Kinky Cocktail Hour

Edge Play Part 12: Managing Group Kink Scenes

07 Jul 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Part 12 of the Edge Play Series, Managing group kink scenes over ...

Notes From the Rabbit Hole: Sexploration

02 Jul 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about the recent happenings and in their relationship over a Vesper Hard Married is n...

Edge Play Part 11: Knife Play

30 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Knife Play in the 11th part of the Edge Play Series over a Blue R...

Ichigo Ichie

27 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the Japanese symbol Ichigo Ichie, a Japanese four-character idiom that describes a ...

Exploring the Kama Sutra, Ch 6 on the Exhange

25 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of the Courtesan section discussing how a courtesan negotiates for h...

Edge Play Part 10: Squirting

23 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez, an RN, about squirting over an Alabama Slammer. The Kinky cocktail Ho...

Domenica’s Toy

18 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Samantha, AKA Domenica’s Toy, about gender fluidity, kink and more over a Mosco...

Edge Play Part 9: Sensory Deprivation

16 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra  and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Sensory Deprivation for Part 9 of the Edge Play serous over a S...

Exploring the Kama Sutra part 6 Different Kinds of Gain

13 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the different types of gain that courtesans earn over a Perfect MartiniSup...

A Conversation with Shannon Wong

11 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with intimacy educator, performer, and advocate for ethical non-monogamy, Shannon Wong...

Edge Play: Part 8: Orgasm Denial and Ruined Orgasms

09 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez who presents Part 8 of the Edge Play series in a conversation about org...

Exploring the Kama Sutra: part 6 On Courtesans Getting Back With Former Lovers

04 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the section on teaching courtesans how to assess and choose which former l...

Edge Play Part 7: Fisting

02 Jun 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez who presents Part 7 of her Edge Play Series in a conversation about fis...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 6: About the Courtesans conclusion

30 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the conclusion of the section on Courtesans over Sexual Awakening. The Ki...

Edge Play Part 6 - Interrogation Play

28 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about interrogation play for Part 6 of the Edge Play series over a Saze...

Living the FemDom Life

23 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the reality of living the Fem Dom life as married couples over a Margarita.The Kink...

Exploring The Kama Sutra: Ch 6 About Courtesans pt 2

21 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of the chapter on Courtesans over a Green Fairy. Support the showHa...

Edge Play Part 5 - Cigar Play

19 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Cigar Play over a Guinness Stout. The Kinky cocktail Hour is bro...

Exploring the Kama Sutra ch 6 About Courtesans

16 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Part 6 About Courtesans over a Negroni. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you ...

“The Whole Rest of the Boy”

14 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and Miss Pearl chat about FemDom and the “Whole Rest of the Boy” over an Old Toronto.Read her piece here ...

Edge Play Part 4: Piss Play

12 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez in our fourth episode in the Edge Play series, this time about Piss Pla...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 2 About the Women of the Royal Harem

09 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the second part of the chapter “About the Women of the King’s Harem” over a M...

Examining the FemDom Idiom

07 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with O Miss Pearl about Dominance and submission, and the FemDom idiom over a Blueberr...

Edge Play Part 3 - Edgy Role Play

05 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez in our third episode in the Edge Play series, this time about edgy role...

Edge Play Part 2 - Breath Play

30 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez in our second episode in the Edge Play series, this time about Breath Play, ove...

Pride - A Kink Viewpoint

28 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with O Miss Pearl about why kink and BDSM should be part of Pride from a Grey Ace Non ...

Sacred Sexuality

25 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and  Saffermaster discuss their experience with Sacred Sexuality over a Negroni. Support the showHard Marr...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Ch5: Persons of Authority

23 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “About the Love of Persons in Authority for the Wives of Other Men” in this con...

The Narrative Limits of Social Scripts in Kink

21 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Miss Pearl about  the narrative limits of social scripts in kink as part of the ...

Edge Play Part 1 - Needle Play and Medical Play

18 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about her journey as well as the first of the Edge Play series, this on...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Ch5 About the Go Between pt 2

16 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of “About the Business of the Go Between” in ch 5 of the Kama Su...

O Miss Pearl!

14 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with O Miss Pearl about kink and society and all things over a White Russian The Kink...

Exploring the Kama Sutra ch5 About the Business of the Go Between

11 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “About the Business of the Go Between” in ch 5 of the Kama Sutra, over a Hendri...

My Child is Trans

09 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Pincushion, who shares his journey after discovering his pre-teen is Trans, over ...

The Life of a Cuckold

07 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Jay about his experience choosing to live in a Female Led Relationship as a cucko...

You Squirted on Me!

04 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster break down their scene where she marked him by squirting on him  over a Rojo Sangria. The...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Ch 5: The State of a Woman’s Mind

02 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss “Examination of the State of a Woman’s Mind”, the conclusion of Part...

Exploring Arousal

31 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about how arousal has shifted her frame over a  Green Fairy. The Kinky cocktail Hour...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Pt 5 Making Acquaintance

28 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “About Making Acquaintance with the Women, and of the Efforts to Gain Her Over”...

Lily Morley Part 2 - Prostate Massage

26 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster continue their conversation with Lily Morley delving deeply into her masterful technique of...

Lily Morley Part 1 - Disciplinarian

24 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Lily Morley in Part One of. Two part conversation, where she describes her experi...

Notes From the Rabbit Hole 2025

21 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss how their dynamic has shifted since their wedding almost a year ago over a Vieux Ca...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 5 Ch 1 On the Characteristics of Men and Women

19 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 1 of part 5 of the Kama Sutra , On the Characteristics of Men and Women –...

RoxiRazorblade - A Trans Pro Domme

17 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with RoxiRazorblade,  a Trans poly non-binary lifestyle kinkster and Pro Domme about ...

Seattle’s Trans Space

14 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Kathrynn McKenna about Trans Space and more over a Perfect Martini. Support the ...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 4 On the Duties of Wives

12 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the next section of Part 4 of the Kama Sutra. The full title is, “On the conduct ...

Getting Pegged

10 Mar 2025

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Send us a textToday we are replaying one of our most popular episodes from Season 4, where Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Lady Petra, as a Biker ...

Pride - A Trans Viewpoint

07 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Van about her viewpoint on Pride over a Aunger Bavarian Heffe Weisen. The Kinky ...

Exploring the Kama Sutra: Part 4 On the Conduct of Wives

05 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Part 4 of the Kama Sutra. The full title is, “Ok the conduct of the elder wife to...

The Trans Experience and Tarot for Kinksters

03 Mar 2025

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Send us a textAnother replay to bring Trans voices to the air, in this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Lee Harrington about his experie...

Marion Twain

28 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Marion Twain about her journey and the current anti-Trans climate over a Perfect ...

Being Trans and Intersex

26 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn our ongoing effort to bring Trans voices to the conversation during this time of a direct attack on the Trans community, In this epis...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 3: On Certain Forms of Marriage

24 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the last section of part 3, On Certain Forms of Marriage, and f the Kama Sutra over...

Introducing Ringmate!

21 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dr. Elliot and Ann Justin from MyFirmTech.com about Erectile Dysfunction , cockri...

Raising a Trans Kid

19 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn light of the hostility toward the Trans community at the moment, we are replaying conversations with members of that community. This ...

Exploring The Kama Sutra Part 3: Seduction

17 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “About things to be Done Only by the Man and the Acquisition of the Girl Thereby,...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 3: On Courtship

12 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “On Courtship and the Manifestation of the Feelings by Outward Signs and Deeds fr...

Maiden Mandy

10 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Maiden Mandy, a pre-op married  lesbian Trans woman about her journey over a Gin...

Exploring Orgasmic Bliss

07 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss orgasmic bliss over a Mermaid Lemonade.Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Bui...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 3 “Creating Confidence in the Girl”

05 Feb 2025

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Send us a textTRIGGER WARNINGThis conversation covers difficult topics including child rape. On this conversation, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discus...

The Texas Anti-Trans Law

03 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Trans-rights activist Erin about the draconian new Texas initiative to discrimina...

Crow's Nest Escape in Seattle

31 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Michel, Amy and Lane from the Crow's Next Escape, a wonderful Seattle based ...

Another Conversation with Lee Harrington - Passion and Soul

29 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with internationally recognized  sexuality, relationships, and personal authenticity ...

Exploring the Kama Sutra: Part 3 About the Acquisition of a Wife - “On Marriage”

27 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the first section “On Marriage” of Part 3 of the Kama Sutra, About the Acquisit...

Passion and Soul with Lee Herrington

24 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster chat with Lee Harrington, an eclectic artist,  erotic educator, coach, gender adventurer, ...

Queernundrum

22 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Gary, one of the cohosts of the Queernundrum podcast over a Jackvardeur. The Kin...

Exploring the Kama Sutra: Part 2: On the Way How to Begin and How to End Congress and Lovers Quarrels.

20 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the last section of Part 2, “On the Way How to Begin and How to End Congress, Dif...

"Blue Velvet" — Movie Review

17 Jan 2025

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Send us a textBecause David Lynch passed away yesterday, in this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster review the movie "Blue Velvet" over a ...

Advanced Single Tail Play

15 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about his new book, “Variation and Vignettes - Advanced Single Rail Play”...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 2: Of the Auparishtaka or Mouth Congress

13 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the continuation of Part 2 of the Kama Sutra, “of the Auparishtaka or Mouth Congr...

Caning the Dex Way

10 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about canes, rods and caning technique and strategy over a Kir Royale The Ki...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 2: About Women Acting the Part of a Man and the Work of a Man

08 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the continuation of Part 2 of the Lama Sutra, “About Women Acting the Part of a M...

Food Play the Dex Way

06 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about food play over a Toronto. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by...

Happy New Year!

03 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, the first of Season 6, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the coming season, their dynamic and more over a bottle of M...

Exploring The Kama Sutra part 2 “The Kinds of Sexual Union According to Dimensions, Force of Passion and Time”

30 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster continue their inquiry into the Kama Sutra with Book 2: The Kinds of Sexual Union according...

Wax Play the Dex Way

27 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about wax play the Dex way over a Revolver. The Kinky cocktail Hour is broug...

Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 1 "The Vatsanyana Sutra"

25 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Chapter 1 of the Original Kama Sutra over a celebratory bottle of Marie De Moy Brut...

Single Tails

23 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the leather community and everything about single tail whips with author and single...

Erotic Hypnosis

20 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss erotic hypnosis with Hypnodomme, Femdom and Mistress Katherine Dire over a shot of ...

Kinky Book Club: Dominatrix Boss ch 14

18 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “Ride With Me”, Chapter 14 of Dominatrix Boss, and then chat with the author, D...

Female Sounding

16 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss female sounding with FistHer over Jell-O and Fireball shots. The Kinky cocktail Ho...

Kinky Bookclub: Dominatrix Boss ch 13

13 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Dominatrix Boss, chapter 13, “The Real Show” over a Vesper. Support the showHa...

Vixen Sublime on Archetypes

11 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Vixen Sublime about her journey, kink archetypes, and more over a Monte Carlo. T...

The Mind of a Cuckold

09 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss life as a cuckold with Robert who has been cuckold most of his adult life over a Fl...

Kinky Book Club: Dominatrix Boss ch 12

06 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 12,  “Crafted Through Chastity” of Dominatrix Boss by Asher Lake over ...

Rachel Steele: Fetish Filmmaker

02 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Rachel Steele, of Red Milf Productions, a pioneer in fetish filmmaking industry o...

Kinky Bookclub: Dominatrix Boss ch 11

27 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “Toiling Awsy”, chapter 11 of Dominatrix Boss by Asher Lake over a Negroni. Su...

Living Authentically

25 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how living authentically has altered their lives and framed their dynamic over a Ch...

Neurodiversity in Kink

22 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss neurodiversity with NY kinkster, Vir, over a Super Sazerac. The Kinky cocktail Hou...

“Going Under” — Movie Review

20 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster review the movie “Going Under” over a shot of Dos Armadillo Anjeo Tequila. The Kinky c...

Kinky Bookclub: Dominatrix Boss ch 10

18 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about “Slaves Crawl” Chapter 10 of Dominatrix Boss by Asher Lake over a bottle of ...

Sexualizing Your Dynamic

15 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how to sexualize your D/s dynamic over an Aperol and Limoncello Cocktail.The Kinky ...

Introducing WeMinder 2.0

13 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Peyra and Saffermaster chat with Mako and Kuri about the updates to the popular behavior chart app for discipline ...

Kinky Book Club: Dominatrix Boss - ch 9

11 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Chapter 9 of Domatirix boss by Asher Lake, "the Grinding Desire", over a ...

Kinky Book Club: Dominatrix Boss Ch 8

04 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Chapter 8 of Dominatrix Boss by Asher Lake  over a Poets Dream.  Support the show...

The Mind of a Hedonist

01 Nov 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss “hedonism” with Jester, a long time self described “freak”, over an Unusual...

Pony Mistress

30 Oct 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster chat with Mx Wilcox, the author of The Human Pony, the “bible” for pony players, a long...

Dominatrix Boss Ch’s 6 & 7

28 Oct 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapters 6, “Vice”, and 7, “Horniness, Humiliation and Helplessness” of Dom...

Gang Bangs and More

26 Oct 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Lil Guy about his predilection to be the center of attention in gang bangs and mo...

Kinky Book Club: Dominatrix Boss ch 5

21 Oct 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Chapter 5 of “Dominatrix Boss”, “About to Change Forever”, over a Vesper. ...