Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Episodes
What’s Your Excuse?
19 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Just trust me when I say this: You need to tune in to this episode of LOVE Life. I’m sharing with you an email I received from a woman who has a rat...
5 Quick Tips to Be Their Favorite Dinner Guest
16 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Most people don’t realize it, but there’s actually more to being a good dinner guest than remembering to bring a nice bottle of wine. Sure, your h...
Can You “Have it All?”
14 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is it really possible to “have it all?” And if so, what does it take to get “it” so we can finally be happy? Everyone – from your best frien...
The Cutest Way EVER to Get His Attention
12 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It’s kind of ridiculous, when you think about it, just how much time and energy we waste stressing over how to make the perfect first move. What wou...
Who Will YOU Be Kissing at Midnight? (+ A Special GIFT!)
09 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you dream of kissing someone special at midnight this New Year’s Eve, but you don’t have anyone in your life right now, it’s actually not too...
3 (Risk-Free) Flirting Tips for Your Office Christmas Party
07 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve had your eye on Jeff from accounting all year, but you’ve never had the guts to let him know. Now your office Christmas party is here. You’...
How to Invite Him Over for the Holidays (Without Freaking Him Out)
05 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
The holidays can be a magical time of new romance and quality time spent with family… But attempting to combine the two? Now that can get stressful....
Be a Great Gift Giver: Your Secret Action Plan
02 Dec 2016
Contributed by Lukas
“How thoughtful of you! I love it!” There’s nothing better than hearing those words when you hand a present to someone you care about. But what ...
Help – I’ve Messed up Playing “Hard to Get!”
28 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How do you keep a guy’s interest when you really like him? Do you make him wait for a kiss until after the first date? Hold off on intimacy for as l...
Who Pays in a Relationship?
25 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There’s been a lot of talk about who should pick up the check on a date (my video on this topic went viral recently with over 18 million views!). Ma...
These 5 Magic Words Motivate You to Get Out of the House
23 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It’s no secret that if you want to meet Mr. Right, you have to actually get off your couch. But it can be hard to leave the comfort of home (and Net...
Did You Make the Wrong Decision to Let Him Go?
21 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Breakups would be a lot easier if feelings were black-and-white. But it’s the shades of grey – we really did love each other, maybe we could have ...
This is What Really Makes You Rich
18 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Listen up, “Type A” ladies – this one’s for you! If you find yourself so intensely driven to achieve your goals that there’s no time for muc...
Should You Tell Him You’re Dating Other Guys?
16 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You’re really into this new guy you’re seeing, but as much as you’d like to take things to the next level, he hasn’t even mentioned commitment...
Be So Good They Can’t Ignore You
14 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you feel entitled to the things you’ve “earned” in your career – title, status, salary, perks – because of how much time you’ve put in ...
Stop Investing 100% if He’s Only Giving You 50%
11 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Getting a new relationship off the ground can be tough. Pacing is everything, and if one person emotionally gets ahead of the other too quickly, it ca...
He Disappears in Between Dates?
09 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine this: You’re casually dating a guy you really like. He makes plans with you on a Monday for the following weekend, and says he’s looking f...
Want to Fuel Your Ambition? Don’t Resist THIS…
07 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a common misconception that, in order to achieve big things, you need to “stay hungry.” But is that really the truth? Is the key to livi...
Stop the Negative Text-Tone Spiral!
04 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all been there. You send a fairly benign text, and the other person texts you back something like “Hmmm….OK.” What does THAT mean? It se...
3 Rules to “Fight Fair” With Someone You Love
02 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It’s inevitable: Everyone argues with his or her partner from time to time. But we have to be careful; Often, the people we love the most are the on...
Quieting the Voice in Your Head [Part 2 of 2]
31 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In our last episode (“Quieting the Voice in Your Head [Part 1]”), we discussed how your inner voice directs your thoughts and feelings and, when a...
Quieting the Voice in Your Head [Part 1 of 2]
28 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you hear that? It’s the voice in your head… reminding you of your to-do list, nagging at you about your insecurities, analyzing that confusing ...
How to Win in Business
26 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
I’ve got a bit of a different message for you today. It’s a lesson I learned from – of all places – my local hipster coffee shop. No matter wh...
Conquer Your Life Funk
24 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
A dead-end career…A lackluster love life…It can feel impossible to stay motivated when more than one important area of your life isn’t going you...
How to Do What You Want (Without Being Judged)
21 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel judged by the people in your life for the decisions you make or your desire to try new things? Ever wish you could just do what you w...
To Take Control of Your Life, Start Here
19 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you don’t have a clear vision for what you want in life and an action plan to achieve it, it’s easy to become overwhelmed, or worse, completely...
How to Do What You Want (Without Being Judged)
17 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel judged by the people in your life for the decisions you make or your desire to try new things? Ever wish you could just do what you w...
Make New Friends: Your 4-Step Action Plan
14 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Why does it seem so difficult meet people as an adult? When you’re in a new city, job, or situation, it can feel embarrassing to try to make new fri...
My “Beyond Beauty” Challenge
12 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a disturbing new trend on YouTube that’s indicative of a larger social problem; perhaps you’ve noticed it too. I’m going to tell you a...
The Surprising Reason Why Condoms Are Sexy
10 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
The beginning stages of a new relationship can be incredibly exciting; Along with intense passion for your partner, you start to form feelings of conn...
The Formula to Transform Friendship Into Desire
07 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve been friends with a guy for a while now, but you want more. So how can you cross over from “one of the guys” to “girlfriend material”...
How to Break the Spell of Complaining
05 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Are you addicted to complaining? In this episode of LOVE Life, we take a look at why it’s dangerous to seek significance in the sympathy of others, ...
4 Tips to Charm Anyone in 2 Minutes or Less
03 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you think all charming people are just born that way, think again! You can actually learn to build rapport with others and make them feel fantastic...
He Thinks Other Women Are Hot: Deal Breaker or Not?
28 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve been following my advice for even a little while, you know I always encourage you to have standards and expect men to treat you like the h...
Can You Make a Friend of a Frenemy? 4 Steps to Try
26 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Ah, the “frenemy.” One moment she’s a blast to be around, and the next minute she’s tearing you down with her criticism and negativity. Is it ...
Give Him 5 Extra Seconds to Get Your Number
23 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
(Sorry, guys, but I’ve got to give away one of our biggest secrets…) Ladies: Did you know that most times men walk away without getting your numbe...
Two Things I Want You to Do Today
21 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
I have a mission for you today: You just need to do two simple things. I’ll be honest, though: It’s going to take courage, and it requires steppin...
The REAL Cure for Heartache (It’s Not What You Think)
19 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the cure for a broken heart? “Stay busy,” most people will say, “and before long, you’ll have forgotten all about it.” While this t...
The Most Fun Way to Trick Your Brain Into Being More Productive
16 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You may not realize it, but there are one or two days a year unlike any other where you just plow through your to-do list and GET. STUFF. DONE. In thi...
One Crucial Conversation Skill Most People Don’t Use
14 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What makes a great conversationalist? Sure, being knowledgeable about a lot of topics and sharing about them in an interesting way is a great start. B...
Love is Not a Transaction
12 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When your partner is acting selfish, it’s only natural to feel resentful. Why should you be giving, giving, giving when all they’re doing is takin...
Before You Date Your Co-Worker, Try This First…
09 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Statistics say that 2/3 of people meet their partner through friends or work. But that doesn’t mean it’s the best way to find the right match for ...
Have An Opinion, Dammit
07 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
“I like that restaurant.” “Ehh...I didn’t really like that movie.” Listen, anyone can say these things about anything. Liking or disliking s...
The Truth About Your “Perfect Man” Checklist
05 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If I asked you to list the characteristics you’re looking for in your dream man, what would you say? Whether we want to admit it or not, most of us ...
When Your Friend Ditches You for Her New Boyfriend, Say THIS…
02 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You love your friend. You want nothing but the best for her, including an amazing relationship. So why does it feel so sucky when she falls hard for a...
You’ll Shock Your Boyfriend When You Tell Him to Do THIS…
31 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It’s not news to you that giving your guy space can actually bring you closer in your relationship. But how do you put this behavior into practice, ...
Avoid the Confidence Catch-22
29 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What creates confidence? Many people will tell you that it’s attractiveness. But how can you ever feel good about yourself until you get the validat...
Getting Set Up: A Survival Guide
26 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On your journey to finding your Mr. Right, you may find yourself getting set up on a date. Whether it’s a cultural thing, or thanks to the (relentle...
The (Low-Pressure) Friday Night First Date
24 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s face it – we all work too hard to risk wasting an entire, precious Friday night with someone we just met if the date doesn’t go well. ...
My (Slightly Embarrassing) Trick to Get Stuff Done
22 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re anything like me, the higher the expectations you set for yourself for what you want to accomplish in a day, the more overwhelmed you get....
How to Be a Winner (NOT a Victim)
19 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Why do bad things always happen to me? If you find yourself thinking that way, it’s time to STOP. We all face problems and setbacks in life, and hav...
Take Advantage of Other People’s Time
17 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We all need other people to help us achieve our goals in life. But the more successful our adviser, the more likely he or she is to be insanely busy! ...
Get On Your Guy Friend’s Girlfriend’s Good Side
15 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Well of course your best guy friend’s new girlfriend is going to be threatened by you. You two have a history that she can only imagine, inside joke...
Short-Term Dating, Long-Distance Love?
12 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when you meet a guy you’re really into, you have a few amazing dates, and then he has to move away due to circumstances beyond both of ...
The Only Mindset You Need to Overcome Rejection
10 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode of LOVE Life, our caller, Getty, says it best: “Rejection sucks.” Yet it’s inevitable that we’ll all face it in our lives from...
The 3 Commandments of Email Communication
08 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We’re all busy and, often, the people we admire most are the busiest of all. So why is it, then, we can’t seem to help ourselves when writing them...
3 Ways to Keep Attraction Alive
05 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There’s nothing quite like the thrill of “the chase.” When you’re just starting out dating someone new, attraction is at an all-time high and ...
Can You Train a Man to Be Honest?
03 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Fact: some men are just liars. And if you discover this trait in the one you’re dating, RUN. But as for all the other good guys out there, they real...
Single in a New City? How to Make the Most of It
01 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Moving to a new city can be daunting, especially when you’re single. But with the right attitude it can be the perfect opportunity to create an exci...
Be Extraordinary in Your Ordinary Life (“Boring Hero” #2)
29 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
It’s that time again… We’re giving appreciation to someone who deserves credit for the little things they do that make a big difference in other...
So You’re an Introvert? Don’t Let a Label Define You
27 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode of LOVE Life I take a great call from a listener named Sarah who wants to know if certain types of men are attracted to introvert...
Don’t Let This Conversation Trap Ruin Your Relationship
25 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Uh-oh. Here it comes. You’ve been dating a man for a while now and everything is going great until you mention a guy “friend” of yours. Suddenly...
Let’s All Do This One Thing Today
22 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
I have a challenge for you today… It’s something that you think about doing almost daily, yet you probably never make the time to do it. It’s so...
The Classy Way to Have “The STD Talk”
20 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When you’re having sex with someone, one of the least sexy things to talk about is STDs. But it could be the most important conversation you’ll ev...
Stop Being a Date Crammer!
18 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Do you cram for dates like you used to cram for exams? Pulling all-nighters beforehand, stressing about where to go, what to do, and what to say? Well...
How to Own Any Room in the First 5 Minutes
15 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you think that people with charisma are just “born with it”… If you think people who influence others or tell captivating stories are spontan...
4 Simple Words That Can Make You a “Boring Hero”
13 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When you think of “heroes,” what comes to mind? Superman leaping tall buildings in a single bound? Well, it’s not always feats of strength that ...
My “Rule of Thirds” Formula for Dating Success
11 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Is there anything worse than going to dinner on a first date and realizing that you’re not a match before your appetizer even hits the table? Now yo...
This May Just be THE Perfect Online Dating Profile
08 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You know you’re awesome, and any man would be lucky to date you. But how do you get that across in a paragraph (without the use of the dreaded ...
3 Tips to Quit Your Job Gracefully
06 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s face it: Some conversations are way more difficult than others. But sometimes we have to be grownups and face these tricky conversations head-...
The Ugly Truth About Gossiping
04 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the big deal about a little gossip? Well we all know that talking trash about someone else can hurt their feelings if (when!) they find out, ...
6 Brilliant Lines to Break the Ice on a Blind Date
01 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
First dates are awkward… but meeting a blind date for the first time ever can be positively terrifying! Before you freak out, listen to today’s ep...
Being Vulnerable Does Not Make You Weak
29 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
As a strong woman, you may think, “I don’t want to make myself vulnerable in love. It will make me seem weak.” But is that really true? In tod...
Will He Think My Friend is Hotter Than Me?
27 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You’re dating a fantastic new guy and things are going great. It’s time to take the next step and introduce him to your crew. There’s just ONE p...
5 Signs You Are Dating a Toxic Person
24 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Arguments in relationships are unavoidable. But if the guy you’re dating is more interested in winning them than solving the underlying problem toge...
3 Subtle Clues Your Date is Actually Married
22 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
I actually hate today’s topic, if I’m being honest. But sadly, it happens far too often: Married men (or men with girlfriends) take women on dates...
The Do’s and Don’ts of Breaking Up
20 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There’s really no such thing as a “good” breakup, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t ways to make it a little smoother and less painful for ...
Do You “Earn Your Tip” in Life?
17 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Waiters make their tips based on good service. But regardless of what we do for a living, we all serve others in one way or another. So the question b...
Why Being a Virgin Isn’t a BFD
15 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
For any woman, it’s extremely tricky to answer a guy’s question, “So…how many men have you slept with?” But what if you’re a virgin? How d...
The 3 Step Process to Overcome His Trust Issues
13 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when you hurt your man and he loses trust in you? Can you ever what you had together? My answer is yes, but it can’t happen overnight. ...
The Sexiest Thing You Can Do in Three Minutes is…
10 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How should you communicate with a guy you like in between dates? If you think texting is the only answer, then this episode is for you. I’m going to...
5 Simple Ways to Make Your Guy Feel Loved
08 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
There are a lot of ways men show affection through chivalry – holding doors and bringing you flowers are a couple of the classics. But what are some...
The One Thing that Keeps Your Relationship Going Strong
06 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You may relate to today’s caller, Diana. She doesn’t have much trouble dating, but then she can’t seem to get past the first few months where sh...
Make Sure You Always Carry One of THESE (It’s Not What You Expect)
03 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode of LOVE Life I’m sharing a quick tip that ensures you’ll stay top-of-mind when you meet someone new. It’s an old-scho...
How to Know if He’s a “Good Guy”
01 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You’re over the “bad boys,” but you don’t really want the boring “Mr. Too Nice” either. So what should you be looking for? A “good guy!”...
2 Tricks to Own Any Room in 5 Minutes
30 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You have the power to be a charismatic, captivating conversationalist… and all it takes are the two simple tricks I’m handing you today. Make sure...
The Effort IS the Reward
27 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How do you reward yourself for putting in hard work? Is it with a glass of wine, a new pair of shoes, perhaps binge-watching your guilty pleasure show...
This Makes People Want to Be Around You
25 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Ever notice that the people you want to be around most are the ones who make you feel great about yourself? I’ve got a simple technique for making o...
The No-Overwhelm Plan to Get Things Done
23 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
“I’m going to finish this work project in one hour.” “I’m going to clean out all of the clutter in my house today.” “I’m going to lose...
Why You Should Stop Trying to Find Your “One True Passion”
20 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Most of us put a lot of pressure on ourselves to find our “one true passion.” The truth is, it’s almost always an impossible feat. In today’s ...
3 Tips to Charm People (Even When You Disagree)
18 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
We’ll never agree with everyone all of the time. But how you choose to vocalize your differences in opinion can mean a breakdown of communication OR...
This Will Snap You Out of Acting Shy
15 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Are you too shy to speak to guys? If you’re afraid of rejection, that’s only natural. But today, we’re going to get past that fear together with...
Go Ahead, Make a Mistake…
13 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
How do you feel about making mistakes? If you’re so afraid of screwing up that you never take action, today’s episode of LOVE Life is for you. I’...
See Him as a Person, Not a Prize
11 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Nobody – woman or man – appreciates being objectified. Whether you are being judged on the size of your breasts or your bank account, it is offens...
Can You Turn a Booty Call Into a Relationship?
09 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You like a guy. I mean, you really, really like him. So you get carried away and sleep with him before you’re actually dating. Next thing you know, ...
Don’t Wait for the “Perfect” Man
06 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
If you don’t have a lot of experience in the dating world, how are you supposed to find the perfect guy? My answer: You’re NOT. Listen in as I exp...
What’s YOUR Excuse?
04 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Angie has gained some weight, and her insecurity has stopped her from dating. How can she get “out there” again when she doesn’t feel confident?...
Help! My Boyfriend Wants to be With Me ALL the Time!
02 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
When you first start dating someone you like, it’s not uncommon to want to spend all of your time together. But eventually your inner voice of reaso...
When is He Going to Propose?
29 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
The big proposal could come at any moment… but is there any way to know WHEN- exactly – a man’s going to drop to one knee and pop the question? ...
Men Live for the “Maybe”
27 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
You’re intrigued by a cute guy you’ve met, but you don’t know him very well. Is there a clever way to test the waters to see if he’s intereste...