Your Vagina Isn’t Supposed to Hurt: Dr. Somi Javaid on Sex, Menopause & Women’s Health
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Why do we talk so much about women's vaginal health and ignore men's scrotal health?
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For men who decide Scrotox that they don't like the way their scrotum is looking, winkly, losing its tone texture, saggy.
Why do we spend so much time talking about, you know, as a woman's aging, what her vagina looks like? Why don't we spend enough time talking about what y'all's ball sack looks like?
Head-to-toe research dollars on women, excluding uh oncology research, is 4% of healthcare dollars are spent on research towards us. The male prostate, which is the size of a walnut, if as long as it's not enlarged, gets 2%. You and I, head-to-toe, we get fuller. It just felt like
Like shockwaves. Shock waves going through my hoo-ha. You know what I'm saying? Just going like right up almost to where like I could feel them in my stomach. But that's not like how I orgasm. I orgasm like I have it's it's gotta be like penetration and a specific size.
My next guest holds a very special place in the hot and bothered universe. She was our very first guest, and from the moment that she sat down with me, I knew that this was a friendship that was here to stay. Dr. Sumi Javade is a board-certified OBGYN, sexual health physician, and the founder of Her MD. And what keeps me coming back to her isn't just her extraordinary depth of knowledge, it's her absolute refusal to be boring about anything. of it. She's sharp, she is hilarious, and she will say out loud what most doctors are still whispering. I am so happy to have her back where she belongs. Dr. Somy Javaide, welcome home. Thanks for coming back in. I love you. This is literally like my sister, my second guest ever for Hot and Bothered.
Dr. Somi Javed is back. And we've already started having the conversation. I wanted to do this so dignified. So, Dr. Soy Javade. Yes. Listen, it's it's good to see you again. It's wonderful to be here. Boy, the conversation around menopause has expanded since we last chatted. Yes. Um, but yeah, so we just jumped into buttocks and scrow talks, but um we I think we gotta like bring things right back around. But Um let's do a mental health check in. How are you? Uh frenzied. How are you? A little bit of the same. I'm a little frenzied. Been traveling a lot. I've got a big um trip planned, so I'm I'm trying to, you know, wrap my mind around that. But uh
Isn't it wonderful though to be exhausted from the life that we dreamed of?
Yes. Yes. Yes. Emphatically yes. I I asked for this. I dreamed for this. These are champagne problems. Yes. I am very much aware. Lovely. Yes, but I am glad I am glad to have you here. Um so we are really informal with each other because like we hang out and we talk like mad. Um we like to eat together. We like we love to eat together. We love to eat in fancy restaurants with Michelin star ratings. Um and so we got into a conversation because she put me on to something called scroll talks. And conversations are usually around, you know, women's beauty um regimens and all the newest things that we're supposed to do to maintain our youth like designer vaginas and whatnot. But it seems like guys are are suddenly feeling left out.
Left out or feeling a little bit of the pressure. Yes. Um to you know get get stuff like scrow talks and buttocks and and all of the things. And whole talks. And and whole talks. And I have heard of bro talks, but I think you're gonna have to educate us on on the three things That we just talked about bro talk botox, but scrotox, and whole talks. Yeah.
Yes. All right. So Botox is a toxin, right? So it paralyzes the muscles. Mm-hmm. And in medicine, we use it for not only aesthetics, but a lot of medical conditions. TMJ, headache. But for men who decide scrotox. That they don't like the way their scrotum is looking. Wrinkly, losing its tone texture. Uh saggy, thick Why
don't we talk more about that? Why do we spend so much time talking about, you know, as a woman's aging, what her vagina looks like?
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why do we talk so much about women's vaginal health and ignore men's scrotal health?
0:00–8:21
2
What is “Scrotox” and why are men getting Botox in their scrotum?
8:21–16:38
3
How does Botox affect the pelvic floor for both women and men?
16:38–25:00
4
What are the newest energy‑based treatments (red light, RF, micro‑needling, CO₂) for vaginal atrophy?
25:00–34:47
5
When should women start localized hormone therapy and how does it differ from systemic HRT?
34:47–43:00
6
What does the latest research say about menopause, bone health, heart disease, and brain health?
43:00–50:26
7
What are the most exciting sex‑tech innovations (V‑Tone, Perifit, O‑Net, audio erotica) and how do they work?
50:26–59:54
8
What final advice does Dr. Somi Javade give listeners about sexual wellness and self‑advocacy?
59:54–1:06:45
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