested, attracted and safe within the first 5 minutes of you be...
The #1 Cause of Unhappily Married Men - They Keep Looking down
01 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains how to stop stumbling and tripping yourself up in your life and marriage and start looking farther ahead. The #1 reason married...
Why HOPING to Save Your Marriage is Useless
31 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why the concept of "hope" is ineffective for men who want to "save their marriage" and what kind of hope they need instead.I wan...
The ONE THING You Need to Feel More Calm, Clear and Confident
30 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why your VALUES and MASCULINE OPERATING PRINCIPLES (or the LACK of them) are the key to your confidence, happiness and peacefuln...
The Single Biggest Threat to Your Confidence
29 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There's a very common issue in many men's marriages and relationships at the moment and it's hard to see until it's too late and the consequences are ...
What if Your Wife “Fired” You Tomorrow?
28 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about a common mistake of viewing your marriage or relationship like it's a job or place of employment. Us men can often accide...
How to Teach Her to Stop Criticizing You
27 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like you're being disrespected at home or in your relationship? Have you tried to get it to stop but end up being frustrated, laughed at a...
How to Feel More Confident & Strong in Your Marriage
26 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about why LIKING YOURSELF is critical to feeling confident and strong. When we feel sad, rejected, disrespected or abandoned, it's us...
Your Marriage Sucks? Only TWO THINGS Can Change That
25 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage or relationship is struggling, when connection and intimacy is infrequent or non-existent then this quote is for you..."Only two th...
Are You Horngry? (and is it ruining your marriage?)
24 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you wake up every day feeling horny but you get rebuffed or rejected when you try to initiate sex?Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, pas...
The Hidden Cause of Your Sexless Marriage
17 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is there a lack of sex and intimacy in your relationship? Are you always trying to improve the amount of connection and bedroom time you get with you...
A More Connected, Passionate Relationship Guaranteed!
14 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do you go from a relationship that is cold, disconnected, and heading in the direction of separation and divorce and instead turn it around toward...
Women's Biggest Turn On (Your Masculine Energy)
11 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you are faced with an upset woman, how do you react? Do you take it personally, try to fix her or maybe shut down?Those moments where your woman...
How Men Lose Their Attractiveness
08 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How did your relationship get to this point? Maybe you just want more sex and affection. Maybe you're dealing with a partner who avoids talking and n...
Why You Need to be Uncomfortable
01 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In relationships we men can avoid being vulnerable, and that's a problem because when you want connection with another human being, you have to be wil...
Sexless Marriage? How to Respond in a Way That Will Attract Her Back to You
28 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife or partner not wanting to spend time with you is a sign of an imbalance in your relationship. There is a way that you can turn this around B...
The Best Way to Connect With Your Wife
25 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your relationship is struggling and you feel like you're walking on eggshells, we often find ourselves trying anything and everything to make thi...
I Hate My Wife, How do I Create a Passionate Marriage Again?
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how you can choose to change your mindset in a way that could change your relationship - maybe your whole life. What if you...
Neediness - 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Know if You’re Being That Guy
19 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how anger, arguing and loneliness can show up in unhealthy ways and how they are the key indicators of needy, unattractive b...
Should I Still Fight for My Marriage?
16 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When it looks like the marriage is over and you've tried all avenues to turn it around, what is left?In our coaching we get asked this question all th...
How to Survive a Sh*t Storm by Doing Nothing at All
13 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you're struggling with a relationship that's flailing around or you're flailing around - as I have been all day getting the snow cleared up he...
What Does Masculine Confidence Actually Look Like?
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a story about when I first learnt what a confident masculine man looked and felt like. It was an energy of being unrattled, unshakeable, so ca...
How to Handle Anger and Anxiety and Be a Sexier Man
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Agitation, anger, short temper and overwhelm can get the best of us. In this episode I share how I deal with it in my way. What is YOUR way?Here is ...
How to Attract Her Toward You When She's Backing Away
07 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What can you do when your wife or partner tells you she needs space or that she feels smothered or she's not sure what she feels for you anymore or th...
Failing Marriage? How to Create a Better Relationship
04 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
So many of us have the best of intentions with regards to our marriage and long term relationships but yet when issues arise we struggle to find a sol...
3 Ways to Know You're Not Ready for a Girlfriend
01 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I discuss some of the common unhealthy reasons many men use when they decide to have a relationship with a woman and explain how to st...
The Ultimate (and scariest) Test of Your Manhood
29 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode teaches you how to be a vulnerable man WITHOUT making it a point of weakness. How to be strong in your vulnerability and why sharing wit...
I Stayed Married But I'm Miserable
26 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck in a miserable, unhappy marriage? Have you been trying to improve the intimacy and closeness between you for what seems like years and y...
Why I Don't Want to Talk About Your Feelings
23 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why you can't trust your feelings and how to become more aware of your emotional world and the THINKING that causes your feeling...
How Men Sabotage Intimate Connection
20 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you had a woman tell you you're creepy or needy? Do you want to understand why and what you can do about it?Or have you experienced having a rea...
The Hands Down Hottest Thing About A Man
17 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If your marriage or relationship is NOT how you want it to be and you seem to be going round and round in circles having the same arguments, the same ...
What if I've Been Friend Zoned by My Wife?
14 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If your relationship or marriage is dull, passionless and just full of domestic work, kids, dogs, house DIY etc with no fun, flirtation, kissing, desi...
Only A Great Man Can Do This
11 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What is the thing that turns a relationship around?Over and over again I've seen this play out in relationships but it also relates to every area of l...
The Kind Of Confidence That Your Wife Is Attracted To
08 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we feel full of self confidence and want to take on the world. Things are going right for us at work, with friends, at home - life is great....
How Your Energy Is Affecting Your Relationship
05 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How are women like horses? Could a horse help you learn how to lead your relationship more effectively? We believe that yes, absolutely they can. In ...
Why Your Sexual Edge Matters and How to Keep It
02 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I believe how well we push our sexual edge is a direct reflection of how well we are living our life.What’s a sexual edge?It’s that part of our se...
How to Not Have a Crappy New Year
29 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know whether next year is going to be crappy? You can think about all the things that went wrong last year, all the things that you didn't ...