Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Episodes
Is Modern Dating Destroying Commitment? | Rewind
24 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's rewind episode, I take a question from Khalani on why, in modern day dating, many people are hesitant to jump into a relationship. We a...
When Is "Casual Fun" Dangerous in Dating?
21 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Casual relationships and hook-ups are more common than ever. Some even talk about a "hook-up culture". But even though we have more choice than e...
When You Should STOP GIVING SO MUCH to a Relationship | Matt Monday
19 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in c...
6 Behaviors That Kill Relationships | Rewind
16 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know what really makes relationships fall apart? I do. Having now coached for over 10 years on the topic of dating, I’ve seen the worst ...
How Do I Get Over Anger When My Ex Betrayed Me?
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever been betrayed by someone you love? How about having an ex start dating your best friend after putting you through a toxic relationship? It can b...
5 Reasons You're Single That Have Nothing to Do With Love | Matt Monday
12 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
“Why am I still single?!?” If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matte...
Long-Distance Relationships: The Brutal Truth About How To Make Them Work | Rewind
09 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic. But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us...
5 Reasons You’re Still Single
07 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You might feel like you’re seeing all your friends in couples, and you wonder why it hasn’t happened to you yet. Although we can’t control ...
This Dangerous Guy Keeps You Single | Matt Monday
05 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I’m curious if you can relate to this . . . You know you have a lot to offer someone, but you can’t seem to get out of the cycle of dating th...
How To Recover When Your Ex Moves On Too Fast… | Rewind
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up.You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yours...
How To Handle A Toxic Relationship You Don’t Want To Lose
29 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, b...
Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean) | Matt Monday
27 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
“Let’s just take it day by day.” “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?...
Never Make This Flirting Mistake In Conversation | Rewind
25 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You're on a date with someone.You're both sharing stories. He tells you that he plays the guitar. You notice that he seems really proud when he t...
Does Porn Count As Cheating??
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There may be few more controversial and divisive topics than that of watching porn in relationships. For some, it’s cheating. For others, it’...
The #1 Thing Men Say to Avoid Commitment | Matt Monday
21 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In the early days of dating, figuring out if someone is actually open to a relationship is key.But what does it mean when you ask them whether they're...
The 3 Compliments That Make Someone More Attracted To You | Rewind
18 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Compliments are like gifts. In fact, they’re even better, because the right compliment can be something the receiver never forgets. When in a relati...
Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean)
16 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever had a guy say things that give you completely mixed messages? Or you've heard a phrase several times and are left scratching your head w...
7 Ways To Create Chemistry (Make Him Ask You Out Again) | Matt Monday
14 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You felt like the date couldn’t have gone better. They told you they had the best time, and as soon as you got home, you started counting down the m...
If You’re Thinking About Other People In A Relationship, Listen To This… | Rewind
11 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new lay...
How To Leave A Narcissist (Part 2)
09 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why are toxic relationships so hard to leave? One reason is because you hold onto the small good moments and fail to acknowledge the extent of the bad...
How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Want | Matt Monday
07 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and h...
The Obvious Red Flag You Should Never Ignore When Dating | Rewind
04 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. In...
The Difficulties Of Planning For Marriage And Kids (When The Outcomes Are Uncertain)
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In a previous episode, we talked about the struggles dating can pose when women are thinking about their desire for children and their biological cloc...
He Said He Wanted You Then Pulled Away? HERE’S WHY… | Matt Monday
31 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s Halloween time, and for the occasion, in today’s video I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. If someone ghosts yo...
Mindset Shifts for When You Think “They’re Out Of My League” | Rewind
28 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever notice how you completely fall apart when you try to speak to that guy you’re really attracted to? It’s like with your best friends you can b...
I'm Not Attracted To The Men Who Want Me
26 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you're not attracted to men who want you, and the men you ARE attracted to are unwilling to commit? In life, as we get older, we c...
Keep Confusing Red Flags With Excitement?! WATCH THIS... | Matt Monday
24 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel like your brain is wired wrong because despite your better judgment, you’re only attracted to the bad boys or the players? You know . . ...
Is Your To-Do List Making You Miserable? | Rewind
22 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The technique I give in this clip shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombie...
Have You Ever Fallen For THIS Guy??
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There are certain types of romantic partners who present themselves as having amazing qualities: deep, thoughtful, self-aware, spiritually evolved…&...
If He Pulls Away, This Will Make Him Chase You | Matt Monday
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’...
If You Want To Heal Your Heartbreak, Listen To This... | Rewind
14 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-watch...
How To Overcome Anxiety About Your Biological Clock When Dating
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want marriage and kids? Feel like you have a sense of urgency because of your biological clock?It’s common for our desires for the future to ...
Why He's Not Giving You the Respect You Deserve | Matt Monday
10 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Wondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . .If your tendency is toward anxiety, you...
How To Know And Communicate Your Standards In The Early Dating Stage | Rewind
07 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn't feel like it's quite going your way, this clip is going to h...
Why Aren’t You More Attracted To Him? + What Makes Bad Boys Sexy
05 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy.It’s common that we date similar typ...
If He's Sending Mixed Signals, Text Him THIS | Matt Monday
03 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same ...
Unrequited Love is Bulls**t! | Rewind
30 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Yeah, I said it.Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with...
Are You A Recovering "People Pleaser"?
28 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…”And you answered!Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to ...
The Dangerous “High Value” Guy You Should Avoid | Matt Monday
26 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?Maybe it’s their attractiveness or ...
Full of Regret for Screwing Up Your Relationship? Watch This... | Rewind
23 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship?Something you said, something you d...
Is He Losing Interest Or Is He Just Comfortable?
21 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, St...
How to Be Confident When You DON'T FEEL ATTRACTIVE | Matt Monday
19 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be...
Was Breaking Up With Him The Right Decision? | Rewind
16 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You decided it’s time to break up.And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace.You’re still haunted by that eterna...
How To Leave A Narcissist
14 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist?It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your n...
Is the Person You’re Dating a Narcissist? | Matt Monday
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all kn...
Don’t Settle For Less. Settle On What You Want | Rewind
09 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
There's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of u...
How To Deal With The Pain Of Not Getting Closure
07 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why?What does it mean to get “closure” in dating?As hu...
8 Revealing Questions You Can Ask Him on a Date | Matt Monday
05 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so m...
Not Where You Want To Be By Now? Watch This... | Rewind
02 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.But as it ...
The Dangers Of Dating Someone High Status
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy when we like someone to feel like we have to make excuses for their avoidant behaviour. Sometimes they may have genuine psychological issues...
Man Humbles Room Full of Women . . . And It Was Me?? | Matt Monday
29 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Who pays on a first date?Six years ago, I made a controversial video tackling this very subject, and it went viral.Millions of people watched and repo...
How To Express Your Needs In Early Dating | Rewind
26 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In the early stages of dating someone we like and feel excited about, everyone is worried about coming across too keen and blowing it. This is a very ...
Men Reveal TRUTH About Why They Stay Single
24 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We asked men "what is the brutally honest truth about why you get scared of committing to someone?", and boy do we have some answers for you! Matt, St...
3 Brutally Honest Reasons Men Don't Commit | Matt Monday
22 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment?You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotio...
Text Him This ONE Word To Get His Attention | Rewind
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you ...
What It REALLY Takes To Start Over In Love
17 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it.But how do we move ...
Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE | Matt Monday
15 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty s...
Transform Your Present Pain Into Personal Power | Rewind
12 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens ...
Think You Have A "Dating Type"? Here's Why That Might Be A Problem
10 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics?...
3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY | Mat Monday
08 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s of...
How To Get A Guy To Like You: Learn These 2 Simple Words... | Rewind
05 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yea...
How To Stop Fear Of Abandonment Ruining Your Relationship
03 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment. When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make ...
13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You | Matt Monday
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of...
Does He Like Me? 7 Surprising Signs He Does | Rewind
29 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!”It’...
How To Get Over Someone You Can't Get Over
27 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still ide...
Keep Ending Up in Toxic Relationships?? WATCH THIS | Matt Monday
25 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting:. . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable?. . . selfish people who don’t r...
How to Make Sure It's More Than Just a Casual Hookup | Rewind
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - ...
3 Big Mistakes That Stop You Getting To Commitment
20 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decisio...
What Makes a Man Suddenly Commit? | Matt Monday
18 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made”...
7 Confidence Secrets That Make You More Attractive | Rewind
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in ...
Are These The 7 Essential Questions To Ask Your Partner??
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. ...
Freaking Out About Still Being Single?? | Matt Monday
11 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:“I’m starting to feel really uncomfort...
Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Listen To This... | Rewind
08 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel...
Dealing With Attachment Styles + Will They Ever Change?
06 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And a...
3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating | Matt Monday
04 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out fir...
Why Have We Made Dating So Complicated? | Rewind
01 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you wha...
“He’s Great On Dates But NEVER Texts”
29 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in b...
Will Your Relationship Fail? 3 Questions To Find Out | Matt Monday
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself ...
How To Take Back Your Power When We Won't Commit | Rewind
24 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the co...
What The Hell Is "The Ick" (And Why Does It End Relationships)?
22 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. Or y...
Scared of Him Losing Interest After Sleeping Together? WATCH THIS | Matt Monday
20 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together—the ...
Are You Being Gaslighted? 3 Ways To Know | Rewind
17 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you've ever expressed your needs to someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this vi...
Where Can You Meet HIGH-VALUE Men? | Matt Monday
13 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
“Where can I meet quality men?”I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years.Between endless swiping on apps and being ...
5 First Date Tips That Make Him Want You More | Rewind
10 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date?Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” ...
How Your “North Star” Can Help You Find the Right Person
08 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you...
The Grand Gesture That's Actually a RED FLAG in Early Dating | Matt Monday
06 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in ...
The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like... | Rewind
03 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt i...
The BIGGEST Male Insecurities in Dating Revealed…
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our ...
Men Reveal Their Deepest Dating Insecurities | Matt Monday
30 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the origi...
If You’ve Ever Been Ghosted or Lied To, Watch This | Rewind
27 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappoi...
Why You Choose the Wrong Partner
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?...
3 Secrets to Being Unforgettable on a Date | Matt Monday
23 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. Th...
Why You’re Attracted to People Who Don’t Want You | Rewind
20 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested i...
Are Men Less Attracted to “Intimidating Women”?
18 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively g...
How to Combat Imposter Syndrome in Real Life | Rewind
13 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?This is called “Impos...
How “Sexual Expectations” Affect Your Relationship’s Potential...
11 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, w...
The “No Contact Rule” Explained | Matt Monday
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.Whether we were with them f...
Say This to Him Then Watch Him Melt | Rewind
06 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Has this ever happened to you?You’re on a first date... and...He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…But at the end of th...
"He STILL Won't Commit to Me! Should I Cut Him Off?!" | 164
04 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt rece...
“Bad Texter” or Just Not That Into You? | Matt Monday
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.But what about wh...