Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast
Episodes
Why HOPING to Save Your Marriage is Useless
31 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why the concept of "hope" is ineffective for men who want to "save their marriage" and what kind of hope they need instead.I wan...
The ONE THING You Need to Feel More Calm, Clear and Confident
30 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why your VALUES and MASCULINE OPERATING PRINCIPLES (or the LACK of them) are the key to your confidence, happiness and peacefuln...
The Single Biggest Threat to Your Confidence
29 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There's a very common issue in many men's marriages and relationships at the moment and it's hard to see until it's too late and the consequences are ...
What if Your Wife “Fired” You Tomorrow?
28 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about a common mistake of viewing your marriage or relationship like it's a job or place of employment. Us men can often accide...
How to Teach Her to Stop Criticizing You
27 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like you're being disrespected at home or in your relationship? Have you tried to get it to stop but end up being frustrated, laughed at a...
How to Feel More Confident & Strong in Your Marriage
26 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is about why LIKING YOURSELF is critical to feeling confident and strong. When we feel sad, rejected, disrespected or abandoned, it's us...
Your Marriage Sucks? Only TWO THINGS Can Change That
25 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage or relationship is struggling, when connection and intimacy is infrequent or non-existent then this quote is for you..."Only two th...
Are You Horngry? (and is it ruining your marriage?)
24 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you wake up every day feeling horny but you get rebuffed or rejected when you try to initiate sex?Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, pas...
The Hidden Cause of Your Sexless Marriage
17 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is there a lack of sex and intimacy in your relationship? Are you always trying to improve the amount of connection and bedroom time you get with you...
A More Connected, Passionate Relationship Guaranteed!
14 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do you go from a relationship that is cold, disconnected, and heading in the direction of separation and divorce and instead turn it around toward...
Women's Biggest Turn On (Your Masculine Energy)
11 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you are faced with an upset woman, how do you react? Do you take it personally, try to fix her or maybe shut down?Those moments where your woman...
How Men Lose Their Attractiveness
08 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How did your relationship get to this point? Maybe you just want more sex and affection. Maybe you're dealing with a partner who avoids talking and n...
Why You Need to be Uncomfortable
01 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In relationships we men can avoid being vulnerable, and that's a problem because when you want connection with another human being, you have to be wil...
Sexless Marriage? How to Respond in a Way That Will Attract Her Back to You
28 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife or partner not wanting to spend time with you is a sign of an imbalance in your relationship. There is a way that you can turn this around B...
The Best Way to Connect With Your Wife
25 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your relationship is struggling and you feel like you're walking on eggshells, we often find ourselves trying anything and everything to make thi...
I Hate My Wife, How do I Create a Passionate Marriage Again?
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how you can choose to change your mindset in a way that could change your relationship - maybe your whole life. What if you...
Neediness - 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Know if You’re Being That Guy
19 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I explain how anger, arguing and loneliness can show up in unhealthy ways and how they are the key indicators of needy, unattractive b...
Should I Still Fight for My Marriage?
16 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When it looks like the marriage is over and you've tried all avenues to turn it around, what is left?In our coaching we get asked this question all th...
How to Survive a Sh*t Storm by Doing Nothing at All
13 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you're struggling with a relationship that's flailing around or you're flailing around - as I have been all day getting the snow cleared up he...
What Does Masculine Confidence Actually Look Like?
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a story about when I first learnt what a confident masculine man looked and felt like. It was an energy of being unrattled, unshakeable, so ca...
How to Handle Anger and Anxiety and Be a Sexier Man
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Agitation, anger, short temper and overwhelm can get the best of us. In this episode I share how I deal with it in my way. What is YOUR way?Here is ...
How to Attract Her Toward You When She's Backing Away
07 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What can you do when your wife or partner tells you she needs space or that she feels smothered or she's not sure what she feels for you anymore or th...
Failing Marriage? How to Create a Better Relationship
04 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
So many of us have the best of intentions with regards to our marriage and long term relationships but yet when issues arise we struggle to find a sol...
3 Ways to Know You're Not Ready for a Girlfriend
01 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I discuss some of the common unhealthy reasons many men use when they decide to have a relationship with a woman and explain how to st...
The Ultimate (and scariest) Test of Your Manhood
29 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode teaches you how to be a vulnerable man WITHOUT making it a point of weakness. How to be strong in your vulnerability and why sharing wit...
I Stayed Married But I'm Miserable
26 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck in a miserable, unhappy marriage? Have you been trying to improve the intimacy and closeness between you for what seems like years and y...
Why I Don't Want to Talk About Your Feelings
23 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why you can't trust your feelings and how to become more aware of your emotional world and the THINKING that causes your feeling...
How Men Sabotage Intimate Connection
20 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you had a woman tell you you're creepy or needy? Do you want to understand why and what you can do about it?Or have you experienced having a rea...
The Hands Down Hottest Thing About A Man
17 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If your marriage or relationship is NOT how you want it to be and you seem to be going round and round in circles having the same arguments, the same ...
What if I've Been Friend Zoned by My Wife?
14 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If your relationship or marriage is dull, passionless and just full of domestic work, kids, dogs, house DIY etc with no fun, flirtation, kissing, desi...
Only A Great Man Can Do This
11 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What is the thing that turns a relationship around?Over and over again I've seen this play out in relationships but it also relates to every area of l...
The Kind Of Confidence That Your Wife Is Attracted To
08 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we feel full of self confidence and want to take on the world. Things are going right for us at work, with friends, at home - life is great....
How Your Energy Is Affecting Your Relationship
05 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How are women like horses? Could a horse help you learn how to lead your relationship more effectively? We believe that yes, absolutely they can. In ...
Why Your Sexual Edge Matters and How to Keep It
02 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I believe how well we push our sexual edge is a direct reflection of how well we are living our life.What’s a sexual edge?It’s that part of our se...
How to Not Have a Crappy New Year
29 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know whether next year is going to be crappy? You can think about all the things that went wrong last year, all the things that you didn't ...
Why Chasing Sex Always Gets LESS Sex
26 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
All you want is for her to return your affection. So you show her how much you care.You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper ...
How to Build More Trust and Affection with Her
23 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever given a compliment to you wife or partner only for them to become offended or more cold and distant from you?in this episode I discuss t...
How to be Confidently Independent Without Being an Ass
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains why you don't have to be a jerk to be a confident, independent man. Your marriage and all your relationships will be more stabl...
Why You Need to be Uncomfortable
17 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In relationships we men can avoid being vulnerable, and that's a problem because when you want connection with another human being, you have to be wil...
Will You Die an Unhappy Married Man?
14 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I get asked this question all the time: "Steve, what's your success rate in fixing screwed up marriages and wives?"In this episode, find out how you c...
What to Do When Your Wife Wants Space
11 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Has your wife or partner told you she wants some space? Maybe she's said she's feeling stressed or smothered. That she's not sure what she wants right...
The Secret to Getting What You Really Want in Your Marriage
08 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You know that you're not happy in your marriage. You know that your wife isn't happy either. So why can't you just have those difficult conversations ...
The Massive Turn Off Women Feel (and we don't even know it)
05 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Horse hate pressure - and so do women. Learn more about why and what you can do differently.Do you know how to create positive emotional pressure? ...
Why Hummingbird Husbands Get No Lovin'
02 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There is a guaranteed libido killer that us men don't realize we're doing especially in a long term romantic relationship when our partner is being le...
You (and your emotions) are NOT in Prison
30 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Wouldn’t it be nice if being vulnerable with your wife was easy? Sure, it would. So would financial freedom, effortless sex and world peace and, lik...
Why She Won't Touch You the Way You Want Her To
27 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Has your wife stopped being affectionate toward you? Does she say that she doesn't enjoy being touched? Is she creating distance between you? There ar...
How to Become So Confident That You Can Turn Down Sex
24 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What if you were so confident in yourself and your relationship that you could turn down sex with your wife...? Can you ever imagine that?In this epis...
She's Warming Up to You Again... Now What?
21 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when YOU'VE started becoming more calm, more confident and consistent as a man and leader in your marriage or relationship and you're c...
How to Eliminate Soul Sucking Energy from Your Life
18 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I want to talk with you about your mindset.It’s everything. And without the proper mindset, well, we’re pretty much screwed in every facet of lif...
How We Must THINK About Female Rejection
15 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know the feeling of being rejected by a woman? Whether it's through your family, your work or (as with most of us men) from your romantic partn...
How to Handle Her Anger Without Making Things Worse
12 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you avoid your partner when she's angry? Do you try to avoid creating conflict as much as possible.In this episode I explain why she hates that, ho...
Do You Secretly Wish Your Marriage Was Over?
09 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you a good guy who appears to everyone else to be a happy husband but really underneath it all, you're NOT happy and you're especially not happy a...
Why Happily Divorced Men Hang Around Better People (and you should too)
05 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your relationship is having difficulties, the natural thing to want to try and do is to fix it but how can you when everything you do appears to ...
Cold, Affectionless Marriage? Here's How I Fixed it...
02 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you in an affectionless marriage? Many men (myself included) find themselves 15, 20 years into a marriage and wondering "Is this it???" They poke...
Scared to Talk Dirty? Here's Why You Shouldn't Be
30 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your discomfort with “dirty talk” affecting the depth of intimacy you have with your wife?One of the biggest reasons women are uncomfortable wi...
How to Be a Man Who Women Call Amazing
27 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your wife is pulling away, doesn't know what she wants, is inconsistent, sometimes affectionate, sometimes cold and snarky...what do you do?In th...
What Women Really Love About Men
24 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do women really love a 'manly man'?What even is that anyway?This episode describes how we sometimes get the aspects that women love to see and feel fr...
How to Feel Totally Seen, Heard, and Understood
21 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Men grow exponentially when they spend time with other high quality men - I didn't believe it until I started trying it. I can't quite explain how, b...
I What You to Know THIS Feeling...Wow!
18 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If you're feeling lonely, lost or disconnected in your life and marriage, I want you to know that you're not alone...in fact there are SO many men, SO...
How to Handle Anger as a Strong Masculine Man
15 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself getting frustrated and angry often? Is it something your wife or partner brings up? Would you like to be able to handle moments ...
How to Move From Wishy-Washy to Being a Hell Yes Man!
12 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your marriage or relationship feeling disconnected and lifeless? Do you struggle to feel the enthusiasm and excitement that used to be there all t...
Why YOU Need the Mojo of a Happily Divorced Man
09 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If you're in a struggling relationship, the last thing you feel is free, happy, bold, confident, clear headed. In this episode I explain why it's the ...
50 Reasons to Act More Like a Happily Divorced Man...Today
06 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I discuss the first two aspects of a happily divorced man that change how he is BEING and have the potential to revolutionise the way ...
Are Your Excuses for Being Unsatisfied a Bunch of Crap?
03 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you think you're stuck? Without any options to create the life and relationship that you want to have? I want to tell you why that's not correct.I...
Why You Need a Wing Man
30 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you're in a crappy marriage or distant relationship with no affection, trust and connection?You need to find yourself a man you ca...
Marriage in Crisis? Why I'm Not Buying It
27 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you heard your partner say “Our marriage is in crisis”, or “Our marriage lacks connection”, "Our sex life sucks", “Our relationship is ...
Is Sex So Important That You Would Leave?
24 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you heard this question from your wife? Yes we think that sex is important and yet so are the family and her and the kids....so what do you do?In...
Being a Strong Man
20 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your marriage struggling, do you feel criticised, challenged and need to keep defending yourself?In this episode I talk about the most important th...
I Can’t Tell If She’s Bored, Having An Affair Or Just Done
17 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you anxious, worried, tense and scared about what's happening in your relationship, your career or life in general?In this episode I talk about th...
How To Drive Her Wild (In A Good Way)
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What makes for a good driver? What makes for a good leader? What makes for a good lover?In this episode I talk about the key to your wife or partner's...
What Meatloaf and Your Love Life Have in Common
11 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your relationship struggling, lacking affection and intimacy and closeness or passion? Are you binge watching our videos, books and starting to fe...
The Secret to Getting Her to Give You What You Want
08 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There's a common factor in a lot of the relationships that the men I talk to in our coaching programs and community struggle with...It sounds like "ho...
The Secret to More Fun in Your Marriage
05 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is your relationship tense and disconnected?Maybe it feels awkward and you're struggling to connect or even talk to each other.In this episode I talk ...
How to Not Die a Grumpy Old Man
02 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains the REAL cause of our angry tempers and outbursts. When we can admit - OUT LOUD - why we are angry a funny thing happens. We'r...
The #1 Reason James Bond Doesn't Argue With Women
30 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself in too many stupid arguments? Do you end up taking things personally all the time all just react to your emotions? How do you ...
How to Measure Your Manhood Correctly
27 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What is the measure of great man?This episode tells you ONE method to know if you are being the man you want to be and why a great man must have a sol...
Did Your Wife Call You “Controlling”? Here’s Probably Why
24 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Does your wife tell you that you're controlling? And does that bug the sh*t out of you?There's a common factor that causes us to be controlling which...
The 3 Big Mistakes Men Make When Trying to Build Trust and Connection with Women
21 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you getting increasingly frustrated with how your wife or girlfriend acts around you? Is she distancing herself? Not offering or accepting affecti...
Please STOP Doing This (I will too)
18 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I describe the secret that men don't want women to know but can't deny is true.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreake...
The One Thing Husbands Love More Than Sex and Can't Tell You
15 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about the incredible power that women have to inspire and make their men feel amazing - and it has nothing to do with SEX!Becom...
The L Word That Makes Men Unnecessarily Nervous
13 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do you think about leadership when it relates to relationships? Do you think it means being controlling? Does your wife?In this episode I talk a...
What to do When She Flips Your Anger Switch
11 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do you handle your wife or partner when you get triggered and suddenly find yourself angry and emotional, maybe frustrated and feeling insulted or...
Why You Need to Lighten Up...Francis
09 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, anxious and stressed or depressed and serious? Do you find yourself focused on what is happening to you and...
How to Know if You're a Real Man
07 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about the powerful truth that men need other men to help them grow into better men. We don't get taught this at school or in s...
Your Mojo and How to Handle Her Threats of Divorce
05 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I often say that one of the biggest factors leading to divorce is a man’s FEAR of divorce.Why?Because when we’re scared of anything we tend to scr...
What is Masculine Presence?
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What is masculine presence and why does your wife or partner crave it from you?In this episode I explain what having a masculine presence and masculin...
How to BE a Man Who is Powerfully Confident & Not Just Act Like One
01 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about the common place that successful men find themselves where the relationship they had with their wife is suddenly changing...
Where the Hell Did My Confidence Go? (Maybe you never really had it)
30 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There's a very special trait many of the men in our "tribe" have in common and it drives them absolutely crazy. What is it? - It's the feeling of...
The Real Reason Men Don't Ask for Directions
28 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about the reason that men don't ask for help, why it's ridiculous and the immense benefit that getting help provides!If you're ...
What to Do About Her Boyfriends
25 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Does your wife have inappropriate male friends? How are you going to think about that?This is specifically for the husband in a rocky marriage where y...
How to Handle Her Anger Without Making Things Worse
23 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you avoid your partner when she's angry? Do you try to avoid creating conflict as much as possible.In this episode I explain why she hates that, ho...
How To Trust Someone You Can't Trust
21 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When your relationship is struggling and you just don't know if you can trust her, everything is confusing and you feel insecure and tentative.In this...
She Said She's Leaving - Now What?
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If you have noticed your wife or partner becoming more and more distant and disconnected, maybe rude and disrespectful with you recently, then you may...
7 Days to a More Affectionate Woman
17 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
For 7 days, stop this mistake which makes your wife or partner more distant and less affectionate towards you and notice how she becomes more relaxed ...
Unhappy Wife and Marriage? Let's Get Your Head Straight Now
15 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife wants space, she feels no connection or she loves you but isn't "in love" with you. What do you do next? This episode tells you what you n...
What a Golden Retriever Can Teach Us About Taking Our Balls Back
13 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I want to talk with you about living in the kind of life and relationship you really, really want.That last sentence has a key word in it. It’s the ...
The Simple Mind Hack to Creating More Connection and Intimacy
11 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode explains how you can THINK differently about your woman in order to create more trust, connection and intimacy. It all starts with POSIT...
The Silent Killer of Sex, Trust and Intimacy in Your Relationship
02 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode describes the bad habit men have of comparing themselves to others. This habit kills confidence and your sense of personal power and valu...
Is This Why Your Wife Turns You Down For Sex?
31 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Why does your wife turn you down when you try to initiate sex or intimacy?Why is the first word our of her mouth "No" before you've even finished sayi...
Turn Her No Into A Yes!
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Most men struggle with rejection at some point in their relationships with women.In this episode I talk about the secret to not just handling that rej...