Kinky Cocktail Hour

Kinky Movie Review: Lessons in Chemistry Part 6

10 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Part 6 of the remarkable mini series on Apple TV over a Perfect Martini. Support t...

Vetting Your Your Play Partner

09 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how to go about fully vetting your play partner over a Dry Martini. The Kinky cockt...

Passion

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the way passion plays in their dynamic over a Gin and Tonic. To order the book &qu...

The Nebraska Hypnotist Interview

05 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview NE Hypnotist about how hypnosis plays with kink over a trio of Cabernets. The Ki...

Kinky Movie Review: Lessons in Chemistry Part 5

02 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Part 5 of the remarkable mini series on Apple TV over a Perfect Manhattan. The Kin...

Training a Sub

31 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss training a sub to serve as a “house pet” over a Cuba Libre. The Kinky cocktail...

Energy in the Dungeon

29 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dungeon Master Dex about the various ways energy in the dungeon affects play over...

Kinky Movie Review : Lessons in Chemistry Part 4

27 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster review the fourth episode of the wonderful series on Apple TV over a Perfect Martini. Supp...

It Begins With a Declaration

22 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the aspects of building a relationship that follow a declaration with C_M_Fetarum o...

Kinky Movie Review : Lessons in Chemistry Part 3

19 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster review the third episode of the wonderful series on Apple TV over a Perfect Martini. Suppo...

Recreating Relationship

17 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Cuckold Hopeful about recreating relationship after a setback over a  La Louisia...

159 days!

15 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about being 159 days away from their celebration and more over a Vioux Carrè. The Ki...

Kinky Movie Review: Lessons in Chemistry Part 2

12 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster review the second episode of the wonderful series on Apple TV over a Perfect Manhattan. Su...

I am Not My Circumstances!

10 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how to deal with circumstances over a POM MargaritaThe Kinky cocktail Hour is broug...

168 Days!

07 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about what led up to their upcoming marriage over a Perfect Martini. The Kinky cockta...

Being Marked

05 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss their marking protocol and how it plays in their dynamic over an Island Negroni. Th...

Kinky Movie Review: Lessons in Chemistry Part 1

03 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster review the first episode of the wonderful series on Apple TV, Lesons in Chemistry, over a P...

Notes From the Rabbit Hole: We Got Engaged

29 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this, our final episode of 2023, Lady Petra and Saffermaster talk about how they celebrated  the Winter Solstice by getting engaged ...

Speaking Frankly

27 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster start out talking about “frank conversations” and end up having a frank conversation ov...

The "Rope Podcast" Interview

22 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview Rope Bunny, Mya, and her Rigger, Fox, of the “Rope Podcast” over an Orange Bl...

Dynamic Heat

20 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the heat in their dynamic over a Heineken.The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you...

Multiple Orgasms!

18 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about multiple orgasms, and the major breakthrough in human sexuality they made as sex...

2 Years In...

15 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss their relationship celebrating 2 years since they met over tumblers of The Balvenie...

The “SexiNweKnowit” Interview

13 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview Swingers Mr. and Mrs Sexy about being a swinger couple over El Selincio Espadin M...

My Metamour Says...

11 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss polyamory in kink dynamics over a tumbler of The Balvenie Single 14-Year Malt Scotc...

The “Milk” — Movie Review

08 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster review the movie “Milk” over a couple bottles of Rosé (2019 Barnard Griffin Rose of Sa...

Cucks, Bulls and Hotwives

06 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss Cuckolds, Bulls and Hotwives over a Sidecar. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to...

Intimacy and Sex

04 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this conversation, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Lil’ Guy about how sex with  intimacy creates bliss over a B52. The Kink...

The Mr. Smith Interview

01 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview British Disciplinarian and podcaster Mr. Smith over a Manhattan.The Kinky cocktai...

Mental BDSM

27 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss mental BDSM, over a tumbler of Johnnie Walker Black Label 12-Year Blended Scotch Wh...

The Secret to Kink Relationships

24 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the secret to kink relationships over 1800 Silver Tequila.The Kinky cocktail Hour i...

The Lady Swan Interview

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview Lady Swan and learn more about the Thorne Estate, a FemDom paradise created as ”...

FinDom Primer Part Two

20 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Baroness about the ins and outs of FinDom in this second part of the Primer over ...

The "Kinky Introverts" Interview

17 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview "Kinky Introverts", Kitten and Brian, over a Dry Gin Martini with Lemon...

Life Comes At Ya’ Fast

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the challenges of maintaining their 24/7 power exchange dynamic during difficult ci...

FinDom Primer Part One

13 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra  Saffermaster chat with Baroness about the in’s and outs of FinDom over a Little Brothers Keeper.  The K...

Denial

10 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss denial, cages, chastity and other aspects of control over a Blue Moon Belgian White...

“The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert”— Movie Review

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster review the movie “The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert” over an ice cold 18...

Notes From the Rabbit Hole 11/23

06 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about their journey exploring a new twist in the Rabbit Hole - Love - over a Vioux Car...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - Conclusion - Conclusion

04 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of their read of the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy over a Naughty Charles....

That's MY Orgasm You Are Having!

03 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss who owns her orgasms over a Macallan Double Cask Gold Highland Single Malt Scotch W...

Power Failure

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss Top/Bottom and Dom/Sub dynamics and ways power dynamics go wrong over a pair of Was...

"Breaking a Submissive"

30 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Edward, the host of “Chatting with the Lightkeeper” podcast about his journey...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 19 “The Villages”

28 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 19 “The Villages” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by AnneRice as ...

Exploring The Rabbit Hole

27 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss life inside the rabbit hole over a couple red blends: 2017 Apothic Dark Red Blend a...

Spanking, Impact Play, Discipline and Aftercare

25 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster talk about spanking, impact play, discipline and after care over a tasting of 2019 Pine Rid...

Humiliation

23 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Pincushion about his journey and his humiliation fetish over a Vanessa Polk. The...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 18 “Prince Alexi’s Education Continues”

21 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 18 “Prince Alexi’s Education Continues” of “The Sleeping Beauty Tri...

Getting Outed

20 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the impact of getting outed as a kinkster over a tumbler of Johnnie Walker Black La...

High Protocols

18 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss “High Protocol” dynamics over cocktail called My Huckleberry Friend. In this e...

FinDom with The Baroness

16 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with The Baroness about her journey and her experience as a FinDom over The Eclipse Co...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 17 “Prince Alexi Tells Of His Capture…”

14 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 17 “Prince Alexi Tells of his Capture and Enslavemenr” of “The Sleepi...

The "D20, the Busiest Domme in the Universe" Interview

13 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview Domme D20 over a Mojito. You can learn more about D20 at the following links:d20...

How to Kink

11 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how to kink over a couple shots of 1800 Silver Tequila. The Kinky cocktail Hour is ...

Tristan Taormino

09 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with author, podcaster and sex educator Tristan Toarmono about her journey, and her ne...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 16 “With Prince Alexi”

07 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 16 “With Prince Alexi” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne Ric...

On Being Dominant

06 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the beingness, the doingness and the havingness of being dominant over a Sunny Mexi...

What’s Next

04 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the question “what’s next”, a question posed to them by a listener while they ...

Edge Play 13: Kink on the Road

02 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Edge Play on the road over a Naughty Seven.The Kinky cocktail Hou...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 15 “Lady Juliana In The Queens Chamber”

30 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 15  “Lady Juliana in the Queens Chamber”” of “The Sleeping Beauty ...

Securing Sexuality

25 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Wolfgang Goerlich about his work as a hacker where he advises companies, professi...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 14 “The Queen’s Chamber”

23 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 14 “The Queen’s Chamber” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne...

"The Danish Girl" — Movie Review

22 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss "The Danish Girl", a true story told in a 2015 movie over a glass of Glen...

On Being a Submissive

20 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss being a submissive, the beingness, the doingness and the havingness that occurs out...

Exploring FemDom - A Year Later

18 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lasy Petra and Saffermaster discuss FemDom over a Kingston Trio. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbun...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 13 “Bridal Trail”

16 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 13 “Bridal Trail” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne Rice as ...

The Big/Little Interview

15 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview author, podcaster and shark-obsessed age playing polyamorous Taoist Maco Allen ov...

Self-Expression is the Thing - REVISTED!

13 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss self-expression and why life works best when you are fully self-expressed over a Blu...

Mistress Mia’s Dungeon

11 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Mistress Mia Rae and her sidekick Master John over a Bourbon Black Forest Cocktai...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 12 “Serving Maid”

09 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 12 “Serving Maid ” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne Rice as...

Marking, Ownership and Possession

08 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the role that marking plays in ownership and possession over a tumbler of Old Pulten...

The Illusion of “Someday”

06 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the illusion of “someday”, and why life occurs in action over a tumbler of Old ...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 11 “Duties in the Princes Chamber”

02 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 11 “Duties in the Princes Chamber” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“...

Ethical Non-monogamy

01 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss ethical non-monogamy and other sorts of open relationships over a Tommy Margarita. ...

Being a Good Girl

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how “being a good girl” plays out in a 24/7 TPE kink dynamic over a Salty Dog. ...

Notes From The Rabbit Hole - More on Switching

28 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the twists and turns in the rabbit hole that has found them switching over a Gin Le...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 9 & 10 “The Training Hall/Hall of Punishments”

26 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss ch 9 & 10 “The Training Hall/Hall of Punishments”of “The Sleeping Beauty ...

Playing with Wax

25 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss playing with wax in your scenes while enjoying a Jacana. The Kinky Cocktail Hour i...

Masturbation!

23 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss Masturbation over a Paloma.The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny,...

“The Whole Rest of the Boy”

21 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and Miss Pearl chat about FomDom and the “Whole Rest of the Boy” over an Old Toronto. Read her piece here...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 8 “The Slaves Hall”

19 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 8 “The Slaves Hall ” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne Rice ...

What Makes Sex “Hot”?

18 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the question “what makes sex hot?” over a Southside.The Kinky cocktail Hour is ...

Training to Achieve Alignment

16 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss how SafferMaster set about training his submissive bringing about a relationship th...

Puppetry of the Penis by Fraser

14 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this hilarious episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with video porn artist Fraser about his new project bringing his penis,  Be...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 7 “Prince Alexi And Felix”

12 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 7 “Prince Alexi and Felix” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne...

Fetishes!

11 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about the world of Fetish over a Gin Ricky. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you...

Love!

09 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about love over a Hummer! The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, th...

Working Out a 24/7 Dynamic

07 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with author and podcaster Holly Bradshaw and her partner Blue in a discussion about 24...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 6 “Prince Alexi”

05 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 6 “Prince Alexi ” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by Anne Rice as ...

Nothings Wrong!

04 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the idea that in a conflict there is nothing actually wrong while completing a Char...

From There to Here

02 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the journey to their extraordinary relationship over a Dry Martini.The Kinky cockta...

Stefani Goerlich - “With Sprinkles on Top”

31 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Stefani Goerlich, Certified Sex Therapist,  Board Certified Clinical Sexologist,...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 5 “The Prince’s Bed Chamber”

29 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 5 “The Prince’s Bed Chamber” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“ by ...

Fuck toys, and More!

28 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textin this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss various fuck toys and dildos and more over Casamingo's Mezcal. The Kinky cock...

Bondage, Slavery, Cages, Rope and more!

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss all aspects of bondage in a sexual dynamic over Sambuca Straight. The Kinky cockta...

Edge Play Part 12: Managing Group Kink Scenes

24 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Part 12 of the Edge Play Series, Managijg group kink scenes over ...

Kinky Bookclub: The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy - ch 4 “The Castle and the Great Hall”

22 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss chapter 34 “The Castle and the Great Hall” of “The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy“...

Discipline, Punishment and Training

21 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss discipline, punishment and training over White Russian's.The Kinky cocktail Ho...

Getting Complete

19 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss getting complete and why it’s so important for us both as individuals, and in rel...

“The Story of O” — Movie Review

17 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the original movie “The Story of O”, the story itself and the idea of “sexual...