Healing at the Root

35. Why Doing Everything 'Right' Still Feels Wrong (For Eldest & Only Daughters)

05 May 2026

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You're meditating. You're journaling. You're in therapy. You're eating clean & moving your body & getting your sunlight & saying no to the things that don't serve you.So why does it still feel like you're failing some invisible test?This week is a solo episode for the eldest & only daughters who've turned healing into another performance. I get into:The difference between looking regulated & being regulatedHow "doing it right" became the new people-pleasing (just dressed up as wellness)The performative wellness trap & why the health space can feel so boring it kills youWhy eldest & only daughters slip into all-or-nothing thinkingThe bubble you worked so hard to build & what it's actually forHow to tell the difference between "this feels good because I performed it well" vs "this feels good because it's mine"Why I'd rather you aim for self-respect than self-love (at least at first)A parts-work reframe for the moment you swing from rigid wellness to binge mode (& back)🎧 If you're ready to stop performing healing & actually integrate it, Regulate & Release is open. Learn more here. Come say hi! Instagram: ⁠⁠@dainwellness⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠@dainwellness⁠⁠

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Healing at the Root

35. Why Doing Everything 'Right' Still Feels Wrong (For Eldest & Only Daughters)

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13:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

10:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

12:00H | 20 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

2ª PARTE | 06 ENE 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

3ª PARTE | 22 ENE 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

3ª PARTE | 04 MAR 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

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