Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another exciting episode of Make Unplugged. And today's guest is one of the brightest minds that I know. And it's not because he went to Stanford Graduate School of Business. Literally, his books are game-changing. His personal philosophies are those that they actually write books about. I'm honored to have this guy on.
I've been a huge follower and fan of his for a very long time. So please join me in welcoming the insightful, the impactful, the unstoppable, Mr. Nir Eyal.
You're listening to Mick Unplugged, hosted by the one and only Mick Hunt. This is where purpose meets power and stories spark transformation. Mick takes you beyond the motivation and into meaning, helping you discover your because and becoming unstoppable. I'm Rudy Rush, and trust me, you're in the right place. Let's get unplugged.
Nir, how are you doing today, brother? Oh, my goodness. What an introduction. You are amazing. Thank you so much, Mick. It's so good to be here with you.
Man, you are the amazing one. And every word that I said was true. I've been a huge follower, a huge fan.
Of you and the work that you put out, and more importantly, the action that you put behind the work, I think, and this isn't a knock on anyone, so I don't want anyone that's listening or watching to take it this way, but there are a lot of people that have been deemed, because this is what society tells us, as thought leaders or maybe even influencers.
And when you go to study them and research them, it's like there's no substance to the things that they're actually saying. Nir, bro, the reason I love you is because I love substance. You make me think. You challenge me. And more importantly, like you're that resource that I'd love to break down today. So just thank you again for being the gentleman and the human being that you are, man.
Oh, my gosh, that means a lot to me coming from you. So thank you so much. And I'm so curious, what have you read of mine? Or what really got your juices flowing? Was there something in particular not to put you on the spot?
But was there anything in particular that you do some amazing workshops, you know, that I'm hooked and beyond really taught me to introspect on me a little bit. I think, you know, I'm a leader's leader is what I like to be told. But a lot of things that we do and the decisions that we make start with us first. And you really forced me to look at me.
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Chapter 2: How does Nir Eyal define distraction and traction?
But in terms of my professional aspiration, I don't need to make a lot of money. That's not my purpose. My purpose is to explain the world so that it can be made better.
Yeah. That's why you are who you are, Nir. That's why you are who you are. And speaking of who you are, for those that are watching and listening, man, you've co-founded and sold tech companies. Then you transitioned into like writing and teaching, which most people can't do, especially in the tech space, right?
You've got that unique skill to have the tech, but then also the personality that people are attracted to. What was a pivotal moment that led you to focus on that intersection of psychology, technology, and business?
So my MO in doing my work these days and accomplishing my mission, my purpose to explain the world so it can be made better, is to follow my curiosity. I don't know about you, but when I read a book, that's written by somebody who just wanted to write a book, I can tell right away. And I don't like to write books that way. I like to explore things that I want answers to.
And so my mantra that I repeat in terms of when I'm having trouble writing, when I feel like I'm stuck, I repeat to myself that I just need to follow my curiosity. So I don't write books about what I know. I write books about what I want to know. They're very personal problems. So with Indistractable, I wrote that book because I kept getting distracted.
I was the most distracted person you've ever met. I've been diagnosed with ADHD and I was struggling with too much phone use and too much this and too much that. And I wasn't focusing on my priorities and what really matters to me and staying true to my values. And so that's why I wrote Indistractable.
And then when it came to Beyond Belief, my new book that's coming out, it was about this deeper challenge I had of knowing what to do. I had tons of great advice, tons of great information out there, right? If you don't know the answer to something, you Google it. You ask ChatGPT. The information's out there. And I wanted the benefits of doing the things I needed to do.
And yet I wasn't doing them. And I didn't know why. And I found that many of the people that I was speaking to, my readers of my work and people that I've done consulting with had the same problem. And so I wanted to understand this fundamental question. I was just curious, why is it That some people are able to accomplish their goals and others aren't. Is it just skill?
Well, skill can be learned. So that can't be it. Is it information? Well, no, we're drowning in information. Maybe it's resources. And yet there are case studies after case studies of people who have every resource at their disposal and accomplish very little. And yet there's stories of people who have almost nothing and who go on to do great things. There's something deeper going on there.
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Chapter 3: What role do beliefs play in motivation?
There's nothing wrong with any of that. So we need to stop vilifying the technology. We need to stop thinking that this is the reason for the problem. It's not our phones that are causing the problem. The problem is much deeper than all that. We're going to get to that in a second. So that's the first step, realizing that anything you plan to do ahead of time is traction.
Anything that is not that is distraction. So one of the worst forms of distraction is when people justify to themselves. They say, well, I'm doing something I have to do anyway. I'm checking my email because I'm at work and I need to check email at some point. I'm cleaning up my desk because that's something I got to do anyway. I got to take out the trash. I got to clean the dishes.
But what turns out, if that's not what you said you were going to do ahead of time, it's just as much of a distraction. So what I used to do, I used to get into work and I'd say, okay, I have that big important project I need to work on. I need to work on this big important thing. But let me just check email for a minute. Let me just scroll that Slack channel.
Let me just catch up on industry news because I'm supposed to do that at some point. So what's the big deal if I do it now versus later? And what I didn't realize is that that is the most dangerous form of distraction because you don't even realize you're off track. You're justifying it to yourself because you're like, oh, I'm checking email. That's a work-related task.
But if it's not what you said you were going to do, it's the most dangerous form of distraction because you don't even realize you're off track because you've justified it to yourself. So you have traction. You have distraction. Now, let's talk about what prompts us to take these actions. We have triggers. We have two kinds of triggers. The first trigger is what most people think of.
It's called an external trigger. It's the pings, the dings, the rings, all these things in our outside environment. That's what we tend to blame. Turns out that studies find that external triggers, the pings, the dings, the rings, only account for 10% of your distractions. 10% of the time that you check your phone, it's because of an external trigger. So what's the other 90%?
90% of the time that we get distracted, it's not because of what's happening outside of us, but rather it's because of what's happening inside of us. Exactly. It's those internal triggers. What are internal triggers? Internal triggers are uncomfortable emotional states that we seek to escape. Boredom, loneliness, fatigue, uncertainty, anxiety. Once you realize this,
That distraction is not a moral failing. It's not a character flaw. There's nothing broken about you in any way, shape, or form. It's simply you haven't acquired the skill to deal with discomfort. That's all it is. You just haven't acquired the skill to deal with discomfort. You feel an urge, you feel discomfort, and you think that pain means suffering, that you have to escape that pain.
No, it's not true. It's a lie. that these internal triggers are the reason we get distracted. We're lonely, so we check Facebook or maybe Tinder. We're uncertain, we Google. We're bored, we check sports scores, stock prices, the news, whatever. We worry about people's problems 10,000 miles away so we don't have to think about our own lives.
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Chapter 4: What practical steps can you take to become indistractable?
He wanted to see what would happen if he took a new group of wild rats, put them in the water, and this time, right before the 15-minute mark, when he knew they were starting to struggle and would soon give up, what would happen if he reached in pulled out the rat, dried it off, let it catch its breath, and then plunk, put it back inside the water.
Now he did this a few times and he wanted to see how much longer the rat would swim for. What would happen if the rat knew that salvation might be possible, that this hand might reach in and save it? How much longer would the rat swim for? It started with 15 minutes. 15 minutes, it gave up and died.
How much longer would the rat swim for when it was conditioned to be hopeful, to think that maybe something would save it? What do you think, Mick? How much longer did the rat swim for? Maybe you already know this study.
Chapter 5: Why is time boxing more effective than to-do lists?
I don't know. Tell me. What do you think? Take a guess. I have no idea. I'm going to make a fool of myself. How much longer? 15 minutes was the first trial. How much longer after he saved the rats? 30 minutes. That would be amazing, right? If it could double the persistence of the rat, that'd be incredible. Higher. Keep going. An hour. An hour. Oh my goodness.
If I could give you some kind of intervention that could make you four times more persistent, right? You're working on that hard project. I can make you work four times harder. You're making those sales calls. I can help you sustain, make four times the sales calls. That would be incredible, right? Unbelievable. Keep going. Four hours near. I'll tell you the answer. They didn't swim for double.
They didn't swim for 60 minutes. They didn't swim for two hours. They didn't swim for four hours. They swam for 60 hours, Mick.
Wow.
They went from 15 minutes to 60 hours of straight swimming. Why? What happened? What changed? Same bodies, right? They didn't all of a sudden become super rats. Same exact physical strength. Same exact environment, same experiment. That didn't change. We can't ask the rats what changed in their minds, but the only variable left is that something was unlocked in their brain.
They suddenly had a hope, a belief that something might save them if they kept trying, if they kept persisting.
and this is the lesson for us that when we change our beliefs we become more we become more persistent we unlock something that is always there within us and we can achieve things that we never even imagined and that's what becoming beyond belief is on all about i love it brother i love it can't wait super excited near man like this has been a true master class um
Again, selfishly, I asked the questions because there are some things I needed today. You have no idea what that meant. I'd love to be on again. Anytime. We can go much deeper for sure.
Oh, we didn't even scratch the surface. There's so much to be unbelief, but it was fun. We should do it again.
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