L.W. HAWKSBY THE NARCISSIST HUNTER, SURVIVOR AND AUTHOR

Why didn't the supply tell me? Why was I not warned?

22 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are you bereft at not being warned you were a supply to a cheat? I hope this podcast helps you.

The Final Discard AND signs it is coming your way!

21 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What it says on the tin

Psychopath or Narcissist? Empress of Shite...

16 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

#stalking #stalker #narcissticabuse #NarcissisticMother #narcissticabuse #NarcAlert #narcissisticparents #narctok #narcissists #narcissosticpersonalit...

Stalking your narc exes pages?

16 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Forgive yourself......but it's time to stop.

Narcs will genuinely believe stalking YOU is permitted, while they call you a stalker

16 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

#stalking #stalker #narcissticabuse #NarcissisticMother #narcissticabuse #NarcAlert #narcissisticparents #narctok #narcissists #narcissosticpersonalit...

Arsehole or Narcissist? Ways to tell the difference.

14 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

#stalking #stalker #narcissticabuse #NarcissisticMother #narcissticabuse #NarcAlert #narcissisticparents #narctok #narcissists #narcissosticpersonalit...

The People Around A Narcissist. Red Flags to look for in THEM!

12 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A dozen or so "types" of people to watch out for around a person you suspect is of was a Narc.

Early mask slipping/personality switches. RED FLAGS

10 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A man barking at my dog. A hot guy saving my bacon. A jobby. And finally the podcast! "Eventful" #breakup #newlysingle #dating #redflags #Narcissistic...

3 life examples of a Narc Mom! Narcissistic Mothers are complex!

08 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Thankyou for being a part of my journey in eradicating Narcissistic Abuse from our world. I am a survivor, mother, author, educator, no contact coach,...

Stop fkng whining & become a survivor

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This will either piss you off (snowflakes) or fire you up (thrivers). Choose who YOU want to be!!! #breakup #newlysingle #dating #redflags #Narcissist...

Do Narcissists always downgrade? No!

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Listen & let me know your thoughts.... #breakup #newlysingle #dating #redflags #NarcissisticAbuse #Narctok #narcissists #narcissism #npd #npdabuse #na...

Will My Narcissist Come Back?

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ways they will. Why they will. How they will. Plus tips on maintaining no contact!

Rare but real, unwell NPD experts & victims who are dangerous, do exist

06 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This episode ends with advice on red flags for these people so you dont get conned then harassed as I have been!

Ultimate podcast on NarcissisticAbuse DISCARDS.

02 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The diff types discards. The reasons why. How/when a discard is over. Long podcast but you wont get a more thorough one!#breakup #newlysingle #dating ...

Limerence; extreme idealization. The stage before LOVEBOMBING from a Narc

01 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Listen right to end...... #breakup #newlysingle #dating #redflags #NarcissisticAbuse #Narctok #narcissists #narcissism #npd #npdabuse #narcopath #psyc...

Info on my employment, education & personal history relevant to being The Narcissist Hunter

31 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

As it sounds.

Trauma Bond is 1 reason to stay.

28 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This podcast explores several others

Scaring a Narcissist by being like them, and getting up to their GodLike orbit..

26 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Enjoy!

My Narcissist is pushing me away. I think he wants me to end it first.

26 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Absolute B.S! Listen to this podcast & learn why!

Narcissists & Jealousy

22 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Several ways & reasons an NPD will be jealous.

Narcissists, Trophy Supplies & Sadism

18 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Were you taken EVERYWHERE while your Narc was secretly cheating?

3 reasons why your Narc is giving the new supply "more" than what you got.

16 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Why is he doing so much more with her than he did with me?! Has he changed!? Does he love her more? (Apologies for the He/Him as the Narc here, the fu...

Big Fat Podcast of tips re dealing with Family Court,Social Workers & Crim Court

11 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

As it sounds! Enjoy!

The Vipers Nest & The Lamb; Narcissistic Families Room 101

07 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Lovely long exposing rant THAT will validate & reassure any scapdgoated adult children & siblings of Narcs.

What in HELL was I thinking? A Narc & a Pregnant Ex?!

03 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Casanova Psychopaths have no qualms about triangulating exes, babies & new supplies. And to get a side supply or ex pregnant when wooing or in a relat...

Would you tell the new supply about YOUR Narcissist?

31 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I would.

Why is my Narcissist wanting me back?

30 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

My typical answer to this is a ranty "BECAUSE YOU ARE LETTING THEM BACK! YOU ARE NOT DOING NO CONTACT PROPERLY! 🤣 But actually let's flex. Why is t...

Info on "The Crete Retreat" Narcissistic Abuse Recovery project (Greek Islands)

10 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Next stage for my work in Narcissistic Abuse Revovery. Exciting renovation project to become a Social Enterprise retreat AND luxury holiday let on Cre...

My take on the Heard vs Depp "trial" re NPD Abuse & it's involvement. #AmberHeard #JohnnyDepp

03 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Couples like Heard & Depp exist. Fact. I have suffered from them my whole life. Drug/alcohol/porn use versus codependency, unhealthy attachment & mind...

The "Awakened Narcissist" What fresh new Hell is this?!

27 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Yup. There are NPDs who cite to be fully woke & accepting of their personality disorder....... and I think they are dangerous as heck! Let's chat........

Narcissistic Mothers. How They SECRETLY treat their Daughters.This will trigger, shock & inform you

23 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I had one. Maybe you had one. Frankly they are destroyers.

Narcissists & Identity Crisis Matters

23 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Pop over to my Youtube Channel & subscribe! So, this veeeery relaxed recording (it's 6am here 🤣) recording takes you on a bit of a journey to under...

Stalkers (overt,covert & mixed) are easy to understand, but in court you will be challenged....

16 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This podcast prepares you for explaining WHY a Narcopath (Narcissist Psychopath) is stalking you. As police & justice system workers will have NO TRAI...

Inside the mind of the Nex (your narcissistic abusers ex) aka the Malignant CoDependant.

22 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

She (my experience of these are females) will see her Narc as belonging to her. And the Narcissist will always go back to use this malignant codepende...

How to market your books & get more readers & reviews!

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Lots writers & authors hate or fear marketing. This is the podcast for you!

GENDER should play no part in DOMESTIC ABUSE work.Not a conference, project or funding application!

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

There is a movement (a small but vocal and woke movement) of men and women who are offended & frustrated by HUGE charities & over paid haters of "outs...

International womens day:How many of u stood back or participated in another womans betrayal & abuse

08 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sidechicks. Flying monkeys. Fence sitters. Fearful watchers. Colleagues. Neughbours. Bitter exes. Jealous wannabes. Or just plain ignorant of domestic...

Narcissists and masks! Don't miss this hardcore honest revolutionary explanation

07 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Narcs wear two masks, behind closed doors & in public? Nonsense.

YOUR red flags & behaviours to watch for as a target/victim of a Narcissist

16 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Not the full list but half a dozen CRITICAL points for anyone wanting to stop dating Narcissists! #NPD #NARCABUSE #NarcissisticMother #narcissisticpar...

How to scare your Narcissist into going white! Lol!

13 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Referencing some very (now i'm out) moments where I accidentally scared my Narcissistic Abuser by accidentally uncovering his B.S. You will want to li...

The Sexual Abuse Pathway, start to finish with a sexual Narc Casanova Psychopath

09 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

#narcissists #TheDarkTetrad #TheDarkTriad #Author #Narcissism #Manipulation #law #coercivecontrol #trolling #bullying #onlineabuse #takeyourpowerback ...

How to stop your #stalker #stalking you & smearing you on #socialmedia

08 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

#narcissists #TheDarkTetrad #TheDarkTriad #Author #Narcissism #ClusterB #Harassment #law #coercivecontrol #trolling #bullying #onlineabuse #takeyourpo...

My #Narcissist went back to his ex. Why?!!!

06 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Narcissists will return to Ex Supplies for many reasons. This podcast gives just a few (comforting!) reasons.

The Mind Fog Lifting After Narcissistic Abuse. Those yuck little "oh! I get it now!" moments...

21 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When you are intensively abused & used & gaslighted by an abuser such as a Narcissist, your brain helps protect you from the shocks of it. Especially ...

When a Narcissist dies (esp a parent) you suffer rage & loss. Outsiders don't get it. Listen to this

12 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

TRIGGER WARNING. TALK OF DEATH & CRYING. My mother died sept 2020. My father died Dec 2021. Both were neglectful, manipulative, selfish, but like all ...

Why a Narc parent will DESPISE a child: Ever tried to fathom the hatred AND jealousy?

23 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I could have been an incredible woman. But Narcissistic & Disordered & Malignant Co-Dependent parents (especially Mothers of daughters) will be repuls...

My parents dragged me through Hell. My brothers were protected & spoiled. Now I have a voice

22 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

NPD in parents spreads like poison FAST AS ANYTHING through the spoiled sheltered lazy brats that Narc Parents raise. While the scapegoat is seen as t...

My Narcissistic Family

20 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Don't listen if you don't like personal stories of family based NPD, abuse or neglect. I left a LOT out in this episode but if any of it resonates, yo...

The Trauma Bond in Offending: 2nd Edition. Updated Content

08 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Trauma Bonds are often a root cause of extended abusive relationships, offending behaviours, self harming/self destructive behaviours, depression & ri...

The Notch (Domestic Homicide Novel) read by me, the author. Prologue & some chapter 1

30 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

With little slip ups & dogs in high heels, this is me starting a series reading my 2nd book The Notch to you. 4 characters (a 5th near the end) on dar...

Roberta found my Podcast on Gang Stalking helpful.

29 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This is her feedback.

LOW OR NO SELF-ESTEEM IS WHAT NARCS ADORE IN TARGETS. It is not victim shaming to explain how & why

22 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Low self esteem is NOT simply disliking yourself or feeling crap. It is MANY things & manifests in many ways, allowing a Narc in & for as long as it t...

NARC OR JUST NORMAL SELFISH IDIOT?

12 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Narcissistic Personality Disorder abuse behaviours are all about supply & agenda. And "normal" people hurt, cheat, lie, commit crimes too. But not wit...

Books on Narcissists & Types of Dark Tetrad Abuse

14 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Headsup on new releases. Info on content of these books. Sneaky peeks at new dark characters coming. Explanation of motivation to write such dark, dif...

Narcissistic Mothers, Jealousy & Emotional Neglect.

05 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you think you will be triggered or offended by my insights on NarcMom's, this is NOT the podcast to listen to!

The COVERT Narcissist Mother.

20 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Using my own experiences, I take you through red flags & behaviours of the Covert/Vulnerable Narcissist Mother. This podcast is not limiting the list ...

Did my Narcissist ever love me?!

31 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Narcissists in particular LOVE The Hunt. The Chase. Why? Because at that stage, you (the fresh meat) are PERFECT. The Narc will idolise/idealize you. ...

Crappy parents & NPD

03 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Rambling dog-walk musings but perhaps worth a listen anyway

Co-parenting with a Macheavellian Covert Narcissist

28 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Copycatting. Mirroring you (even when your an ex!). Pettyness. Sneakyness. And no one seeing it but you....

Narc parents will "gild" a child in their own image to control & manipulate them

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Examples of a Narc parent shaping a child & emotionally neglecting a child in that process. In time the child will usually resist and boom they are sc...

FACEBOOK GROUPS will harbour Narcs who use experts for free....

21 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Oh ho ho...... beware the users online who take take take then abuse you when you spot the inevitable Narc in their midst...

How do Narcissists choose their flying monkeys?

21 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

NARCS always have flying monkeys! But how and why do they choose certain people & does the gang of Flying Monkeys have different roles? What skills & ...

Narcissists do not leave supply (you) for nothing. They just don't. Unless you dumped them first!

15 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Narcs need fuel. Human fuel. They do not leave relationships with fuel on offer, for nothing......

Narc victims forming 2 groups in regards to closure & truth seeking

10 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Understanding the "Go Away Nutter Group" of your Narcs victims and your "Ok. Lets Get Closure Together Group" of your Narcs victims. Why some want to ...

When a Narcissist meets & dates another Narcissist.

09 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I am often asked if a Narc (male) will ever meet & be NPD abused by another Narc (female). As "the mind fog" has lifted from my own abuse situation bu...

Covert Narcissists & Overt Narcissists.

07 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A brief introduction & some examples to look out for....

Narcissists make victims "reverse hoover". Wtf is a reverse hoover?!

03 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you beg your cheater or abuser back? Listen to this.....

Narcs/toxic people like you to have attachment issues. Why? Because you put up with more for longer!

31 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Your attachment style forms in childhood. It is this that dictates how you bond with others. Narcissists (for example) like people with unhealthy atta...

How Narcs are made & why we & our children can end up "dark" too.

30 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The Basics: can narcs be fixed, what is NPD, How does it happen, can I get? Can my kids get it? Etc

Spiritual Abuse & Narcissists: think cults, communities, groups....

26 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Spiritual Narcissism & Abuse is rife. I myself have seen it first hand. A dark tetrad personality, using their vulnerability then their pathos to groo...

Narcissists & SILENT TREATMENT ABUSE

25 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Stonewalling. Social media blocking. Unanswered calls & texts. Ignoring you. Refusing to speak to you. Discarding you. Slamming the phone down. Enjoyi...

Why does my Narcissist Ex keep trying to breach my NO CONTACT status?! Help!

24 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ok, so you already know (from my YT vids & other podcasts) that Narcs want to hoover you and feck up your no contact to stop you healing & dating. And...

The best NPD Abuse assessment tool there is. My TOXIC22 CHECKLIST WIL HELP YOU PROVE IT IS NPD ABUSE

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This checklist regularly goes viral. People buy "Dangerous Normal People" just FOR IT! This podcast is me asking you (reading through) this incredible...

Enabling a Victim of a Narcissistic Cheater and Abuser is dangerous.

09 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This (very frank) podcast explores how important it is to not be an armchair-enabler on social media (and the outside world) when a victim of a repeat...

Are you being played off against an ex partner, friend, family member or colleague? Triangulation.

07 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Triangulation is a toxic or Dark Tetrads favourite game between themselves and 2 other people. This podcast gives you personal examples & explanations...

The Trauma Bond

06 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How it forms. When. Why. How. Follow @NarcAbuseAuthorLucy2 on TikTok for more insights.

THE ESSENTIAL NO CONTACT STRATEGY FOR ESCAPING, EVADING & INITIAL HEALING FROM NARC ABUSE!!!

01 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This podcast gives you confirmation of the critical importance of No Contact. It lists tips to help you have safety & peace in key areas for the first...

Sarcastic take! "How to be better at Trolling & Cyber Harassment"

31 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Top Tips for baby-trolls who aren't very skilled at their work. This is a great podcast for anyone suffering trolls & cyber bullies as to be honest, y...

Codependency is a killer: NPD Abuse kills people who are no longer together!

28 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On the 6 month anniversary of my mums death, this podcast is a warning to any of you still in an NPD Abuse relationship, or still in contact with your...

A Macheavellian Narcopath & their CONSTANT puppeteering to rubbish you...

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

All NPDs have a compulsion to control people and situations around them. Here are some examples you will (sadly) identify with in abusive relationship...

Sarah's death is a warning to ALL GENDERS to learn the red-flags of #AbuseBeforeAbuse in a killer.

11 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This podcast speaks mainly to men, about how many women DO NOT think you are all rapists or killers. But we do want you to know that too many of you a...

Insomnia ramblings & "The Forgivers Club"

10 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Finalised my 3rd book & pressed the Go Button 2 hrs ago. Nervous, excited, scared, proud. Tired!

Cluster Stalking & Mobbing. What it is & how it happens.

26 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I am a victim of cluster stalking & mobbing. As with my books, youtube & other podcast recordings, this is another expose on how toxic people will tar...

New Relationships after NPD Abuse....

23 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some thoughts & advice (and validation!) on how victims & survivors of abusive relationships, behave. Plus some tips to help you have the right types ...

Why people LOVE to hate people, especially survivors and/or celebtrities who "fall from grace"

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Just a wee blether from me about the inner workings of "The Lord Of The Flies Effect": where people gang together to attack & vilify anyone "different...

Authors! Writing in the 1st person narrative versus the 3rd person narrative? There is NO debate!

18 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Listen to this....as anyone writing fiction should write 1st person for the BEST reviews and impact. My books are under L.W Hawksby. Always in 1st per...

Stage 7 in your Authors journey! Having STYLE! Tips to help you find a smooth, story-telling style

11 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey! Some tips to help smooth out the rough edges of your story. And help you find & enjoy your style. Plus a style READERS will enjoy!

Stage 6 in an Authors journey: Stop being selfish & narcissistic.

09 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Good advice to new writers in particular! Ok, the title is harsh, lol, but this advice comes from a good place! We often forget our "story" has to be ...

Stage 5; Getting over Writers block.

07 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some of my personal ideas and tips to help you continue on your writing journey! I can produce a manuscript in 1 month....or 3 years! Listen to how & ...

Stage 4: Should you REALLY be writing a book?

07 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Writing is a beautiful, empowering, emotional & educational SKILL. It is based on talent, joy, hurt, love. Computer Apps/Systems should not be relied ...

Post Separation Shockers! They DO keep coming. How to accept it, recover and revive!

06 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I still make mistakes in trusting users & abusers. This podcast will help you understand why we allow these types in and WHY even our ex-abusers still...

Stage 3 of writing your book: Creating confronting characters with depth & complexity.

04 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Excellent tips and advice around writing characters who are challenging, exciting, memorable, and either loveable or freakin' scary! And all in betwee...

Stage 2: Planning your book: Some quite different helpful hints & tips to get you started!

03 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And keep you going smoothly! These are creative, visual ideas that work for me as an Author. Other coaches have great ideas, the ones in the podcast w...

Stage 1 of becoming an Author: getting to know who you are as a writer.

03 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Very little focus is given to YOU as a writer once you have decided to embark on writing a book. It is easy to just start writing! But, starting to wr...

Gender & Narcissistic Abuse: Some sex talk.

30 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Triggered by a man who declared me a Man Hater, I thought I would offer up some insight into how both genders behave and why when being unfaithful in ...

Why a Narc will return (or not) to suck you dry!

26 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The Vampire Tap is yours. Turning it off means ZERO trust, hope, empathy for your user & abuser. He/she returns to other victims because they cannot o...

Day 2 of the GoHenry Safeguarding Scandal. They called me and this is what they said.......

22 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Shocking ignorance, lazyness and arrogance at the CLEAR issues that they admit are there! Woah.

SERIOUS FEARS AROUND SAFEGUARDING CHILDREN USING THE GoHenry account with another adult.

21 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Personal Story of how GoHenry are not protecting my child against coercive control and financial abuse via none resident parent at a DIFFERENT ADDRESS...

Listening to a killer in "The Notch". He married her for money & control & cover.....

19 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Michael in "The Notch" is a Narcissist. A killer. And his description of why he kills his wives is very shocking. This is one small reading from my 2n...

Coercive Control as a law, is almost completely POINTLESS right now....until changes are made....

19 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The changes needed in the criminal justice systems MANY layers before you can even hope to get CoerciveControl convictions are in this recording. Plea...