L.W. HAWKSBY THE NARCISSIST HUNTER, SURVIVOR AND AUTHOR
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
Motivational chat re recovery from narc parents
02 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Narc parents don't deserve your suffering
WitchesOfEastwick Queen Beeetches
04 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
To watch/listen to a smear campaign live, is triggering, stressful & enlightening.
You're a bully. It's time you were told.
22 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Mocking peoples #triggers or laughing at them when #triggered is bullying
TIKtok DARVO part 2
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
And so it continues, fake accounts sending horrific stuff to people continuing to claim its me. #wakeup Ask the questions
Tiktok DARVO part 1
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ask the questions. When this is all exposed & I'm exonerated, it's going to come out as one of the worst Tiktok Bullying Smear Campaign Scandals, po...
Anger & grief: the flex of healing
08 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
#mentalhealth
Parenting w an absent Narc
15 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
As it says xx
3 tests to answer "are they a Narc. Should I leave"?
19 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Hope this helps! #narcissism #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissists #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissisticpersonality...
The Patterns Of Punishment from a Narc when you start recovering
17 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Critical podcast helping with #narcissism #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissists #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissist...
Narcissists=Slavery With A Smile & Hollowed out victims
30 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#Narcissists #NarcissisticMothers
How do I cope with my siblings taken from me by a Narc mother?
25 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#Family #ToxicFamily #NarcMom #NarcissisticParent #Triangulation #Healing #MovingOn #Narcissists
How do I raise a child when I've been a Narc Abused child myself?
25 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#ParentingTips #Parenting #ChildDevelopment #Narcissists #NarcAbuse
Why is my Narc quick to Hoover other supplies, yet keeping me waiting?
21 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Because the Narc knows you are waiting! You'll not go #NoContact! Listen to this pod. Heed the message. Save yourself. #Narcissists & #NarcissisticAbu...
Why is the Narcissist nice to other people, but not to me?
19 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#triangulation #SupplyMatrix #Grooming #Narcissism #bullying
Difference between a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP and a NARCISSIST V VICTIM relationship
18 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#ToxicRelationships versus #Abusive Relationship #Narcissists
Women 30 yrs ago caused the somatic Narcissistic Abuse epidemic
14 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Be ready for a telling off! #SomaticNarcissists #NarcissisticAbuse #Sexualabuse #sexualpredator #predators #greenflags #redflags
Fuck you twitter. Byeee! Dumped
10 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Don't be afraid to cut off something not serving you. Relationships OR social media. #Codependency #socialmedia #Twitter
Why No Contact isnt working for you
08 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What are the flaws in your #nocontact #recovery system? #Narcissists #Narcissism
4 negative self talk spirals a Narcissist WANTS u 2stay in & breach no contact!
06 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Trying to do #nocontact but feel stuck in #negativity and #lowesteem? This podcast explores 4 awful things we believe when TRYING to move on past #nar...
Announcement (Narcissists won't like this) theres a new book in town
04 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to understand #NoContact re #narcissists & #abusiverelationships, I think this workbook is for you. I'm very proud of it. I hope it helps ...
I'm staying with my Narc. I can make this work.
29 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you? OK. Well best listen to this podcast before you commit to a relationship built on humiliation & strategy that no normal person would dream of...
Do narcissists know what they are doing? My theory
26 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Yes & No...... #narcissists #abuse #rapeculture #abuse #sexualcoercion #narcissism
Why does the Narcopaths #stalking & #smearcampaign stop
24 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Little podcast with a few reasons the #Narcissists attacks and #smearcampaign slows and eventually stops. There is hope.
Narcs two favourite stages to CONTROL YOU
22 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why & how Narcs manifest multiple forms of #controlling behaviour and #coercivecontrol at the start and end of your relationship
CPTSD symptoms months or years after the trauma ends.... my story
21 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#mentalhealth #mentalillness #narcissists #domesticviolence #stalking #abuse etc have given me #CPTSD and now life's quiet, safe and positive, I still...
Why Narcissists can just cut you off
19 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Object permanence. Attachment style. Are two reasons why. Don't break No Contact for answers. This podcast should help #NoContact #Narcissists
Pretty Girls Gone update. 5th book on #NarcissisticAbuse coming in July!
18 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#NovelWriting #Author #BooksOnNarcissists #BetrayalTrauma #grooming #abuse #cults #flyingmonkeys
Narcissists weaponising silence against you
18 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists use ANY MEANS to hurt and trigger and change you. Any means. And because silence hurts them, they love using it against you.
How does social media help you sell you're books
17 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists and #narcissisticabuse example: I did a #TikTok video on my self assessment tool for "am I a victim of Narcissistic Abuse" and got 20k fo...
Recovery & what is your responsibility
17 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#recoveryfromnarcissists #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder
Stop thinking you're triggering your Narcissist
13 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast could help you with #nocontact re #narcissists
Were Covert Narcs spoiled & Overt Narcs abused?
08 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Oooh! Interesting little take on how narcs develop to be #overtnarcissists and #covertnarcissists and their differing #childhoods #parenting and #ACES...
When a Female Narcissist Gaslights herself into thinking YOU are a liar 😆
06 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you catch a #ClusterB lying to itself and #gaslighting you to literally cope with its own pathetic existence
Body confidence after NPD abuse is not narcissism. Can I say it louder
04 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#lifeafterabuse #recovery #eatingdisorders #abuse #bodydysmorphia #esteem #selfconfidence #narcissists
Empty Idle Threats of a Narcissist
01 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Just laugh. Just laugh at the loser #Narcissists #Stalking #Stalkers #ShesSad #FemaleStalkers #BPD #NPD #threats bring it on Hahah! She keeps changi...
What you're really communicating to a Narcissist when you allow them back.
30 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ideal for anyone confused about #nocontact #secondchances and #makeupsex regarding the #Narcissist
The many reasons a Narc isolates you & why. It's more complex than you think!
27 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists isolate victims for multiple reasons and using multiple techniques. It's not just that they want you all to themselves. #domesticabuse #d...
Narcissists and raising children with manners & humanity
26 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#parenting #coparenting #narcissists #childdevelopment
Stalking taking a very wierd & laughable turn. 😆
25 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Well..... you just couldn't make it up. I'm used to my stalker being abusive, offensive, sexually abusive, evil and nasty in general. Right? But now s...
2 ways Covert Narcissists lie
24 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Exaggeration & Flowery language. #Narcissists #Lying #TheArtOfLying #PostSeparationAbuse #abuse #gaslighting
CoParenting with a Narc & their BOMBS
22 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#coparenting #co-parenting #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #postseparationabuse #smearcampaign
Hope For Health after Narcissistic Abuse
14 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissisticabuse kills us slowly from the outside in and makes us sick. Literally. This podcast talks about how pre-existing #mentalhealth issues ar...
My Somatic Narcissist Father
12 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Trigger warnings. I was raised by two narcs and this podcast describes some of the classic NPD abuses I suffered around my NPD Somatic Father
Why are we diagnosing people narcissists?
11 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How we label people "NPD" is often a subject of contention. Hopefully, this podcast helps!
Narcissists (parents, esp Mothers) on holiday
07 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists ruin and control and micro manage "good times" like holidays etc. This podcast explores a #Narcissist #Mother and behaviours I witnessed ...
Hey! Supply!? Be careful that you aren't repulsing your Narcissist.....
04 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When a Narcissist triangulated you against an ex or old supply, be mindful you aren't showing the Narc what a Narc YOU can be. You're gonna give them ...
Recovery? Or Rise?
04 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#recovery from #domesticabuse #betrayaltrauma and #narcissists doesn't need to be coping or going "back". Aim higher. Rise.
Cognitive Dissonance & moving past it
02 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Recovering from #NarcissisticAbuse means understanding #cognitivedissonance & accepting what Narcs really WILL do, to get supply.
Narcissists and "perfection"
01 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
References to why perfect is never good enough for a #Narcissist with #Narcissism
Are you helping your Narcissist risk take?
28 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists take risks. Because its fun. It's exciting. And it creates #narcissisticsupply (reactions from people) but WHY risk losing supplies? Beca...
Update, break & signposting
19 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What it says on the tin
How to make a Narcissist HATE you.
16 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#NoContact can be very very tough & #Narcissists will hoover anyone who they think has potential to be hoovered. If they hate you, there is a lot less...
Narcs need admiration & normals just like it.
15 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A good way to define a normal from a Narc is looking at if they NEED admiration or just "like" it. Does it bother them losing an admirer or failing to...
Using discards or no contact or "breaks" in the NPD Abuse relationship
13 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Bit of a flex on how to USE #BreakUps #Discards #Breaks in your #NarcissisticAbuse relationship to your advantage. I hope this podcast helps anyone wh...
Paranoia underpinning projection in narcissists? Especially women.
09 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why (maybe) #FemaleNarcissists attack other normal women's appearances. The pathology & #psychology of #Projection attack mode.
Why a PwNPD (Narcissist) will still hate & smear u, no matter who chose to split
07 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You are being smeared & harassed by a suspected Narc ex. But they have a (apparently) wonderful life & new partner? Why won't they just shut up & let ...
Narcissists evasive & avoidant of Problem Solving? Why?
06 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Noticed how your PwNPD can't problem solve issues with or for you when a "normal" person easily could? #ShameAvoidance #WordSalad #Neglect #Stonewalli...
Body Image. Letting your looks go. And Narcissists attitudes to supplies looks
03 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Diff Narcs need diff #NarcissisticSupply. And #bodyimage #fitness #bodyshape and looks MATTER to every #Narcissist
Impact. Does the stalking IMPACT YOU? OR is it just sad people living intoxicity
02 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Powerful message for anyone experiencing #stalking #harassment #cyberbullying or #SmearCampaign shit.
The Dangerous Game
02 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When a #stalker #Narcissist gets carried away with their "narrative" and desperate for your #narcissisticsupply they will go past certain boundaries o...
Absolute proof he/she is a Narc. How the new supply views you!
02 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"I think my Narc is happy now, living a good normal relationship!" No love, they aren't. If the new supply HATES you & you've never met, then it's not...
Pink Clouding in No Contact & Recovery after NPD Abuse; a tutorial ish!
01 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
NO CONFIDENTIALITY WAS BROKEN IN THIS PODCAST. NO NAME, AGE, STATE, RACE, OR JOB WAS DISCLOSED Soooooooo #PinkClouding is when a person is in denial a...
Losing social media accounts or being forced to leave or react?
30 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When a smear campaigner has lost all their accounts for smearing, they will smear you for losing or leaving a couple. This is deflection, projection...
Shit Slinging Gorilla? Or just traumatised after Narcissistic Domestic Abuse?
29 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's not abnormal to "act out" in really mental/crazy/toxic/immoral ways late stage #Devaluation or #FinalDiscard or #SmearCampaign stages re #Narciss...
Narcissists not CELEBRATING or COMFORTING you in times of need.
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If a person you nurture & care for cannot support you in good or bad events, and even start fights or discard you at those times, chances are not only...
Fake Lola & her delusions she now is allowed to repeatedly break the law! 😆
27 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The Law around what you can & can't persist in doing on social media is something every #Narcissist & #Troll believes is not RELEVANT TO THEM. They ho...
No Right To Reply? No right to move on? Yes. BIG RED FLAGS FOR A NARCOPATH!
26 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
More insights on how to tell if you are REALLY dealing with #narcissists #ghosting #discards #stonewalling #fakeaccounts no #closure and nit allowed...
Why would a Narcopath CHOOSE you to smear? When plenty other folk "deserve" it?
26 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast unpacks the REAL reason a #Narcissist #Stalker claims you DESERVE abuse, and yet its you out of thousands of others that they've chosen? ...
Rising up against false accusations made by a #Narcissist takes facts not war.
25 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ways to learn about me, and why I've made myself so visible. No amount of #gaslighting #false afalseaccusations or #smearcampaign by a #FakeLola creti...
Manners? Look for these when dating after Narcissistic Abuse
23 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Look for the #greenflags of manners in #dating after #narcissisticabuse & did your #Narcissist have #Manners or do small gestures of #respect or #kind...
Trauma Bond vs Other Feelings about your Narc & the abuse
19 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#TraumaBond versus actual #Feelings about my #Narcissist. Short podcast explaining the difference. You ARE moving on! I promise! #NoContact #Narcissis...
When a Narc turns nice. Ugh. The Flip
18 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists and the "flip" between nasty and nice. Wait to the end.
Ghosting vs Discarding. Don't let fake experts DELIBERATELY mix these up!
16 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When a #fakeexpert spouts their vile opinions & victim Shane's victims of #Narcissists & compares a Narcissists Discard act to an immature or victimis...
Dog Whistling #NarcAbuse in a pure form.
16 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#DogWhistling is a subtle attack on your peace & esteem in a given place or situation. It is so subtle and covert no one knows its happening to you, y...
Big Life, Quiet Mind. My new #mindset approach for #recovery from #narcissists
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Interesting way to live life during and after the horror of a #Narcissist in your life. #BigLifeQuietMind #Recovery #Domesticabuse #narcissists #narci...
No affair? Are they a Narcissist?
13 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists can cheat multiple ways. They can operate differently. And will cheat with anyone offering supply. #Cheaters #Infidelity #relationships #...
Echo & Narcissus teaching us about starvation in unhealthy relationships
12 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A look at #EchoAndNarcissus & how their none-relationship reflects what an #abusiverelationship is about. It's about #neglect #apathy #loneliness. #Na...
Do Narcs really think the grass is greener each new main supply?
11 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#Narcissists will indeed THINK they are in love when a fresh new NAIVE supply is targeted. This is "The one". But Narcs can't maintain the lies it tak...
If your Narc is REALLY a Narc, why are you obsessed with them?
10 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#NoContact #Coaching #Counsellor #Recovery #Narcissists #Narcissism
Why is my ex Narc so liked?! Argh! Can't people see they are vile?!
10 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Narcs surround themselves with people who THINK they are close to the narc. Those people are not. Only a Narcs intimate supplies and scapegoats will s...
Comparing Overt Somatic Narcs to Covert Somatic Narcs
09 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Such a thing as a Covert Casanova Psychopath? He'll yes! #Narcissists #narcissism #red flags #sex
Are Covert/Vulnerable Narcissists predators?
07 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I would say yes. As animals can camouflage as dead/invisible/vulnerable, to catch prey, so can #covertnarcissists. Especially females!! #FemaleNarciss...
Narcs are sexually disordered NOT JUST personality disordered! TRIGGER WARNINGS!
02 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Insight off the charts. TRIGGER WARNINGS too. So #narcissists are personality disordered. At the root of our personality is our gender & sexuality.......
If her son did this to me, he'd be in prison yet his mother carries on without police involvement
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#misandry and #AntiMen #AntiMale #MenHating attitudes in our #police #socialcare and #justicesystem is HORRENDOUS
Will God Save Fake Lola the stalker? Nup. 😆
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When a Narcissist is in #NarcissisticInjury and due another #NarcissisticCollapse they start scrabbling around for ANYTHING to have "faith" in. As evi...
A Covert Female NPDs fantastical thinking, storytelling,splitting,childishness
26 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When a #CovertNarcissist is in victim state & struggling (#narcissisticinjury) she reverts to childhood behaviours, language, stories, religious langu...
Narcissists FAIL when they make mistakes I'm who they SURROUND themselves with
25 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"Why does no one believe me?!"- "how can he/she get away with this!" #Narcissists #Narcissism #SmearCampsign #TheSmearCampaign #Masking #Narcs #Stalki...
2 rats in a barrel & a singing canary; when 1 of two Stalkers gets arrested.
23 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#stalking #Stalkers #justice #law #police #Narcissists #Evidence #pleabargain and she's still posting blogs and is now obsessed with "little girls" ug...
Life after the loneliness of a Narcissists abuse RECOVERY PODCAST THEME! YAY!
23 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Recovery Themed Podcast about what to do in the agonising quiet times of a discard, break up or being #ghosted and stonewalled by a #Narcissist. #moti...
Narcissists lie in the moment, and forget the future EXPOSURE is coming
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists panic when caught and try to self soothe and if that doesn't work, they self gaslight and blame shift. It's pure chaos. #Deflection #proje...
Narcissists view life as a competition because they think winning's about revenge & memes.
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Don't let frightened, jealous #narcissists deny you your rise. Simply by being you, you "win". Be you. Be amazing. Be past the narcs like a hare befor...
Are narcissists codependent?
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists and #codependency
Yellow Rock?! Grey Rock. No Contact.
20 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#NoContact #GreyRock #YellowRock some refreshers, reminders and a rant. #Narcissists #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse
Lies, gaslighting & denial in "normal people" V Narcissists
19 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Just to get you thinking about your #Narcissists lying motives and techniques. Not everyone who lies is a Narc. #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder
The Communal Narcissist? What? Popular? Liked? Sociable?!
18 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists come in many different forms. And #SociableNarcissists aka #communalnarcissists are common! #Cults #AlAnon #Recovery #Community #Charity ...
Why would a Narcissist want to expose themselves? Funny tattoo story!
16 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#memoirwriting #writing #author #narcissists #humour #funnystory
Why victims often support domestic abusers in court
16 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
People who refuse to press charges, downplay or don't report abuse or even go to court WITH their abuser, are not rare. This podcast is my story of wh...
Mothering Types & Narcissist Types (in brief)
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#macheavellianNarcissism #somaticnarcissism #parenting #narcissists
My Recovery "rocky road" story. Not advice, but some tips!
13 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#recoveryafterabuse #selfesteem #personalgrowth #AbuseSurvivor #DomesticAbuse #Confidence
The line between opinion & a Prison sentence. Telecommunications behaviour reminder
10 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you want to "have your say" about a Narc or someone you think is one, be mindful of how easy it is to get caught in the wrong. I learned the info i...