Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Episodes
Afraid You'll Never Find Love? You NEED to Hear THIS | Matt Monday
06 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Over the past week, so many of you have expressed how much Angela’s story in my new book, Love Life, touched you deeply (in the chapter titled “Ha...
11 Signs They're Serious About You | Rewind
03 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express...
How To Attract and Keep The Relationship You Really Want
01 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today Matt sits down with Lisa Bilyeu, author of Radical Confidence, to talk about how to escape our toxic cycles in relationships, overcoming lo...
Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Matt Monday
30 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement we can ...
5 Things to Know Before You “Netflix and Chill” With Someone
26 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve been on a date or two with someone and things are going pretty well. Then suddenly they ask you, “Wanna come over to my place and watc...
If You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People, Listen To This...
25 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We may not realise it, but many of us subconsciously hide from real love because it forces us to be honest and show who we really are. And when we get...
My Brother Stephen Interviews Me About My New Book!
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
My brother and I sit down to talk about why I wrote my new book "Love Life", how dating has changed in the last 10 years, choosing the right person, a...
4.5 Years Later... It's Here! (Huge Announcement)
23 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Friends...it's finally happening :) ---►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO ...
How to Deal With the Fear of Never Finding Your Person | Matt Monday
22 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
I’ve been asked this question several times a week for the last 10+ years. You may feel SO ready to share your life with someone . . . only to have ...
3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY | Rewind
19 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On dating apps, first impressions matter.And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s oft...
Why You SHOULDN'T Always Trust Your Instincts In Dating
18 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad p...
How To Find Love With Anxious Attachment
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "Liberated Love" and host of the Mark Groves&...
7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Dating | Matt Monday
15 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 thi...
Feeling Insecure About Their Ex? WATCH THIS | Rewind
12 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and...
Why You Should Feel Confident NOW
11 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only ...
THIS Is a Common Tactic Used to Avoid Commitment
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set bou...
Is A Great First Date A Red Flag? | Matt Monday
08 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazi...
Why Did They Stop Chasing You? | Rewind
05 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference betwe...
How To Have Honest Conversations About What We Want In Love
03 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship? It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line...
If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner... RUN! | Matt Monday
01 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Long-distance relationships are a tough gig. You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know wh...
5 Shortcuts to Finding Love (Even if You Hate Dating) | Rewind
29 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dating fatigue is real.Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful re...
What We Wish We Knew BEFORE Planning Our Wedding
27 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding!...
How Me and My Wife Met... (It's Not What You Think) | Matt Monday
25 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?” Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert ...
Don't Like Their Behavior? Use These 3 Simple Tips! | Rewind
22 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe ...
How To Feel Worthy Of Love
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? ...
Are They Emotionally Unavailable? DON'T CHASE, Do THIS! | Matt Monday
18 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back? Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk foo...
Do You Give Too Much In Relationships? Listen To This... | Rewind
15 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ignore red flags? Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships? Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your bou...
The Danger of Holding Out for "The One"
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone w...
The Most Dangerous Person in Dating... | Matt Monday
11 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “...
5 First-Date Moves That Make Them Want More | Rewind
09 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
People think going on a date with someone is simple.You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah bl...
Why Men Don't Open Up | Rob Dial
06 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, t...
Want To Find Love In 2024? AVOID This Mistake... | Matt Monday
04 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we na...
These TEXTING MISTAKES Keep You SINGLE... | Rewind
01 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating...If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere…And you’re wondering...
The Biggest Lessons From Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone
29 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice...
Why They Weren’t “THE ONE" | Matt Monday
26 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why does the end of a passionate short-term romance sometimes feel more devastating than a longer-term relationship? It’s because short-term romance...
Top 5 Reasons Why They Disappear On You | Rewind
23 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s so annoying. You finally decide you like someone. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine them as “futu...
How to Spot a Narcissist When Dating | Dr. Ramani
22 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today? In this ep...
How To Eliminate Self-Doubt TODAY w/ Jamie Kern Lima
21 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt? Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” ...
To Anyone Going Through a Breakup | Matt Monday
19 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Nothing leaves you feeling more alone than heartbreak. You feel lost, afraid, and sometimes you also feel deeply unworthy. The worst part is wondering...
THIS Could Be Sabotaging Your Relationships . . . | Rewind
16 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And ...
Playing Games Gets You More Attention - True or False? | Matt Monday
12 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever tried to keep someone’s attraction by “playing the game”? Maybe you’ve been tempted to respond less to texts, or try to hide the...
8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Someone On A Date | Rewind
09 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dating is tough.The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so mu...
3 Lessons to Get Over a Break Up
07 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
I recently went through an experience that felt a lot like a break up. And today I want to talk about it. If you've been through something like t...
Your Heartbreak Will Get Better the Moment You Watch This | Matt Monday
05 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know why heartbreak hits us as hard as it does? In today’s episode, I found the answer in an interview with the world-leading expert on grief...
Scared You’ll Never Get Over Them? Listen To This... | Rewind
02 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Matt, Stephen, and Audrey talk about how to handle a sudden break-up that knocks you sideways and shakes your confidence. How do you get over someone ...
I Asked You to Be HONEST About Your Dating Behaviors. Here’s What I Learned…
31 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! In this episode, Matt, Stephen and...
How to Keep Their Interest After the First Date (3 Things to Do) | Matt Monday
29 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, b...
Getting Less Attention Than You Used to? Listen To THIS | Rewind
26 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commi...
Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? Here's What You Should Know...
24 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can...
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need! | Matt Monday
23 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset.We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or ...
How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationships | Rewind
19 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We often learn our attachment style very early in life. And it can go on to affect all of our romantic relationships. But how? And to what extent shou...
How to Feel Confident: Self-Image Advice (With Cassandra Sethi)
17 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How often do you look at yourself and feel great in what you wear? Does your wardrobe fill you with dread or make you feel joy? In this episode, my wi...
Why Did They Invest, Then Pull Away?! | Matt Monday
15 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away? They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell...
The BIGGEST Male Insecurities in Dating Revealed . . . | Rewind
12 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
So this wasn’t the episode we’d planned to release this week . . . But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scr...
What Makes Someone Give Up Being Single? (feat. My wife Audrey)
10 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marria...
The #1 Way to Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums | Matt Monday
08 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . . But how can you find the people who are actually r...
5 Brutally Honest Reasons Someone Comes Back After A Break Up | Rewind
05 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as...
How to Make 2024 the Year You FIND LOVE | Matt Monday
01 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Want to find love in 2024? Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before Jan...
The Dangerous "High Value" Guy You Should Avoid | Rewind
29 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them? Maybe it’s their attractiveness or...
A Productivity Expert’s Advice For Finding Love Faster (with Ali Abdaal)
27 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the best way to think strategically about finding love in the coming year? In this episode I had a chance to speak with the excellent Ali Abd...
Are You Having a Complicated Christmas? | Matt Monday
25 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re dealing with loss, sickness, or loneliness, this time of year can serve to magnify whatever you’re going through. So in this ...
How to Get Attraction In The First Two Weeks | Rewind
22 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You know those tricky early dates?You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in mov...
Why You’ve Not Met the Right Person (Yet) | Matt Monday
18 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here’s a common problem I hear, You feel ready for a relationship. You’ve worked hard to improve yourself and you have high standards for the pers...
Why Men “Love Bomb” and What You Can Do About It | Rewind
15 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came? This ph...
If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Your Heart Broken | Matt Monday
11 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if someone’s really over their ex? Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten ov...
The BIG SIGNS You Should KEEP TRYING With Someone You're Dating | Rewind
08 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with someone is? Should you let them know you’d like to go on a date with them? And...
Does He Want More With You? (31 Signs to Look for) | Matt Monday
04 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings. In today’s episode, I dive int...
3 Ways To Be Happily Single Until You Find The Right Person | Rewind
01 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Life is too short to put off our happiness until we reach certain milestones. It's great to make finding a relationship a goal, but the journey to get...
How to Get Out of the Casual Dating Trap | Matt Monday
27 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the best way to go from casual to committed when you’re dating someone? There are two important things to remember here: • Our ...
Want a Deeper Connection? Let Down Your Guard | Rewind
24 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man?What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out?...
We Made a Movie! | Matt Monday
20 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Some very exciting news to share today . . . I made a movie! And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that ...
Love & Money: 5 Awkward Questions Answered (feat. Ramit Sethi) | Rewind
17 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
One thing no one ever warns you about happy relationships is just how many awkward conversations they can require you to have. And despite all the big...
17 Pieces of Texting Advice That Lead to Commitment | Matt Monday
13 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you're texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you're in a texting rut, and keep having t...
What Their Confusing Text REALLY Means . . . | Rewind
10 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been so frustrated by someone's mixed signals that you just decided to finally confront them and ask where you stand? It’s a scary mom...
12 Hard Truths You Need to Know to Avoid Toxic Relationships | Matt Monday
06 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt like you had to walk on eggshells in a relationship? Or had a partner who criticized you or made you feel bad when you were succeed...
3 Compliments That Create Deep Attraction | Rewind
03 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There's some really interesting psychology about compliments: not all of them have the same effect. You can give generic compliments, or you can ...
Ready to Give Up on Dating? Watch This . . . | Rewind
27 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.”...
How to Stop Addictive Thoughts About Someone Bad for You | Matt Monday
23 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?” When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems...
How To Like Yourself More Right Now | Rewind
20 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself. When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea tha...
Dangerous Red Flags That Are RISKY TO IGNORE | Matt Monday
16 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price. When you’re really attracted to someone, ...
How And When To Open Up In A Relationship | Rewind
13 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We often tell people they should be open in relationships. But what does it mean to be "open"? And can vulnerability become over-sharing, or is it alw...
How to Break the Toxic Patterns in Your Love Life (With Marie Forleo) | Matt Monday
09 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you find yourself always chasing the same type of people in dating? It can be incredibly frustrating when you get caught in fa...
What It Takes To Have Romance In Your Relationship | Rewind
06 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us as we talk about ...
Finding Love Whatever Your Age, Trusting Your Heart, And Handling Rejection (with Marie Forleo)
04 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you...
I Have a Huge Announcement | Matt Monday
02 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Pre-Order Your Copy of my new book "LOVE LIFE" & Join My Exclusive Launch Group Now at: LoveLifeBook.comThis is the biggest news I’ve revealed i...
How To Stand Out In Modern Dating | Rewind
29 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you keep getting flat responses to your text messages? Or find it hard to get things moving in the early stages of dating? In this episode, Ma...
Surviving Heartbreak | Matt Monday
25 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it does...
Don't Be Afraid Of Your Weirdness... | Rewind
22 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyo...
Doomed to Never Find Love? This Will Change Your Story... | Matt Monday
18 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether...
If You Love Them, But They Won't Change... | Rewind
15 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Becaus...
19 PRACTICAL Ways to Flirt and Create Chemistry in Early Dating | Matt Monday
11 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the secret formula for flirting? It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do ...
"What if we have different love languages?" | Rewind
08 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmatio...
Dating Advice That Will Change Your Entire Life | Matt Monday
04 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Get ready to put yourself in the shoes of some of the incredible women who attended our last Retreat, and hear the stories of how they’ve been able ...
If You Want To INSTANTLY Heal Your Heart Break, Listen To This. | Rewind
01 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-liste...
How To Get Over Your Ex (When You Still Obsess Over Them) | Matt Monday
28 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup. But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the perso...
Are You Most Productive When Single or In A Relationship? | Rewind
25 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to ju...
What You Need to Know BEFORE You Get Into a Relationship | Matt Monday
21 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”? This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get you...
One of the MOST Important Qualities For Any Relationship To Last | Rewind
18 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list...
3 Ways to Stop Obsessing Over Someone in Early Dating | Matt Monday
14 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you get excited about someone, it's easy to get caught in the trap of obsessive thinking. You try to move too quickly. You check your phone const...
Why You Should Stop Thinking They’re “The One That Got Away” | Rewind
11 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?" "Will I ever love someone that way again?" It's normal to go through feelings of pan...