Will I Still Be Fun If I Drink Less?
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Journey to the Sunnyside | Mindful Drinking & Alcohol Health
12 min
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3 chapters
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Welcome to Journey to the Sunny Side, the podcast that helps you build a better relationship with alcohol and uncover the secrets to mindful living. Each episode brings you real stories, expert insights, and practical tools to support your goals. Whether you're cutting back, taking a break, or thinking about quitting for good. I'm your host, Mike Hardenbrook, best-selling author, neuroscience enthusiast, and habit change expert. This show is brought to you by Sunnyside, a personalized science-backed program that helps you to drink less through habit change, coaching, and community. And for added support, we now have Sunnyside Met. A clinical option offering access to compounded naltrexone. a prescription medication that reduces cravings and helps prevent binge drinking.
Ready to start your journey? Get your free 15-day trial at Sunnyside.co. Hey everybody, welcome back to another one of these 10 minute Mondays. I want to start with a story today because this episode is really about one moment and this story has that moment in it. So last Thanksgiving I was at a family gathering and historically it has a bottomless drink kind of atmosphere. They have great food, we have drinks flowing pretty much all afternoon, and nobody's counting. And in past years, I didn't count either. That was just what we did on Thanksgiving. And yeah, it was fun, but there was a price to pay. So this time I did it differently. I had two drinks before dinner. And that was it. Тен ат, а ток, а лат.
I hung out. And at the end of the night? I called it. The next morning I got up. I went for a hike. And I remember standing there thinking This feeling is like a cheat coat. Because I had the night I always have at Thanksgiving. I didn't miss anything, but instead of paying for it the whole next day, I was ahead. I was outside. I was clear. I was having a great morning getting exercise and most of all, I was proud of myself. Same celebration with none of the price to pay. So that's what I want to talk about today. Not whether or not you should drink at social things. It's how to be in those moments and walk out of them as the same person that you walked in. Because here's the thing, alcohol isn't just attached to alcohol, it's attached to normal life.
This summer you'll probably have barbecues and pool days. We got football, happy hours, of course, vacations, or maybe just the occasional, hey, you want to go grab a drink? And that's pretty much how us adults say, wanna go hang out? So when you start changing your drinking can feel like you're not just changing your drinking. It can feel like you're changing your whole social life. But I want to take this one more step further. That fear isn't only will I overdrink tonight. There's actually a fear underneath this. Am I gonna still be fun? Will I still feel like myself? Are people gonna notice? Do I have to change everything? Because I'm changing this one thing. And hey, listen, I get that fear because I've had that fear.
Because alcohol wasn't just a drink for a lot of us. It was part of the fun. It was things like getting ready, that first round, getting the night started. Those things are exciting too. Or maybe it was doing a job for you. Maybe it was how you eased into the conversations and relaxed, or how you felt yourself, even though you technically weren't yourself. Around other people. So when you reduce it, that moment can feel weird. It could be like you're doing something with your left hand, or of call your s your right hand if you're left handed. And that difference it gets misread as loss. You think, hey What I'm doing is boring now. Or even worse, I'm boring.
How did a Thanksgiving story illustrate drinking less without losing fun?
But let's go back to my Thanksgiving. I had two drinks instead of who knows how many. And the night was not something I look back on and say, Boy, I wish I would have had more drinks. Listen, the food, it was the same, if not better. The people were still fun, we were still laughing, I was still present. The only big change was how I felt at the end of the night and how I felt at seven in the morning the next day.
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