Nir Eyal is the author of two best-selling books, Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products and Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life. He writes, consults, and teaches at the intersection of psychology, technology, and business. His books have sold over 1 million copies in more than 30 languages; he has taught at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business and its Design School; and he has started and sold two startups since 2003. In our conversation, we discuss:• Strategies for becoming less distractible and improving focus• The difference between distraction and “traction”• Reactive work vs. reflexive work and why you should book time in your calendar• The 10-minute rule to overcome internal triggers and stay focused• The problem with to-do lists, and what to do instead• The value of creating a timebox schedule that aligns with personal values and priorities• The use of pacts as a last line of defense against distraction• How to develop a high-agency mindset• Advice for leaders on helping employees improve focus in the workplace—Brought to you by Vanta—Automate compliance. Simplify security | Jira Product Discovery—Atlassian’s new prioritization and roadmapping tool built for product teams | Teal—Your personal career growth platform—Find the full transcript at: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/strategies-for-becoming-less-distractible—Where to find Nir Eyal:• X: https://twitter.com/nireyal• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nireyal/• Website: https://www.nirandfar.com/—Where to find Lenny:• Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com• X: https://twitter.com/lennysan• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/—In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Nir’s background(04:20) How to become less distractible(07:43) Understanding distraction and traction(12:52) The four steps to becoming indistractable(13:53) Mastering internal triggers(18:49) Surfing the urge with a 10-minute timer(23:20) Making time for traction with a timebox schedule(25:02) How to turn your values into time(28:36) Booking deep work time(29:22) Making pacts to prevent distraction(31:00) The problem with to-do lists(34:31) The drawback of deadlines(36:08) Distraction is an emotion regulation problem(39:54) Hacking back external triggers(45:03) Preventing distraction with pacts(48:18) Specific tools to hold you accountable(53:42) Managing emotions and discomfort(56:37) Taking responsibility and being high-agency(01:00:09) Becoming indistractable at work(01:05:04) Schedule syncing to align with managers(01:09:36) We are not as hooked on technology as people think(01:16:00) Life purpose and personal responsibility(01:17:38) Lightning round—Referenced:• Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life: https://www.amazon.com/Indistractable-Control-Your-Attention-Choose/dp/194883653X• Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products: https://www.amazon.com/Hooked-How-Build-Habit-Forming-Products/dp/1591847788• Dorothy Parker’s quote: https://twitter.com/nireyal/status/1472280598723108866• “Writing is bleeding” quote: https://www.hemingwaysociety.org/quotation-controversy-writing-and-bleeding• The Pomodoro Technique Explained: https://www.forbes.com/sites/bryancollinseurope/2020/03/03/the-pomodoro-technique/• Timeboxing: Why It Works and How to Get Started in 2024: https://www.nirandfar.com/timeboxing/• Using your working time well - Issue 22: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/time-management-issue-22• All-In podcast: https://www.allinpodcast.co/• Nir’s post about “the planning fallacy”: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/nireyal_why-do-tasks-always-seem-to-take-longer-than-activity-7137440438939959297-XIUB/• How the Ancient Greeks Beat Distraction: https://www.nirandfar.com/tantalizing-distractions/• Jeremy Bentham: https://iep.utm.edu/jeremy-bentham• An overview of Sigmund Freud’s pleasure principle: https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/nursing-and-health-professions/pleasure-principle• The Matrix “There is no spoon” scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAXtO5dMqEI• Outlet timer: https://www.amazon.com/Century-Indoor-24-Hour-Mechanical-Outlet/dp/B01LPSGBZS• Forest app: https://www.forestapp.cc/• Focusmate: https://www.focusmate.com/• Have We Been Thinking About Willpower the Wrong Way for 30 Years?: https://hbr.org/2016/11/have-we-been-thinking-about-willpower-the-wrong-way-for-30-years• We Need Social Antibodies to Fight the Disease of Distraction: https://nireyal.medium.com/we-need-social-antibodies-to-fight-the-disease-of-distraction-51f9187be016• The Mere Presence of Your Smartphone Reduces Brain Power, Study Shows: https://news.utexas.edu/2017/06/26/the-mere-presence-of-your-smartphone-reduces-brain-power• Leading in Tough Times: HBS Faculty Member Amy C. Edmondson on Psychological Safety: https://www.hbs.edu/recruiting/insights-and-advice/blog/post/leading-in-tough-times• If Tech Is So Distracting, How Do Slack Employees Stay So Focused?: https://www.nirandfar.com/slack-use/• Managing up: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/managing-up• Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com/• FitBot: https://www.fitbotapp.com/• Paulo Coelho’s quote: https://twitter.com/paulocoelho/status/416264984188825600• Alchemy: The Dark Art and Curious Science of Creating Magic in Brands, Business, and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Alchemy-Curious-Science-Creating-Business/dp/006238841X• The Experience Machine: How Our Minds Predict and Shape Reality: https://www.amazon.com/Experience-Machine-Minds-Predict-Reality/dp/1524748455• Empire of the Sun on Prime Video: https://www.amazon.com/Empire-Sun-Christian-Bale/dp/B001N3JY82• Sesame grinder: https://www.miyacompany.com/450-014-450-014• Muji pens: https://www.muji.us/collections/pen-pencils—Production and marketing by https://penname.co/. 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