Is Stoicism just a cold refusal to feel? A productivity trend for tech bros? A philosophy of passive acceptance? In this thoughtful and personal episode of Mind the Gap, Michael Comyn tackles the most common criticisms of Stoicism and shares the story of how he first discovered it while helping people overcome their fear of flying. From the turbulence of anxious minds to the quiet clarity of Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius, Michael explores what Stoicism offers: not detachment, but steadiness. Not indifference, but dignity. And certainly not an excuse to do nothing. Drawing on ancient insights, modern psychology, and lived experience, this episode makes the case for a Stoicism that is human, grounded, and quietly radical. What to Expect in This Episode: – Why Stoicism isn’t about suppressing emotions – The difference between passivity and purposeful action – A personal story of fear, perception, and philosophical discovery – Stoicism’s stance on compassion, elitism, and justice – The problem with lion memes and cold plunges – Why this ancient philosophy still matters in a world of uncertainty Quote to Remember: “It’s not what happens to us—it’s how we perceive it.”

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