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It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

SOLO AMA: These Fan Interactions Need To Stop

13 Apr 2026

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Chapter 1: What are the key themes of the solo episode?

0.031 - 24.638 Abbie Chatfield

It's a Lot is recorded on Gadigal land. We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this land and to elders past and present. We also would love to extend our respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people listening today and remind you all that sovereignty was never ceded and it always was and always will be Aboriginal land. It's a lot. It's a lot.

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26.592 - 53.65 Abbie Chatfield

Hey everyone, it's time for the first solo episode of me being at my new little independent podcast business. Yay! Not a crying goodbye this time. No, just a normal episode. I am missing Oscar, but I'm texting him most days, so that's fine. We can do an Ask Me Anything, because I felt like earlier in the year, I kept asking for questions and then world events kept happening.

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54.031 - 73.687 Abbie Chatfield

Yes. And it would kind of throw things off a little bit and I would go, well, I can't do an Ask Me Anything on like, what's your hair care routine? And we've got like yet another horrific world altering event happening. And speaking of, we are going to just do an Ask Me Anything, but I just wanted to read Amy.

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73.727 - 74.689 Amy Kimball

Mm-hmm.

74.956 - 108.209 Abbie Chatfield

I just went to We before we recorded this. Yeah. And I opened my phone and the first thing that I see is a tweet from Donald Trump. Now because this man is tweeting – every five seconds something really insane or they're doing insane things or threatening insane things, threatening to what do they say? Completely wipe out civilization. That was last week.

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Then, of course, he chickened out, which is a good thing, obviously, but don't threaten that. That's actually kind of like being in a relationship with someone and them saying I'm going to kill myself if you don't.

Chapter 2: What movies has Abbie seen lately and what are her thoughts?

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do what I say, actually it's saying I'm going to kill you if you don't do what I say. It's horrific. He's horrific. Anyone that supports him has a serious, serious personality disorder or they're entirely stupid or they are benefiting in some way personally from Trump being president at this point.

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There's something seriously fucking wrong with you, but I would be shocked and horrified if any Trump supporters were listening to the podcast. So I'm preaching. How'd you end up here? Yeah, what the hell are you doing here? So I'm preaching to the choir.

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But I just wanted to read you out his latest tweet, Amy, because while it is horrific and odd, it's kind of like are we – is this what we're talking about now, Trump? Okay. Pope Leo is weak on crime. Pope Leo. Pope Leo. Pope Leo is weak on crime and terrible for foreign policy.

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He talks about fear of the Trump administration but doesn't mention the fear that the Catholic Church and all other Christian organisations had during COVID when they were arresting priests, ministers and everybody else for holding church services when going outside and being 10 and 20 feet apart. What? I like his brother, Louis, much better than I like him because Louis is all MAGA.

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He gets it and Leo doesn't. I don't want a Pope that thinks it's okay for Iran to have a nuclear weapon, okay? Just to be clear as well, We haven't done an episode on Iran. We need to get someone in to talk about it. But, again, every day there's something new. So it's hard to catch the right time because if we record something today and we release it. It could be miles out of date by tomorrow.

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Yes. Even by this afternoon, like even this tweet I'm going, okay, so it's Monday at 12 o'clock we're recording this. This should release tomorrow morning. Who the fuck knows what's going to happen with the Pope Leo beef that Trump has suddenly. And if you don't know as well, Pope Leo has criticised Trump many times.

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He's very anti-Trump because he's actually the most woke mind virus Pope that they've had in a while. Yeah. Also... In what world are we saying that the Catholic Church is too like radically progressive compared to Donald Trump? And also to be like, oh, they're weak on crime. It's like, well, I don't think they have like an executive branch. Yeah, and also weak on crime.

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I mean the Ten Commandments are pretty fucking clear, darling. Like what do you mean weak on – just look at the Bible. Like yeah, weak on crime. The Pope also isn't enforcing punishments for people like he's the DOJ. Like it's a – Does he mean like Vatican City? I guess so. Yeah. He goes on and on and on.

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He says, I don't want a Pope who criticises the President of the United States because I'm doing exactly what I was elected in a landslide to do. Okay, so the irony here, Trump, is that the Pope was also elected by all the Cardinals, I think. Yes, called Glaze. Yes. And he's doing what he is supposed to do, which is,

Chapter 3: Does Abbie want to have kids with Adam?

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I'm having communion left, right and centre. So the fact that he is now gagging for separation of church and state and saying that the Pope shouldn't be a political figure and also calling the Pope a radical leftist is – Yeah, wild. So fucking wild. I think he's fully deranged. I think he is aware that he's losing grip and control. Yeah. While clamouring for it.

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It's also just anything to distract from the Epstein files.

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668.872 - 685.657 Abbie Chatfield

Absolutely, which speaking of Melania's announcement saying I had nothing to do with the Epstein files last week that apparently Trump didn't know that she was going to do. If you missed it, and also by the way, this isn't a Trump episode, don't worry, I'll be over it after this. We'll get past it. I was just laughing at him saying that Pope Leo is soft on crime.

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It's like what the fuck are you talking about? The way that Americans speak as well as though no other place in the world that I know of regularly uses phrases like soft on crime, tough on crime. Like they have this really intense police state. We do as well. But, again, the rhetoric I've never seen –

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a politician in Australia have a whole platform based on I'm tough on crime and then accusing other politicians of being weak on crime. Yeah, it's brought up for sure but Americans are really hyper-focused on military being tough on crime and borders and it is leaking into Australia but it's a very interesting – it's all just sort of – I don't know how to explain it. It's like figureheads.

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It's not real. It isn't tangible.

Chapter 4: What challenges does Abbie face as a public figure?

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It isn't. being tough or soft on crime, I mean the law is the law. Yeah. Rules are rules. And the person who's actually benefiting from people being soft on war crimes is you, Donald Trump. And also soft on pedophilic child sexual abuse. Yeah, white collar crime, you know, embezzlement, fraud. Yeah, yeah. Also, he wasn't too happy when they were tough on his 34 felony charges. Yeah.

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Tough on crime when he's on that end of it. That's funny. Very funny. But so Melania's come out and done a speech saying that she had nothing to do with Epstein and that she had a casual relationship with him randomly and didn't tell Trump about it. So I guess we'll see what's going to happen with that. But I feel like Trump is truly fully losing it.

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And at this point, I would love everyone to DM me who doubted me saying, you were right, I'm sorry. Moving on. Time for an Ask Me Anything. Yes. So I want to start. Someone asked a question that I think is a great little topic starter, which is, Are you a cinema person? What's the last movie you watched? Okay. And last night I saw the drama with Robert Pattinson and is it Pattinson or Patterson?

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817.748 - 839.633 Abbie Chatfield

Pattinson. Pattinson it is. Yeah. And Zendaya. Great film. Amy's also seen it. Yes. Maybe a bit of a spoiler but not really if you've seen the trailer. Yeah, or if you've seen any sort of like there's been a lot of articles coming out about it now that it's out about what the sort of central premise is. Yeah, so if you're planning to see it, maybe skip forward a bit. Skip forward.

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839.653 - 870.524 Abbie Chatfield

But also if you're kind of soft on spoiler crimes, soft on the crime of spoilers, then keep listening because I don't really care about spoilers. Yeah. In the movie, Robert Pattinson and Zendaya are together. They're about to get married in like a week. It feels imminent. And they have dinner with their friends and it comes out that Zendaya has, when she was 15, planned a school shooting.

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She didn't do it. She just got to the point of having a weapon and going to – I guess she went to school with a weapon and was going to kill the other kids. This thing causes a huge moral dilemma for Robbie because he goes, well, can I marry someone that had planned to do this?

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This also happens in a conversation at a dinner party where Robert Pattinson says the worst thing he ever did, because that's the context, they're confessing the worst thing they ever did, His was – I don't know if it was a joke or not, but his was I cyberbullied someone. Yeah, and they like moved away. They moved away. So that's actual harm.

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Her maid of honour said that she locked a mentally disabled child in a closet overnight in an abandoned RV. Yeah, and ran away. Ran away. Again, actual harm. Yeah. And then another man who is there who is – It's the maid of honour's husband. Husband. He said that he used a girl as a human shield one time when they were getting attacked by a dog. That's the dilemma, right?

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But it's an interesting conversation to have because would you leave your partner and call off the wedding if you found out that they planned to do a school shooting but they didn't? And the reason why they didn't was because they Someone else did a shooting on the day and Zendaya's character, age 15, kind of went, can't be bothered to do this. Not the right time.

Chapter 5: How does Abbie feel about fan interactions?

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Attracted to the aesthetic. So she's like taking photos on her little webcam of her holding like an assault rifle. It's crazy, but it's also great commentary on the culture of it. So I think it is different in Australia, but it's a really interesting conversation, less about school shootings and more about what's the line of what would make you suddenly call off a wedding with your partner. If

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It has nothing to do with your current relationship or nothing to do with how they treat you. It's something that happened before you met. And before they were even fully formed. They're 15 years old. What actions can you judge your partner for? What did you think? Because I want to say, and maybe I'm evil, I don't know if I would break up with Adam. I don't know if I would.

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But maybe confronted with it, I would definitely vomit immediately. Yeah. I'd vomit. I'd say, I'm going to call Mez, his mum. I go, I'm calling Mez right now. Yeah. To Dob at the very least. But then I think you've got the capacity to plan that. So what would you do, Amy? Because I'm actually stumped.

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The situation that it is in the movie, all of those sort of points I'm like, I don't know if I would stay with them because it's – she clearly hasn't really dealt with it and like no one knows about it. Like her family doesn't know. She just kind of moved on with her life and then got into like activism. Yes. Like she ends up getting into anti-gun activism at her school.

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And then so the dad thinks like, oh, she threw my gun away because of this. But it's like, well, no, she was planning to take it to school. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and to me it's the thing of, like, oh, well, it doesn't seem like she's really actually dealt with this at all.

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And then there's all these carry-ons where it's, like, well, why, like, Alana Himes, the maid of honour, and she sort of jokes about, like, you don't have any other friends. Yeah. You know, so there's just a bit more weirdness with the character where I'm like, okay, if I was in that situation, there would be like a few things clicking into place. Yeah. Where I'd go, hmm, okay. That's so true.

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There are other factors. Also the fact that she... The bullying that she described isn't even that bad. She's like, yeah, I just hated everyone. I was bullied. And it's like she was pushed into a puddle one time. Well. And another time they said. This is an interesting part of the conversation as well because people are talking about how then her race is not really connected to the story at all.

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You know, like it's not like she's getting bullied because she's black. Yeah. It's like. The character could have been played by anyone of any race and it would have been no consequence, which like partly, you know, there's good and bad things about that, you know. Like would you feel that it's more justified if she was being bullied by some little white supremacist kid? You know?

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Is it fucked to say yes? Well, that's the thing. Like that sort of makes it more interesting to me. I don't think it's fully justified, just to be clear. I'm not going, yeah, that makes it worth it. But what you're saying where it's like the bullying doesn't seem that bad, I agree.

Chapter 6: What advice does Abbie give about getting an ADHD diagnosis?

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At the end I was a little bit like, what was this all in service of? But also it was fun to think about and fun to talk about. Yeah, it was like a trolley problem. It was like, wait, would I instantly – but see, then when I think about Adam I go – No, I've got to get rid of that.

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I'm going, I love him so much that I think if you have that in you, there's something that maybe isn't able to be fixed. Anyway, sorry Zendaya, you're out. Love her so much.

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1555.326 - 1556.348 Amy Kimball

She killed it.

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1556.547 - 1591.635 Abbie Chatfield

The next ask me anything is this. Do you ever plan on moving out of Sydney? If so, where would you like to live? Okay. Recently, I actually have been looking of moving out of Sydney to a more calming, relaxing place because I My threshold for being overstimulated, being people coming up and asking for photos and talking to me, it's just too much. And I don't mean this.

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I think a lot of people who get photos get asked for photos more than me or get asked – for, I don't know, they get people saying hello to them in public or whatever. I think there are people that get it much more than me that handle it better than me. But the reality is I'm neurodivergent. I get overstimulated.

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I also like at the best of times, even before I had this, this job, I wouldn't go out past midnight. Like I'm, I'm really a Like shy, I get really exhausted really easily by people coming up and talking to me.

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And the thing is, I'm just going to be fully honest because I feel like whenever I talk about this, people, I'm really scared that people are going to take it in a way that's like, well, you're ungrateful. You should love your fan. And I just need to be honest about it for a moment because it's getting to a point. Well, it's been at a point for years where it's,

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impacts my mental health so badly that if a big incident happens, I'm fucked for days. And something happened on Friday that I was just so, I feel this disgusting invasion of privacy and invasion of my space. And I feel this really gross, um, uh,

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inequality in the level of parasocial relationship when people are fans of mine or listeners of the podcast and they come up to me and they don't tell me they know who I am. I'm so fine with it and I can handle it.

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