How to redefine our definition of 'realistic' and meet our potential head-on. Heather Moyse is 2x Olympic Gold winner and is in the Rugby Hall of Fame for being the top try scorer at the 2006 World Cup. She is also the author of 'Redefining Realistic' explaining the concept of potential and how social pressure, conforming behaviours and our self-doubts limit us. We go through her best mental models to increase your capacity for success and overcome the obstacles in your mind. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Heather Moyse Website - HeatherMoyse.com Insta - @HeatherMoyse Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 Importance of Potential 02:32 Potential is talent You Don't Have Yet 05:02 The Impact of Parental Expectations on Potential 07:12 Breaking Through Environmental and Exposure Limitations 10:20 Inertia and Change 13:38 Overcoming Fear of Judgment and Self-Sabotage 14:57 The Physics of Behavioral Inertia and Motivation 20:59 Intentionality in Life Choices 23:59 The Difficulty of Intentional Choices Like Having Children 27:39 Limiting Beliefs, Assumptions and Identity Blockers 29:30 Energy Takers, Naysayers and Lobsters 32:30 Finding the Right Influences and Support System 35:19 Performing under pressure 35:55 Optimal Arousal Zone for Peak Performance 39:08 Managing Adrenaline at the Olympics 42:54 Imposter Syndrome at the Olympics 45:02 Earliest Memory 46:41 Kindest Thing 48:04 Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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