L.W. HAWKSBY THE NARCISSIST HUNTER, SURVIVOR AND AUTHOR
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
Pre-Violence behaviours & triggers in a Somatic Narcissist (sexual narc)
10 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Boutique podcast; not done before and small yet perfectly formed! What precedes #domesticviolence in a #casanovapsychopath #somaticnarcissist? What "s...
What does a Narcissist think/feel when a victim grey rocks/goes no contact?
09 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
People trying to keep their life toxin free will step out of the abuse or smearing suddenly. Everyone has a breaking point but it doesn't mean they ar...
Do Narcissists get bored of their shitty lives?
09 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissistic Personality Disorder is untreatable, so surely Narcs get bored & exhausted by the constant same failures & dramas they seem to exist in, ...
The Dark Rewards of "making up" that a Casanova Psychopath will gift a victim to make us stay AGAIN
07 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is breadcrumbing stroke future faking stroke patronising stroke controlling behaviour stroke coercion. Have you been "gifted" words like "I respe...
Betrayal on A Budget; A Somatic Narcissists fave supply line
07 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"My Narcissist couldn't afford to have an affair!" Famous last words from someone misunderstanding #NarcissisticSupply & #Narcissists capabilities to ...
Narcissists failures drag them down down down
05 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
According to my #FemaleNarcopath #Stalker she's "overplayed her hand". We would agree, my friends, readers, followers, subscribers, so we would! 🥳 ...
How to hurt a Narcissists Feelings
02 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists DO have feelings. But their DISORDER guides them. So accepting this & understanding how to take back control & "hurt" a #Narcissist who is...
Victim shaming rape victims a Fake Lola trick to abuse a smear campaign victim
31 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#SexualAssault #Sexualabuse #Rape #RapeSurvivor #VictimShaming #Narcissists #NarcissisticAbuse #Trauma
A No Contact No Narc book for men?
29 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I have written "No Contact No Narc" for anyone, but feel the cover and content for that (soon to be released) book isn't quite right for male victims ...
Narcissists & dating down/cheating down. Why choose those low level supplies?!
29 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is a dichotomy that many #CasanovaPsychopath victims struggle with. How could the person who loved you dare drop standards to cheat or date "that...
Reasons people stay with a Narcissistic Abuser Partner
28 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's not just the #TraumaBond that keeps a victim in a #narcissists grasp. This podcast gives you another dozen to consider. #NarcissisticAbuse destro...
Leaving a Narcissist is complex, but this podcast gives some ideas & why they may well work for you.
27 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#breakup #discard #finaldiscard #narcissists #domesticviolence #escapeplan #NoContact
WinWin when Google agree that the bile about you is illegal
26 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#RightToBeForgotten #Smearcampaign #Narcissists #CyberStalking #Trolling
The Pre Narc Collapse Delusions in an old failing Smear Campaign
26 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists and #Psychopaths need support & supply. Without it they die. And in their dying throws they start to show true colours and true disorder ...
Listening 2 Michael the Covert Narcissist Psychopath in his 1st police interview
26 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A little reading aloud of one of my favourite characters in one of my 3 books on #Narcissists & #narcissisticabuse
When should I tell the new Narc supply that there's a Narc in the water! 🦈
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#narcissists don't make supplies stupid. They don't make supplies deaf or blind or ignorant. The #MindFog #TraumaBond #CPTSD we suffer doesn't stop us...
Narcissists & Attachment Styles. Child Development knowledge,NPD Abuse Education
24 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Learning about #AttachmentStyles is pretty damn essential if you want to boost your expertise as a #NarcissisticAbuse expert. You can do so informally...
Tech Tips to delete abusive content from social media & Google.
23 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Victim of an online #SmearCampaign #Trolling #bullying #cyberstalking. Here area handful of ways to deal with it. And btw if you are a stalker online ...
Giving up your future for a Narcissist. A Go No Contact reminder.
21 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you are with a Narcissist and your life is flat or feels empty, this podcast is a reminder that being without them you GAIN so much, without even r...
Narcissists are Monster Makers
20 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Narcs attract unwanted attention from disturbed & "vulnerable" women because Narcs sometimes make mistakes and start charming and grooming the wrong t...
When a flying monkey in limerance with a Somatic Narcissist hunts an ex-supply
19 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Obsession? Limerance? Jealousy? Fear of losing the #Narcissist? Why would a "none-supply" female choose to fixate on a Narcissists ex supply for years...
A reminder; Narcissists only appear loyal/happy with other abnormal people.
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why is my Narc in a long term relationship now? Why have they gone back to the same person for supply again & again? What's wrong with me? NOTHING IS ...
When will a Narcissist NOT engage police or SW in the Smear Campaign/Revenge?
17 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There are some "woke narcs" (#OvertNarcissists) who won't engage in tit for tat, #falseallegations or #coercivecontrol regarding #Police and courts. W...
Is the Major Flying monkey worse than a Narcissist? Yes
16 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#stalking #thesmearcampaign #flyingmonkeys #narcissists
When a Narcissist operates in Alcoholics Anonymous & grooms #FlyingMonkeys
15 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#TheFellowship #AlcoholicsAnonymous #Narcissists #stalking #Stalkers #femalealcoholics #femaledrunks #femalenarcissists #addictions #12steps #The12Ste...
Are Narcissists stupid? Like actually thick?
15 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast explains when/how a #Narcissist will have intelligence. And the many ways they mask as idiots and also are genuinely idiotic. Their bodie...
My Narc has changed for the new supply!
13 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's 2023. He/she's "moved on" with new #NarcissisticSupply or an old ex! You think they are finally different? Better? Decent? You are heart broken a...
Why would my Nex's new supply LET him abuse/smear/traumatise me in the breakup
12 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
#Narcissists (especially) #CasanovaPsychopaths #SomaticNarcissists will groom the New Supply to watch/enable/or even get involved in the #postseparati...
The Real Lola from my book "The Forgivers Club". The Narcissistic Virus & Sex
07 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
**Book is available online for purchase** Massive Trigger Warnings in this. I speak of #SexOffenders #SexualOffences #SexualAbuse #TheSexOffendersRegi...
More advice to fathers estranged from Narc type co-parents
06 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Followed on from yesterday's pilot on #Breakups & #childcontact, this recording explores more deeply how to wrangle with a #Narcissist type ex partner...
Info Request; Advice for estranged fathers experiencing parental alienation
05 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This is a sort of pilot podcast, for a series on #withholding abuse/behaviours manifested by an ex partner. I realise there is much more content I can...
Narc Mom vs Narcopath Mum
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Pretty basic info on how to differentiate between a #NarcissisticMother and a #Narcopath mother who has high levels of #Psychopathy in her personality...
Narc Mom's & how to deal with them in their later years
03 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This may upset some of you with later-life Narc Mom's, so be mindful. Podcast exploring techniques to put in place if you have a #NarcissisticMother #...
Swords drawn FakeLola, bring your blunt wee bottle opener
02 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I have started to tackle the "Fake Lola Fallacy" blog, and think we (my subs and me) can enjoy pure taking the piss out of Fake Lola's rants (aka blog...
Narc Mothers & Gilding Children; examples of how it is abuse actually
02 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Examples from my life with a #NarcissisticMother and focusing on how she can "ruin/spoil" a Golden Child, and it's bad parenting, and covert abuse/dev...
Narcissistic Mothers & their different Enablers.
01 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast explores how & why #NarcissisticMothers will recruit & oversee their varying abuse & neglect #Enablers. #NarcissisticAbuse
New Years Eve gratitude list for NarcAbuse victims & survivors!
31 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I am hugely grateful and proud of all of you (except the twat trolls) who have made progress in 2022. Thank you for listening to my podcast and being ...
Narc Mom's HATING familial traits in looks & other appearances
29 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
See podcast pic to understand what initiated this. #Jealousy #Competitiveness #NarcissisticMother
The Trauma Bond & my NarcMom.
29 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some insight & personal stories of becoming trauma bonded to my #NarcissisticMother #NarcMom #TheTraumaBond
Grey Rock & The Narcissistic Mother
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Short (ish!) series of messages about Grey Rocking your "relationship" with your mother & attempting to buffer the abuse, triangulation, baiting and s...
But WHY do they stalk, smear, harass & troll you??
26 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When victims of abuse or #stalking are asked WHY, we sometimes try to think of a reason, so we can accept and deal with the #crimes committed against ...
Narcissistic Parents & how we grieve them.
26 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Don't let anyone question how you grieve a Narcissist or Narcissistic Parent. This podcast has my own story but I think most victims of #NarcMoms #Nar...
The Covert Narc mom & the Xmas party drama
24 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A story with lots classic #covertnarcissist #NarcissisticMother examples of neglect, deflection and abuse
Busy busy! Covert Narc Mom's (being busy avoiding you)
24 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
With thanks to L, this podcast explores & exposes a typical covert #NarcissisticMother using discreet avoidance tactics to evade closeness or warmth b...
23 Hoovering Techniques a Narcissist will use, especially at Christmas!
23 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A load of things to be vigilant of re Narcissistic Hoovering! #Hoovering #Narcissists #NarcissisticAbuse
I was stalked, he was convicted, between 2011 & 2014/5. This is what happened. A Fake Lola Fallacy
23 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I'm not a huge fan of defending myself against slander, but as you all know, as long as its the truth we probably should try get it out there. #Narcis...
Beware the Fake Experts & Fake Victims in our sector (Red Flags to look for)
19 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Long podcast but it gives a long list of #redflags to look for when checking out a #NarcissisticAbuseExpert or even a #victim of #Narcissists giving o...
NARC MOMS & timeliness for "the mask slipping" & an attack.
18 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How long did your Narc Mom last face to face before the mask of normality or civility would slip & she would go into attack mode? #Narcissists #NarcMo...
Covert Narcs v Overt Narcs; a room 101.
18 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Really helpful way to discern between Narc types. Specifically focusing on Coverts v Overts and how they appear to others. #narcissists #npd #Narcissi...
Hypocrisy & Online CyberStalkers
17 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
These unwell people will say one thing, do another, and do it with pure grandiose entitlement. They are so delusional, they think the very people they...
Covert Narcissist Mothers & Punishments
17 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast gives a handful of classic Narc mom punishments & some of my experiences.
The Narcissists eyes? What? There is a "small theory" on it. But don't diagnose!
16 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
#Fraud #ConArtist #Liar #Narcopath #Stalker #ShesALunatic #AlcoholicsAnonymous #TheNarcissisticStare #Narcissists
The Female Malignant Narcopath & how she stalks on Social Media
15 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Cannot wait for Hater Impersonator "No Contact Coach" "lola" whatever, to do a Face2Camera youtube video. She is so confident and aggressive with her ...
The Toxic 22; Your Self Assessment To Give Closure ITS A NARC in your life.
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Used alongside other reading, gut instinct and experiences with your Narc, this unique self assessment for #NarcissisticAbuse is invaluable. The list ...
Narcissists make amazing books! This is an update on my writing/books to date!
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My annual update on where I'm at (as an Author) regarding my books. I have 3 out, 2 ready, and a further 4 at about 50% written. As an #Author on #Nar...
Covert Narc Mom's & Devaluation of daughters
11 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
All #Narcissists devalue those they have "split black" and feel jealous of & triggered by. The Shame Spiral preceeds the #Devaluation abuse because NP...
Covert Narc Mom's & when you "confront" them with their behaviours
09 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
#Stonewalling #Deflection #Projection #Gaslighting #Triangulation #NarcissisticMother #NarcissisticParent #NarcMom #NarcMum #CovertNarcissists
30 ways to recognise & understand Abuser Baiting Behaviours (book ideas)
07 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
#ReactiveAbuse #Baiting #Stalking #Trolling #IWriteBooks #TheNoContactCoach #NoContact #NarcissisticAbuse #Impersonation #Criminology
I am genuinely concerned for "NoContactCoach" my impersonator
06 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Addiction is a delicate minefield, only best managed by following The 12 steps and taking a personal inventory every day, especially when engaging in ...
The Timeline of a Covert Narc mother & how she raises/abuses a daughter
06 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
#NarcMoms #NarcMum #NarcissisticMothers #NarcissisticParent #Parenting #NarcissisticAbuse From 8 yrs to adulthood. #GoldenChild #Parentification #Enme...
Avert your eyes (and ears) do pop over to my YouTube channel for a series on No Contact!
01 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
#NoContact is useful from so many perspectives and all I do here and on insta and YT is worthy.
Narcissists lack "object permanence". How does this fuel their cheating etc?
08 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Any old excuse to cheat! Eh? Well...actually....this podcast gives you some sexy sciencey stuff on why we literally "mean nothing" to a Narc when we a...
The "sickness" & grief of leaving a Narc Abuse Relationship
06 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Reality Check! Leaving an abusive relationship with a ClusterB like a Narc will be totally different to other break ups. Your body is in shock. The fe...
Attachment styles & Narcissistic Abuse
05 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Unhealthy attachment is common between both NPDs & their victims. How this plays out, different attachment styles & subsequent abuse of discards & hoo...
Sexual Abuse Signs you are with a Casanova Psychopath
04 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A long one! But sadly proof of how much sexual abuse & betrayal trauma we suffer via a Somatic Narcissist / Casanova Psychopath. #Narcissists #Psychop...
Am I a Hypocrite for preaching no contact? #NoContactNoNarc book out soon!
03 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Lessons in life are what make No Contact Coaching powerful.
How Narcissists step out of "The Accountability Circle"
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcs use Deflection, projection etc in their shame avoidant blame shifting. We all know that. But what other discreet methods do they use to step out...
5 days of overt trolling since Friday. Wonder why?!
01 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When your life "blows up" with multiple attacks like this, track back to when it inflamed. What did or did not happen that day? That's the reason you ...
How to train your dragon, oops NARC. 😬 🐉
01 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We have no idea why the Narc seems to know HOW to "love" & hate us? How do they know all the buttons to push? Well, because we (& the other victims) h...
Seen Facebook! Will the Narc have changed for the new supply?
31 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Will my Narc have changed? He seems in love & she seems happy. #Narcissists
Codependency, Malignant Codepency & the Narcissists role
30 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Most victims of NPDs have some codependency in their make up. But NPDs will agitate the CoDep into being a malignant codep in extreme cases.
Tips for victims telling their story of abuse or stalking
29 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Be empowered to share what has happened/is happening to you. But don't make any reckless mistakes or end up accused of being a stalker or abuser. Hope...
Manifesting a good life even when haters don't let you go
28 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Struggling to get past the unfairness & moral injury of what your Narcissists are doing to you? This snappy podcast might help your perspective. If I ...
Covert Narc Mom's over relying on Gilded Children only ends up a fkng mess.
27 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narc Mom's know how to stroke ego's. They play vulnerable or indecisive or reliant, to make their children/supplies feel important. But whatever role ...
2 Events that will save your life, when discarding & doing NC with your abuser
25 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Deciding to leave AND Deciding to stay gone, are a victims responsibility. And we can find the "rock bottom" experiences pre Discard & post discard, t...
A Narcissists version of Love & Lust
24 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As it says on the tin.
Timing & Monsters: A Narcissists Time Control of a Victim
23 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you noticed your Narcissist looks, acts, speaks different (not in a good way) when they think you can't see them? 3 real life examples. Well, may...
How Stalkers enmesh themselves to their victim to feel whole
22 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A bike story. Then an explanation of enmeshment/codependency between a stalker & her victim. It is not just supply we offer. We complete the stalker. ...
Hypocrisy is a HUGE Narcopath trait
21 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know a huge big fat loud cheat who is possessive of a partner? Do you know a screeching harpy who yells Grass while making up allegations about...
Bringing life & love to The Crete House
20 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Stage 1. We have to do our best....floors, walls, fireplaces, doors
"Boundaries" is not a dirty word in Narcissistic Abuse Awareness
20 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
THIS PODCAST CONTAINS GRATUITOUS SWEARING FROM A SMALL SCOTTISH WOMAN. Repelling abusers is easier and cheaper than simply trying to stop abusers abus...
Before JB stalked me. A story of friendship
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This deserves 5 stars purely for the "spider attack" half way through. Haha!
NPD Abuse terms to learn. The basics!
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It is what it is.
When a narcopaths smear campaign gets sick & silly 🙄
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Extreme narcopaths often last years stalking, harassing & smearing a victim. And when they realise they are all alone AND the horrific accusations are...
Do Stalkers use "friends" to stalk, troll, hunt victims? Are they flying monkeys
16 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been a part of a flying monkey group, for a stalker, and provided them with data, info, images or history on the stalking victim, beware. ...
How to cause a Narcissistic Collapse.
14 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast gives real examples of how & why you may cause Narcissistic Rage &/or Narcissistic Collapses in your Narcissist or Narcopath. I refer mos...
When a Stalker tries to criminalise a victim & it backfires! 🤣🤣🥳
13 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Omg. Could this be the karmic twist we have all been waiting for? A false accuser going too far & accidentally admitting she is my 6.5yr long sexual h...
Arguing with a Narcissist? Here are 2 ex friend stories;examples of red flags
13 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you with a Narcissist? Is your difficult or toxic friend a narcissist? Is your partners ex a Narcissist? This podcast gives real life examples of ...
Stalker2s account is @RaeanneSmith5
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Go to twitter & look at the stuff. Report where you like. Yes, this stuff I have lived with (and much more) for 6.5yrs UPDATE. Gutless, SHE HAS PRIVAT...
Narcopaths of any gender LOVE to play the victim & make false allegations & play the victim
11 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Lot's contexts in this podcast. Lots examples. The pathology of a fake victim.
Devaluation abuses in different relationships
10 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narc moms. Narc friends. Narc partners. Loads examples devaluation has BEGUN and why these abuses happen. Listen right to end when I say columbo
Inverted Narcissists ARE Malignant CoDependents! Did you know?
09 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Examples of malignant codependency in victims in NPD Abuse relationships. Some new terminology. And listen right right right to the end for comparison...
Healthy new relationships after NPD abuse
08 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some examples of good practise when seeking a safe partner after so many narcs & unsafe people in your life.
Want to thrive DURING stalking?,
07 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My stalkers think I am dead. Instead I soar.
Part 2. The social ramifications of a Stalker like JB, re them losing support
06 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The Day After: when a sexually deviant female stalker narcopath crosses the line, she loses her support.
JB & Female Narcopath Stalkers this is for you. The Dark Tetrad of Sadism & Narcissism in stalkers
05 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Keep bringing it, and so will I. This podcast explores the distorted mind of the "single white female" closet gay narcopath, who gets sexual gratifica...
Do you have a capacity for abuse? Narc victims share this trait!
04 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do narcs search for in a main supply? This podcast gives you a unique take on why you were targeted....
The Narcissistic Mother lacks "the three E's"
29 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Empathy. Equality. Effort. Are these missing in your Mothers "repertoire"?
Addiction Abuse & Narcissists
24 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
7 years ago today, my Narc2 added "Addiction Abuse" into the list of abuses he was already exposing me to.
7 yrs today, The Narcissistic Collapse that may be familiar to you
23 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This weekend is the anniversary of a lot of NPD abuse "anniversaries". My Narc2 kicked off a life changing chain of abuse & betrayal events today, 7 y...