Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Top 5 Dating Myths Holding You Back in Love | Rewind

27 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

You know what drives me soooo crazy?Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again.And I don’t blame anyon...

10 Ways to Get Over “Dating Disappointment” | Matt Monday

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you fe...

When You Feel Alone After Heartbreak (3 Secrets To Moving On) | Rewind

20 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice?Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have t...

The Subtle Signs You're Forcing a Relationship With the Wrong Person

18 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating ...

7 Crucial Steps to LET GO and MOVE ON From Someone | Matt Monday

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re w...

When They Say "I Need Time," You Say This... | Rewind

13 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly ...

3 Levels Of Confidence That Define Your Life (W/ Ed Mylett)

11 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I had so many amazing conversations while promoting my new book "Love Life" in 2024, and this month I want to share some clips from a few of my favori...

Don't Fall Into A One-Sided Relationship. Do This... | Matt Monday

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been in a one-sided relationship? Where you are always giving more and the other person takes your effort for granted? And looking back,...

6 Texts That Lead to Real Dates | Rewind

06 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was y...

My Biggest Life Lessons From 2024

04 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this special episode, as we come into the final month of the year, I want to sit down and share some of my personal thoughts and lessons from 2024....

Why It Feels Nearly Impossible to Leave a Narcissist | Matt Monday

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why does it feel nearly impossible to leave a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in a narcissistic relationship (whether it be romantic, a friends...

What You Need to Do When You Meet Someone You Like | Rewind

29 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze every message they sent with your...

How to Stop Yourself Over-investing in Early Dating

27 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself ...

6 Signs They’re Serious About You | Matt Monday

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How do you find out where you really stand with someone? It's often hard figuring out how someone else sees your relationship potential, and finding t...

They Told You They Wanted a Break? Here's the Perfect Response | Rewind

22 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break?You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you t...

"My Partner Reconnected With Their Ex...Should I Be Worried?"

20 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being un...

7 Reasons You’ll Never Get Closure From a Narcissist | Matt Monday

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do...

3 Ways You’re Accidentally Scaring Them Away (and How to Stop) | Rewind

15 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t ...

How to Stop Obsessing in Early Dating | Matt Monday

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How do you stop obsessing over someone you’ve recently started dating? When someone seems to tick all our boxes, it can be hard to NOT become floode...

3 Simple Ways to Get Them to Call You Instead of Just Texting | Rewind

08 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them.We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels ...

Why It’s Actually Good to “Settle” in Love | Feat. Oliver Burkeman

06 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today it's my pleasure to sit down with the excellent Oliver Burkeman (@oliverburkeman), author of the new book "Meditation for Mortals", which I've f...

5 Mindsets to Heal Your Heartbreak | Matt Monday

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

THIS is one of the top reasons why a breakup can feel so raw . . . You may have only recently let your guard down and shown your real feelings, o...

They Left? This Reaction Makes Them Fight for You | Rewind

01 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into "panic mode."Why are they doing this? How ...

Q&A: Defining the relationship, Getting back with an ex, Standing out on a date

29 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week, I answered your questions live on a host of dating topics! Come join and listen in! ---►► Learn What It Takes to Get Real, Lasting Comm...

If You Want To Find Love With The Right Person, Pay Attention To THIS... | Matt Monday

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Tired of dating the wrong people? When we really want to find a relationship, saying “no” to the people who don’t align with our core values can...

How to Be Brave in Love After You’ve Been Hurt | Rewind

25 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love?Those wounds can stay with us a long time. They can stop us from taking chances again in love.They ca...

Commitment Q&A with Matt, Audrey and Stephen!

23 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week Stephen sits down with Matt and Audrey to talk about all things commitment (including some questions about their own relationship!)Topics in...

How to Attract People Who WANT Commitment | Matt Monday

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why is it that we seem to be attracted to certain people who only give us scraps of attention? It often happens when we tell ourselves that someone is...

What Makes Someone Suddenly Commit? | Rewind

18 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been with someone you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all their friends that they just “weren’t ...

Live Q&A - Know if They're Ready for Commitment, Should You Leave the door Open After a Breakup?

17 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt went live on Instagram and YouTube and answered YOUR questions! We talk about male role models, knowing if someone is willing to truly commit, an...

"He Still Won't Commit After 2 Years"...What's The Best Move Now?

16 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt and Audrey answer a question from a listener in an exclusive "situationship" with someone she truly connects with, but who still doesn't want to ...

How to Make Someone Choose YOU (Even if They Have Lots of Options) | Matt Monday

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you struggled to find people who actually want commitment? Do you feel like you’re always trying to persuade someone why a relationship is a go...

5 Dating Hacks That Boost Attraction AND Connection | Rewind

11 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s...

Esther Perel - Part Two! The Best Advice for Finding Love Today

09 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Esther Perel returns for part two of our chat on all things modern dating and sexual communication in relationships. In this episode, Matt and Es...

The Hidden Reason They’re Not Committing to You... | Matt Monday

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever found yourself in the “casual zone” with someone you’re dating . . . and it seems impossible to escape it? When it started, you we...

Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE | Rewind

04 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . . You go on a date with someone and hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon...

Esther Perel’s Advice On Modern Dating, Sexuality, And Communicating In Relationships

02 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we're joined by world renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel! In this conversation, Matt and Esther talk about...

What To Do When They Aren’t Asking You Questions on a Date | Matt Monday

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“Were we even on the same date?” I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many ...

Should You REALLY Call Them Before The First Date? Here’s My Answer… | Rewind

27 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s strange how we often feel more comfortable with the idea of going on a date with a stranger than talking on the phone. But isn’t it a go...

Grief Expert Shares The Worst Thing to Do After Heartbreak w/ David Kessler

26 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What are some practical ways we can deal with the grief we'll face in our lives? How do we stay present and not get lost in the painful stories and tr...

Healing from Heartbreak And Grief w/ David Kessler | Matt Monday

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever suffered a loss you’ve never really moved on from? It could be someone you loved. It could be a failure, or the loss of a life you tho...

13 Subtle Ways to Make Someone Want More With You | Rewind

20 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of...

Protect Yourself In Dating With This Mindset

18 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find some relationships and situations in life that just drain you? Maybe there are people you're investing energy into in your dating life tha...

Why Does Dating Feel So Hard In 2024?? | Matt Monday

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why does dating feel so difficult today? It can often seem like it’s a competition to see who can be more “aloof,” who can care less, who can tr...

If They Pull Away, Text This Response... | Rewind

13 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simp...

"I Want A Serious Relationship, But They Want To 'See How Things Go'"

11 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How do you know is someone is ready for a relationship? What if they use phrases in their dating app like "If the right person came along, I'd be open...

How To Deeply Connect To The Hidden Power Of The Five Hearts w/ Kimberly Snyder

10 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today, Matthew and Audrey sit down for an enlightening conversation with Kimberly Snyder, author of “The Hidden Power of The Five Hearts”. Ki...

How To Respond To "Bare Minimum" Texting | Matt Monday

09 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ever found yourself sitting with your friends trying to "decode" what someone's texts mean, especially when they seem to be giving the bare minimum? A...

3 Mistakes People Make When It Comes To Exclusivity in Dating | Rewind

06 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s very easy to avoid having certain conversations in life. And one of the more dangerous forms of avoidance is assuming we’re exclusive when it...

He Seemed Attracted...Then Pulled Away. Why?

04 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ever felt like you had chemistry and were falling for someone, and then they seem to start texting less, stop scheduling dates, and seem to be fading ...

Feel Them Pulling Away? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! | Matt Monday

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ever been dating someone who suddenly goes cold when they go on a trip out of town? What happened? And how should you respond to this behavior? Today’...

Heal Your Broken Heart. Starting Now. | Rewind

30 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma.You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feel...

How to Get Over Narcissists, Cheating, and Heartbreak...the RIGHT Way

28 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". And in this reaction you may end up blaming...

Why They Commit to the NEXT Person | Matt Monday

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .” Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone...

3 Text Messages to Make Them Try Harder in Early Dating | Rewind

23 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like...

“He Was My First Real Love, And Broke My Heart…"

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know ...

Did You Lose "The One"? Here's What To Do Now. | Matt Monday

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feel...

3 Ways to Find Out If They Are Love Bombing You | Rewind

16 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . .You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just b...

Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)

15 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text...

My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again | Matt Monday

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want ...

3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating | Rewind

09 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out fir...

"I've Fallen For Someone I Work With...But He's Married"

08 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do if you meet someone who makes you feel accepted, safe, happy, and you truly connect...but they're already in a relationship? And even w...

How I Got Over Shyness and Social Anxiety (And You Can Too!) | Matt Monday

05 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Are you someone who dreads big social gatherings? Or you want to hide under the covers at the thought of being seen in a crowd, meeting new people, or...

What to Do When Your Ex Moves on RIDICULOUSLY FAST | Rewind

02 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When your ex moves on quickly, it can feel like a gut punch. It leaves you questioning everything – the relationship, your self-worth, and the ...

Bad Habits Don’t Have To Ruin Your Life. Do This Instead…

31 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you often give into your worst impulses? Feel like you’ve lost control and don’t know how you’ll reach your goals if you keep failing like th...

7 Steps To Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Matt Monday

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t...

You’re Dating Them, But They’re Not Texting Enough | Rewind

26 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when someone is great on a date, but they’re terrible at communication in between? They don’t reach out, they’re unresponsive, and ...

What To Do When The Attraction Isn’t Strong Enough…

25 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you me...

7 Things Narcissists Do That’ll Never Make Sense to You | Matt Monday

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What is a relationship with a narcissist really like?  If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself cons...

How to Get Over Someone You STILL Can't Get Over | Rewind

19 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What if you’ve been dating someone with whom you feel a truly unique and natural connection, but they have a fatal flaw that means a relationship is...

“How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”

17 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantl...

Feel Like You’ve Lost “The One”? | Matt Monday

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup...

4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast | Rewind

12 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour....

"Things Were Going Well... Then He Ended it Suddenly"

11 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family | Matt Monday

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?” Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We ar...

If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly. . . | Rewind

05 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast?You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked....

"I Can’t Get Over My Ex...Please Help Me Move On!”

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your instagram posts, respon...

Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS | Matt Monday

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attr...

Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People | Rewind

28 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested ...

“How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?”

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process ...

How to Heal From a Narcissistic Relationship | Matt Monday

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share t...

Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations In Relationships. Do THIS… | Rewind

21 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship. We come from a p...

Don’t Fall for THIS Early Dating Trap!

19 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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Long Distance Relationship? AVOID This Mistake | Matt Monday

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping...

Do You Feel You’re Giving Too Much in Relationships? | Rewind

14 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when you’re a giving person but you feel like your kindness gets taken advantage of in relationships? Maybe you feel like you’re al...

Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained)

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful ...

Why They ALWAYS Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends | Matt Monday

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?" This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q...

7 Surprising Signs They Like You... | Rewind

07 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode… How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes f...

Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does th...

7 Tests to Know If You’re Compatible | Matt Monday

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Is love enough to keep a relationship going? You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup. In today’s episode, ...

How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection | Rewind

31 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date… Or after pouring your heart and creativity into...

Q&A Episode! Answering YOUR Dating Questions

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up tex...

They Say They're Not Ready for a Relationship... | Matt Monday

27 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When we’re stuck in a situationship with someone who doesn’t know what they want, it’s incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and he...

They Say "I Just Can't Let You Go"? Listen To This... | Rewind

24 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been with someone who wants attention, connection, spends time with you...but they'll never commit? And when you ask them why they keep in to...

There Is No Such Thing as Right Person Wrong Time!

22 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like you lost "The One" because of bad timing? They moved country, they weren't ready to commit, or they hadn't matured enough yet?...

How To AVOID Dating "Players" | Matt Monday

20 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them? Sadly, it’s all too comm...

If You've Ever Been Ghosted or Lied to, Watch THIS | Rewind

17 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in...

Stop These Insecure Dating Behaviors! - w/ Sabrina Zohar

15 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar (sabrina.zohar) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a...

THIS Is The Most Dangerous Moment In Dating | Matt Monday

13 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

So you just realized you actually like someone? Hold up a second . . . When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very e...

5 Dating Hacks That Raise Their Attraction | Rewind

10 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s...