Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Episodes
"No Matter What I Do I Can't Get Over Them. PLEASE HELP!" | Rewind
01 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start... --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in...
Everything You Know About Happiness Is Wrong
30 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier. We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this....
Listen To This BEFORE Sleeping With Them... | Rewind
25 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn: • The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together • Why you should...
Men Find THESE Things Irresistible in Women
23 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of datin...
How To Keep Desire With Someone You're Dating
17 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our ow...
Should You Settle In Love?
12 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfe...
THIS Mindset Keeps You Single (+ Matt's thoughts on being engaged)
04 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to tal...
7 Ways to Quit Dating Apps and Have Guys Approach You FOR REAL!
24 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy? Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in RE...
11 Signs He's Serious About You
17 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet! And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious wit...
What Gets Him Hooked in the EARLY STAGES of Dating
11 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep ...
Flirting For Introverts: 3 Authentic Ways To Get Him Interested
03 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But...
Don't Fight For His Attention, Do These 5 Things Instead...
26 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone* Instead ...
4 Questions To Ask Yourself BEFORE You Decide He’s “The One”
18 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Does "The One" exist? Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple ...
The Truth About Modern Men And Casual Sex
13 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal? Matt ...
What Guys Really Think About Your Insecurity
05 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity. We disc...
3 Easy Ways To Become MORE Attractive
29 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1? In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the mos...
Why People Disappear When You Show Interest
22 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?" Has this ever happened to you? Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psycholog...
How To Tell If You're In A Relationship With A Narcissist...
16 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawe...
Why Our Romantic Partners Annoy Us So Much...
08 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?" Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss: - Top most annoying...
The Aftermath of a Love Bomb
01 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest... --- Join us ...
BIGGEST Red Flags and Our Relationship Deal-Breakers
24 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's RED FLAG season! The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag me...
Men Vs. Women: Who Gets Over Breakups Faster? (+ The New Metaverse of Dating!)
17 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve talk about: - Breakups and how long it takes to move on - Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women - The Metaverse and what it means fo...
Getting Over Your Biggest Regrets + What Causes More Divorce? (Online vs. Real Life)
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about: - Whether you should have regrets - What kind of mistakes we regret the most - Getting over your screw ups ...
Jealousy, Relationship Sabotage, and the MOST Attractive Strategy for Dealing With Insecurities
03 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: - Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game - How to escape the trap of comparison ...
Does THIS Count As Cheating? + What It Means To Be Loyal In A Relationship
22 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship. We discuss: Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo? Is it okay...
Why Modern Men Become Simps (Failed Dating Strategy or Sexual Kink?)
15 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps". We discuss: - What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp" - How we shou...
Confessions Of A Reluctant Ghoster (Have You Done It?)
06 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators... *SPOILER alert for Th...
What Trauma Does To Your Relationships + Healing Your Emotional Wounds
29 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down to talk: Where trauma and bad beliefs come from The effect of trauma on romantic relationships Getting over pain and changing...
What If He Changes For Someone Else?
17 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes h...
What You Lose With "Backburner Relationships"
10 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship". In this episode Matt and Steve talk a...
Don't Make This Common First-Date Mistake
05 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a...
What REALLY Gets You A Second Date...
30 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow St...
Matt's Challenge From Hell (And What He Learned...)
20 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge. It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that...
How to Respond When You Embarrass Yourself...
15 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Get on the first to know list for Impact & secure your spot on my Art of Speaking Masterclass → http://www.GetImpactFirst.com --- I’m about to sha...
Sex Life Part Two: Choosing between romantic partners + the danger of wanting to heal your partner's trauma
09 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve talk about: - Sex Life (again!) - The fantasy of choosing between two different partners - The danger of wanting to heal someone else...
When To Quit A Relationship + What We Can Learn From The Dark Side of Anthony Bourdain
31 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down to discuss: - Why we stay in relationships longer than we should - When we should quit the wrong relationship - The inspiring ...
Sex Life, Penis Size, Becoming A Mature Adult
25 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about ex's... -- Follow M...
How to Feel Secure Again After Your Trust Has Been Destroyed
20 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Transform Your Confidence With Me Over 30 Days Claim Your FREE Spot on The Confidence Challenge → http://www.MHChallenge.com --- When someone’s be...
2021 Half-Time Talk With Matt and Stephen (relationships after covid, dating apps, body confidence, and MORE)
14 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
The year is half over already...what?? Join us to sit down and chat about: Where love is in 2021 The state of dating apps Body image and confidence B...
To Anyone Feeling Single and Lonely...
09 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
►► You are not alone. Join my membership FREE → http://www.AskMH.com --- In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to k...
What Are YOUR Top 2 Non-Negotiables In A Relationship? (w/ Matt and Stephen)
03 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?" Find out which ones we agree and disa...
5 Secrets to Getting a Relationship Even When You Hate Dating
30 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful r...
If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship...
25 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.” But what if you feel like your best isn’t good ...
What's 1 ESSENTIAL quality you look for in a partner? (w/ Matt and Steve)
21 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and g...
Think You're Ready to Meet "The One"? Watch This First...
16 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.” Which camp do you fall into? 1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone...
Advice We Would Give Ourselves 10 Years Ago...(Featuring YOUR responses)
11 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relation...
What the Post-Covid Dating Boom Means for Your Love Life
07 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021? As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdo...
Confidence in Dating Is Hard: 2 Ways to Boost Yours Immediately
01 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Amplify your confidence with me & Charlotte Tilbury. Register now for your FREE, live Masterclass on June 9th. Go to http://www.MHandCT.com We’re to...
How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection
28 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . . Or after pouring your heart and creativity into...
YOUR Answers to the Most Overrated Things in Relationships
22 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships?We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree!---►► Join us on our...
6 Texts That Move Your Relationship Forward
15 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It’s happened to the best of us.The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was yo...
Decoding Your Most Confusing Texts From Men
07 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
"What does he mean when he texts THIS?"In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean...
When you and your partner have different standards...
03 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when yo...
Being High Value: Does It Make It Harder To Be Attracted To Someone?
29 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards?Join M...
Can you mess it up with the right person?
24 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move? When you make a mistake, the worst feeli...
Should He Come Over On The First Date(s)?
21 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? The answer: it depends on what your goals are... Matt and Stephe...
Avoiding a Difficult Conversation Because You’re Afraid of Their Answer?
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship.We come fro...
"He STILL Doesn't Want Kids After 8 Years. What Should I Do?"
14 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids?In this episode, Matt and Steve tal...
"What If We Have Different Love Languages?" (+ how to talk about being dumped)
09 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today Matt and Stephen sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language?...
7 Mindsets to Overcome the Fear That Holds You Back
06 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life?Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to?Do you find yourself shying away fro...
If He's Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing?
03 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
"Get serious about people who treat you as serious. Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t thi...
What If You Feel Bad For A Toxic Partner? (Advice for Empaths)
01 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Empathy is a powerful emotion. It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally conn...
Women's Safety - It Belongs To All Of Us
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives.It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description ...
Have You Dated These 2 Toxic People?
26 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present.And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from...
Underrated Skills Everyone Should Learn To Be A Better Partner
21 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:Kindness RespectClear and compassionate communicationBut...
Things To Look Forward To
18 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “Yo...
How To TRULY Get Over Your Heartbreak...
13 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com --- I’ll keep t...
The Obvious Red Flag You Should NEVER Ignore When Dating
10 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. H...
How to Be Irreplaceable in Love AND Invincible in Life
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Whether y...
Are Dating Apps Now Underrated?
05 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relati...
What's More Productive: Being Single Vs. Being In A Relationship
03 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship? This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions. Join Matt and Stephen fo...
When Should You STOP Giving So Much In A Relationship?
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com OK, picture this . ...
Don't Be Afraid Of Your Weirdness... (with Matt and Stephen)
26 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It's ok to be weird... In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. If you copy everyone else, you en...
Don’t Get Into Another Relationship Before You HEAR THIS
24 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy? It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my ...
What It Takes To Have Romance In Your Relationship...(w/Matt and Steve)
21 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationship...
9 Romantic Gestures That Make Your Partner Fall For You...
16 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them...
When To Open Up In A Relationship (w/ Matt and Steve)
12 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
►► Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com --- Join Matt and Steve for ...
Want a Deeper Connection? Let Down Your Guard
10 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com Happy February! :-) I just m...
Why We Get Attached Too Quickly (with Matt and Stephen)
06 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationship...
How to Cope with Disappointments in Dating
02 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join Me on a Bigger Journey & Get Results in Your Love Life. Try My VIP Coaching Experience for Free... → http://www.AskMH.com Quiz for you... Wh...
What It Takes To Find A Great Relationship, Being "Happy Enough" Single + New Year Habits...
29 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships....
How To Stay Motivated If Your "To-Do List" Is Making You Miserable...
25 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Discover How to Love Your Life Every Day. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat... http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Are you a list maker?...
How To Have Real Charisma, Get Rid Of Bad Conversation Habits, And Speak Under Pressure (Even If You’re An Introvert!)
21 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room? In this episode, Matt and I sit do...
7 Powerful People Skills to Make Your Voice Heard
17 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice... Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that ...
Conversation w/ Matt and Steve: Love addiction, Avoiding Red Flags, How To Set The Right Goals
16 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Heyyyy, It's a chat episode! We sit down to talk about:- How to identify addictive behaviours- Avoiding red flags vs. not being affected by past relat...
Is Your Anxiety Sabotaging Your Relationships?
11 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when ...
4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast
07 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour...
Single in This Pandemic? 6 Ways You Can Still Move Your Love Life Forward
20 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Maybe you began this year with visions of finally creating the love life you always dreamed about. You told yourself: “This is the year I’m going ...
Will Your Long-Distance Relationship Work? Ask These 4 Questions...
15 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend. In it, I give...
*SPECIAL EPISODE* - Q&A Ask Matt Anything! (with Stephen Hussey)
06 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's finally happened... Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions.In this special Q&A episode, we t...
If You're Feeling Anxious or Depressed, Listen to This...
30 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
I wanted to step outside of the dating conversation for this week’s new episode. Relationship or no relationship, the quality of our lives is the qu...
3 Ways to Make Sure He Meets Your Needs
25 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Transform Your Life and Claim Your Happiness NOW. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat… http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- I get SO ...
3 Texts That Boost Attraction And Move Things Forward (+ Special Announcement!)
19 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I'm going to give you a sneak peek behind the curtain of our new program and share 3 key text messages for different stages of a...
5 Texting Mistakes That Keep You Single (and What to Send Instead)
15 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
I’ll keep this short, because I really want you to just get to the new episode and start listening. This is one of the coolest and most informative ...
How to Know if You Should Keep Trying with Him
10 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with a guy is? Should you let him know you’d like to go on a date with him? And wha...
What Does (And Doesn’t) Work In A Dating Profile
06 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Lockdown is back (for some of us). And if there ever was a year for online dating, 2020 is the biggest opportunity there will ever be to do it. I...
Why Have We Made Dating So Complicated?
02 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Is there a spooky presence lurking around you? Do you have a “ghost” in your love life? Are you the victim of a “haunting”? Is there a “zomb...
He Won’t Commit, But He Won’t Let You Go Either?
28 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Are you seeing someone who won’t commit but who doesn’t let you move on either? You’re about to hear a phone call between me and a young lady wh...
3 Secrets to Be Happily Single Until You Find the Right Guy
22 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
I’ll keep this short so you can go straight to listening to this episode. It’s not just essential listening if you’re single right now… It’s...
Why You Get Attracted to the Wrong People
13 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested ...