Healing Honeys with Louise Rumball
188 - HOTLINE - Why We’re Drawn to Men in Control (+ Exploring Sexting)
22 Jan 2025
Welcome to the Healing Honeys Hotline! Ever been attracted to a 'man in power'? Someone richer, older, more successful, or even an ex you’ve put on a pedestal? This week, Louise dives into a listener submission, exploring the complex dynamics of dating (and being attracted) to men in positions of power—specifically, this listener's sexy AF Chemistry tutor and Louise's very own semi-toothless motorcycle instructor! Louise unpacks the conscious or subconscious seductive pull of authority figures, the fantasy-versus-reality struggle in digital relationships, the excitement of exploring kinks and desires, and the emotional toll and confusion when online connections come to an end. She discusses why we’re often drawn to these powerful personalities, how to spot manipulative, ego-driven behaviors, why real safety is essential to explore your sexuality consensually, and why boundaries are critical—even in virtual situationships—to keep things liberating, fun, healthy, and on your terms. Welcome to protecting your heart in the digital world! Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [REDEEM] --- 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS: 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 77 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 1 - Exploring the Father Wound & the ‘Emotionally Unavailable Father SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 82 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 2 - Female Hyper-Independence & Overachieving SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 86 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 3 - Fantasy Bonding, Sex & the Alpha Male SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨ → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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