Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Episodes
“When a Relationship’s Right, It’s Easy” . . . WRONG! | Matt Monday
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What makes a relationship truly great? Does it have to be hard to be meaningful? In today’s video, I speak with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor...
They Left? This Reaction Can Shift Everything | Rewind
15 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into panic mode.Why are they doing this? How ca...
Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But w...
The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Which One Are You Stuck In? (Matt Monday)
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relation...
This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG | Rewind
08 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, you will see that the ability to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential will save you a lot of grief and...
How to Know When to Walk Away
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a lot of talk in modern dating of red flags, but what if you just disagree early on, and don’t know if this is a sign of doom ahead, or si...
They Were Perfect… So Why Did It Still End? | Matt Monday
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the key to making love last isn’t a grand romantic gesture or constant excitement . . . but learning how to fight the right enemy? In this p...
5 Secrets to Finding Love Even If You Hate Dating | Rewind
01 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful r...
Why Intimacy Feels SO Good With the WRONG People – Shan Boodram
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we sometimes get ghosted or friend-zoned after intimacy? How can we navigate mismatched libidos, steer clear of toxic intimacy with the wrong p...
How to Break the Cycle & STOP Chasing the WRONG Person | Matt Monday
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we keep crashing into the same walls in love? In this conversation with Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast, we explore the patterns ...
How to Make Them See You as More Than Just a Hookup | Rewind
25 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
So you slept with a guy. It was good. But now you wake up and have that awkward moment... what now? And how do you keep him attracted afterwards? Peop...
Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And It’ll Never Last)
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if it’s love or obsession? What does it mean when you can’t stop thinking about someone who doesn’t return your feelings? In thi...
The Real Reason You Haven’t Found Love (Yet) | Matt Monday
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we chase the wrong people and even push away the relationships we say we want? In this week’s episode, I speak with entrepreneur and bestsell...
How to Keep Them Thinking About You Early On | Rewind
18 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You know those tricky early dates? You go for drinks. Maybe a picnic. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy similar taste in mo...
Subtle Flirting Moves That Actually Work
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Does flirting make you nervous? Not sure how to make the first move? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey break down invisible flirting techn...
Give Me 10 Minutes...I’ll Save You 10 Years Wasted on the WRONG Person | Matt Monday
14 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck obsessing over someone who’s wrong for you? In this week’s epsiode, I dive into the concept of limerence—the unhealthy fixation on...
The BRUTALLY Honest Reason They Stop Chasing in a Relationship | Rewind
11 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When we first date someone, we can’t keep our hands off them. All we want to do is take them home and spend all night in bed together. But what abou...
Why Finding Love Starts With Redefining Success (Feat. Sahil Bloom)
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, Matthew is joined by bestselling author Sahil Bloom, whose book The Five Types of Wealth challenges everything we think we know ...
They Ghosted You? Here’s the Only Response That Wins | Matt Monday
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. It’s like the floor suddenly dropped out from under you. But here’s the truth: Ghosti...
You’ll Push Them Away if You Try Too Hard. Do This Instead | Rewind
04 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode of Love Life, I speak with Sarah who had just started dating her "dream guy" before things took a turn for the worst when she l...
How To Know If They Have Relationship Potential In Early Dating (Feat. Dr. Morgan Cutlip)
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating,...
It Took Me 38 Years to Realize What I’ll Tell You in 10 Minutes... | Matt Monday
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this we...
"Bad Texter" or Just Not That Into You? | Rewind
27 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.But what about wh...
“I’m nearly 40 and feel rushed to find love…help!”
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like time is running out to find love? Whether you’re worried about starting a family, comparing yourself to friends who are coupled up,...
The Brutal TRUTH About Relationships You Need to Hear | Matt Monday
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I have something really cool to share today. This is a conversation I had with Jay Shetty for his On Purpose podcast, where we talked about the modern...
#1 Mindset to Conquer Rejection | Rewind
20 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What could possibly be more painful than rejection? Turns out, there's one feeling that IS. In this week's Rewind episode, I reveal what it is and sha...
Essential Insights for Understanding an Avoidant
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? When this happens, it’s e...
“4 Things They Notice (and Fall for) in the First 30 Days” | Matt Monday
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What makes someone truly irresistible in the early stages of dating? In this episode, I share four powerful ways to boost your attractiveness in the f...
Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out | Rewind
13 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week’s video will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress. I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask your...
Letting Go of the Life You Thought You’d Have: Grief, Truth, and Rebuilding Connection w/ Mary Fisher
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew sits down with artist, activist, and author Mary Fisher (@maryfisher), whose landmark 1992 speech at the Republican National ...
18 Minutes to Move on From Your Ex | Matt Monday
09 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck comparing everyone you meet to an ex who felt like “the one”? In this new video, you’ll learn why we hold on to past relationships...
5 Pieces of Texting Advice That Lead to Commitment | Rewind
06 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When you’re texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you’re in a texting rut, and keep havi...
They Don’t Commit Until These 4 Things Are True
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What really makes someone commitment-worthy in dating? And what qualities do we need to make sure are there if we want someone to choose us? In t...
Why No One Wants to Commit Anymore | Matt Monday
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does commitment seem so hard right now?In this week’s video, Matthew sits down with entrepreneur and speaker Anas Bukhash to talk about everythi...
How to Cut Out a Toxic Person | Rewind
30 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we stay in relationships that erode our confidence, self-worth, and happiness? In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of trauma bonds a...
Dating After Divorce, Addiction, and Choosing the Right Love w/ Laurie Woolever
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Matthew sits down with Laurie Woolever—author of Care and Feeding: A Memoir—to explore the journey...
How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without Playing Games | Matt Monday
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The rules of modern dating can feel so confusing. You don’t know how much texting is too much, how to make the first move, or whether to keep trying...
3 Signs They're Not Serious About You | Rewind
23 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can you relate to this . . .You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm, but ...
Don't Let These Silent Killers Destroy Your Relationship
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What REALLY kills relationships? We often think it’s huge differences in personality or values that cause break ups, but just as often it’s the sm...
What Emotionally Available Love Actually Looks Like | Matt Monday
19 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does emotionally available love really look like? In this new video, I break down six key signs of emotional availability so you can spot the dif...
They Said They Wanted You, Then Pulled Away? HERE’S WHY… | Rewind
16 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s Rewind episode, I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (whic...
7 Secrets Of Making Relationships Last (Proven by Experts!)
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into what truly makes a long-term relationship successful—beyond the clichés. Whether you’re in a new relations...
How to Choose the Right Person: Matt Monday
12 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a pattern of falling for the wrong people, you’re not alone—but that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to re...
If They're Sending Mixed Signals, Send THIS Text | Rewind
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same ...
Matthew and Audrey Solo: What to Do When Someone Pulls Away, Managing Social Anxiety, and Our Quarterly Audit for 2025
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Matthew and Audrey sit down for a review of the last quarter of the year and dive into the hidden forces that shape our relationships ...
Why the Best People Fall for Emotionally Unavailable Partners | Matt Monday
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do amazing people—kind, self-aware, emotionally intelligent—keep falling for partners who can’t meet them halfway? In this week’s video, w...
How to STOP Thinking About Your Ex | Rewind
02 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever found yourself stuck thinking about an ex who’s no longer in your life? It’s a painful trap, but one that so many of us fall into wh...
Why They Act Interested, Then Disappear... (The REAL Reason)
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do great dates sometimes lead to radio silence? In this new Love Life episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into the mystery of why...
7 Texts That Build Attraction and Leave Them Wanting More | Matt Monday
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever sent a text and immediately wished you could take it back—or worse, been met with silence? In this week’s new video, I’m sharing 7...
If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Your Heart Broken | Rewind
25 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if someone’s really over their ex?Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the...
You Know They’re Wrong for You… So Why Can’t You Let Them Go?
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations? In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen div...
5 Ways to Flirt When You’re Afraid They Won’t Reciprocate | Matt Monday
21 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone you’re into, it can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to show interest, but...
Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Rewind
18 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an...
The Red Flags You SHOULD Be Paying Attention To
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you walking away too fast—or staying when you shouldn’t?In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in d...
7 Essential Mindsets for Surviving Modern Dating | Matt Monday
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’m so done with dating,” this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and it’s easy to see the pro...
If Your Ex Moved On Too Fast, WATCH THIS! | Rewind
11 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Breakups are incredibly hard.And a split can be even more excruciating when your partner moves on while you’re still healing.It can leave you with a...
How to Flirt When You’re Not Confident
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, Matthew, Audrey, Stephen, and producer David dive deep into one of the most common struggles in dating: flir...
The Psychology of Modern Men and The Relationship Recession | Matt Monday
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If finding love feels harder than ever in 2025, it’s not just you.In today’s episode, I explore the cultural shifts and challenges that are fuelin...
They’ve Pulled Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE | Rewind
04 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away?It feels awful.You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry ...
The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "W...
What Makes Men Ready for Commitment | Ft. Lewis Howes | Matt Monday
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitment—even when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really tak...
How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without “Playing It Cool” | Rewind
28 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much intere...
How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Insecurities
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating — from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked...
Stop Chasing Your ‘Type’ & Start ATTRACTING Your PERSON | Matt Monday
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone ...
The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Them Want MORE With You | Rewind
21 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . .But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to ke...
Should You Date Your 'Type'? (The Truth No One Tells You)
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey have a candid conversation about whether dating your "type" is actually helping or hurting your chances o...
The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Anora | Matt Monday
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be ...
If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead | Rewind
14 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your...
Green Flags vs. Red Flags: How to Tell If They’re Relationship Material
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the new re-branded Love Life Podcast, where Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen bring you fresh relationship insights, answer your ...
4 Crucial Steps to Know If Someone Is Right for You | Matt Monday
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We tell ourselves we have high standards—but is that actually true? Or are we just prioritizing the wrong things? And what if we meet someone who’...
Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! | Rewind
07 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someo...
Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Do THIS | Ft. Yung Pueblo
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew sits down once again with Yung Pueblo, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of "How To Love Better", to explore deep...
Yung Pueblo on Signs Your Relationship Will Last | Matt Monday
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We ...
How to Get More Serious Without Scaring Them Away | Rewind
28 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week’s video is about moving in together.But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth t...
When They Tell You They Can’t Be in a Relationship...
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you struggling with heartbreak after falling for someone who says they can’t be with you? In this episode, Matthew unpacks what it rea...
Top Questions About “No Contact” After a Breakup | Matt Monday
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything bec...
The #1 SIGN That Relationship WON'T LAST & How To End It... | Rewind
21 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second...
How to Handle Heartbreak on Valentine’s Day
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pa...
Q&A: Red Flags, Heartbreak, And Getting Closure
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbr...
The Real Reason Your Ex Broke Up With You | Matt Monday
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just ...
5 Valentine's Day Mistakes You Need to AVOID This Year | Rewind
14 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day?Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to sk...
Don’t Do These 4 Things After a Breakup… | Matt Monday
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that ac...
This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG | Rewind
07 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between sh...
The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life
06 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time n...
Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship | Matt Monday
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might c...
5 First Date Tips That Make Them Want You More | Rewind
31 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date?Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper...
5 Small Habits to Change Your Love Life TODAY
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into:Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your...
5 Behaviors That Push People Away (Without You Realizing) | Matt Monday
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be ...
They’re "Not Sure" They Can Commit to You? These Words Put YOU in Control | Rewind
24 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .” Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming...
"Why ‘New Year, New Me’ Is a Lie – The Truth About Change"
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practica...
Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut | Matt Monday
20 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve...
What Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person Looks Like | Rewind
17 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can you relate to this?You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the...
Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from ...
Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New... | Matt Monday
13 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy ...
The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart | Rewind
10 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I...
How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of&nbs...
How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps | Matt Monday
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life ...
Don't Even Think About Rekindling With Your Ex Until You Watch This... | Rewind
03 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace?It’s a profound form of mental torture.All kinds of fears enter your...
The #1 Tool to Reduce Anxiety in Your Relationships w/ Mel Robbins
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins), that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, re...
The 3 Biggest Money RED FLAGS in Relationships… | Matt Monday
28 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements ...