Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
Episodes
Episode 252: Unsolicited Advice with Christine
09 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Our friend Christine joins the pod to answer listener questions and give our very unprofessional opinions!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://...
Episode 251: Date Like A Grown Up
02 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Pride! This week, Melisa and Alli elaborate on some dating icks -- and the biggest ick of them all, not being a grown up and avoiding tough conv...
Episode 250: Dating Icks
26 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa dive into dating icks -- and Melisa shares a list of "icks" that might prompt her to swipe left. Become a supporter of this podcast: ...
Episode 249: Healing While Parenting
21 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Being a mom means your time isn't always your own -- which makes it really tough to find the time and space to focus on your own healing from heartbre...
Episode 248: Meet Michele
12 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Michele from the Live Out Loud podcast joins the show to share her views on navigating the dating scene and relationships. And how she's focusing on "...
Episode 247: Coming Out While Married
05 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week we address a listener question about how to come out when you're still in a hetero marriage.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www....
Episode 246: I Don't Think About You At All.
28 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa share some quotes on letting go and how sometimes we cling to things in life that are no longer meant for us. Become a supporter of t...
Episode 245: Well, The Jerk Store Called...
21 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Melisa and Alli dive into what it's like raising kids as lesbian moms and how to handle possible bullying. Become a supporter of this podcast: https:...
Episode 244: Everybody Pump the Brakes!
14 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why is everyone is such a rush to do all the things? Commit to a relationship? Meet the kids? Move in together? Combine finances? Our friend Heather j...
Episode 243: Evolution of Attachment Styles
07 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Melisa and Alli discuss JoJo Siwa's ever evolving image -- and why people should cut her some slack. We also dive into attachment styles and how they ...
Episode 242: Throw Out The Rulebook
31 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talk about the importance of throwing other people's ideals and expectations out the window! You do you! And also, a few tips on how not ...
Episode 241: Courtney Simpson on Dialectical Behavior Therapy
24 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Psychologist Courtney Simpson joins us to talk about Dialectical Behavior Therapy and the coping skills that have helped her in her own coming out jou...
Episode 240: Where My Over 50s At?
17 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you an over 50 lesbian, feeling like there's no one out there for you so why bother even trying to date? You're not alone! There's so many people ...
Episode 239: Rae on Shedding The Catalyst
10 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Rae joins the show to share her coming out story of how she married her catalyst and how she is now working on developing better coparenting skills an...
Episode 238: What Are You Really Afraid Of?
03 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa explore the topic of fear -- from phobias like snakes and drowning -- to one majority of people can relate to... the fear of being alo...
Episode 237: Update on Allie's Story
25 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Allie joins us for a third time to give an update on her coming out process -- and why she's choosing not to date at this time and instead focus on he...
Episode 236: Catalyst Commonalities
18 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We've noticed a common theme about catalysts (first relationships) in many of our listener emails -- today we discuss possibilities as to why....Becom...
Episode 235: It's Not Guilt, It's Wise Remorse
11 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa discuss a different take on guilt -- viewing it as "wise remorse." We also share some tips on manifestation from the great Mel Robbins...
Episode 234: Meet Dr. Kara Strauss: Pelvic Floor Expert
04 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Kara Strauss joins us to talk about pelvic floor health and how it can impact so many aspects of your life. We also dive into grief and how mourni...
Episode 233: Meet Jodi
28 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
After becoming a mom at 18, then coming out at 29, Jodi felt she had finally met her perfect match -- only to have her new life turned upside down. No...
A Special Announcement
27 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Big News for the Lesbian Chronicles Podcast! We have a website!!! LESBIAN CHRONICLES PODCASTBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.c...
Episode 232: What's Your Thing?
21 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Melisa and Alli are joined by their lovely friend Malena to chat about how our past places a role in life today -- and how important it is to share wi...
Episode 231: Meet Robin
14 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Robin shares her story of processing her late in life sexuality realization -- which has included a new baby, the sudden passing of her father, divorc...
Episode 230: The Stanley Cup
08 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Alli talks her return to therapy. We get confused about Stanley Cups vs. The Stanley Cup. And we chat about how sexuality is viewed by the younger gen...
Episode 229: Let's Bury Our Heads in the Sand!
24 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's the holidays -- which is a tough time of year for many people -- so this week, we're burying our heads in the sand and just keeping this episode ...
Episode 228: Happy Holidays!
17 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week Alli and Melisa talk about their ever evolving Christmas plans -- how to manage keeping things equal in a blended family -- Jillian Turecki'...
Episode 227: Meet Teddi
10 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Our friend Teddi joins us for a conversation about coming out in the 90s, relationships, and her life running the coolest barbershop (A-HA Barbers) we...
Episode 226: Breakup Toolbox Part 2
03 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We had such a great response to our Breakup Toolbox request on Instagram we decided to share more knowledge from those who've been through the thick o...
Episode 225: Breakup Toolbox
26 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Breakups are rough. Especially when you're not equipped to handle it. Alli and Melisa share tools that have helped them -- and we hear breakup advice ...
Episode 224: Get Comfortable. Get Confident. Be Magnetic.
19 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa chat about the glorious celebration that was Melisa's birthday party -- and how being part of the LGBTQ community can be your path to ...
Episode 223: It Gets Messier!
12 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa reflect more on the Messy Middle -- and we have another listener story from Molly, who was put through the wringer in her coming out, ...
Episode 222: The Messy Middle Chronicles
05 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The Messy Middle is a common theme for many late in life lesbians. That part where you've come out, but there's obstacles in the way -- finances, job,...
Episode 221: (Un)Happy Holidays
29 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The holiday season is approaching -- and with that, a lot of anxiety for some of our LC listeners. Melisa and Alli share some encouragement for those ...
Episode 220: Dr. Caroline on Menopause
22 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Caroline, OB/GYN talks the journey of perimenopause and menopause -- how the symptoms can impact your life -- and sometimes go unnoticed!Become a ...
Episode 219: Meet Rosie O'Donnell
15 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
LESBIAN ICON -- The Rosie O'Donnell -- joins Melisa and Alli to chat about the joys of TikTok, the importance of sharing hard experiences and connecti...
Episode 218: Friend Fight Club
08 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like you have to keep your straight friends and you LGBTQ+ friends separate? Are you worried about losing your straight friends by coming ...
Episode 217: Emily Cade on Dating with Chronic Illness or Injury
01 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Therapist Emily Cade joins the show to talk about dating with chronic illness or injury.Emily Cade TherapyBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://...
Episode 216: P!NK's Queer Vibe, Dating Age Gaps, And Jealousy Between Partners
25 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa discuss the wonder that is P!nk -- Shifting perspective on the age gap when dating, how therapy memes on social media cloud our brains...
Episode 215: Do You Need to Live with Your Partner?
17 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In your 20s, you meet. You fall in love. You move in.But what happens in your 30s, 40s, 50s+ when combining two households isn't quite as easy? Is liv...
Episode 214: Regret is a B*tch
10 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you regret coming out? Do you miss your old life? Do you know your gay but wonder if this was all worth it? Alli and Melisa discuss the common feel...
Episode 213: Meet Lindsay "The Queen of Meeting Lesbian Strangers"
03 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Lindsay joins the show to share how she's utilizing TikTok and other apps to meet other lesbians.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.sprea...
Episode 212: Susan Bratton: "Your Passion is My Passion"
27 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Susan Bratton joins the LC podcast for some very open talk about sex. Susan is an author, speaker and self-proclaimed "sexual biohacker and "orgasmana...
Episode 211: Meet Christin of Tello Films
20 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're joined by Christin Baker. Christin is a Lesbian Filmmaker and the Co-Founder and CEO of Tello Films. We chat about her streaming servi...
Episode 210: Dr. Jaime: Is it Ok to Not Love Your Partner's Kid?
13 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Jaime joins us to talk about the difficulties of bonding with your partner's children -- and how to handle things when you just aren't feeling the...
Episode 209: Meet Stacey - Community Building Expert
06 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Our friend Stacey joins us to talk about her very recent coming out -- and how she's worked to make friends in the LGBTQ community in Nashville.Become...
Episode 208: Green Flags
30 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We talk RED flags all the time -- but what are some GREEN flags in a relationship?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast...
Episode 207: Meet Kirsten Rasmussen
23 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Actor, Writer, and Second City alum Kirsten Rasmussen (Slo Pitch, Odd Squad, Schitt's Creek) shares her coming out story.Become a supporter of this po...
Episode 206: American Gladiators Made Me Gay
16 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Did American Gladiators make you gay? Because Melisa thinks it may be some data for her coming out late in life story. We discuss this 90s mayhem of a...
Episode 205: That Defining Moment
10 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What was the moment you knew you were gay? Listeners share their "defining moments"Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcas...
Episode 204: Meet Dawn DiMicco
02 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Author, Speaker, and Coach Dawn DiMicco joins us to talk about her life as a conservative Catholic who came out later in life after being married to a...
Episode 203: The Shame Game
25 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
“Shame is that warm feeling that washes over us, making us feel small, flawed, and never good enough.” - Brené Brown We explore the topic of sham...
Episode 202: OUT: the LGBTQ+ Social App
18 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Anna Harissis, Co-Creater and CEO of OUT: the LGBTQ+ Social App, joins us to discuss her amazing app that is helping the queer community connect and f...
Episode 201: Advice From a Husband
11 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we share some advice a husband shared with us on what could make this process easier on them.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www...
Episode 200: Life is Too Short for Mediocre
04 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's Our 200th Episode!! Hard to believe that our little decision back in June 2019 to record a podcast sharing our experiences of coming out later in...
Episode 199: Dating Women 101
28 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Who asks for the first date? Who plans it? Who pays?? All questions we didn't really have to think about while dating men but here we are. Melisa brea...
Episode 198: Heartbreak Hotel
20 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Coming out seems to be filled with heartbreak on multiple levels. This week Melisa and Alli discuss giving yourself permission to be sad (Yes, even ov...
Episode 197: Perrie Voss on Queer Joy
13 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Perrie Voss, Canadian award-winning actor, writer, editor, and producer, joins the show this week to talk about her award-winning series, Avocado Toas...
Episode 196: Travel Guilt
07 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel guilty for traveling without your kids? Alli and Melisa totally relate to that feeling. This week we talk about travel guilt and how ...
Episode 195: Where Do I Meet Women?
30 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're throwing out ideas on how to meet other people -- gay or straight. You never know who someone else might know, so hit up the dog park,...
Episode 194: Stacy Talks Dating After 50
23 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Our friend Stacy joins Alli to talk about dating over 50 and finally meeting the right person at 52.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.sp...
Episode 193: The Messy Middle (Ali's update)
16 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ali joins us again to give an update on The Messy Middle as she navigates meeting women and coping with her husband dating someone seriously.Become a ...
Episode 192: If It's Not a Hell Yes, It's a Hell No.
09 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Melisa and Alli chat about some TikTok drama and how there seems to be some patterns when it comes to your first same-sex relationship. NOTE: At one p...
Episode 191: Blend It Up
02 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Alli shares some things she has learned over the years blending a family of four children and how difficult it can be for all parties involved.Become ...
Episode 190: Opportunity Knocks
26 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Coming out can often feel very sexualized, this week we explore exactly why it shouldn't be and how coming out and living more authentic lives has cre...
Episode 189: Shady Sh*t
19 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What qualifies as emotional cheating? And how do you protect your relationship with your partner and prevent a friendship from evolving into something...
Episode 188: Meet Dariella (Second Friday ATL)
12 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dariella Blanco joins us to talk about Second Friday Atlanta and what it was like to grow up in Venezuela knowing she was lesbian.Become a supporter o...
Episode 187: No Wrong Decisions
05 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are there truly any wrong decisions? Even when it feels like a decision might be the wrong one -- in the end it's the path you're supposed to be on.Be...
Episode 186: Neurodivergent Queer Coach
26 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
NeuroQueer coach Pasha Marlowe, MFT joins us this week to discuss the link between neurodiversity people and coming out later in life.Become a support...
Episode 185: Only the Lonely
19 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa catch up on life and reflect on how the fear of being alone can feel so heavy. Also, the time that Melisa bought a woman red roses for...
Episode 184: Meet Ietta
12 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Our friend Ietta joins us this week to talk Ghost Hunting, Marathon Running and her quest to find the right woman -- or not because Ietta is perfectly...
Episode 183: Meet Zeno
05 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we are joined by Zeno! He shares his experience as a trans man and his evolving perspective on gender and sexuality.Become a supporter of th...
Episode 182: Investing 101
29 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we drop the coming out talk in favor of some financial advice. Alli shares her real estate investing knowledge and some tips to get you sta...
Episode 181: Perimenopause and The Messy Middle
22 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're joined by Aly to discuss how she and her husband are navigating the messy middle and how perimenopause played a role in her coming out...
Episode 180: Dear Past Self
15 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Melisa and Alli share advice from listeners on what they wish they could tell their past self prior to coming out.Become a supporter of this podcast: ...
Episode 179: Justifying the U-Haul with Jaime Filer
08 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We're kicking off 2023 with some advice from Mental and Physical Health Coach, Jaime Filer! Hear how your mental health plays into your physical healt...
Episode 178: Welcoming the New Year w/Dr. Jaime!
01 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Jaime Blandino joins Alli to kick off 2023 -- chatting about how the New Year brings new opprotunities!Become a supporter of this podcast: https:/...
Episode 177: Holiday Pep Talk
18 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Melisa is solo this week -- sharing stories of how people plan to spend the holdays and also taking space for those who might be alone this season. If...
Episode 176: Love Bomb Take 2
11 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa revisit the topic of love bombing -- how do you know if it's manipulative or you're just falling in love?Become a supporter of this po...
Episode 175: Talking Sexy Time w/Julia Hoffman
04 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Julia from Bloomer's Society is back and we're diving deep into the sex talk!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/les...
Episode 174: Don't Let Your Past Dictate Your Future
27 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do relationships -- gay or straight -- truly have longevity? Melisa and Alli talk about the hardships couples face and how hard it is to commit to for...
Episode 173: But Moooooom...
20 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We branch off our conversation from last week about coming out to teenagers and why it's harder than coming out to the little ones.Become a supporter ...
Episode 172: Nikki's Story
13 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Nikki shares her coming out story and how she told her teenage daughters about her newfound sexuality.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www....
Episode 171: Andrea L. Pino-Silva/The Curve Foundation
06 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week we chat with scholar, author, and activist Andrea L. Pino-Silva about her work to spread awareness about global gender based violence, worki...
Episode 170: Imposter Syndrome
30 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Coming out later often brings on the feeling of imposter syndrome, like we are somehow going to be found as a fraud in the LGBTQ community. Melisa and...
Episode 169: Julia from Bloomer's Society (Part 3)
23 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Part three with Julia where we talk more about helping straight men through the process of their wife's coming out -- and balancing relationships with...
Episode 168: Julia from Bloomer's Society (Part 2)
16 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week we have Part 2 with Julia from Bloomer's Society where she shares what it was like to tell her children about her divorce, and also that she...
Episode 167: Julia from Bloomers Society (Part 1)
09 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A long awaited episode, we are joined by Julia Hoffman from Bloomers Society. She talks about her own coming out and how she started her own community...
Episode 166: Oya Turns It Gay (Part 2)
02 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Part 2 with Oya from the band Fruit For All! She talks more about coming out to her Turkish family and what the future may look like!Become a supporte...
Episode 165: Oya Turns It Gay! (Part 1)
25 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Our friend Oya joins us to talk about her band Fruit For All and their upcoming gig in Atlanta, along with the beginning of her coming out story which...
Episode 164: Should Your Kids Meet Your Girlfriend?
18 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When is the right time to introduce your kids to someone you're dating? Alli and Melisa share their experiences -- and how the end of some of their re...
Episode 163: Lesbian Orphan
11 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week we had the opportunity to chat with Lindsay, an artist and musician from San Diego. She shares the highs and lows of her coming out story --...
Episode 162: Debbie Downer
04 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Not gonna lie, this episode is a bit of a downer. Alli and Melisa catch up on what's been going on in their lives -- including Melisa's trip to Croati...
Episode 161: Throw The Whole Life Out
21 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Alli and Melisa reflect on how life has evolved since coming out... from being fearful of what was ahead to now feeling more and more settled financia...
Episode 160: Dr. Jaime: Integrity Not Defined By Avoiding Hurting Someone's Feelings
14 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Jaime talks about friendships that can feel like relationships and why the fear of hurting someone's feelings can make it so difficult to end roma...
Episode 159: Dr. Jaime: Coming Out Is Not Black or White
07 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Jaime is back! We talk parenting after divorce, dealing with limited time with your kids, the COST of admission and how the things after coming ou...
Episode 158: Should I Come Out?
31 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you really need to come out publicly? Or is just information you want to keep to your inner circle? We talk about how we go about sharing our relat...
Episode 157: You Can't Go Home Again
24 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when your former person has a new person? Melisa and Alli talk about how our relationships with our exhusband's have shifted since our di...
Episode 156: Mormon No More (Part 2)
17 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Lena and Sally from Hulu's Mormon No More talk blending families. And there's no shortage of kids here -- 7 kids in 7 years. Yup.Become a supporter of...
Episode 155: Mormon No More (Part 1)
10 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sally and Lena from Hulu's Mormon No More share their stories of not only coming out later, but coming out of Mormonism.Become a supporter of this pod...
Episode 154: Tales from the Catalyst
03 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We're talking catalysts again -- and how things that happened in those relationships have impacted other current relationships -- in positive ways too...