Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Is Your Ego Destroying Your Love Life?

09 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle. Wh...

Don’t Fall Into Another Casual Situationship! Say THIS Instead… | Matt Monday

07 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s new episode, I talk with author and radio host Tanya Rad, who shares what she did to get what she wanted in dating and how she found her ...

How To Stop Comparison From Ruining Your Happiness | Rewind

04 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself always measuring your life against other people you know? Or are you worried about whether you have achieved enough, made enough ...

If Your Ex Moved On and Crushed You Completely, THIS Is How You Heal | Matt Monday

31 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When someone we hoped we would be with forever breaks up with us, the pain of heartbreak that follows can be akin to torture. Most of us have been the...

Two Questions You Can Ask To Test The Health Of Your Relationship | Rewind

28 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are some of the ways to know if you're in the right relationship? Are there ways you can stress test to see if it has long-term potential? In thi...

Want MORE From Someone... DO THIS Now | Matt Monday

24 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met. If you know your insecurity can lead your thoug...

The Most Important Qualities To Look For In A Long-Term Relationship | Rewind

21 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself with enormous checklists for your romantic partner? Are you often paralysed by a list of standards that no-one can live up to? In...

This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS | Matt Monday

17 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The question Audrey and I answer in this week’s new episode is an important one, because it happens to people All. The. Time! We’re all familiar w...

Use THIS Mindset If You're Starting Over In Love | Rewind

14 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When you have to find love after heartbreak, it can shatter your world. You are in a world you never thought you would be in, and life can feel very d...

Why You Want Them MORE When They’re “Not Sure” About You… | Matt Monday

10 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you one of those people who “loves the chase” in dating? You meet someone, you find them attractive, maybe even go on a date, and you start to...

How To Go From Dating App To REAL Conversation | Rewind

07 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Find yourself stuck with endless texting on dating apps? How much contact should you make before an in-person date? It's always tricky knowing when to...

3 Ways to Make Him Take You Seriously | Matt Monday

03 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How do you tell the difference between someone who is avoidant, and someone who just takes things slowly? Are you tired of someone who waste your time...

When You’re Afraid Of Getting Too Invested Too Quickly… | Rewind

30 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do if you fall for someone too fast? Or you find yourself waiting by the phone for their next text? If this happens to you frequently, it ...

Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...(Part 2)

28 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What's your most repeated dating mistake? Sometimes it takes looking back in our past relationships to notice the patterns that have reoccurred s...

3 Signs He's Not Serious About You | Matt Monday

26 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Can you relate to this . . . You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm...

When He Fears Commitment Because He Doesn’t Want To Be Changed… | Rewind

23 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever dated someone who is afraid of commitment? There are many reasons a person can prefer to be unattached, or even fear getting into relationships. ...

Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...

21 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you noticed a recurring pattern in your dating life? Or have you maybe repeated certain mistakes in relationships that you can't seem to stop doi...

For Anyone Who Feels Rejected or Invisible in Dating | Matt Monday

19 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Dating doesn’t feel magical and fun when nothing seems to be going our way.  Sometimes it feels as though love and attention come easy to ...

What Makes The “Bad Boy” Attractive To Chase… | Rewind

16 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We've all heard the cliche of why it's more intoxicating to date a "bad boy", but why do people so often pursue people who put them on an emotional ro...

Sexual Confidence & How to Show It (with Emily Morse)

14 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today I'm joined by the fantastic and insightful Emily Morse. Emily is a sex therapist, author and media personality and host of the 'Sex With Emily' ...

DON'T CHASE After Sleeping Together DO THIS Instead | Matt Monday

12 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sex can either be a massive turning point for a new relationship, or a gateway to more anxiety and pressure . . . This is because even though we may w...

How To Stop Obsessing Over "The One" | Rewind

09 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does the pursuit of a “soulmate” hold you back from finding love? In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew look at what happens when we get caught ...

Afraid to Ask Where It's Going? WATCH THIS | Matt Monday

05 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When is the appropriate time to ask where a relationship is going? If you’ve been seeing someone for a month and are sleeping together . . . can you...

Are You Choosing The Right "Type" Of Person To Date? | Rewind

02 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We often feel like attraction is not a choice in dating. But the decision of who we choose for a life partner is 100% a decision, and it requires us t...

Let Go, Move On, and HEAL Your Broken Heart

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?" It's such a common story...

Scared It Won't Work Out? Use These 5 Questions to Know... | Matt Monday

29 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How do you really know if you're dating "The One"? Do you just know when it's right, or are there signs this person is the perfect partner for you? In...

Don’t Mistakes These Behaviours As Signs Of Commitment | Rewind

26 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When you fall for someone, it's all-too-easy to misinterpret signs of their affection or presence as signs of them wanting a future commitment. But un...

The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Him Want MORE With You | Matt Monday

22 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to k...

Don't Do THIS If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist... | Rewind

19 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's hard enough dealing with a toxic relationship, but it's even worse if you don't have a strong sense of boundaries to put up when you see behaviou...

Choosing The Relationship You Want, Overcoming Jealousy, and Understanding Men/Women (w/ Candice Horbacz)

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I'm super excited to share this excellent conversation I had with podcaster Candice Horbacz, host of "Chatting With Candice".In this episode, we talk ...

They’ve Pulled Away?? AVOID THIS MISTAKE | Matt Monday

15 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worr...

Why People Disappear When You Show Interest | Rewind

12 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest? It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play ga...

How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without "Playing It Cool" | Matt Monday

08 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest...

The Subtle Art Of Effective Flirting | Rewind

05 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it? In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtl...

How To Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex's Life After A Breakup

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you found yourself checking up on an ex on social media after a break up? Maybe you even found yourself jealous upon finding out they were doing ...

This Confusing Phrase is Actually a Major RED FLAG | Matt Monday

01 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever stayed with someone in spite of them saying they weren't interested in something serious? Perhaps you'd hoped that with enough time, the...

"What If He Changes For Someone Else?" | Rewind

28 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes you have to let someone go because of the pain they bring to your life. But what if they seem to improve their behaviour with their next par...

Overcoming Loneliness, Beating Failure, And Rediscovering Connection (with Christopher Robbins)

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever struggled with a failure you weren’t sure how to recover from? Want to live an adventurous, inspired, and happier life? In this episode, I...

Why You're ADDICTED to Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Break the Habit) | Matt Monday

24 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just o...

Why Your Path To Relationship Will Look Different To Everyone Else’s | Rewind

21 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You might see you're friends in relationships and wonder: "why haven't I found someone yet?". It's tempting in these moments to self-criticise or wond...

Powerful Healing Habits After Heartbreak - w/ Martha Higareda

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, I had the absolute pleasure of interviewing actress, entrepreneur, and screenwriter Martha Higareda. She is a beautiful soul and a...

Matthew McConaughey’s Dating Advice | Rewind

17 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today’s interview with Matthew McConaughey is instantly one of my most popular interviews of the last 10 years. Thank you so much if you listen...

Is Having A "Backup Person" Cheating? | Rewind

14 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A recent dating study showed that many people have what is known as a "back-burner relationship". And many people date today while also still being in...

Why Do They Always Come Back? | Matt Monday

10 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your...

How To Talk About Your Insecurities In A Relationship | Rewind

07 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it u...

How A Lack Of Confidence Is Holding Back Your Love Life

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We asked YOU this week how not having confidence affects your love life, and you answered! It's only when we really ask ourselves this question that w...

The Truth Behind WHY They Won’t Commit to You | Matt Monday

03 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you fallen for a guy who says he’s “confused”? He really likes you and spends time with you, but isn’t sure if he’s ready for a real co...

What People Really Fall in Love With… | Rewind

31 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's easy to find yourself comparing your attractiveness to others in dating. We compare our looks, our job, our body, our wealth...and we can easily ...

The Science Of The Biological Clock (And What YOU Can Do About It)

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When you’re looking for a partner to have a family with, the pressure of the timeline imposed on you by your biological clock can make the whole pro...

LET GO, MOVE ON, and HEAL After a Toxic Relationship | Matt Monday

27 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportuni...

Keeping the Attraction Alive in A Relationship | Rewind

24 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today's clip, my brother Stephen and I talk about one of the biggest ingredients that keeps attraction going in the early dating stage (can you gue...

Unlocking The Truth About Modern Masculinity (with Justin Baldoni)

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today I wanted to share a great conversation with special guest Justin Baldoni. He is an actor, a filmmaker, a writer, a speaker, and someone who caug...

Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Matt Monday

20 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an...

If You're Thinking About OTHER PEOPLE In A Relationship, Listen To This. | Rewind

17 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new lay...

Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Matt Monday

13 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over, and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement, we ca...

Men vs Women in a Breakup. Who Suffers More? | Rewind

10 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that men and women respond differently to breakups? My brother Stephen and I talked about recent research that showed differences in how ...

Finding Your Greatness In Love And Relationships (with Lewis Howes)

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This week, our special guest is New York Times Bestseller, entrepreneur, and host of the "School of Greatness" podcast, Lewis Howes! Lewis joins Matt ...

Why You Need To Stop The Obsession With Tall Men | Matt Monday

06 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does your dating life feel like you’re living in the extremes . . . where you’re either super-attracted to someone who treats you poorly, or you f...

If You Feel Like You LOST The One, Listen To This! | Rewind

03 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all experienced this relentless form of self-torture . . . Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself lookin...

Your BIGGEST Fears In Life (And How To Overcome Them)

01 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We asked you what your biggest fears for the future were, and you answered! No matter how confident we feel, we all have worries about what lies ahead...

Are They Pulling Away or Are You Just Anxious? 5 Ways to Know | Matt Monday

27 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Listening to our gut when something’s off can save us a lot of time and stress when we’re dating . . . but what if we can’t tell the difference ...

"You Need To Be Happy Alone Before You Date"...Truth or Myth? | Rewind

24 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I don’t like it when I hear people say, “You need to be happy first before you find a relationship.” It’s not that the sentiment is a bad one,...

How To Lead Yourself And Build Your Dream Career (with Amy Porterfield)

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we have a special guest: “accidental” entrepreneur and online marketing expert Amy Porterfield!  Matt and Amy discuss:How to lead ...

Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! | Matt Monday

20 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone ...

STOP WAITING For Them To Message And Do THIS Instead | Rewind

17 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from them ;) You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message they send is like sweet honey for you...

The Allure Of The “Alpha Male”

15 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today, Matt answers a question from a listener who feels she is independent, successful, and ambitious, but is only meeting guys who fit a more "beta"...

3 Steps to Breaking Your Toxic Dating Cycle | Matt Monday

13 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When everybody seems to have found “their person,” it can make us feel so behind and deeply afraid. This is the very moment we fall prey to saying...

If You're Not Where You Want To Be By Now, Listen To This... | Rewind

10 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships. But as it...

The 8 Rules of Love + Finding The Right Person (with Jay Shetty)

08 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today I’m thrilled to share this conversation with the excellent Jay Shetty. We talk about everything from learning to love your own company, living...

6 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart | Matt Monday

06 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what y...

Want Them To Open Up? Use These Words… | Rewind

03 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Find it annoying when your partner doesn't open up and share with you? Then check out this short clip where I show you the simple but amazing power of...

YOUR BIGGEST Fears In Dating (And How To Get Over Them)

01 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We asked YOU for your biggest fears in dating and you gave us answers!In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about the common fears i...

How to AVOID Dating Time Wasters | Matt Monday

30 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt like a magnet for avoidants or wondered if commitment-phobic people are all that’s left in the dating pool? It’s as if you...

Just Broke Up? This Conversation Will Give You the Closure You Need | Rewind

27 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A huge number of relationships that end, should end. But how do we know if ‘ours’ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: “Did I...

How Does Money Complicate Love? (With Ramit Sethi)

25 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all like to think that love transcends all other issues, especially that of money.  But our BELIEFS about money say a lot about what we v...

Why Is It When You Finally Move On, They COME BACK... | Matt Monday

23 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you experienced a situation where in spite of having dated someone for a short time, it took you weeks (sometimes even months) to start to feel l...

The Mindset Everyone Needs For A Beautiful Relationship (with Ed Mylett) | Rewind

20 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Shoutout to one of my favorite human beings @edmylett for giving me the honor of being a guest on his show. Love you brother. I urge all of ...

What Is Self Love? (with Humble The Poet)

18 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This is something a little different for you today. I wanted to share a beautiful conversation I had with my good friend Humble The Poet, where we tal...

14 Rules for Being a MAGNET in Love & in Business | Matt Monday

16 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself watching from the sidelines as other people you know go after and get the very things you most desire? Whether it’s love, an am...

5 Simple Steps to Open Up Your Heart to Love Again | Rewind

13 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most special moments in life is when we feel seen and in turn see somebody else for who they genuinely are. But this level of DEEP connecti...

The Most Important Love Advice You'd Give Yourself in Your 20s

11 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers. Join Matt, Audrey, Stephen and...

How to Get Over the Pain of Being Ghosted | Matt Monday

09 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where you’re haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone? It’...

How To Love Ourselves Like It's Our Job (with Lindsey Sterling) | Rewind

06 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling . So often in life we’re told how important it is to love ourselves without any...

Why We Become "Too Nice" When We Like Someone (And What To Do About It)

03 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Why is it we become “too nice” with someone we like? It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide we’re attracted to someone...

5 Mindsets for a Successful Love Life Starting Today | Matt Monday

02 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year, Friend!Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours t...

If You've Ever Had Trust Issues In A Relationship, Listen To This... | Rewind

30 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and sh...

What If I Love Him But The Sexual Spark Is Gone?

27 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Can you have a relationship that starts great - but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you're truly meant to be with? It's always a h...

Should You Lower Your Standards? | Matt Monday

26 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset o...

Is Modern Dating Destroying Commitment? | Rewind

24 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this week's rewind episode, I take a question from Khalani on why, in modern day dating, many people are hesitant to jump into a relationship. We a...

When Is "Casual Fun" Dangerous in Dating?

21 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Casual relationships and hook-ups are more common than ever. Some even talk about a "hook-up culture". But even though we have more choice than e...

When You Should STOP GIVING SO MUCH to a Relationship | Matt Monday

19 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in c...

6 Behaviors That Kill Relationships | Rewind

16 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you know what really makes relationships fall apart? I do. Having now coached for over 10 years on the topic of dating, I’ve seen the worst ...

How Do I Get Over Anger When My Ex Betrayed Me?

14 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ever been betrayed by someone you love? How about having an ex start dating your best friend after putting you through a toxic relationship? It can b...

5 Reasons You're Single That Have Nothing to Do With Love | Matt Monday

12 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

“Why am I still single?!?” If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matte...

Long-Distance Relationships: The Brutal Truth About How To Make Them Work | Rewind

09 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic. But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us...

5 Reasons You’re Still Single

07 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You might feel like you’re seeing all your friends in couples, and you wonder why it hasn’t happened to you yet. Although we can’t control ...

This Dangerous Guy Keeps You Single | Matt Monday

05 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I’m curious if you can relate to this . . . You know you have a lot to offer someone, but you can’t seem to get out of the cycle of dating th...

How To Recover When Your Ex Moves On Too Fast… | Rewind

02 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up.You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yours...

How To Handle A Toxic Relationship You Don’t Want To Lose

29 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, b...

Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean) | Matt Monday

27 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

“Let’s just take it day by day.” “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?...